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June 23, 2023 60 mins

In our candid conversation, Dedrick and I delve into the complexities surrounding love, dating, and attraction, particularly within the context of the Black community. We shed light on the prevailing difficulties in discovering Black Love in contemporary times. Dedrick shares his perspective on what captivates him about a woman, emphasizing the importance of her kindness, gentleness, and ability to listen.

 

We also address the prevalent presence of masculine energy often exuded by Black women and delve into the reasons behind it. We acknowledge that many households within the urban community have not witnessed healthy relationships, which can shape individuals' behavior and perception of love. As a woman, I take responsibility for my past actions and express genuine remorse for any pain I may have caused. I believe that true healing can occur when both parties are prepared to embark on that journey.

 

Furthermore, we confront the impact of harmful communication within Black families during upbringing, particularly the detrimental effects it can have on Black children, especially young men. We openly discuss the historical oversexualization of Black women, tracing its roots back to the era of slavery.  Dedrick and I engage in an open discussion about the topic of kink within the Black male community. We explore the various dynamics and experiences that exist, shedding light on the intersection of sexuality and cultural identity.

 

Our conversation delves into the misconceptions and stereotypes surrounding Black men and kink, challenging the one-dimensional narratives often portrayed in mainstream media. We emphasize the importance of recognizing the individuality and diverse preferences within the Black male community, highlighting that personal desires and interests can vary greatly.

 

Through our dialogue, we aim to foster understanding, acceptance, and open-mindedness when it comes to discussing matters of sexuality and exploring different aspects of pleasure. We acknowledge that engaging in consensual kink is a personal choice and that it should be approached with respect, communication, and understanding between all parties involved.

 

Our intention is to create a safe and non-judgmental space for dialogue, promoting healthy conversations about sexuality and encouraging individuals to embrace their unique desires and preferences, free from societal pressures or stigmatization. While all of our podcast episodes offer valuable insights, our candid conversation with Dedrick about Black culture resonates deeply on multiple levels. We invite you to join us and listen to the episode in its entirety, as it holds profound significance and relevance.

 

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