Biblical Counseling Today

We know we are not righteous and of ourselves.  So, why do we so easily end up thinking and acting in self-righteous ways?

Christians are to exhibit the spiritual fruit of self-control in their lives.  So, what if we are more controlling than self-controlled?

How do I know if I’m living in self-deception?  What do I do about it?

Many people lack confidence.  So it makes sense that they learn ways to get more self-confidence, right?  Maybe not...

If we are commanded to be compassionate to others, shouldn’t we show compassion to ourselves too?

Is being self-willed a virtue or a vice?  How do we deal with the self-willed person in our lives?

Our culture tells us to be constantly improving self.  Will this pursuit create any potential problems for us?

Why do some people seem to constantly self-deprecate?  Is this just a bad habit or something more?

How do you identify yourself?  In today’s world, we are all told we have the power to identify (name) self.

Self-care is all the rage today.  How do we take care of self in a way that still denies self and dies to self?

Is the goal of our spiritual journey knowing our true self?  If it is, then is the enneagram the right tool for you?

There is nothing harder to do in this life than to tame our tongues.  What makes it so difficult?

Should Christians ever use their tongues to judge others?  What is the difference between judgment and discernment?

One thing we all need as human beings is encouragement.  Why is it so hard to give people the encouragement they need?

Christians should be the best listeners on the planet, right?  Why is good listening such a challenge for us?

We all like to be praised and dislike criticism.  What does God’s Word say about these two types of communication?

What can we do about the problem of talking too much?  Or, what if we have the opposite problem?

Christians need to move from words that shame to words that correct and restore another person.

What place do joking, mocking, and teasing have in the communication arsenal of the Christian?  Is it all just ridiculing that must be avoided?