"All the wine moms are still holding out…" This week, we're deep diving into "But Daddy I Love Him" from The Tortured Poets Department (2024). Join us as we unpack the unreliable narrator, explore the Southern Gothic imagery, and analyze how Taylor uses biblical references and small-town dynamics to tell a story about agency, choice, and breaking free from societal expectations. From the Sarahs and Hannahs clutching their pearls to the elders convening at city hall, this song creates a vivid world where love becomes an act of rebellion.
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Mentioned in this episode:
- Beauty and the Beast
- The Notebook
- Gilmore Girls
- Robert Burns
- Hamlet
- E2: Enchanted Deep Dive
- E32: “Love Story” Deep Dive
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Episode Highlights:
[00:54] How we do a deep dive
[01:38] “I forget how the west was won”
[07:21] “Sarah’s and Hannahs’ in their Sunday best”
[11:30] “Too high a horse for a simple girl to rise above it”
[15:25] “Now I’m running with my dress unbuttoned”
[21:40] “Dutiful daughter, all my plans were laid”
[27:44] “The elders had convened down at the city hall”
[33:22] “I’ll tell you something right now, I’d rather burn my whole life down”
[44:40] “Scandal does funny things to pride”
[51:19] Purpose of the song
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