How To Send Nudes [Quickie]

In this episode, we delve into the hot topic of sending nude pictures in the digital age. Responding to a listener's question, we unpack the risks involved and explore five key strategies to minimize potential harm: consent, self-awareness, anonymity, trust, and legal considerations. Whether you're contemplating sharing an intimate photo or just seeking insight into this modern phenomenon, this episode aims to equip you with the knowledge to make informed and confident decisions. Tune in!

Show Notes:

[00:00:00] Michelle: Introduction

• The safety of sending nude pictures.

[00:00:11] Addressing a Listener Question

• Michelle addresses a listener's question about the safety of sending nude pictures and outlines the objective to discuss five strategies to potentially decrease the associated risks.

[00:00:48] Point 1: Consent and Agreement

• Michelle emphasizes the importance of discussing consent with the recipient of the photos.
• She highlights the need for an explicit agreement on how the pictures will be handled (e.g., whether they will be deleted or saved securely).

[00:01:08] Self-awareness and Pressure

• Michelle encourages self-reflection on the motivations behind sending such photos, and whether one is acting out of their own desire or external pressure.
• She mentions the possible anxiety that may arise if one is sending pictures under pressure.

[00:01:36] Point 2: Anonymity

• Michelle suggests ensuring that the pictures do not include identifiable features, such as face, tattoos, birthmarks, or distinct jewelry, to maintain anonymity.

[00:02:13] Point 3: Trust

• Michelle discusses the importance of trusting the recipient, ideally someone known well.
• Have an understanding  about what will happen to the pictures if the relationship ends.

[00:03:04] Point 4: Secure Storage

• Choosing a secure, password-protected storage option and being mindful of potential family sharing plans that could expose the pictures to unintended viewers.

[00:03:31] Point 5: Legal Considerations

• Michelle underscores the importance of being informed about the age of consent and the laws regarding sending explicit photos in one’s jurisdiction, as there can be legal consequences.

[00:04:32] Final Takeaway and Conclusion

• Michelle concludes by reiterating the two primary options for reducing anxiety when considering sending explicit photos: either ensuring complete anonymity in the photo or opting not to send any photos at all.
• She emphasizes that both decisions are valid.

[00:04:57] Sign-off

• Michelle wishes listeners a great day and signs off the podcast.