How to Show Up When You Don’t Feel Ready: Courage Over Perfectionism [Summer Throwback]

In this Summer Throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose, we go way back into the vault to revisit a powerful message from 2023. Christian Life Coach Melissa Batt shares a deeply vulnerable story about speaking at her church—an experience that stirred up old insecurities, perfectionism, and a desire for validation.

If you've ever felt nervous doing something new, wondered if you’re “good enough,” or wished you could show up more polished and confident—this one’s for you. Melissa opens up about what it really looks like to say yes in faith even when you don’t feel ready, and how God uses our courage, not our perfection, to make an impact.

This episode is packed with wisdom for women who are tired of waiting until they feel “qualified” and ready to start doing the things God is calling them to do. Because guess what? You don’t have to feel ready to be obedient.

Key Takeaways:

• [00:02] - Behind-the-Scenes of Speaking at Church Melissa shares her experience battling nerves and the pressure to “perform” while speaking at her church—and how her insecurities showed up in unexpected ways.

• [06:45] - Chasing Validation vs. Obeying God God reveals a deeper message: You’re not called to impress, you’re called to show up and be real. There’s power in showing up messy.

• [10:40] - When Your Weakness Inspires Someone Else What you see as insecurity or not being ready may be the very thing that encourages someone else to take their next step.

• [13:15] - The Stress of Doing Something New From dance recital prep to flying solo—Melissa shares everyday examples of why we need to normalize asking for help and not knowing what we’re doing right away.

• [18:25] - Let Go of the Pressure to Arrive You don’t need to appear as though you have it all together. Growth happens when you’re willing to start scared and learn as you go.

• [22:10] - Eyes on Jesus, Not the Distractions or the Outcome A reminder that walking in obedience means trusting God with the process, not waiting to feel confident or polished first.

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Connect with Melissa:

• Website: melissabatt.com

• Instagram: @melissabattofficial