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July 15, 2025 13 mins

Episode 107: What to Do When Guests Don’t RSVP and How to Improve Your Response Rate

Are you tired of chasing down RSVPs for your party or event? You’re not alone! In this episode of The Happy Hostess Podcast, we’re talking all about the RSVP—what it really means, why people don’t respond, and most importantly, how to improve your RSVP response rate when you’re hosting at home.

Host Kristie LaLonde breaks down:

  • The true meaning of RSVP (and why it feels optional these days)
  • Common reasons why guests don’t RSVP
  • The cultural and generational shifts in RSVP etiquette
  • Why mailed invitations still work better than digital invites
  • Pros and cons of using Facebook Events, Evite, and QR codes
  • The importance of adding a due date to your RSVP request
  • Why you should think twice before using “Regrets Only”
  • How to follow up (graciously) with guests who haven’t responded

Whether you’re planning a dinner party, baby shower, bridal shower, or even a wedding, knowing your guest count is key to a successful event. You’ve put time and energy into creating a special experience—getting an RSVP helps you prepare and feel appreciated in the process!

If you’ve ever asked, “Why doesn’t anyone RSVP anymore?” or “How do I get more people to respond to my invitations?”—this episode is for you.

💌 Got a tip or strategy that works for getting responses? Share it with Kristie on Instagram @happyhostesscollective — she’d love to hear from you!

 

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