EP 238: The Truth About Recovering from an Eating Disorder Alone vs. in Community + Why I Wish I'd Had a Support Group Sooner

Have you ever felt completely alone in your eating disorder recovery? Like you're the only one dealing with food thoughts, body image struggles, and the exhaustion of pretending you're "fine"? In this vulnerable episode, Lindsey shares her personal story of trying to recover mostly in isolation and why she's now passionate about creating healing communities for women.

Discover the research-backed reasons why community isn't just nice to have in recovery—it's essential. Plus, learn about The Recovery Collective, a new support group launching in October 2025 specifically for women in eating disorder recovery.

Today's Truth: You were never meant to heal alone, and community isn't just nice to have in recovery - it's essential.

Key Topics Covered:

🤝 Lindsey's personal story: What it felt like to recover mostly alone with limited community support

🧠 The science behind community healing: Research-backed evidence of why support groups transform recovery

💔 The isolation trap: How eating disorders thrive in secrecy and why healing alone is harder than it needs to be

✨ What community provides: Normalization, accountability, shared wisdom, and hope

🌟 The Recovery Collective: A new support group launching October 2024 for women in all phases of recovery

Research Highlights:

📊 Support groups reduce symptoms: Studies show support groups helped reduce post-meal distress in young people with anorexia and can prevent disordered eating

📊 Connection drives recovery: Research confirms that eating disorder recovery is largely influenced by the individual's sense of connection to self and others

📊 Isolation increases struggle: When socially isolated, you lack the support and connection that can help protect against negative self-perception and low self-esteem

📊 Community decreases stigma: Eating disorder support groups offer safe spaces that decrease isolation and stigma while increasing engagement and motivation

📊 29 million affected: Nearly 30 million Americans will experience an eating disorder at some point during their lifetime

What Community Provides in Recovery:

💬 Language for your experience - Finally having words for what you're going through instead of feeling "crazy"

🔍 Perspective and reality checks - Others who can distinguish between your eating disorder voice and your true self

💕 Accountability that feels like love - Gentle support that comes from care, not judgment

🌈 Proof that recovery is possible - Seeing women further along in recovery living free, vibrant lives

🛡️ Protection against isolation - Regular connection that prevents the dangerous spiral of being alone with ED thoughts

🎯 Practical wisdom - Real-life strategies from women who've faced similar challenges

Key Takeaways:

✨ You don't have to heal alone - Recovery was never meant to be a solo journey

✨ Community isn't replacement for therapy - It's the ongoing support that helps you live your recovery, not just survive it

✨ The right kind of community matters - Led by someone with lived experience who understands both clinical and personal aspects

✨ Consistency is crucial - Regular, ongoing support rather than crisis-only intervention

✨ Isolation fuels eating disorders - Breaking the cycle of secrecy and shame is essential for healing

Introducing The Recovery Collective (Launching October 2025!)

Finally, a recovery community that truly gets it.

The Recovery Collective is where women in all phases of eating disorder recovery come together every other week to lock arms, share real struggles, and heal together in a safe, supportive environment.

What You Get:

• Bi-weekly 60-minute group coaching calls via Zoom