In this episode, we dive deep with Stefanos Sifandos into the hidden wounds and unconscious patterns that quietly shape the way we love and relate. From the absence of healthy rites of passage in modern culture to the unspoken impact of the mother wound, Stefanos unpacks how unresolved trauma, confusion about identity, and unexamined survival strategies keep so many of us cycling through pain in intimacy and partnership. Through raw honesty and lived experience, he reminds us that real transformation is not about quick fixes but a lifelong process of facing ourselves with courage, compassion, and integrity—ultimately allowing us to build relationships rooted in truth and growth.
Time Stamps
(00:00) Episode Teaser
(00:30) Opening Conversation
(05:20) Stefanos' Personal Hero's Journey
(12:04) The Turning Point: A Catalyst for Change
(14:45) The Journey into Personal Transformation
(18:27) Challenges in Modern Relationships
(32:29) The Role of Polarity in Relationships
(44:59) The Mother Wound and Male Fragility
(46:06) The Impact of Parental Influence
(49:16) Mentors and Influential Books
(54:11) The Role of Somatic Experiencing
(01:00:09) Unconditional Love and Relationships
(01:09:04) Devotion and Commitment in Modern Relationships
(01:20:10) Messages to Men and Women
(01:23:24) Conclusion and Resources
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https://www.instagram.com/stefanossifandos/
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