In this moving episode, Aidan Ryan—writer, publisher, and filmmaker discusses his deeply personal book, I Am Here - You Are Not - I Love You. The book unearths the extraordinary yet overlooked lives of Cindy Suffoletto and Andy Topolski, two groundbreaking artists who came out of Buffalo’s raw, experimental 1970s art scene and made their mark in the intense 1980s–90s New York art world.
As Aidan retraces their artistic journey, he explores the realities of ambition, sacrifice, and reinvention. Why did Cindy, a fiercely talented artist, step away from her own work for so long? Why did Andy, a visionary artist, not receive the recognition he deserved? How does memory transform loss into rediscovery? And what role does place play in shaping who we are and how we are remembered?
With a writer’s sharp insight and a nephew’s deep love, Aidan brings their story back to life—offering a stirring meditation on art, legacy, and the unseen forces that shape creative lives.
Don’t miss this powerful conversation about art, history, the influence of place, and the enduring ties that bind us beyond time.
(( A special thank you to Mick Cochrane, Canisius University Professor for introducing me to Aidan Ryan—his thoughtful connection made this conversation possible, and I’m truly grateful.))
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