I’m lost, so what?
The podcast exploring between “belonging” and carving your own path. “How long will it take to be successful?” “Don’t you think you should…” “When does this whole thing get easier?” “So you… don’t know what you’re doing?” Existential questions that plague our every day, especially as multicultural, hyphenated-folx who are between belonging and carving our own paths. I’m lost, so what? podcast shares bi-weekly episodes to explore the nuance and gray areas of life, culture, identity, work, and simply existing. Join me, Cassandra Le, Speaker, Writer, and Founder of The Quirky Pineapple Studio, and our multicultural, global community, for sassy conversations around belonging, relationships, self-love, business, and kinda knowing what you’re doing but questioning everything you’re doing. I’m lost, so what? is for folx who feel lost in their careers, identities, and dare we say... life. Who want to define their own path and rules. These conversations alongside multicultural guests and experts probably won’t give you answers, but hopefully, share new perspectives to decide on your own. P.S. Want exclusive access to more personal musings from me and our guests? We’d love to have you join the conversation - head to the show notes to sign up for the “Doing Good” newsletter.
Episodes
*CONTENT WARNING: We talk about auto-immune diseases and ableism, diet culture, and depression.
An intercultural and international relationship, choosing to work with your partner, and the power dynamics of all that - this episode invites you to join in on the conversation with my partner, Mario Pérez Fernández, and hear HIS perspective 👫
Over the years, I’ve built a personal brand that brings my partner to the spotlight whene...
“I’m really grateful for our relationship…”
Ever have that thought with someone in your life when you’re up at 3am having heart-to-heart conversations and it just hits you like…
WHOA.
This moment, right here and now, is the good stuff.
This person, right here and now, just gets me and gets it.
This relationship, right here and now, makes me feel seen, heard, held, and like I belong… even when I’m doing my own thing.
It ...
In the season final of the I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra is getting existential and asking you and the community…
- What is the purpose of life? 🙃
- And what is your purpose in life? ✨
COVID, the last three years (2020-2023), the world being on fire, human rights and social justice issues being pushed to the side and forgotten… and the wariness we’re all f...
🏠 Is home a place, feeling, person… or something else?
In episode 11 of the I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra explores the concept of ‘home’ - especially being raised in dual cultures, Vietnamese-American, and now living in another culture, Spain.
She explores the ideas of:
- Ethnocentrism
- Assimilation
- Building a home
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Maybe you ARE a bitch… and maybe I am one, too… 💀
In episode 10 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra dives into people-pleasing and the different sides of being a people-pleaser or someone who takes on everyone else’s shit. In this episode, Cassandra talks about:
- What it’s like being a people-pleaser
- Where people-pleasing can come from (culturally)
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So you want to share more of your story - WE’RE HERE FOR IT! 🎉
The next questions we usually get are…
- What stories should I share?
- How much of my story should I share?
- How do I get over imposter syndrome?
- Will people really care?
In episode 09 of the I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra dives into ALL ...
For all the people who don’t have ‘one core friend group’, and instead float between multiple friend groups - THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU (aka US!) 👯♀️
In episode 08 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra dives into the evolution of friendships as an adult living abroad and what it’s been like being a “floater”.
If you’ve ever dealt with the difficulty of:
- Making friends as an adult
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You’re doing yourself a disservice by hiding all the time 😓
In episode 07 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra brings back “Sassy Cassie” for some real talk about what it’s like to ‘hide’ from yourself and your greatness. No, this is not some ‘self-help’ and ‘empowerment’ talk (well maybe, it is a little)...
This is the episode for you if you’ve ever felt overlooked, resentful, and… well, hiding.
Cassandra covers:
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How well do you really know that person you follow online? 👀
In episode 06 of I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra dives into the very interesting dynamic of parasocial relationships - what they are, how they manifest in our lives, and how our current Internet-driven and social media-driven culture has shifted parasocial relationships.
In this episode, Cassandra talks about:
- What are parasocia...
Who said we had to get it right the first time we do things? 😬
In episode 05 of I’m lost, so what? podcast, Cassandra gives a very real look at all the times she had to ‘start over’ and from zero - whether that’s from choosing her degree in college, moving abroad, reinventing herself, or reorganizing her business…
Cassandra talks about:
- Her experiences starting over
How do you learn to love who you were and are becoming at the same time? 🖤
If you’ve ever experienced a large gap in ‘who you are’ and ‘who you want to be’ - this episode is for you. We’re getting existential and meta around identity deaths, grieving, and making space for all we are supposed to be!
In episode 04 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra shares her personal experience around ‘identity’ and realizing that who she was was ...
Are you the niche/brand? 👀
In the world of Creators, influencers, thought leaders, and personal brands - one trend is growing in popularity and that’s the “anti-niche” Creator. What does that mean? That you don’t have a niche, you ‘are’ the niche… or you ‘are’ your brand.
In episode 03 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra explores this concept with a critical and anti-capitalist lens and how being the ‘niche’ and ‘brand’ is actuall...
✨ The existential questions that no one asks before they tell you to get visible…
Getting visible - either personally or professionally - is an act of courage, yet a lot of the inspirational and motivational quotes and images we see on Instagram and Pinterest don’t explore the nuance and layers of visibility… especially for Black, Indigenous, People of Color, Queer folx, and more.
In episode 02 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra d...
Are we the lost generation? 👀
In this first episode of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra explores what is the ‘lost generation’ throughout history and what the term means to her today. She also shares a whole ‘full-circle’ moment as to why the podcast was created, why the name was picked, and the goal of this new creative experiment!
In this episode, Cassandra covers
- Who is part of the ‘lost generat...
“How long will it take to be successful?”
“Don’t you think you should…”
“When does this whole thing get easier?”
“So you… don’t know what you’re doing?”
Existential questions that plague our everyday, especially as multicultural, hyphenated-folx who are between belonging and carving our own paths.
I'm lost, so what? podcast shares bi-weekly episodes to explore the nuance and gray areas of life, culture, identity, work, and simply e...
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