“It isn’t love, it isn’t hate, it’s just indifference.” A little petty, a little philosophical, and exactly the right kind of opener for Lover. In this Deep Dive, we look at “I Forgot That You Existed,” a deceptively breezy track that becomes more interesting the longer you sit with it. We unpack the tonal misreadings this song often gets, the power of the shrug as both emotional and poetic posture, and why this opening song may be one of Taylor’s most sophisticated declarations of agency.
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Episode Highlights:
[02:30] “I Forgot That You Existed” as a glitter gel pen song
[09:17] “In my feelings more than Drake, so, yeah”
[16:03] “Free rent living in my mind”
[22:02] “Laughed on the school yard as soon as I tripped up and hit the ground”
[27:50] “Sent me a clear message”
[32:52] Purpose of the song
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