05 17 2024 Your fiancé was talking about "the one that got away" ???

Episode Transcript

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Hello, Kelly Nash, Good morning. It's Tomorrow show. Today we'll be
celebrating Kelly's tennis championship. Well,he is the champion. Well, you
know, it's a team thing.And so I won't even know on Monday
before the champions because I can onlyplay well because the if we go to
the finals, the finals will beMonday midday. Oh so you may not

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be here. No, I'm here. I already told them I'm not playing
Monday. So I'll be playing tomorrow, allegedly at five. We'll see what
happens because the weather is so crazy. They may move it early, they
may move it late, whatever.And then I'm supposed to play I think
twice on Sunday, gotcha, andthen I'll get done. I think I
have a nine o'clock match, andthen I think I got a three o'clock

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match something like that. So Ishould be done by like five, Head
home, get home around what athirty, go to bed, wake up,
pray for the best again. Thisis the what is the state?
This is the South Carolina State championsfour. This would be for the fifty
five and older three rankings tennis Championships. Yes, okay, yes we won

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it. Last year, and thenmy team went to somewhere in Arkansas.
I couldn't go to that one becausethey were like, well, you have
to be there no later than Fridayat noon. And I was like,
well, dude, I can't justtake a day from work and fly to
Arkansas. People listen every morning.Yeah, all right, so let's talk
about a Monday morning moral dilemma.Well, okay, if you want to

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talk about the moral dilemma. We'vegot a drunk and you know, when
you get drunk, things are said. I believe that you don't necessarily mean
Jack Daniels talking. Yeah, Sometimesome other people look at drunk talk as
if that is the truth, thatJack Daniels is a truth serum. All

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the inhibitions are dropped and you saywhat you really feel. Yeah. So
I think a lot depends on howyou look at the comments of people when
they're drunk. We have a MorningRush regular who's engaged to a man and
they were recently at a party withall his old high school buddies and and

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they started getting drunk. Here wego, and she clearly heard him say
whatever the other girl's name was,that's the one that got away. That's
the girl that I was supposed tohave married. That's the one that I'm
you know, I'm gonna haunt meforever that she got away. Okay,

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Now, if he said that andhe's sober, then definitely massive red flag.
I agree the fact that he's drunk. I'm going to give him a
pass. I've said a bunch ofdumb things when I was I know I
didn't. I mean, I allthese years later, I haven't been drunk
in decades, But I could tellyou that even all these decades, the

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things that I was saying, Ididn't mean. I was just drunk.
That's the way I look at it. But do you, I mean,
but you put weight on it,you say this is a red flag totally.
You can't m the truth? Zerum. Does it work? Is it
the truth? Or is this justdrunk talk? You're right, Kelly,

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it goes back to that. I'mthinking of talk. I'm thinking of things
that I've heard drunk people say andit was the way they felt. I'm
going to go with the truth,Erum. I'm going to say so that
right there, he thinks he shouldbreak that. You don't need to be
settling when you're getting married. Youdon't want to be somebody's like last option.

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You're not the second. No,never mind, all right, we'll
get into that Monday. Let's see. According to a new survey of women,
the biggest source of stress for twothirds of them. Wow, this
is a survey of two thousand,sixty eight percent say dating is the biggest

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stress in their lives. This isnot having children, this is not career
anxieties. Just dating men. Foralmost seventy percent of them, that's the
biggest stress in their lives. Ithought that they liked it. I thought
girls liked going out on dates.I didn't realize it was that stressful.

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Well, we were adding stress toyour life. You should have told me
earlier. Wow you felt that wayabout it. Wow, w to stress
you out? That's great, Okay, the oh, listen to this.
Judgments bartenders make about you based onyour drink order, so they are snap

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judging you. Everybody snap. Peoplelike to say, I don't like to
judge, but you love to judgepeople. Everybody judges everybody else. We
judge on your haircut, we judgeyou on the car you drive, we
judge on the shoes you wear.So these people, they say the bartenders.
These are the judgments they pass onyou. Tequila on the rocks with
lime. You are a wild partyperson and you love to tell stories about

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what tequila quote unquote made you do. Oh that's good. You blame me
on the tequila. I love it. The guy who orders a jack and
coke, he's probably waiting for agood fight to break out in about two
hours. Martinis. These are highfunctioning alcoholics. Glass of a glass of

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chardonnay. You're married to an old, rich guy who you really don't like
that much. Apple teeny, Andthen they go on to say, or
any cocktail that ends with the wordteeny. You are away from the kids
for the weekend's great, the KilaSunrise, I just turned twenty one,
or I'm about to yes, yesexactly. These are so true snap judgments

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about the drinks that you people areordering out there. Think about that they're
judging you this weekend when you're atthe bar and we've got this is to
me an unbelievable survey. Jonathan.I do like the phrase I being introduced
to here called dream scrolling. Dreamscrolling is when you look at things you'd

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like to own, or the bodyyou'd like to have. You know what
I say, it's aspirational you're lookingat. For you, it might be
some of the finer Porschas and highend cars or muscle cars that you would
like, you know. For Sally, it might be looking at a dream
home or a dream beach vacation orsomething like that. For other people,

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it's like just looking at gym bodies, Like, how do they get that
eight pack? I really want that. This is the part that's shocking to
me. The amount of time theaverage American does this dream scrolling is about
two and a half hours every day. Wow, Now what they say that

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it equals eight hundred and seventy threehours a year. And I just did
a little math on that. Ifyou took the average work week of forty
hours and broke it into that todayis May seventeenth. Yeah, from the

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time you first came to work onNew Year the day after New Year's to
today, if all you did eighthours a day was dream scroll, this
is where you'd be. Today wouldbe about the last day for you to
dream scroll eight hours a day.You're punching in and you're going for more
than five months a year. Thisis an unbelievable amount of time, and

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the overwhelming majority when asked is thisa problem, say no, this is
a good habit. This helps mewith my financial goals. This helps motivate
me to get in shape, Thishelps me, helps me, helps me.
I I have to disagree, Ireally do. I think that when
you put a lot of things likethat in front of your eyes and you

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focus on that, then you loseperspective and rather, you know, what
was that old Bing Crosby song aboutstop counting your problems and start counting your
blessings, and you have you havea lot fewer problems when you're counting your
blessing. And when I'm looking athigh end vehicles or high end hotels or

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high end dinners out, yeah,I start to of course, I'm it's
aspirational. Of course, it's somethingthat I want to obtain. But I
also find myself much less appreciative ofwhatever. I like my Kia less when
I'm watching somebody drive, you know, the hot new vehicle whatever that is,

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right. I like my house alot less. When I'm looking at
tours of forty million dollar mansions,I'm thinking about stuff that I see and
I scroll on like if I'm goingI'm on Facebook right now, I'll go
to Facebook and when the reels popup, now it's going to be something
involving construction or cars. Uh oh, yeah, here's one. I like

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this guy. I don't know whoput this together, but he is a
dude. He's got a construction headon and he's just showing you stupid people
working construction sites. He just shakeshis head and he goes to the next
one. Okay, it just showspeople screw it up and on construction sites
and do it stupid stuff. NowI find that comedic. Okay, there's

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dude he just he just dumped afront end loader into a river. Okay.
And then I get some sports stufftoo. I get a lot of
those traffic accents. I don't likethose. And then you get all that
you can get these girls that wantto some kind of tells you when to
pause their video so you can seethem half naked. Okay, what else
we got? But I don't Doesit kind of track your your usage on

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the internet is to know what tofeed you so you'll end up spending more
time squirrelly, I'm sure it does. Well, it doesn't even you're talking
about social media. Sure, thisis not exclusively social media, like they
point out here that seventy two percentof respondents say that they have tabs and
windows saved on their computer. Oh, they can go and look at their

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favorite stores and those types of things. And my wife does this. She'll
put something in the cart and shewon't check out. You know what said,
She just puts it there, andI guess she thinks about it and
then she goes back and flirts withit again or whatever. Wouldn't that purse
be nice or these glasses be niceor whatever? Are you ready to you're

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ready to gulp? Yeah, Thosewho do that estimate that if they bought
everything they've currently saved, the costwould be eighty six thousand dollars. Wow,
they got stuff sitting in their cart. If they just hit check out,

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it would add it all up ateighty six thousand dollars. Yeah.
Now that's not all at one storeobviously, that's through wherever, wherever you
go shopping. Or I guess you'dcall it like dream shopping, Like you're
not name shopping. Yeah, you'renot good, you're not. We just
call it window shopping. But wenever flirted to the point where we had
it like on layaway, we gotto talk about Oh and by the way,

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Scotty Scheffler just showed up at thetournament. Yeah, I mean that
if you're listen. I don't knowwhen you're listening to this podcast, but
we're recording it at nine point thirtyon Friday morning, and that was the
big news this morning. Scotty Scheffer, the world's number one ranked golfer,
who I believe is currently leading thisweek's tournament, was arrested at what about

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six thirty this morning for disregarding apolice officers instructions where there had apparently been
somebody got killed in the road likean hour and a half before Scotty got
there, and it was right nearthe entrance to the golf course. And
he showed up at like six thirtyor so this morning, and it's still

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dark out, and he's basically saying, I didn't understand what was happening.
Now there's no body there, they'vealready removed that, but there's there's a
bunch of cops there and their sirensare on, and he's basically, I
just got to get around this copand pull into the thing because I'm supposed

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to be on the tee thing there, and a little bit I got to
go in and chain and so hedrove around the cop car like up onto
the median and then started to pullinto the club, you know, the
the area for the golfers, andthey dragged him out of the vehicle,
cuffed him, booked him, putup, got him in an orange jumpsuit,

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put out his photo on the worldWide Web and according to it now
again this is all still somewhat developingbreaking news. According to one report,
it looks like all charges have beendropped. Now, Oh okay, so
we don't know. Well, Iguess that they're saying that the cops might
have overreacted a little bit. ThatScottie Scheffler wasn't posing a threat to anybody.

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He was literally just needed to beinstructed. If you had just put
your hand in front of the vehicleand said stop, he would have stopped.
But instead they dragged him out.Yeah. This immediately, Lee,
who is the golfing attic in ourfamily text group up here, Scotty got
arrested this morning. I said,yeah, you should have. And that

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immediately divided me a lee on eitherside of the issue. Kelly comes down
on Lee's side that he's like,dude, the dude had to get to
the clubhouse. Well, it's alsolike, what is the intent? What
are you doing? He was confusedand so he was and he didn't put
anybody's life at risk that. Atno point does any cops say he was
like almost ran me over anything likethat. He was just trying to drive

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around and pull to where he neededto be, and he didn't understand what
was going. Why are all thesesirens when I have both been in situations
in the dark coming to work.Yeah, when you see and the last
thing you do is just try todrive around, you just sit there until
you can go through in your lane. Well you don't. We can't have
people just driving off the road andgo around the crime scene. You got

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cops working the scene, you gotan emergency medical personnel coming in, you
know, well, no emergencies personnelalready left that they had already left.
OK. So it's just ten copcars sitting there doing whatever they were doing.
I don't know what they were doing. There's still taking photographs of the
crime scene or whatever. Because theguy was run over by a bus,
he's like, man, and yeah, yeah, he's not trying to find

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a parking spot like everyone else.He's trying to get ready to do what
everybody's there to watch. I'm like, so I texted back, Oh,
I'm sure the judge would recognize he'sspecial. Here's a good quot. Just
roll the dead dude in the ditch. Let's get a permitted to you sandwich
officer. Well, I mean thequestion for me is always was the person

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trying to break the law or werethey just confused? And Scotti Scheffler,
according to the eyewitness who was fromESPN who was talking about it, said
he seemed confused and genuinely like,why are you trying to pull me out
of my car? Officer? Andthe guy's screaming at him, get the
f out of the car. Well, when the cop says, get the
f out of the car, Youget the f out of the car,

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but he he couldn't because the cophad the door shut. So he's like,
I'm trying. And the CoP's liketrying to handcuff them in the car,
and then they paraded them over infront of the media and they're like,
we got them, We got this, son of it. So I
think that you're going to see alawsuit against the Louisville Police Department here in
the not too just in the future. If you're Scottie Scheffler and you're going

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to sue the police, I know. I think the PGA is going to
sue the police. Oh, becausethere was PGA officials out there saying,
you've got to let him through.This is this is the guy. It's
like when the police chief shows up. You don't tell the police chief you
can't drive around the police cars.This is where he needs to be okay.

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And there is discussion amongst some peoplethat the Louisville will lose their tournament
over this, that they the factthat they didn't instruct their police officers properly
could cost them somewhere about one hundredand fifty million a year. That would
hurt. Yeah, if you losethat tournament. If the PGA says we're
not coming back to Louisville, mhm, that's rough, little rough,

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That's great. Hey, what's goingon in your neighborhood. Reach out to
us on social media if you like, tell us what you're scrolling, what
you're looking at. We get aMonday morning Tomorrow dilemma. We might be
talking about Scotty. I don't knowwhat's going to be going on. We
got a bunch of stuff we cantalk about, some good stuff. You
bring it when you call it tomorrowor excuse me, Monday morning. The
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