183 – Adoption Struggles: Wisdom I Wish I Had Known with Jane Baker

It’s not uncommon for me to start getting them at about 11 or 12 because parents have noticed a big shift. When we start getting into it... a lot of it connects back to sadness, grieving, and loss about why didn’t they keep me? What’s wrong with me?

Hi Neighbor,

Adoption is built on loss. It’s a journey of processing this loss, especially during the preteen and teen years. Parents can’t heal these wounds for their children, but they can create a safe environment for them to do so.

Joining me today is my neighbor from Alabama, Jane Baker. Jane is a friend of the show, and she’s a friend of adoptive families. Jane is a priceless resource of information.

Conversations like the one you are about to hear contain things I wish we had known before we faced the challenges in our parenting journey. 

I want to encourage you to grab a pen and paper. There are lots of wise nuggets that will help you navigate the struggles that adoption can present. 

Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim

P.S. You’re not alone in this journey. If you haven’t joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It’s a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through.

Listen to today’s episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.

Contact Jane: • Phone Number: [phone] • Email: [e-mail] • Website: Adoption Associates

Resources mentioned by Jane: • Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew  • Parenting with Love & Logic • Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life

Website: Love and Logic