October 25, 2022 • 43 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I haven't had some work done.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Yes, bitch, you have some fucking card bumps.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Yes, bitch, is my look? Yes, bitch?
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Yes what Hi heyd Hi Jacks?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
And how I'm good? Tom? How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I'm so good? I don't know why. You gave me
a really great compliment in liquid and he said I
was glowing.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
You are glowing. Are you pregnant?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
No?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
And I'm running off like literally zero sleep for the
past that what I said.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I was like, you look like you've slept. Nope.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
But I'm back into like doing proper skin care because
I was like, didn't do anything for like two weeks
because I.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Just was being really lazy.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
So I think it's back to the I'm doing the
I'm doing everything. I'm doing my roller, I'm doing. I
had a facial the other week and got like a
facial like a lymphatic massage.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
I've got you got that when they like put their
fingers like in your mouth and everything.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
That is an option that's caught a specific name. But no,
this was just like just a facial massage but fancy
and yeah, and then I'm having something done tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Are we like in prep for something? Like? Are we
is there something coming up.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
But you're like, I'm in prep for when I'm an
old person. Yeah, oh, micro needling. I'm having micro needling.
My friend runs a like a clinic and they have
this page where they just have all these like they
call them models, but they're like just test stummies, I think, right,
And they're like, hey, we need three people to do
(01:29):
micro needling on Wednesday. Who wants And it's like first
invest dress and there's not many people in the group.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
It's like a private clothes group. Yeah, and so yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
So you're like, I mean, I know, I was like
yes please.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
And then the other day so that's like tomorrow, and
then the other day they put on who wants high food?
Do what high food is?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
What type?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I don't know how to explain it, but like it's
it's basically like a face without having a face leave,
I know. And yesterday they were like, we need someone
to do high food on whatever.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Thousands of dollars.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
What's the process?
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Like, I'm really not even sure, Okay, is it likely?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Obviously skin kneedling. There's needles involved, and it's like they
put your skin and.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
My fur, so it's ultrasound non invasive skin tightening. Okay, yeah,
and so so it's basically facely. So I wanted to
get it on my neck because I don't have a loose,
saggy neck, but I just like want to tighter and snatch.
So but because I'm getting micro needling tomorrow and alreadyooked
(02:29):
in them for that, then the High Feeld was meant
to be on Tuesday and it's too close.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
So my friend the page was like, do you can't
have the High Fool as well?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
So you're gonna have to wait.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
And I was like, oh god, don't talk about cake.
I want to die.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Because I just booked a holiday to BALI really yeah,
you know, I just booked it like literally like two
days ago. I think, okay, and when you're going in December,
and so I'm like doing hashtag Barley body.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
And so I just joined a new I joined a
new gym three and a half.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Weeks because I've made I mean, I'm sure it is
a hashtag journey.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I'm just saying it to myself. I take bullybody.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yes, but there's like I joined this gym like three
and a half weeks ago and I hadn't been once.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
So I was like, join this gym and they were like, well,
you're two weeks for free.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
So the first two weeks I was like yolo, like
I'm not paying, it's free, I don't need to go whatever. Yeah,
and then last week I started paying and I was like,
that's all right, it's just the first week.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't need to go.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Then this week is the fourth week and I'm still
paying hadn't been yet. And yesterday, because the hashtag Baliybody
Journey started, I was like, right, I've got to go
to the gym and I convinced myself to go because
they have a steam room, a sauna and a cold plunge.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
A cold plunge, Oh.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
My god, it was freezing. I did it for like,
that's so good for you. I know, that's why I
wanted to do it. So I was like Sparta because
you go to the gym, and then like you have
mini Sparta in the steam room and that was great.
And then so I did the cold plunge the first time.
I only lasted ten seconds. It was freezing.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
How you meant to stay in therefore, well.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I think you meant to do like three minutes.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Like I was watching the block the other day and
the girls did an ice bath for three minutes, I know,
and I did. I came out of the steam room,
which is probably a mistake because I went from super
hot to super cold and like it was friendly. And
then I went back in five minutes later and I
managed to do almost a minute.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Which is pretty good because I have cold chowls all
the time.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
What's something to do for It's like something helps you nervously, the.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Vegus nerve, which I'm pretty sure, but it's spelt differently.
I think it's v a g u s maybe, And
it's like I'm pretty sure it's at like the back
of your neck or top of your spine or something
like that, and it's like connected to everything, and it's
to do with mental health and amazing.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
This is very general, but it's meant to do amazing
things for you.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
So I was like, get me in the cold plunged down,
but yeah, it's very cold, Oh my god. And I
forgot swimmers as well, so I were in my undies
but no one else was around.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
So no, I only wear black underwear.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Oh okay, yeah, I hate white underwear. Not that I
have this issue, but if you ever had skid mark issue,
you would be able to see them in white undies.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Okay, not realize that was where we were going with that.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Well, that's just always been my thinking, Like I was
doing like white sox, who.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Has a skid mark issue? It's got a lot of people. Yeah,
throw those underwear out if that's an issue.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
But if you're having skid marks because you're not wiping properly, like.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Ah, what.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
A lot of people. So anyway, I just have.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Literally not in primary school, primary school, kindergarten.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Yeah, but yeah, I just do the always black undies
because you can't see anything.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Thank God for that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah. But anyways, I was in my undies but no
one was there, so it was fine. But then I
was like, that's the whole thing. Getting ready for Ballei
body Yeah, hashtag Balley body. Yeah, and that's why I've
decided bally Belling healthy. Oh my god, I praying I
don't get Barley belly. I've been reading how to not
get Balley belly and it's so.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Hard, Like, have you been to I've never been to Bali.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
When I was like ten year six or something, right,
and I just remember it being like I went with
my friend and her mum, who is like a bit
crazy but like fun crazy, and so we were like
I just remember she was like so strict about it.
Obviously you want to have like fucking diary every day? Yes,
but like you gotta brush your teeth with bottled water?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I don'thing have salad that's been washed in the water,
and then you kind of like open your mouth in
the shower And then I'm like, but what about if
you go in the pool, like do you like There's
so many.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Things that I just kept thinking about.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Oh my god, I did, but we just reckon. You
just got to go with it, roll with the punches.
Maybe forget it early. If you get it early, can
you not get it again?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I don't how it maybe like covid Well, I went
to Thailand for three weeks.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I was like, is it the same there?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Backpacking inland?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
And I think it's meant to be the same, like
similar yeah vibes, I like you brush your teeth with
bottled water? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah, I was fine.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I drink so much water though, like every day. So
I'm like, mm, true stressed about but I supposed water over.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
There is like two cents.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Yeah, it'll be fine, Okay, I'm stress that you didn't invite.
But anyway, well you can cut if you want.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Yeah, it'll get the cost down.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Yeah, I'm stressed about BALI I'm just about Halloween coming
up because I've got no costume, so many ideas.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I've got no costume as well. I'm up shit creek
without a paddle.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Actually, can I run you through my ideas of what
I thought?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, because I might pinch one of them.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Okay, well they're actually mostly all So I'm like no
one for doing amazing costumes every year, right.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Like just saying.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
And so during the year most Halloweens, I have like
at least two or three looks that I do and
I do a photo shoot and put off on Instagram
and it's a whole thing and it's great. And so
during the year I always put like down fun ideas,
like in my notes Halloween costume ideas for when it
comes to Halloween, and I usually like topical ones, like
last year I did like him in the met gala
with when she were with all the black like the
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black what's called like morphsuit and her face was covered
and everything.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I remember Kim doing. I don't remember you posting about that.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
Yeah, I did that.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Halloween last year, and then I also did something else
I can't remember anyway, So I like doing topical things,
but it was like doing like iconic ones where everyone goes,
oh my god, remember that, and I love. My dream
has always been to do it. My dream Halloween costume
is to do the Spice Girls. But I'm every single
one of them, and so you do like mainly for
(08:21):
the photo I guess.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You can't do it in real life.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Oh okay, but then you're like someone because I don't
know how to do it. Photo shops me together to
be all five Spices girls.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
That would be fun.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
How cool would that be? But I've left it too
late and can't get all the costumes. But that's been
my dream costume for years. Next year and then I
also would really like to do same kind of vibe,
but you know on the Mean Girls poster where they're
standing in the three and then Lindsay's kind of at
the front in the big oversized pink polo shirt and
Regina George's wearing the a little bit traumatic singlerd and
like it's like.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
The iconic Mean Girls rap. I really want to do
that as well.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Well.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I played one Oh, like the movie poster. Yeah yeah, yeah, yea,
yeah yeah yah yah yah.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
That's also on the list, the list, And so.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
That would you be all four of them?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yeah yeah yeah, okay yeah, I mean if.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
So we have like a practical person not yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
If someone wanted to do a group costume, like hilarious, amazing,
totally So this year I really wanted to either do
from the Lizzie Maguire movie Lizzy and Isabella, you know
when they're on the stage doing this is what Dreams
Are Made.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Of the Blue in the Green, but again that.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
That would be a great couple's costume. But also I
could do both, but again could I've left it too
late for the for the shoot for the but for
the costumes, you can't. It's either going to get them
made or be really resourceful, which I usually am.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
I'm like really good at quite resourceful.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, like I'm good at putting costumes together because I
like to be exact.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Those are so.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Specific and you're the busiest personal life.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Halloween's in less than a week.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Then the other one that I really really really wanted
to do this year, This is what I've been thinking
about all year. But then all of a sudden, it's
October and I don't have time. Did you have alas
high school musical? I did, obviously, okay, musical one. You
know when Ryan and Sharpey are doing Bop to the
Top and they end on that like.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Sparkly ladder the ladder.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
No, I was going to go with shar Pey and
Ryan and do the photo shoot on the ladder covered
in the gold.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Multiple people, either we do one. Well, we've left it
to you know, it's so late.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I just don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Would you want to be sharp or obviously want to
be Okay, you could be the ladder. I pick the
ladder exactly the gold ladder.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
But how fun would that be?
Speaker 1 (10:38):
I just would be fun. I would love the Lizzie
McGuire one, I know, in such beautiful.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Should we do it next year and we could do
the couple's costume.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Absolutely. We need to get some wigs.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Yeah, we need wigs, the full face of the green dress.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Yeah, yeah, I know. I love how into it.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
You get because I love it because I don't like
when people just do like a slutty version of something.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
I like when it's like feeling very attacked right now.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
But I know, but that's just not my vibe.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
That'll u that it suits you and it's funny when
you do it, because it's funny, and I expect.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
That it's you that's on brand. Yes, yeah, have you
got any ideas what you want to do?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Not? Really, I had this like very basic idea.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Well originally this is like an idea through someone else
that gave me the idea I was going to do
like in drag compectress. Oh yeah, but again I've left
that too late and I can't do my own makeup
and my friend I don't want to, Like I feel
like I asked my all my friends do makeup, not
all of them.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
I've got a couple of friends that are in makeup.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Having friends that won't won't.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
They're like careers now, and I'm not going to be like,
hey can you live at You're a star two hours
on my face following they get themselves ready. So no,
I'm not going to do that. So I'm thinking I
don't know, like I was thinking going like a as
like a dead printer.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Yes, oh yeah, are you going to a party or anything?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
What's my friend's birthday? On Saturday? Is Halloween? Saturday?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Halloween is on Monday, but everyone's doing Halloween on Saturday,
which is like the twenty ninth things.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Yeah, so we're doing like a we're getting ready at
his and then we're going to go to a Haroween
at the whole Pavilion.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Oh fun.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I know.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I know the radio awards for my real job are
on the same night, So I'm like going to the
radio awards from like six pm I think, or like
five pm. The red carpet starts and the thing starts
at six. Them out of there at ten, racing to
where I work, doing a quick change into my Halloween costume.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Wait, so what is your Halloween cost I don't know,
but I.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Just know that I'm doing the quick change into something
Oh my god, quick drag.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
And then yeah, literally and then gonna do that. Yeah,
but so it's gonna be fun.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Well, neither of us know what we're wearing, but I
know that we're gonna look fabulous.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
My housemate always has the best like idea for everything.
He always just goes.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Like some sort of colored harness, yes, some sort of
colored speeder or short shorts, and then add something so
like are you a angel?
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Put on an angel halo? Are you a sexy devil.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Put on the devil horns and a devil taiel Are
you like you are fair it? Put on wings on
the back, like yeah, he always just goes harness, short
shorts or speedo plus one accessory that works.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
I think that's going to be most of everyone.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
That always works though, But it's just my brand. I
just kind of know that.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
No, no, but I feel the same, like I feel
like a lot of my friends go all that as well,
and I feel like I feel like I normally I
don't think I go all out. I think I like
put in the minimum effort and then because like mainstream
people and I put it on Instagram and man't used
to it.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
They look at it like, look like Jack's done?
Speaker 3 (13:51):
What have you gone as before?
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (13:53):
I'm literally I don't even remember where I was. I
think I put on a blue top.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Oh my god, what I have the best idea?
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Oh my god, you should go as you auditioning on
AGT and get like the wig, get the blonde justin
beaver hair wig and get like the same sexy over here.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Oh yeah, but how funny would that be? Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
Well I was gonna I was I was actually going
to go as because my friend's got like a taco
outfit and so I was gonna wear it and go
with the Kabab singer.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yeah, but it's just this huge taco budget situation.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Did you get to keep the Massinger costume?
Speaker 1 (14:33):
No, but you sent me that and then you threw
it away.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
I wonder where though, those go? Like where are those costumes?
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Do you record? I don't know, but it was huge
and it was so heavy.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
God, that would be the ultimate Halloween costume.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
But it would be funny if you did, like you
could do like, oh my god, so you should do
get the really great high res image of you as
Kebab on the mask singer, and then do you in
the Halloween costume and then that meme where you go
what you ordered versus what arrives?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
Do you know that that would be That would be funny.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
That would be very funny. But then what do I
do for like.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Outfit?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
No? No, no?
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Oh okay, so you mean like get a carbo cut out?
No no, no, I'll just just get the photo. And this
is for Instagram. You're saying, yes, okay, right.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Oh yeah, yeah for Instagram Instagram.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
I know, yeah, but that would be funny. That was
what you ordered and then you swipe and it's.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Actually I need to show you.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
To be standing like in a back alleyway in the
taco outfit.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I need to show you this photo. Actually, Oh you
put it on? Yeah, I tried it on.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Can we please?
Speaker 1 (15:39):
I went to my friend's costume box.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Can we please make this a meme on the Haydo Instagram.
Speaker 4 (15:44):
What you ordered versus Oh my god, you like the
chili necklace?
Speaker 3 (15:49):
Yes, because it adds to how bad it is. And
also it's the shortest Tarco outfit.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
I can wear it with a pair of pumps.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Oh no, I mean like it's so short you can
like basically looks like you've got just a T shirt
of Oh my god, please send that to me right now.
I'm going to wait until you've sent it. I want
to hear the notification on everything, and I'm going to
make that meme. Guys, make sure you go and look
at what you ordered verset water arrived. It's going to
be so funny. Oh yeah, air dropping it Okay, good quality,
(16:18):
that's oh god.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
Now it's going to it's a live photo as well.
Shit or anyway, Yeah, I wait, I don't know. I
might go, you know, that could be my daytime look,
and then I need a nighttime look. I'll stop, I'll
take the Taco bout foot off. Think about that foot off,
and then.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
I'll have that under just a harness and a jock strap.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Maybe let's see how we go.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
That'd be fun. Though I'm excited for Halloween. I always
love Halloween.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
It is it's always a fun time. I'm actually stressed
through because like, I've got something coming up before Halloween
that I need your advice. I'm going on a date
for the first time in.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Years one year, No, I'd say probably.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
I think after my ex, which is like four and
a half years ago, I went on a few dates. Yeah,
and then since then, I just haven't been on a
date in four years.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I'd say probably four years. Yeah. Oh my, I just
haven't been open to it.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Okay, well I'm really good advice. So what what advice
do you need?
Speaker 1 (17:19):
I don't know. I don't know how to flirt.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
I feel like i'm very much you know what it is.
I feel I like to make people feel comfortable. Yeah,
and so I feel like I go into this mode
of like trying to make people feel comfortable, which gives,
which gives in which, well, no, maybe, but it's it's
I feel like it just it's almost an automatic friend zone.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Okay, so you're worried about friend zoning this person.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I just act like a friend very quickly.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yeah, so it's like you're acting like myself maybe because
you don't Yeah, okay, so what do you say?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
You're not good at flirting.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
I'm not good at flirting. I'm not good. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
I just like, what are you What would be like
hot tips for like someone going on a date for
the first time, and yeah, have.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
You met the person before?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Okay, that's a good start.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
It's not going to be awkward, Like it's not like
you've met someone on like Tinder and it's gonna be
awkward because you're gonna try me.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Like, hey, you don't look like your photo.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Yeah, and the awkward music in the background. Yeah, that's
already good that you know that you know him, So
that's good.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
I would say, like maybe dress kind of not like slutty,
but like dressed nicely, but like that make it obviously
you put in an effort.
Speaker 6 (18:34):
Yeah, like a few buttons open. May you put on
a bit of face, not like full beat Jacqueline Jacqueline Shane.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Yeah, no, just like a bit a bit.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Of like.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
He's like, I was going on a date with a guy.
Why are you a lady?
Speaker 4 (18:56):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Put it like dress like like just just a bit
of face so you like you've got a good skin,
but like you know, see you look good a facial
after this great? Is it going to be obviously during
the day, during the in a restaurant at night so
lighting will be dim or is it during the day.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
I'm not sure yet.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Don't say it's like in a park in the middle
of the day because that lighting.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
We're tying down between a lunch and dinner right now, do.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Dinner because it'll be dark. The lighting in the restaurant
will be low, and then you don't have to worry
about daylight.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
There we go. Are we worried about daylight?
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Well, because you're like bad lighting?
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Ah?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
True? Yeah, overhead lighting, Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
And if you've got a bit of face on, you
can tell in the daylight where you can't telling dim
restaurant lighting. Do you know what I have done before
is in your phone? Just think of like, because I'm
always worried about a lulling conversation, even with like with like, okay,
if I gout with a friend or like a new friend,
I'm worried about a lull in conversation.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
That stresses me out.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
So I always think ahead and like writing notes in
my phone, just like a couple of talking points too, yeah,
and like I would remember, like I usually remember them,
but if I don't, I'll.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Be like, and there's a lull, I'll be like, I'm
just going to it. I'll be right back. Then you
go and check the list of your talking points, be
like we can cover that.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
We covered that, Oh yeah, whatever the trippy wind you organized?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
Yeah, it's really good so it doesn't get awkward and
there's no lull in the conversation.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
Oh my god, I'm definitely going to I think that's
one of my ones that i'm like stressed about because
I find it weird talking about my life as well,
because I've got a very strange life.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
Especially on a date when you're like, what do you do? Like, imagine,
let's roll play. Okay, So I'm like, oh my god,
how good is this brush shutter?
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Do you like her?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
It's so good anyway, So what do you do? Tell
me about you?
Speaker 5 (20:39):
One's the thing I think already knows what I do,
Like I don't know, you have to, but then he
would I never get to tell people what I do,
and I never I would just even say what I
do when I do get to say what I do,
because I don't know even what I do.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Okay, So let's work it out.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
So because I of course he'll probably know, but he's
asking you, so he wants.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
You to elaborate.
Speaker 6 (20:57):
So here we go.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Pick it up with especials are good. So what do
you do for work?
Speaker 1 (21:03):
I do a few things. I like what.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
I'm interacting my guys.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
Oh my god, I'm not okay, I need to get
this together.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
So what like, like, what do you work in an office?
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Or yeah, I work full time in an office.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Now I know I'm a singer originally, Oh wow, that's cool. Yeah,
I've been singing for about like ten years now, eleven.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
Years, like weddings or like.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
This, and this this is to be fair, this is
usually the point where this comes up in a conversation
or well, when I had dates back in the day, yeah,
it would kind of at this stage, i'd be like, oh,
like I want to show when I was young, and
then that's kind of like what got me into it,
and they'd be like, oh, what showed you win? And
then it's always at this point people go weird.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Okay, so leave out the show. So you're a.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Singer, I'm a singer. I'm a wedding singer.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
No, no, because you don't want to lie.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
That's not the truth.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Just you just have to pick the bits that are
the truth that don't need the other stuff, so you
don't need to say. You're on a multiple multiple, multiple,
multiple TV shows and okay, and so you're seeing great
what about like have you ever done like TV or anything?
Or oh wait, don't know, I'm leading you down the
garden path. What about like what what have you got
on for the rest of the year?
Speaker 3 (22:19):
The challenge?
Speaker 4 (22:20):
I don't want to I don't really want to tell
you about that. But then I'm like, what the fuck
else is there?
Speaker 3 (22:24):
But honest, I'm going to be on this TV show.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
I don't want them to watch that.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
They will be.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
By the way I want to talk about I'm going
to cancel this date.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
No, don't cancel it. I think I've given you some
good tips, look sexy. Lick of face, but not too much,
not Jacqueline.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
What, No, a lick of face, not lick their face.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
No, lively their face the day it goes well, But
a lick, a little little splatter of face. Write some things,
some talking points in your phone.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Pretty Jesus brace season.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
Actually, speaking of the.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Challenge, what you just said before, Like, obviously the show's
when is it out?
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Do you know the dates announced?
Speaker 5 (23:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (23:10):
I think you.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
Actually, no, it hasn't. I don't think that the airing
date has been announced. I and it's November, because it's
coming November, Okay, Yeah, because I saw the thing come out,
like I saw the trailer come out, which, by the way,
I need, like I need lessons in makeup because I.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
I look so yellow.
Speaker 4 (23:29):
I look bright yellow in the fucking trailer in my interviews, yes,
and I'm hoping that's not how I look in all
of it. I need to chat to my friend Brandon
about how to do make up. Make Yeah, because like
I just you know what, I was in such a
rush to get to the airport to leave for Argentina.
I grabbed this stupid little skin tint thing that I've got,
which I never used, and I was like, oh this
(23:50):
is way fine, It's good at the moment, and it
just it destroyed my life.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
So wait, hang on, let me Jack Fitche and partner
comes up when you search on anyone Instagram on Google.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
It's like the third part check partner.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
M is that a prophecy?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
I hear it is?
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Yeah, oh there you are. But yeah, it is a
little bit yellow, but it could just be the filter
they've put on the trailer. Maybe you do have a
little bit of a yellow glow, but I think it
might just be the background that's behind you.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Was that on a green screen?
Speaker 4 (24:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:27):
I think it might be the background behind you, which
is like the blue fake steel like wall of the challenge,
and then like maybe the lighting and also a filter.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Well, I need to talk to production because going.
Speaker 3 (24:41):
To need to reshoot all of my interview.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
I have to go back to Argentina because I didn't
have a good face.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Get me on the next flight out.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
So what do you need to do?
Speaker 4 (24:49):
You?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
Do you wear my makeup day to day?
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Am I wearing makeup?
Speaker 5 (24:53):
Now?
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Well?
Speaker 3 (24:54):
I don't know are you asking me?
Speaker 1 (24:56):
No? Did you ask? Is that what you asked me?
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Like?
Speaker 3 (24:58):
Do you wear day to day like, do you know today?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Like I don't know. I just don't.
Speaker 4 (25:02):
I feel like I've had so much makeup over the years. Yeah,
and but it's just never I don't know, it's never right,
I I always you know.
Speaker 1 (25:09):
What it is.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
I used to always go for the very like dried
up prune Matt look like I would know you go
for the and now it will just because my skin's
naturally a bit more dewey now and I've just embraced that.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
Yeah, the jewey look jewish. I think suits you.
Speaker 4 (25:25):
Yeah, I think so, even though someone came up to
me on day night and I looked like I was
sweatings again again with people coming up and ruining your
night in a club.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
But you know, I think it's good.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
But I think if you learn how to do a face.
But athough it's TV makeup.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
It is, I don't know. We will add to our
own for our master interviews. It's fine.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
God, they just have a budget for makeup artist.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
No, you need to take I need to be looped
in your contract negotiations style because you're not.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
On Amy class. No makeup harder, go backwards forward.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
It's been filmed, It's done all.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Right, we have got more letters that people have been
sending in for dear Dold, and we did it last week.
I do we asked for We did a call out
sending we're going to do advice. We're very unqualified, but
I think I've got I gave you good advice for
that date just then.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
I think, so yeah, I'm going to take them on board.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
Great, Well, we've got some deer dolls people have written
and we're going to do them next Yes, get.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
Okay, we have our first dear do here, Thomas just
handing me the piece of paper.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
If you want to send us a letter by the way,
or like a little message about something you need help with,
all like advice on hey dog pod on Instagram. Absolutely yeah,
slide into the DMS.
Speaker 3 (26:58):
This is where these are from. And you could say
anonymous by the way.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
M yeah, well it wouldn't be anonymous Instagram thing.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
I mean, like we won't say yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Fo one hundred percent.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
Okay, go hey dolls, Love you bitches, and hopefully you
read this because I need your help. I've moved in
with my best friend and I hate it. In caup
of letters, It's only been about six weeks and I
already want to move out. He's MESSI never cleans up
after himself, leaves his stuff in the washing machine for days.
And also we share a bathroom and he always shaves
and leaves it all in the sink, which makes me
want to vomit. Oh, he's so gross.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Triggered by that. I'm triggered by that.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
He's so gross. But I do love him as a person.
I just can't live with him. I am legit in
cap of letters thinking of moving out, but don't want
to lie to him. Also, I hate his cat because
it stinks, and I think I'm a learning What do
I do and what do I tell him? Please help me?
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Love you? He slash him. Oh cute, Okay, I love
a pronoun Um.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
Well you live. We both live with friends currently. Yes,
do you want to go first?
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (27:58):
And I'm hoping my current housemate does not listen to
this podcast. I'm going to spill the tea. So we're
giving one of my current housemates their three weeks notice today.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Actually, have you done it or no? Not yet? When
we live the post, how many power do you live with?
It's a complicated situation.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
So I live with two others, one of them has
gone away for a few weeks, for a few months.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
The nurse doing a great thing doat regionally.
Speaker 4 (28:27):
Yes, so we've got someone to a couple of people
to move in because there's a third bedroom as well
when he moved out, so there's there two more people
who are both foreign, a gorgeous French girl and then
another guy who I won't go into details about, but
basically everything you're describing in this list, the guy does. Yeah,
(28:49):
and I've just I've just been like grinning and bearing it.
But because I've known that my other housemates coming back
and that we're going to keep the French girl, who's
absolutely durable, right and us.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
So someone was in the nurse's bedroom while he was away, Yes.
Speaker 4 (29:03):
The French girl gotcha, okay, and then the other third
bedroom we had another person coming. It's making sense, yes, yes,
but that guy, the third person is basically yeah, everything
that you've mentioned this list, like dirty dishes, all that
kind of stuff, and yeah, just give him the ships.
And so yeah, we're going to give him a three
weeks notice today. What advice do I have move out?
(29:27):
I know I can't because that will ruin that we
ruin a friendship. Yeah, I just ruined some of my
friendships in the past.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Me too.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
I was going to say, I've lived with a couple
of friends over the years and we break. We're better now,
but it's been years and years and years. But at
the time, at the end of the twelve months, I
wanted to murder them. It happened a couple of times.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
I've wanted still.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
Friends with them.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
We are now, So we saved the friendship, yes, because
we moved out. Yeah, and I think but I have
a very high standard of living.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
No, well, it's not a high standard of living. It's
a very normal standard of living.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
But I think it's quite a high standard of living. Well, yeah,
you live quite nicely.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
But it's not the same.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
I like things clean and in order, and I think
a lot of people don't have the same, which is
blows my mind to me, like it's meant to how
people don't have the same.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
It depends where you're out in life.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
Because when I was about twenty one, I think I
was a bit of I was a bit gross the
same like when you're just like on rinse and repeat,
going out, coming home. Like when I first moved to
the city, I think I was a bit that person,
to be honest, But now I'm very much the opposite.
I think we're very much the same. Yeah, very clean,
everything has a place and everything, yes place.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
So the couple of times we've like moved out because
it was the end of the least and I've been like,
thank god that we didn't speak for a couple of
months and then we became friends.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
We like mate.
Speaker 2 (30:47):
We never had a huge fight, but like I was,
I was off them. I don't even think they had
an issue, right, both people?
Speaker 1 (30:54):
Did they talk? Do they tell that you were off them?
Speaker 2 (30:56):
Yes? One definitely good okay, and yeah, so I think
it's saved for me because it's like the also like
I have always always had weird hours compared to the
other people I lived with, Like I've either been working
at night or early in the morning, and so like
when you do, it's like you you're home a lot
during the day, so you if someone's left their mess there,
(31:19):
you're living in someone else's mess, which is infuriating. So
for me it's like either I am like coming home
in the middle of the day and the person would
have left their mess ale and then I'm like, well
I've come home at like midday and then I've got
to spend the next nine hours until I got to
bed sitting in your filth, which is unfair. Or if
I would like vice versa five, I was like coming
(31:39):
back if I was working at night, I would come
home at night and then go to bed and wake
up in the morning and then have to live with
it all morning and all day until I would leave it,
like in the afternoon to go to work.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
It's just really rude. I get really annoyed when.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
People don't think of like you're in a shared space
and you don't want to be awkward and don't want
to have confrontation because I hate confrontation, but it's like
not good if you're trying to live with the person,
you don't want to make it awkward, Like how do
you bring it up well?
Speaker 4 (32:03):
And that's where you're like communications key, you need to
like you need to nip things in the butt. After
living with a few people, now like that's the conversation
that I hadn't and like to be. To be fair,
every time I have felt that kind of resentment building up.
Now with this current person, I've I've as soon as
he does something where it's like not okay, I will
(32:24):
just nip it a button and say, look, this.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
Is a situation, okay, blah blah blah. Yeah, but open
communication is key.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
But also I think really gross stuff is one hundred percent.
You have to call that like shaving and leaving all
the beard in the sink.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
Is dims just musting.
Speaker 3 (32:39):
Especially if it's community, it's MESSI never cleans up.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
After himself, leaves stuff in the washing machine for days.
And also we share a bathroom and always shaves and
leaves is here in the sink here and sink.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Also the washing machine thing, like, it's like leaving dishes
in the sink. It's a communal thing that people have
to use. Take your shit out, put it in the
fucking dryer, and then once the cycle is done in
an hour, Yeah, take it and put it away because
other people have to, especially if you're living with like
more than one person.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
That's happening at home right now.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
No, no, but it has happened before.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Yeah anyway, Okay, So I hope that. I hope that
communication is key.
Speaker 4 (33:16):
It's hard, though, if you've been living together a little
bit now and you haven't had that culture of open communication,
it's hard then all of a sudden, lacks start that
it's just from one side, so maybe move out.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
But yeah, yeah, god, it's only been six weeks, so
that six weeks.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Lovey bitches, where's it saying? Oh it's six weeks. Oh shit,
kick came out.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
That's early enough to kick to nip it in the butt.
I think, yeah, to bring it on the.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
But if that doesn't work, like if you don't, if
you have the conversation of open communication, it doesn't work,
kick him out or you move out.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Yeah, or I've got one too.
Speaker 6 (33:51):
Ready.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
This sound's a bit more full on, but I think
it will. Okay, let me just read it.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Okay, Dear my favorite dolls, you have to say when
you write to us because it's the segment name dear doll. Okay,
wanting your advice on confronting my friend who I'm pretty
sure is becoming a drug addict. She always used to
take drugs when we were in our early twenties, but
it was just on the weekend and at parties. Now
she tells me that she's doing cocaine during the week
(34:18):
almost every night, and even does a bump or two
for small things she has to do, like cleaning the
house or walking her dog. How do I confront her
about it? I'm worried she is spiraling out of control
and want to help her, but don't know how Jack,
You've always been very open about your struggles and going
to get help, so I wanted to do the same
for her, and wondering if your friends, if your friends
did anything for you. Can't wait to hear advice. Lara
(34:39):
in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (34:40):
My God, a New Zealand.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Listen, you're hi, Lara, You're a queen. Wow, that one is.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, it's a bit heavier that one. Well, I mean,
I guess personally my friends, I don't think just being
very open honest, I don't know if i'm and I'm
very open to the idea that I'm an addict, but
I think I've from trauma. I've abused substances that because
I haven't dealt with things right. Whether that means I'm
an adict or not I'm an addict, I'm not like
(35:06):
in denial. I'm not like I'm saying I'm an adict.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
I'm still working life out, but I've definitely abused things
in the past because of undealt with stuff, and I
think I think that got more and more hectic for
me over the years, and my friends could see that
happening and they but I think we're all at an
age as well that kind of like we were all
experimenting with different things, and then it was they could
just see it I was getting a bit more carried
away than they were.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
So they did like not call you out, but like
they would always check.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah, they would always see.
Speaker 4 (35:36):
Because I'm also someone like if someone, especially in that
kind of a scenario, someone tells me to do something,
I will absolutely do the opposite, right, I'd be like
fuck you, Like my little like inner rebel will come out.
Speaker 2 (35:48):
So like if someone's like, if you're like already blind
drunk and you're trying to order another drink to be
like you just have some water, you'd be like.
Speaker 4 (35:53):
Yeah, yeah, a hundred percent right, yeah, And this is
that's pre rehab. But to be honest, like when things
start getting really hectic for me, my family and everything sore, right,
and because I was living with my mum, so she
would like she'd see you could see what was going on,
and she they my family staged a bit of an
(36:13):
intervention and I went to rehab, Like they said, we're
gonna to rehab, and I went to rehab. So But
in terms of the friendships situation or my friends, I
think they I feel very, very fortunate because I never
felt judged. Any of my close friends were always there
if I needed them, and I'm not really someone that
(36:36):
has ever lack. I don't think I have emotionally unloaded
on people before, but I'm not. I tend to isolate
more than lack. Need to talk about it, like I'll
talk about with my mum and my therapist, but like
with friends, it's.
Speaker 1 (36:47):
Not so much. It's not my go to. But I
just know if I ever do need them that they'll
be there for me and that they've been there for me. Yeah,
so that would be I don't know if that's any advice.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
I think that is important.
Speaker 2 (37:00):
I think that was kind of good advice because you
have you're saying like you have to look out. Definitely,
it's not being a bad friend.
Speaker 1 (37:06):
It's not responsibility as well, that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, But like I think if you don't say anything,
it's more being a bad friend than if you do
say something, because at least if you do say something,
you're like, well, I tried, I do want to help you,
and that person can either want to.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Take the help or action is Yeah, but if you don't.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
Say anything and it gets worse, then I think that's
being a bad friend because you're like you haven't helped
or hindered.
Speaker 3 (37:28):
You've just done like literally nothing about it.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (37:31):
So even if they're gonna if you call them out or.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
Like address it and bring up with them and they
get mad at you, at least you know that you tried, Yes,
don't you think?
Speaker 1 (37:39):
Yeah, hundred percent.
Speaker 4 (37:41):
I think I was just more the in the more
denial part back in the day and more I was
getting angry at people kind of bring it up. So
I think my friends knew they're not to kind of
approach it in that way. They have more of a
software approach. Otherwise I I used to really used to
blow up. Yeah, get very I get quiet.
Speaker 1 (37:58):
If someone would tell me.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
You probably as well. Don't want to be called out
about it.
Speaker 1 (38:01):
Like absolutely not.
Speaker 4 (38:02):
I was not.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
I was not ready to be called out about it,
especially by because also it was.
Speaker 4 (38:06):
With I needed, I needed family, I needed so feel
like it was coming from like a bit more of
a yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (38:13):
Well, maybe on that if you're.
Speaker 2 (38:17):
Your friend okay, they don't say I don't don't say
if they live together or not, but their friends. So
like maybe if you know your friend's mum, if it's
like really bad, yeah, and you think like it's beyond
like a friend being like.
Speaker 3 (38:29):
Are you okay?
Speaker 2 (38:30):
Maybe it is like if you're genuine hundred hundreds iment worried,
like you go to the person's moument like hey, and
like tell them what's going on, because the parents obviously
gonna care. They're gonna want to help and get help,
maybe like your family did.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
And it's like it's true.
Speaker 4 (38:43):
But also at the same time, a couple of my friends,
I think, well, maybe I think it was my mum
don't breaking out to my friends, and they were like,
is Jack okay? Like cause I think my I think
was almost opposite in that scenario. And then I would
get very angry if there was any communication about the
topic between friends.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
Well, because if you're doing not you but like if
you're being naughty and doing stuff you shouldn't, you don't
want your parents to find.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
Out exactly, And that's what especially, I mean, I was
living with my mum and so I was like, just
shit talking, hit the fans, people start talking to each other.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
But they're not Your parents are not going to be
angry if you if they find out you're doing drugs,
they would much rather get help and live and dive
an overdose. So like they're going to get over it
in the end. They want it, going to want to
help you get better. So yeah, I would I would say,
would you agree? I would say address, bring it up
with your friend? Yeah, hey, are you okay?
Speaker 4 (39:32):
I think maybe there's a bit of an issue and
the most empathetic and compassionate way you can and the
most understanding, non judgmental.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
Maybe if there's a close group of you, get all
the girls together. Is this a girl, Lara? Get all
the girls together and be like, you know, maybe there's
a group of four.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
Of you and it's one to get all the other
three girls like, don't do it as in like an
intervention where you're all sitting on that side of a dimment.
Speaker 4 (39:55):
But like, hey, Bay, we think you know, you'll know
your friend and you'll know how they react to situations,
and so I think, yeah, definitely approach it with them
and then and to let us know how.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
It goes because I definitely send us an update. Yeah,
because now I'm emotionally invested here.
Speaker 4 (40:15):
Too. Yeah. Okay, but it's a hard one. It's a
very hard topic, and it's a very it's a tricky world,
that whole world.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
Do you know?
Speaker 2 (40:25):
Once I used to once I hear it is but
someone I hated, I knewest, I knew I was doing drugs,
and so I went I wanted to get them in trouble.
Speaker 3 (40:36):
As I went to the I think I was in
like I think I was in high school.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
Oh, okay, right, that's I went to the police station
and I was like, excuse me, what would happen if
someone was caught with Like.
Speaker 3 (40:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
I think it was just weird, like what would happen
if someone was caught with marijuana? What would happen to
them if they were under age? And the police officer
was like why, and I was like, I'm just I
lied and said I was doing a like project. I
was like, I'm doing a project for school, like a report,
and I just need to know and I can't find
on the internet. And then then they told me, and
then I decided that it would have been too much.
(41:11):
I can't remember what he said, but I remember deciding, Oh,
that's like kind of unfair to write.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Probably, I mean, what did they say they were going
to do to an underage I can't remember.
Speaker 2 (41:21):
I can't remember, but I remember thinking, oh, that's mean
to dub someone in Like, yes, for whatever the consequences
we're going to be.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
I'm glad your moral compass kicked in this person fair enough.
Speaker 3 (41:35):
Anyway. That's that's all for this week. If you want
to send us a something you need advice on, or
like a help or a question, I.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
Can send us an email. We don't have any email address,
send us some Instagram.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
To the emails like CEOs and.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
Which we lose one day, and we're not losing.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
Yeah, of like skims, but like our own skims or
skin skin by Jack by Jack.
Speaker 2 (42:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
Love that.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
Well, have you got anything else?
Speaker 2 (42:05):
Not?
Speaker 1 (42:05):
Really?
Speaker 4 (42:05):
I need you go get and you go out my
housemaid and find a Halloween true. I hope he hasn't
listened to the podcast.
Speaker 3 (42:14):
I don't think by the time you've told him to
get out, this won't be out yet.
Speaker 4 (42:17):
So I'm actually not I'm you know what, I don't
even have to do it. I'm gonna I'm getting the housemaid.
That's now Springsteen.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
Are you going to act a surprise like, Oh my.
Speaker 1 (42:26):
God, no, don't love please stay? Do you help me pack? No,
I'm I'm just gonna stay.
Speaker 2 (42:34):
Order the movie truck for you. No, here's the packing tape.
Oh my god, please, how many buckses do you.
Speaker 3 (42:41):
Need there in the attic? No, he's not the French one?
Speaker 1 (42:45):
No no, no, no, no no no. What's what's goodbye
and Dutch?
Speaker 3 (42:49):
Oh god, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
Okay anyway, three? Two, one?
Speaker 3 (42:53):
See next Tuesday?
Speaker 6 (42:55):
That one?
Speaker 5 (42:55):
We know it.
Speaker 4 (42:57):
Yes,
I haven't had some work done.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Yes, bitch, you have some fucking card bumps.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Yes, bitch, is my look? Yes, bitch?
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Yes what Hi heyd Hi Jacks?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
And how I'm good? Tom? How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I'm so good? I don't know why. You gave me
a really great compliment in liquid and he said I
was glowing.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
You are glowing. Are you pregnant?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
No?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
And I'm running off like literally zero sleep for the
past that what I said.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I was like, you look like you've slept. Nope.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
But I'm back into like doing proper skin care because
I was like, didn't do anything for like two weeks
because I.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Just was being really lazy.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
So I think it's back to the I'm doing the
I'm doing everything. I'm doing my roller, I'm doing. I
had a facial the other week and got like a
facial like a lymphatic massage.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
I've got you got that when they like put their
fingers like in your mouth and everything.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
That is an option that's caught a specific name. But no,
this was just like just a facial massage but fancy
and yeah, and then I'm having something done tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Are we like in prep for something? Like? Are we
is there something coming up.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
But you're like, I'm in prep for when I'm an
old person. Yeah, oh, micro needling. I'm having micro needling.
My friend runs a like a clinic and they have
this page where they just have all these like they
call them models, but they're like just test stummies, I think, right,
And they're like, hey, we need three people to do
(01:29):
micro needling on Wednesday. Who wants And it's like first
invest dress and there's not many people in the group.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
It's like a private clothes group. Yeah, and so yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
So you're like, I mean, I know, I was like
yes please.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
And then the other day so that's like tomorrow, and
then the other day they put on who wants high food?
Do what high food is?
Speaker 1 (01:44):
What type?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I don't know how to explain it, but like it's
it's basically like a face without having a face leave,
I know. And yesterday they were like, we need someone
to do high food on whatever.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Thousands of dollars.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
What's the process?
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Like, I'm really not even sure, Okay, is it likely?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Obviously skin kneedling. There's needles involved, and it's like they
put your skin and.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
My fur, so it's ultrasound non invasive skin tightening. Okay, yeah,
and so so it's basically facely. So I wanted to
get it on my neck because I don't have a loose,
saggy neck, but I just like want to tighter and snatch.
So but because I'm getting micro needling tomorrow and alreadyooked
(02:29):
in them for that, then the High Feeld was meant
to be on Tuesday and it's too close.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
So my friend the page was like, do you can't
have the High Fool as well?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
So you're gonna have to wait.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
And I was like, oh god, don't talk about cake.
I want to die.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Because I just booked a holiday to BALI really yeah,
you know, I just booked it like literally like two
days ago. I think, okay, and when you're going in December,
and so I'm like doing hashtag Barley body.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
And so I just joined a new I joined a
new gym three and a half.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Weeks because I've made I mean, I'm sure it is
a hashtag journey.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I'm just saying it to myself. I take bullybody.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yes, but there's like I joined this gym like three
and a half weeks ago and I hadn't been once.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
So I was like, join this gym and they were like, well,
you're two weeks for free.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
So the first two weeks I was like yolo, like
I'm not paying, it's free, I don't need to go whatever. Yeah,
and then last week I started paying and I was like,
that's all right, it's just the first week.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't need to go.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Then this week is the fourth week and I'm still
paying hadn't been yet. And yesterday, because the hashtag Baliybody
Journey started, I was like, right, I've got to go
to the gym and I convinced myself to go because
they have a steam room, a sauna and a cold plunge.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
A cold plunge, Oh.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
My god, it was freezing. I did it for like,
that's so good for you. I know, that's why I
wanted to do it. So I was like Sparta because
you go to the gym, and then like you have
mini Sparta in the steam room and that was great.
And then so I did the cold plunge the first time.
I only lasted ten seconds. It was freezing.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
How you meant to stay in therefore, well.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I think you meant to do like three minutes.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Like I was watching the block the other day and
the girls did an ice bath for three minutes, I know,
and I did. I came out of the steam room,
which is probably a mistake because I went from super
hot to super cold and like it was friendly. And
then I went back in five minutes later and I
managed to do almost a minute.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Which is pretty good because I have cold chowls all
the time.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
What's something to do for It's like something helps you nervously, the.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Vegus nerve, which I'm pretty sure, but it's spelt differently.
I think it's v a g u s maybe, And
it's like I'm pretty sure it's at like the back
of your neck or top of your spine or something
like that, and it's like connected to everything, and it's
to do with mental health and amazing.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
This is very general, but it's meant to do amazing
things for you.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
So I was like, get me in the cold plunged down,
but yeah, it's very cold, Oh my god. And I
forgot swimmers as well, so I were in my undies
but no one else was around.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
So no, I only wear black underwear.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Oh okay, yeah, I hate white underwear. Not that I
have this issue, but if you ever had skid mark issue,
you would be able to see them in white undies.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Okay, not realize that was where we were going with that.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Well, that's just always been my thinking, Like I was
doing like white sox, who.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Has a skid mark issue? It's got a lot of people. Yeah,
throw those underwear out if that's an issue.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
But if you're having skid marks because you're not wiping properly, like.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Ah, what.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
A lot of people. So anyway, I just have.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Literally not in primary school, primary school, kindergarten.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Yeah, but yeah, I just do the always black undies
because you can't see anything.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Thank God for that.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah. But anyways, I was in my undies but no
one was there, so it was fine. But then I
was like, that's the whole thing. Getting ready for Ballei
body Yeah, hashtag Balley body. Yeah, and that's why I've
decided bally Belling healthy. Oh my god, I praying I
don't get Barley belly. I've been reading how to not
get Balley belly and it's so.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Hard, Like, have you been to I've never been to Bali.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
When I was like ten year six or something, right,
and I just remember it being like I went with
my friend and her mum, who is like a bit
crazy but like fun crazy, and so we were like
I just remember she was like so strict about it.
Obviously you want to have like fucking diary every day? Yes,
but like you gotta brush your teeth with bottled water?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I don'thing have salad that's been washed in the water,
and then you kind of like open your mouth in
the shower And then I'm like, but what about if
you go in the pool, like do you like There's
so many.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Things that I just kept thinking about.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Oh my god, I did, but we just reckon. You
just got to go with it, roll with the punches.
Maybe forget it early. If you get it early, can
you not get it again?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I don't how it maybe like covid Well, I went
to Thailand for three weeks.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I was like, is it the same there?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Backpacking inland?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
And I think it's meant to be the same, like
similar yeah vibes, I like you brush your teeth with
bottled water? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah, I was fine.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I drink so much water though, like every day. So
I'm like, mm, true stressed about but I supposed water over.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
There is like two cents.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Yeah, it'll be fine, Okay, I'm stress that you didn't invite.
But anyway, well you can cut if you want.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Yeah, it'll get the cost down.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Yeah, I'm stressed about BALI I'm just about Halloween coming
up because I've got no costume, so many ideas.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I've got no costume as well. I'm up shit creek
without a paddle.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Actually, can I run you through my ideas of what
I thought?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, because I might pinch one of them.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Okay, well they're actually mostly all So I'm like no
one for doing amazing costumes every year, right.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Like just saying.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
And so during the year most Halloweens, I have like
at least two or three looks that I do and
I do a photo shoot and put off on Instagram
and it's a whole thing and it's great. And so
during the year I always put like down fun ideas,
like in my notes Halloween costume ideas for when it
comes to Halloween, and I usually like topical ones, like
last year I did like him in the met gala
with when she were with all the black like the
(07:49):
black what's called like morphsuit and her face was covered
and everything.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I remember Kim doing. I don't remember you posting about that.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
Yeah, I did that.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Halloween last year, and then I also did something else
I can't remember anyway, So I like doing topical things,
but it was like doing like iconic ones where everyone goes,
oh my god, remember that, and I love. My dream
has always been to do it. My dream Halloween costume
is to do the Spice Girls. But I'm every single
one of them, and so you do like mainly for
(08:21):
the photo I guess.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You can't do it in real life.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Oh okay, but then you're like someone because I don't
know how to do it. Photo shops me together to
be all five Spices girls.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
That would be fun.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
How cool would that be? But I've left it too
late and can't get all the costumes. But that's been
my dream costume for years. Next year and then I
also would really like to do same kind of vibe,
but you know on the Mean Girls poster where they're
standing in the three and then Lindsay's kind of at
the front in the big oversized pink polo shirt and
Regina George's wearing the a little bit traumatic singlerd and
like it's like.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
The iconic Mean Girls rap. I really want to do
that as well.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Well.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I played one Oh, like the movie poster. Yeah yeah, yeah, yea,
yeah yeah yah yah yah.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
That's also on the list, the list, And so.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
That would you be all four of them?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Yeah yeah yeah, okay yeah, I mean if.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
So we have like a practical person not yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
If someone wanted to do a group costume, like hilarious, amazing,
totally So this year I really wanted to either do
from the Lizzie Maguire movie Lizzy and Isabella, you know
when they're on the stage doing this is what Dreams
Are Made.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Of the Blue in the Green, but again that.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
That would be a great couple's costume. But also I
could do both, but again could I've left it too
late for the for the shoot for the but for
the costumes, you can't. It's either going to get them
made or be really resourceful, which I usually am.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
I'm like really good at quite resourceful.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, like I'm good at putting costumes together because I
like to be exact.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Those are so.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Specific and you're the busiest personal life.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Halloween's in less than a week.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Then the other one that I really really really wanted
to do this year, This is what I've been thinking
about all year. But then all of a sudden, it's
October and I don't have time. Did you have alas
high school musical? I did, obviously, okay, musical one. You
know when Ryan and Sharpey are doing Bop to the
Top and they end on that like.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Sparkly ladder the ladder.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
No, I was going to go with shar Pey and
Ryan and do the photo shoot on the ladder covered
in the gold.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Multiple people, either we do one. Well, we've left it
to you know, it's so late.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
I just don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Would you want to be sharp or obviously want to
be Okay, you could be the ladder. I pick the
ladder exactly the gold ladder.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
But how fun would that be?
Speaker 1 (10:38):
I just would be fun. I would love the Lizzie
McGuire one, I know, in such beautiful.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Should we do it next year and we could do
the couple's costume.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Absolutely. We need to get some wigs.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
Yeah, we need wigs, the full face of the green dress.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Yeah, yeah, I know. I love how into it.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
You get because I love it because I don't like
when people just do like a slutty version of something.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
I like when it's like feeling very attacked right now.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
But I know, but that's just not my vibe.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
That'll u that it suits you and it's funny when
you do it, because it's funny, and I expect.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
That it's you that's on brand. Yes, yeah, have you
got any ideas what you want to do?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Not? Really, I had this like very basic idea.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
Well originally this is like an idea through someone else
that gave me the idea I was going to do
like in drag compectress. Oh yeah, but again I've left
that too late and I can't do my own makeup
and my friend I don't want to, Like I feel
like I asked my all my friends do makeup, not
all of them.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
I've got a couple of friends that are in makeup.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Having friends that won't won't.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
They're like careers now, and I'm not going to be like,
hey can you live at You're a star two hours
on my face following they get themselves ready. So no,
I'm not going to do that. So I'm thinking I
don't know, like I was thinking going like a as
like a dead printer.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Yes, oh yeah, are you going to a party or anything?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
What's my friend's birthday? On Saturday? Is Halloween? Saturday?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Halloween is on Monday, but everyone's doing Halloween on Saturday,
which is like the twenty ninth things.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Yeah, so we're doing like a we're getting ready at
his and then we're going to go to a Haroween
at the whole Pavilion.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Oh fun.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I know.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
I know the radio awards for my real job are
on the same night, So I'm like going to the
radio awards from like six pm I think, or like
five pm. The red carpet starts and the thing starts
at six. Them out of there at ten, racing to
where I work, doing a quick change into my Halloween costume.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Wait, so what is your Halloween cost I don't know,
but I.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Just know that I'm doing the quick change into something
Oh my god, quick drag.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
And then yeah, literally and then gonna do that. Yeah,
but so it's gonna be fun.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Well, neither of us know what we're wearing, but I
know that we're gonna look fabulous.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
My housemate always has the best like idea for everything.
He always just goes.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Like some sort of colored harness, yes, some sort of
colored speeder or short shorts, and then add something so
like are you a angel?
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Put on an angel halo? Are you a sexy devil.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Put on the devil horns and a devil taiel Are
you like you are fair it? Put on wings on
the back, like yeah, he always just goes harness, short
shorts or speedo plus one accessory that works.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
I think that's going to be most of everyone.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
That always works though, But it's just my brand. I
just kind of know that.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
No, no, but I feel the same, like I feel
like a lot of my friends go all that as well,
and I feel like I feel like I normally I
don't think I go all out. I think I like
put in the minimum effort and then because like mainstream
people and I put it on Instagram and man't used
to it.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
They look at it like, look like Jack's done?
Speaker 3 (13:51):
What have you gone as before?
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (13:53):
I'm literally I don't even remember where I was. I
think I put on a blue top.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Oh my god, what I have the best idea?
Speaker 2 (14:01):
Oh my god, you should go as you auditioning on
AGT and get like the wig, get the blonde justin
beaver hair wig and get like the same sexy over here.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Oh yeah, but how funny would that be? Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
Well I was gonna I was I was actually going
to go as because my friend's got like a taco
outfit and so I was gonna wear it and go
with the Kabab singer.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yeah, but it's just this huge taco budget situation.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Did you get to keep the Massinger costume?
Speaker 1 (14:33):
No, but you sent me that and then you threw
it away.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
I wonder where though, those go? Like where are those costumes?
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Do you record? I don't know, but it was huge
and it was so heavy.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
God, that would be the ultimate Halloween costume.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
But it would be funny if you did, like you
could do like, oh my god, so you should do
get the really great high res image of you as
Kebab on the mask singer, and then do you in
the Halloween costume and then that meme where you go
what you ordered versus what arrives?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
Do you know that that would be That would be funny.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
That would be very funny. But then what do I
do for like.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Outfit?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
No? No, no?
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Oh okay, so you mean like get a carbo cut out?
No no, no, I'll just just get the photo. And this
is for Instagram. You're saying, yes, okay, right.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Oh yeah, yeah for Instagram Instagram.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
I know, yeah, but that would be funny. That was
what you ordered and then you swipe and it's.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Actually I need to show you.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
To be standing like in a back alleyway in the
taco outfit.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I need to show you this photo. Actually, Oh you
put it on? Yeah, I tried it on.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
Can we please?
Speaker 1 (15:39):
I went to my friend's costume box.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Can we please make this a meme on the Haydo Instagram.
Speaker 4 (15:44):
What you ordered versus Oh my god, you like the
chili necklace?
Speaker 3 (15:49):
Yes, because it adds to how bad it is. And
also it's the shortest Tarco outfit.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
I can wear it with a pair of pumps.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Oh no, I mean like it's so short you can
like basically looks like you've got just a T shirt
of Oh my god, please send that to me right now.
I'm going to wait until you've sent it. I want
to hear the notification on everything, and I'm going to
make that meme. Guys, make sure you go and look
at what you ordered verset water arrived. It's going to
be so funny. Oh yeah, air dropping it Okay, good quality,
(16:18):
that's oh god.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
Now it's going to it's a live photo as well.
Shit or anyway, Yeah, I wait, I don't know. I
might go, you know, that could be my daytime look,
and then I need a nighttime look. I'll stop, I'll
take the Taco bout foot off. Think about that foot off,
and then.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
I'll have that under just a harness and a jock strap.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Maybe let's see how we go.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
That'd be fun. Though I'm excited for Halloween. I always
love Halloween.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
It is it's always a fun time. I'm actually stressed
through because like, I've got something coming up before Halloween
that I need your advice. I'm going on a date
for the first time in.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Years one year, No, I'd say probably.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (17:00):
I think after my ex, which is like four and
a half years ago, I went on a few dates. Yeah,
and then since then, I just haven't been on a
date in four years.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
I'd say probably four years. Yeah. Oh my, I just
haven't been open to it.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Okay, well I'm really good advice. So what what advice
do you need?
Speaker 1 (17:19):
I don't know. I don't know how to flirt.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
I feel like i'm very much you know what it is.
I feel I like to make people feel comfortable. Yeah,
and so I feel like I go into this mode
of like trying to make people feel comfortable, which gives,
which gives in which, well, no, maybe, but it's it's
I feel like it just it's almost an automatic friend zone.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Okay, so you're worried about friend zoning this person.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
I just act like a friend very quickly.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Yeah, so it's like you're acting like myself maybe because
you don't Yeah, okay, so what do you say?
Speaker 3 (17:50):
You're not good at flirting.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
I'm not good at flirting. I'm not good. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
I just like, what are you What would be like
hot tips for like someone going on a date for
the first time, and yeah, have.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
You met the person before?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Maybe?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Okay, that's a good start.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
It's not going to be awkward, Like it's not like
you've met someone on like Tinder and it's gonna be
awkward because you're gonna try me.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Like, hey, you don't look like your photo.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Yeah, and the awkward music in the background. Yeah, that's
already good that you know that you know him, So
that's good.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
I would say, like maybe dress kind of not like slutty,
but like dressed nicely, but like that make it obviously
you put in an effort.
Speaker 6 (18:34):
Yeah, like a few buttons open. May you put on
a bit of face, not like full beat Jacqueline Jacqueline Shane.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Yeah, no, just like a bit a bit.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Of like.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
He's like, I was going on a date with a guy.
Why are you a lady?
Speaker 4 (18:56):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Put it like dress like like just just a bit
of face so you like you've got a good skin,
but like you know, see you look good a facial
after this great? Is it going to be obviously during
the day, during the in a restaurant at night so
lighting will be dim or is it during the day.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
I'm not sure yet.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Don't say it's like in a park in the middle
of the day because that lighting.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
We're tying down between a lunch and dinner right now, do.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Dinner because it'll be dark. The lighting in the restaurant
will be low, and then you don't have to worry
about daylight.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
There we go. Are we worried about daylight?
Speaker 3 (19:27):
Well, because you're like bad lighting?
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Ah?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
True? Yeah, overhead lighting, Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
And if you've got a bit of face on, you
can tell in the daylight where you can't telling dim
restaurant lighting. Do you know what I have done before
is in your phone? Just think of like, because I'm
always worried about a lulling conversation, even with like with like, okay,
if I gout with a friend or like a new friend,
I'm worried about a lull in conversation.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
That stresses me out.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
So I always think ahead and like writing notes in
my phone, just like a couple of talking points too, yeah,
and like I would remember, like I usually remember them,
but if I don't, I'll.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
Be like, and there's a lull, I'll be like, I'm
just going to it. I'll be right back. Then you
go and check the list of your talking points, be
like we can cover that.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
We covered that, Oh yeah, whatever the trippy wind you organized?
Speaker 3 (20:11):
Yeah, it's really good so it doesn't get awkward and
there's no lull in the conversation.
Speaker 4 (20:16):
Oh my god, I'm definitely going to I think that's
one of my ones that i'm like stressed about because
I find it weird talking about my life as well,
because I've got a very strange life.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
Especially on a date when you're like, what do you do? Like, imagine,
let's roll play. Okay, So I'm like, oh my god,
how good is this brush shutter?
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Do you like her?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
It's so good anyway, So what do you do? Tell
me about you?
Speaker 5 (20:39):
One's the thing I think already knows what I do,
Like I don't know, you have to, but then he
would I never get to tell people what I do,
and I never I would just even say what I
do when I do get to say what I do,
because I don't know even what I do.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Okay, So let's work it out.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
So because I of course he'll probably know, but he's
asking you, so he wants.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
You to elaborate.
Speaker 6 (20:57):
So here we go.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Pick it up with especials are good. So what do
you do for work?
Speaker 1 (21:03):
I do a few things. I like what.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
I'm interacting my guys.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
Oh my god, I'm not okay, I need to get
this together.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
So what like, like, what do you work in an office?
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Or yeah, I work full time in an office.
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Now I know I'm a singer originally, Oh wow, that's cool. Yeah,
I've been singing for about like ten years now, eleven.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
Years, like weddings or like.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
This, and this this is to be fair, this is
usually the point where this comes up in a conversation
or well, when I had dates back in the day, yeah,
it would kind of at this stage, i'd be like, oh,
like I want to show when I was young, and
then that's kind of like what got me into it,
and they'd be like, oh, what showed you win? And
then it's always at this point people go weird.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Okay, so leave out the show. So you're a.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Singer, I'm a singer. I'm a wedding singer.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
No, no, because you don't want to lie.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
That's not the truth.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
Just you just have to pick the bits that are
the truth that don't need the other stuff, so you
don't need to say. You're on a multiple multiple, multiple,
multiple TV shows and okay, and so you're seeing great
what about like have you ever done like TV or anything?
Or oh wait, don't know, I'm leading you down the
garden path. What about like what what have you got
on for the rest of the year?
Speaker 3 (22:19):
The challenge?
Speaker 4 (22:20):
I don't want to I don't really want to tell
you about that. But then I'm like, what the fuck
else is there?
Speaker 3 (22:24):
But honest, I'm going to be on this TV show.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
I don't want them to watch that.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
They will be.
Speaker 1 (22:34):
By the way I want to talk about I'm going
to cancel this date.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
No, don't cancel it. I think I've given you some
good tips, look sexy. Lick of face, but not too much,
not Jacqueline.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
What, No, a lick of face, not lick their face.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
No, lively their face the day it goes well, But
a lick, a little little splatter of face. Write some things,
some talking points in your phone.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Pretty Jesus brace season.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
Actually, speaking of the.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Challenge, what you just said before, Like, obviously the show's
when is it out?
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Do you know the dates announced?
Speaker 5 (23:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (23:10):
I think you.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
Actually, no, it hasn't. I don't think that the airing
date has been announced. I and it's November, because it's
coming November, Okay, Yeah, because I saw the thing come out,
like I saw the trailer come out, which, by the way,
I need, like I need lessons in makeup because I.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
I look so yellow.
Speaker 4 (23:29):
I look bright yellow in the fucking trailer in my interviews, yes,
and I'm hoping that's not how I look in all
of it. I need to chat to my friend Brandon
about how to do make up. Make Yeah, because like
I just you know what, I was in such a
rush to get to the airport to leave for Argentina.
I grabbed this stupid little skin tint thing that I've got,
which I never used, and I was like, oh this
(23:50):
is way fine, It's good at the moment, and it
just it destroyed my life.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
So wait, hang on, let me Jack Fitche and partner
comes up when you search on anyone Instagram on Google.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
It's like the third part check partner.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
M is that a prophecy?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
I hear it is?
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Yeah, oh there you are. But yeah, it is a
little bit yellow, but it could just be the filter
they've put on the trailer. Maybe you do have a
little bit of a yellow glow, but I think it
might just be the background that's behind you.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Was that on a green screen?
Speaker 4 (24:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:27):
I think it might be the background behind you, which
is like the blue fake steel like wall of the challenge,
and then like maybe the lighting and also a filter.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Well, I need to talk to production because going.
Speaker 3 (24:41):
To need to reshoot all of my interview.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
I have to go back to Argentina because I didn't
have a good face.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Get me on the next flight out.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
So what do you need to do?
Speaker 4 (24:49):
You?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
Do you wear my makeup day to day?
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Am I wearing makeup?
Speaker 5 (24:53):
Now?
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Well?
Speaker 3 (24:54):
I don't know are you asking me?
Speaker 1 (24:56):
No? Did you ask? Is that what you asked me?
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Like?
Speaker 3 (24:58):
Do you wear day to day like, do you know today?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Like I don't know. I just don't.
Speaker 4 (25:02):
I feel like I've had so much makeup over the years. Yeah,
and but it's just never I don't know, it's never right,
I I always you know.
Speaker 1 (25:09):
What it is.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
I used to always go for the very like dried
up prune Matt look like I would know you go
for the and now it will just because my skin's
naturally a bit more dewey now and I've just embraced that.
Speaker 3 (25:23):
Yeah, the jewey look jewish. I think suits you.
Speaker 4 (25:25):
Yeah, I think so, even though someone came up to
me on day night and I looked like I was
sweatings again again with people coming up and ruining your
night in a club.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
But you know, I think it's good.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
But I think if you learn how to do a face.
But athough it's TV makeup.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
It is, I don't know. We will add to our
own for our master interviews. It's fine.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
God, they just have a budget for makeup artist.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
No, you need to take I need to be looped
in your contract negotiations style because you're not.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
On Amy class. No makeup harder, go backwards forward.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
It's been filmed, It's done all.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Right, we have got more letters that people have been
sending in for dear Dold, and we did it last week.
I do we asked for We did a call out
sending we're going to do advice. We're very unqualified, but
I think I've got I gave you good advice for
that date just then.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
I think, so yeah, I'm going to take them on board.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
Great, Well, we've got some deer dolls people have written
and we're going to do them next Yes, get.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
Okay, we have our first dear do here, Thomas just
handing me the piece of paper.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
If you want to send us a letter by the way,
or like a little message about something you need help with,
all like advice on hey dog pod on Instagram. Absolutely yeah,
slide into the DMS.
Speaker 3 (26:58):
This is where these are from. And you could say
anonymous by the way.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
M yeah, well it wouldn't be anonymous Instagram thing.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
I mean, like we won't say yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Fo one hundred percent.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
Okay, go hey dolls, Love you bitches, and hopefully you
read this because I need your help. I've moved in
with my best friend and I hate it. In caup
of letters, It's only been about six weeks and I
already want to move out. He's MESSI never cleans up
after himself, leaves his stuff in the washing machine for days.
And also we share a bathroom and he always shaves
and leaves it all in the sink, which makes me
want to vomit. Oh, he's so gross.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Triggered by that. I'm triggered by that.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
He's so gross. But I do love him as a person.
I just can't live with him. I am legit in
cap of letters thinking of moving out, but don't want
to lie to him. Also, I hate his cat because
it stinks, and I think I'm a learning What do
I do and what do I tell him? Please help me?
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Love you? He slash him. Oh cute, Okay, I love
a pronoun Um.
Speaker 3 (27:54):
Well you live. We both live with friends currently. Yes,
do you want to go first?
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (27:58):
And I'm hoping my current housemate does not listen to
this podcast. I'm going to spill the tea. So we're
giving one of my current housemates their three weeks notice today.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Actually, have you done it or no? Not yet? When
we live the post, how many power do you live with?
It's a complicated situation.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
So I live with two others, one of them has
gone away for a few weeks, for a few months.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
The nurse doing a great thing doat regionally.
Speaker 4 (28:27):
Yes, so we've got someone to a couple of people
to move in because there's a third bedroom as well
when he moved out, so there's there two more people
who are both foreign, a gorgeous French girl and then
another guy who I won't go into details about, but
basically everything you're describing in this list, the guy does. Yeah,
(28:49):
and I've just I've just been like grinning and bearing it.
But because I've known that my other housemates coming back
and that we're going to keep the French girl, who's
absolutely durable, right and us.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
So someone was in the nurse's bedroom while he was away, Yes.
Speaker 4 (29:03):
The French girl gotcha, okay, and then the other third
bedroom we had another person coming. It's making sense, yes, yes,
but that guy, the third person is basically yeah, everything
that you've mentioned this list, like dirty dishes, all that
kind of stuff, and yeah, just give him the ships.
And so yeah, we're going to give him a three
weeks notice today. What advice do I have move out?
(29:27):
I know I can't because that will ruin that we
ruin a friendship. Yeah, I just ruined some of my
friendships in the past.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Me too.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
I was going to say, I've lived with a couple
of friends over the years and we break. We're better now,
but it's been years and years and years. But at
the time, at the end of the twelve months, I
wanted to murder them. It happened a couple of times.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
I've wanted still.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
Friends with them.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
We are now, So we saved the friendship, yes, because
we moved out. Yeah, and I think but I have
a very high standard of living.
Speaker 3 (30:02):
No, well, it's not a high standard of living. It's
a very normal standard of living.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
But I think it's quite a high standard of living. Well, yeah,
you live quite nicely.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
But it's not the same.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
I like things clean and in order, and I think
a lot of people don't have the same, which is
blows my mind to me, like it's meant to how
people don't have the same.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
It depends where you're out in life.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
Because when I was about twenty one, I think I
was a bit of I was a bit gross the
same like when you're just like on rinse and repeat,
going out, coming home. Like when I first moved to
the city, I think I was a bit that person,
to be honest, But now I'm very much the opposite.
I think we're very much the same. Yeah, very clean,
everything has a place and everything, yes place.
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
So the couple of times we've like moved out because
it was the end of the least and I've been like,
thank god that we didn't speak for a couple of
months and then we became friends.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
We like mate.
Speaker 2 (30:47):
We never had a huge fight, but like I was,
I was off them. I don't even think they had
an issue, right, both people?
Speaker 1 (30:54):
Did they talk? Do they tell that you were off them?
Speaker 2 (30:56):
Yes? One definitely good okay, and yeah, so I think
it's saved for me because it's like the also like
I have always always had weird hours compared to the
other people I lived with, Like I've either been working
at night or early in the morning, and so like
when you do, it's like you you're home a lot
during the day, so you if someone's left their mess there,
(31:19):
you're living in someone else's mess, which is infuriating. So
for me it's like either I am like coming home
in the middle of the day and the person would
have left their mess ale and then I'm like, well
I've come home at like midday and then I've got
to spend the next nine hours until I got to
bed sitting in your filth, which is unfair. Or if
I would like vice versa five, I was like coming
(31:39):
back if I was working at night, I would come
home at night and then go to bed and wake
up in the morning and then have to live with
it all morning and all day until I would leave it,
like in the afternoon to go to work.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
It's just really rude. I get really annoyed when.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
People don't think of like you're in a shared space
and you don't want to be awkward and don't want
to have confrontation because I hate confrontation, but it's like
not good if you're trying to live with the person,
you don't want to make it awkward, Like how do
you bring it up well?
Speaker 4 (32:03):
And that's where you're like communications key, you need to
like you need to nip things in the butt. After
living with a few people, now like that's the conversation
that I hadn't and like to be. To be fair,
every time I have felt that kind of resentment building up.
Now with this current person, I've I've as soon as
he does something where it's like not okay, I will
(32:24):
just nip it a button and say, look, this.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
Is a situation, okay, blah blah blah. Yeah, but open
communication is key.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
But also I think really gross stuff is one hundred percent.
You have to call that like shaving and leaving all
the beard in the sink.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
Is dims just musting.
Speaker 3 (32:39):
Especially if it's community, it's MESSI never cleans up.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
After himself, leaves stuff in the washing machine for days.
And also we share a bathroom and always shaves and
leaves is here in the sink here and sink.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
Also the washing machine thing, like, it's like leaving dishes
in the sink. It's a communal thing that people have
to use. Take your shit out, put it in the
fucking dryer, and then once the cycle is done in
an hour, Yeah, take it and put it away because
other people have to, especially if you're living with like
more than one person.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
That's happening at home right now.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
No, no, but it has happened before.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Yeah anyway, Okay, So I hope that. I hope that
communication is key.
Speaker 4 (33:16):
It's hard, though, if you've been living together a little
bit now and you haven't had that culture of open communication,
it's hard then all of a sudden, lacks start that
it's just from one side, so maybe move out.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
But yeah, yeah, god, it's only been six weeks, so
that six weeks.
Speaker 1 (33:33):
Lovey bitches, where's it saying? Oh it's six weeks. Oh shit,
kick came out.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
That's early enough to kick to nip it in the butt.
I think, yeah, to bring it on the.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
But if that doesn't work, like if you don't, if
you have the conversation of open communication, it doesn't work,
kick him out or you move out.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Yeah, or I've got one too.
Speaker 6 (33:51):
Ready.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
This sound's a bit more full on, but I think
it will. Okay, let me just read it.
Speaker 2 (33:56):
Okay, Dear my favorite dolls, you have to say when
you write to us because it's the segment name dear doll. Okay,
wanting your advice on confronting my friend who I'm pretty
sure is becoming a drug addict. She always used to
take drugs when we were in our early twenties, but
it was just on the weekend and at parties. Now
she tells me that she's doing cocaine during the week
(34:18):
almost every night, and even does a bump or two
for small things she has to do, like cleaning the
house or walking her dog. How do I confront her
about it? I'm worried she is spiraling out of control
and want to help her, but don't know how Jack,
You've always been very open about your struggles and going
to get help, so I wanted to do the same
for her, and wondering if your friends, if your friends
did anything for you. Can't wait to hear advice. Lara
(34:39):
in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (34:40):
My God, a New Zealand.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Listen, you're hi, Lara, You're a queen. Wow, that one is.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, it's a bit heavier that one. Well, I mean,
I guess personally my friends, I don't think just being
very open honest, I don't know if i'm and I'm
very open to the idea that I'm an addict, but
I think I've from trauma. I've abused substances that because
I haven't dealt with things right. Whether that means I'm
an adict or not I'm an addict, I'm not like
(35:06):
in denial. I'm not like I'm saying I'm an adict.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
I'm still working life out, but I've definitely abused things
in the past because of undealt with stuff, and I
think I think that got more and more hectic for
me over the years, and my friends could see that
happening and they but I think we're all at an
age as well that kind of like we were all
experimenting with different things, and then it was they could
just see it I was getting a bit more carried
away than they were.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
So they did like not call you out, but like
they would always check.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah, they would always see.
Speaker 4 (35:36):
Because I'm also someone like if someone, especially in that
kind of a scenario, someone tells me to do something,
I will absolutely do the opposite, right, I'd be like
fuck you, Like my little like inner rebel will come out.
Speaker 2 (35:48):
So like if someone's like, if you're like already blind
drunk and you're trying to order another drink to be
like you just have some water, you'd be like.
Speaker 4 (35:53):
Yeah, yeah, a hundred percent right, yeah, And this is
that's pre rehab. But to be honest, like when things
start getting really hectic for me, my family and everything sore, right,
and because I was living with my mum, so she
would like she'd see you could see what was going on,
and she they my family staged a bit of an
(36:13):
intervention and I went to rehab, Like they said, we're
gonna to rehab, and I went to rehab. So But
in terms of the friendships situation or my friends, I
think they I feel very, very fortunate because I never
felt judged. Any of my close friends were always there
if I needed them, and I'm not really someone that
(36:36):
has ever lack. I don't think I have emotionally unloaded
on people before, but I'm not. I tend to isolate
more than lack. Need to talk about it, like I'll
talk about with my mum and my therapist, but like
with friends, it's.
Speaker 1 (36:47):
Not so much. It's not my go to. But I
just know if I ever do need them that they'll
be there for me and that they've been there for me. Yeah,
so that would be I don't know if that's any advice.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
I think that is important.
Speaker 2 (37:00):
I think that was kind of good advice because you
have you're saying like you have to look out. Definitely,
it's not being a bad friend.
Speaker 1 (37:06):
It's not responsibility as well, that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Yeah, But like I think if you don't say anything,
it's more being a bad friend than if you do
say something, because at least if you do say something,
you're like, well, I tried, I do want to help you,
and that person can either want to.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Take the help or action is Yeah, but if you don't.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
Say anything and it gets worse, then I think that's
being a bad friend because you're like you haven't helped
or hindered.
Speaker 3 (37:28):
You've just done like literally nothing about it.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (37:31):
So even if they're gonna if you call them out or.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
Like address it and bring up with them and they
get mad at you, at least you know that you tried, Yes,
don't you think?
Speaker 1 (37:39):
Yeah, hundred percent.
Speaker 4 (37:41):
I think I was just more the in the more
denial part back in the day and more I was
getting angry at people kind of bring it up. So
I think my friends knew they're not to kind of
approach it in that way. They have more of a
software approach. Otherwise I I used to really used to
blow up. Yeah, get very I get quiet.
Speaker 1 (37:58):
If someone would tell me.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
You probably as well. Don't want to be called out
about it.
Speaker 1 (38:01):
Like absolutely not.
Speaker 4 (38:02):
I was not.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
I was not ready to be called out about it,
especially by because also it was.
Speaker 4 (38:06):
With I needed, I needed family, I needed so feel
like it was coming from like a bit more of
a yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (38:13):
Well, maybe on that if you're.
Speaker 2 (38:17):
Your friend okay, they don't say I don't don't say
if they live together or not, but their friends. So
like maybe if you know your friend's mum, if it's
like really bad, yeah, and you think like it's beyond
like a friend being like.
Speaker 3 (38:29):
Are you okay?
Speaker 2 (38:30):
Maybe it is like if you're genuine hundred hundreds iment worried,
like you go to the person's moument like hey, and
like tell them what's going on, because the parents obviously
gonna care. They're gonna want to help and get help,
maybe like your family did.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
And it's like it's true.
Speaker 4 (38:43):
But also at the same time, a couple of my friends,
I think, well, maybe I think it was my mum
don't breaking out to my friends, and they were like,
is Jack okay? Like cause I think my I think
was almost opposite in that scenario. And then I would
get very angry if there was any communication about the
topic between friends.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
Well, because if you're doing not you but like if
you're being naughty and doing stuff you shouldn't, you don't
want your parents to find.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
Out exactly, And that's what especially, I mean, I was
living with my mum and so I was like, just
shit talking, hit the fans, people start talking to each other.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
But they're not Your parents are not going to be
angry if you if they find out you're doing drugs,
they would much rather get help and live and dive
an overdose. So like they're going to get over it
in the end. They want it, going to want to
help you get better. So yeah, I would I would say,
would you agree? I would say address, bring it up
with your friend? Yeah, hey, are you okay?
Speaker 4 (39:32):
I think maybe there's a bit of an issue and
the most empathetic and compassionate way you can and the
most understanding, non judgmental.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
Maybe if there's a close group of you, get all
the girls together. Is this a girl, Lara? Get all
the girls together and be like, you know, maybe there's
a group of four.
Speaker 2 (39:48):
Of you and it's one to get all the other
three girls like, don't do it as in like an
intervention where you're all sitting on that side of a dimment.
Speaker 4 (39:55):
But like, hey, Bay, we think you know, you'll know
your friend and you'll know how they react to situations,
and so I think, yeah, definitely approach it with them
and then and to let us know how.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
It goes because I definitely send us an update. Yeah,
because now I'm emotionally invested here.
Speaker 4 (40:15):
Too. Yeah. Okay, but it's a hard one. It's a
very hard topic, and it's a very it's a tricky world,
that whole world.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
Do you know?
Speaker 2 (40:25):
Once I used to once I hear it is but
someone I hated, I knewest, I knew I was doing drugs,
and so I went I wanted to get them in trouble.
Speaker 3 (40:36):
As I went to the I think I was in
like I think I was in high school.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
I wasn't.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
Oh, okay, right, that's I went to the police station
and I was like, excuse me, what would happen if
someone was caught with Like.
Speaker 3 (40:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
I think it was just weird, like what would happen
if someone was caught with marijuana? What would happen to
them if they were under age? And the police officer
was like why, and I was like, I'm just I
lied and said I was doing a like project. I
was like, I'm doing a project for school, like a report,
and I just need to know and I can't find
on the internet. And then then they told me, and
then I decided that it would have been too much.
(41:11):
I can't remember what he said, but I remember deciding, Oh,
that's like kind of unfair to write.
Speaker 1 (41:17):
Probably, I mean, what did they say they were going
to do to an underage I can't remember.
Speaker 2 (41:21):
I can't remember, but I remember thinking, oh, that's mean
to dub someone in Like, yes, for whatever the consequences
we're going to be.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
I'm glad your moral compass kicked in this person fair enough.
Speaker 3 (41:35):
Anyway. That's that's all for this week. If you want
to send us a something you need advice on, or
like a help or a question, I.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
Can send us an email. We don't have any email address,
send us some Instagram.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
To the emails like CEOs and.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
Which we lose one day, and we're not losing.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
Yeah, of like skims, but like our own skims or
skin skin by Jack by Jack.
Speaker 2 (42:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
Love that.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
Well, have you got anything else?
Speaker 2 (42:05):
Not?
Speaker 1 (42:05):
Really?
Speaker 4 (42:05):
I need you go get and you go out my
housemaid and find a Halloween true. I hope he hasn't
listened to the podcast.
Speaker 3 (42:14):
I don't think by the time you've told him to
get out, this won't be out yet.
Speaker 4 (42:17):
So I'm actually not I'm you know what, I don't
even have to do it. I'm gonna I'm getting the housemaid.
That's now Springsteen.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
Are you going to act a surprise like, Oh my.
Speaker 1 (42:26):
God, no, don't love please stay? Do you help me pack? No,
I'm I'm just gonna stay.
Speaker 2 (42:34):
Order the movie truck for you. No, here's the packing tape.
Oh my god, please, how many buckses do you.
Speaker 3 (42:41):
Need there in the attic? No, he's not the French one?
Speaker 1 (42:45):
No no, no, no, no no no. What's what's goodbye
and Dutch?
Speaker 3 (42:49):
Oh god, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
Okay anyway, three? Two, one?
Speaker 3 (42:53):
See next Tuesday?
Speaker 6 (42:55):
That one?
Speaker 5 (42:55):
We know it.
Speaker 4 (42:57):
Yes,
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