Resilience, Leadership, and Positive Change in Challenging Times (S4) S41:E1

Welcome to the Inspirations for Your Life Podcast, hosted by John C. Morley—Serial Entrepreneur, Engineer, Marketing Specialist, Video Producer, Podcast Host, Podcast Coach, and passionate lifelong learner. Every week, I guide you through the powerful lessons adversity and uncertainty have to offer, sharing how each challenge can unlock new strengths and lead to a life filled with resilience and unstoppable motivation. Today, let’s explore how to navigate adversity and uncertainty—turning obstacles into pathways and setbacks into fuel for remarkable comebacks.

1️⃣ Adversity reveals hidden strengths. Often, we never know what we’re truly capable of until life hands us a challenge. Adversity strips away comfort, uncovering reserves of grit, adaptability, and resourcefulness. When the going gets tough, our inner strengths appear—ready to lead us through.

2️⃣ Uncertainty forces creative thinking. Unpredictable moments require us to invent new solutions and approaches. When the path ahead gets hazy, innovation steps in. It’s these times of uncertainty that inspire our minds to break old habits, experiment freely, and discover ideas we never would have explored otherwise.

3️⃣ Growth happens outside your comfort zone. Staying in familiar territory feels safe, but true progress demands we venture into the unknown. Growth is born from embracing discomfort, risking mistakes, and learning from every new experience. That’s where transformation begins.

4️⃣ Every setback is a setup for a comeback. Each time life knocks us down, it offers a chance to get up—smarter, wiser, and stronger than before. Setbacks aren’t permanent; they are the launching pad for future success. They teach us to pivot, persist, and come back more determined.

5️⃣ Tough times teach resilience. Real endurance develops in hardship. When we weather storms, we grow our resilience—capable of bouncing back, learning from failure, and meeting future challenges with confidence.

6️⃣ Clarity emerges from chaos. Chaos tends to clarify our priorities. Amid the confusion, important truths and goals rise to the surface. Navigating through disorder helps us crystalize what matters, sharpen our focus, and take meaningful action.

7️⃣ The unknown is where breakthroughs begin. Some of the greatest opportunities are found when we step into territory that feels uncertain. Breakthroughs happen beyond our comfort zone—where creativity, discovery, and bold ideas thrive in the unfamiliar.

8️⃣ Courage and fear show up together—choose courage. Courage isn’t the absence of fear; it’s the decision to move forward anyway. In moments of adversity, courage is what powers our progress. When fear and bravery appear side by side, choosing courage sets miracles in motion.

9️⃣ Flexibility beats frustration when plans change. Change is inevitable, and the way we handle it shapes our journey. Flexibility allows us to adapt, recalibrate, and stay positive—turning frustration into opportunity and keeping us open to new directions.

🔟 Faith in your vision fuels persistence. Uncertainty can shake our resolve, but clear vision and unwavering belief motivate us to keep going. Faith in your mission or purpose gives you the stamina to persist through every obstacle and keep your eyes on what really matters.

1️⃣1️⃣ Small wins build momentum through tough stretches. Progress often comes from celebrating small victories. When times are hard, recognizing each accomplishment—even tiny ones—adds up to powerful momentum. That momentum helps propel you forward toward even greater triumphs.

1️⃣2️⃣ Challenges separate intentions from commitment. When life gets difficult, genuine commitment stands out from mere hope or intention. Adversity tests our resolve—do we stick to our goals, or do we let them go? Real commitment shines in the face of hardship.

1️⃣3️⃣ Focusing on solutions shrinks problems. Problems grow when we dwell on them; they shrink when we focus on solutions. Adversity demands actionable thinking, prompting us to shift perspective and start solving rather than worrying.

1️⃣4️⃣ Support networks are strongest in hard times. Friends, family, mentors—they matter most when things are difficult. Adversity brings people together, proving that we’re never alone. Strong relationships offer encouragement, accountability, and collaboration for brighter solutions.

1️⃣5️⃣ Learning never stops when adapting. Adversity is a crash course in flexibility and problem solving. Challenges keep our minds engaged, opening us up to ongoing learning and skill-building throughout every new twist and turn of our journey.

1️⃣6️⃣ Gratitude turns obstacles into opportunities. Gratitude is the lens that reframes every challenge. When we look for the lesson or the hidden blessing, we transform obstacles into valuable opportunities for growth.

1️⃣7️⃣ Strong boundaries protect focus from distractions. Toug

Episode Transcript

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to everybody.
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2025.
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show because this is another amazing show.
Every show that we do is an amazing
show.
And so the master topic for the entire
week, are you ready guys?

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It's Resilience, Leadership and Positive Change in Challenging
Times, Series 4, Show 41, Episode Number 1.
Wow, that's a long title, I know.
And the granular topic for this week, are
you ready for the granular topic?
I know you are.
And that ladies and gentlemen is thriving through

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adversity.
Okay, again, it is Series 4, Show 41,
Episode Number 1.
So let's kick this off guys, all right.
So welcome to the Inspirations for Your Life,
ever popular podcast hosted by myself, John C.
Morley, serial entrepreneur, engineer, marketing specialist, video producer,

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graduate to a student, podcast host, podcast coach,
and a passionate lifelong learner.
Every week, I guide everyone through the powerful
lessons of adversity and uncertainty has a lot
to offer guys, sharing how each challenging moment

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can unlock new strengths and lead to a
life filled with resilience and unstoppable motivation.
So tonight on the show, let's explore how
to navigate adversity and uncertainty, turning those obstacles

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into pathways and setbacks into the rocket fuel
for remarkable comebacks.
All right, guys, number one, adversity reveals hidden
strengths.
Often we never know what we're truly capable

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of until life hands us a challenging moment.
Adversity strips away comfort, uncovering reserves of grit,
adaptability and resourcefulness that is.
When the going gets tough, our inner strength

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appears ready to lead us through it.
Number two, uncertainty forces us to use our
creative thinking.
Unpredictable moments require us to invent new solutions
and approach things differently.

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When the path ahead gets hazy, which it
often will, innovation will step in.
It's these times of uncertainty that inspire our
minds to break old habits, experiment freely and
discover ideas we never would have explored.

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All right, guys, number three is growth happens
outside your comfort zone.
I've said this many times before, but there's
certain points I say over and over, repeating
them, hopefully they'll eventually sink in.
Staying in familiar territory feels safe, but true
progress demands we venture into the unknown.

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Growth is born from embracing discomfort, risking mistakes
and learning from every new experience.
You see, that's where transformation begins.
Number four, every setback is a setup for
a comeback.

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Each time life knocks us down, it offers
a chance to get up again, this time
smarter, wiser and stronger.
And of course, in a way that's much
better than before, setbacks aren't permanent, guys.
They are the launching pad for future success.

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They teach us to pivot, persist and come
back more determined.
Number five, tough times teach resilience, real endurance
develops in hardships.
When we weather storms, we grow our resilience,

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capable of bouncing back, learning from failure and
meeting future challenges with confidence.
Number six, guys, clarity emerges from chaos.
Chaos tends to clarify our priorities amid the

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confusion.
Important truths and goals rise to the surface.
Navigating through disorder helps us crystallize what matters,
sharpening our focus and taking meaning so we

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can have full action.
Number seven, the unknown is where breakthroughs begin.
Some of the most remarkable and greatest opportunities
are found when we step into territory that
feels uncertain, a little bit kind of scary
at first.

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Breakthroughs happen beyond our comfort zone.
Where creativity, discovery and bold ideas thrive in
the unfamiliar world.
Number eight, guys, courage, courage and fear show

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up together, choose courage.
Courage isn't the absence of fear.
It's the decision to move forward anyway.
In moments of adversity, courage is what powers

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our progress.
When fear and bravery appear side by side,
choosing courage sets miracles in motion.
And I think that's something a lot of
people don't realize is that we have the
ability, folks, to make our own miracles.
Number nine, flexibility beats frustration, hands down.

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When plans change, we have to understand this.
Change is inevitable and the way we handle
it shapes our journey.
Flexibility allows us to adapt, recalibrating and giving
us the ability to stay positive, turning frustration

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into opportunity and keeping us open to new
directions.
Number 10, guys, faith in your vision fuels
persistence.
Faith in your vision fuels persistence.
Faith in your vision fuels persistence.

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Uncertainty can shake our resolve to the core,
but clear vision and unwavering belief motivate us
to keep going no matter what.
Faith in your mission or purpose gives you
the stamina to persist through every obstacle and

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keep your eyes on what really matters.
Number 11, guys, the small wins build momentum
for us through the tough stretches.
Progress often comes from celebrating small victories.

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When times are hard, recognizing each accomplishment, even
the tiny ones, adds up to powerful momentum.
That momentum helps propel you forward toward even
greater and larger triumphs, ones you might have

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not even imagined could exist for you.
Number 12, challenges separate intentions from commitment.
When life gets difficult, folks, and it will,
genuine commitment stands out from mere hope or
just pure intention.

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Adversity tests our resolve in life.
Do we stick to our goals or do
we let them go?
Real commitment shines in the face of hardship.
Number 13, guys, number 13, focusing on solutions

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shrinks problems.
Problems grow when we dwell on them.
They shrink when we focus on solutions.
Adversity demands actionable thinking, prompting us to shift

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perspective and start solving rather than worrying about
the situation.
Number 14, guys, support networks are strongest in
the hardest of times.
Friends, family, mentors, they all matter most when

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things are difficult.
Adversity brings people together, proving that we're never
alone in this world.
Strong relations and the relationships offer us encouragement,
accountability, and collaboration for brighter solutions.

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And I think when we can understand that
a solution can be bright if we choose
to believe it's bright, because I mean, the
world is what you make of it, guys.
The world is what you make of it.
And if you make the world a good
place, guess what?
The world's just going to keep getting better
and better and better.

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Number 15, guys, learning never stops when adapting.
Adversity is a crash course in flexibility and
problem solving, challenging us to keep our minds
engaged, opening us up to ongoing learning and

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skill building throughout every new twist and turn
of our journey.
Number 16, gratitude.
I've said this word before many times.
Gratitude turns obstacles into opportunities.
Gratitude is the lens that reframes every challenging

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moment we have.
When we look for the lesson or the
hidden blessing, we transform obstacles into valuable opportunities
for growth in our lives.
Are you ready for number 17?
I know you are.
But the thing is, guys, just hearing these

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things is not enough.
You have to make the choice today, as
soon as this program is over, and start
implementing these things in your life.
You might not be able to implement all
26, but realize that just changing a couple
of things can make a difference for you.
Number 17, strong boundaries protect focus from distractions.

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Tough times demand clarity and focus, making boundaries,
well, essential.
By protecting our space and energy, we keep
distractions out and progress on track.
Number 18, guys, mental toughness.

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Yes, it's a thing, thrives in uncertainty.
The unpredictable tests our mental stamina will go
through is mind boggling.
Adversity trains the mind to be clear, to
be calm, and to be resilient, and crafting

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the mental toughness needed for leadership and achievement
to thrive.
Number 19, guys, a positive attitude invites better
outcomes.
Positivity can be tough to maintain in adversity,

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but it's a game changer.
A hopeful outlook encourages better ideas, invites support,
and allows you to see solutions more clearly
than you ever did before.
It's like having an extra voice that suddenly

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kicks in, and it kicks in certain times
when you ask for it and you train
it.
Number 20, guys, asking for help is strength.
It's not weakness, so don't think asking for

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help is weakness.
It's not, it's strength.
Strong people know that collaboration amplifies progress.
Strong people know this.
Asking for support unlocks new perspectives and brings
together resources that can turn obstacles into victories.

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Number 21, failure refines strategy, not identity.
Let me say that again.
Failure refines strategy, not identity.
Mistakes don't define you.

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They refine your path and sharpen your approach
and of course, the purpose.
Every failure is an opportunity to learn, adjust,
and emerge more skillfully.
Number 22, guys, the best leaders rise during

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the storms.
Turbulent times reveal true leadership and the leaders
that are able to carry that out by
guiding others, modeling resilience, and remaining calm in
our life.

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You become an anchor in adversity.
Supporting those around you and inspiring confidence is
the key to success in life.
Number 23, perspective transforms pain and discomfort into

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purpose.
Perspective transforms pain and discomfort into purpose.
Changing how we view adversity turns suffering into
strength.
Pain offers clarity.
Teaching lessons that become motivation to help ourselves

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and others.
Number 24, endurance during difficulty is a daily
practice.
Resilience is built one day at a time
through continual effort and fortitude.
Enduring challenges involves showing up, staying committed, and

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choosing growth every single day.
A wise person once told me, John, a
big part of success is showing up.
The other even bigger part is the attitude
because the attitude will always determine our altitude
for success in life.
Number 25, guys, survival is step one.

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Yes, it is.
We have to survive first.
Thriving comes next, but we can't get comfortable.
We can't get complacent or happy with just
step one.
Survival.
We have to thrive.

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First, we must get through the storms, but
don't stop at survival.
As I said, guys, use each lesson to
propel yourself into a place where you flourish,
not just endure.

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I think most people want to endure, but
then what happens is they get lost in
the weeds, in the details.
The details are very important, but don't get
lost in them because those details that you

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get lost in could demotivate you from taking
a step forward.
We have to keep remembering to be successful.
We have to take continual steps.
We don't have to take more steps.
We have to take the same amount of
continual steps every single day toward our goals
and they'll become reality.

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Number 26.
Again, I know you're saying, John, I can't
do all these.
Just take a couple of them, maybe two
a week and in, well, less than basically,
uh, 14 weeks, 13 weeks, 15 weeks, you'll

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have, um, mastered these.
Number 26 guys, uncertainty is a test.
Progress is the reward.
Uncertainty is a test.
Progress is the reward.
Uncertainty is a test.
Progress is the reward.
Every time you face the unknown and keep

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moving forward, you grow.
Every time, not just one time.
Uncertainty is the proven ground that shows up
when we get embracing and then it will
deliver rewards to us.
Now, not all at once in progress and

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in confidence, that's powerful.
Letting go, as I said, is not weakness.
It's wisdom guys, release what no longer serves
you.
Use each challenge as a stepping stone.

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And watch your life transform one breakthrough after
one breath at a time.
When everyone I talked to says, you know,
John, I want to be successful.
And they said, Oh, I want to thrive.
The first thing you have to do is
survive.

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You have to figure out the levels, right?
And this takes me back to something very
important.
You guys all remember, I think it's called
the, uh, the eyes love triangle.
Remember that?
So it's actually the eyes of Matt Maslow's
triangle.
I don't remember what it's called.
The Maslow's, uh, is Maslow's triangle.
First, we have to be physiologically satisfied, right?

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At the very least, we don't want to
be hungry, thirsty, exhausted, uh, freezing, uh, overeating,
sick, or in pain.
Number two of Maslow's triangle is safety.
If we feel okay in the exact moment,
we then also want to be safe.
Third level up on the pyramid.

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If we feel safe, then our social needs
have to met love and belongingness, self-esteem.
Once we're secure in our social needs, our
primal desires for status and self-esteem.
And lastly, once that's achieved, finally, now our
core needs are met.
We're ready to pursue our deepest desire for

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self-actualization to become the most complete and
authentic version of ourselves with the fundamentals taken
care of, we're free to act as we
choose.
But everything in life is a building block
guys.
You can't suddenly build the Mona Lisa in

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one day or the town of Rome in
one day, right?
Everything is a process.
And I think humans don't like the things
take time.
They don't like that.
There is a process in life, but that's
how life works.
And then hopefully we tool when we get
better with things.
And as we get better, you know what

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happens?
We start to hit our goals.
And when we hit our goals, it's like
amazing stuff happens, guys.
Amazing stuff happens.
And that amazing stuff means that you are
now in breakthrough mode.
You are in breakthrough mode.

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And what does a breakthrough mean?
A breakthrough means that you are optimally using
your resources and the worlds that you're in
and the energy for which you possess to
be a deliberate creator, let me compare this
to Facebook for a moment, right?

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So when we think about that, in order
to be top on Facebook for an ad
campaign, the ad campaign has to deliver a
return ROI, right?
Return on the investment.
We keep spending money.
We don't getting back.
We're just burning through money, but we're not
getting anything.

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So we have to use the pixel and
things like that.
I'm not going to get into the technicalities,
but I think everybody wants things now, but
they don't realize that we have to be
able to measure something and see if we
can measure something, that means we can change
it.
If we cannot measure something, well, unfortunately, you
know what that means means we can't measure

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it.
So if we can't measure something, we're never
going to be able to change it.
Never guys.
I don't care what you do.
You are never going to be able to
change it.
That's a, that's a pretty tall thing, isn't

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it?
I think if we can just take this
into perspective, Facebook does something called the learning
phase, right?
And you start an ad campaign and once
it's had so many, um, let's say, um,

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optimizations, then it leaves the learning phase learning
phase is where Facebook figures out, well, gee,
who do I show your ad to?
Who is most likely to, uh, like it,
to follow it or to create, uh, let's
say a message that's going to resonate with

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people, you could be a learning for several
days, several days, you could be in the
learning phase, right?
And so what does Facebook tell us to
do?
They tell us to create an ad and
they tell us to do, uh, an ad
that has, um, several, uh, let's say, uh,

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ad sets.
So I can test and figure out which
one it needs to show.
The one that shows more, um, will be
based on, uh, the research it gathers from
its platform.
Well, ladies and gentlemen, I am John Seymour,
early serial entrepreneur.

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I invite you to connect with me 24
hours a day at believemeachieved.com.
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Do you know, guys, we are going to
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few months.
That means we'll be celebrating our fourth year
anniversary.
Um, just a few months.
That's like amazing guys.
So I want to let you know that
I know everybody wants to be successful in
life and people want to thrive, but we
have to first walk before we can run.
We have to crawl before we can walk.

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We have to walk before we can run.
So we have to be, uh, surviving before
we can thrive.
Have yourself a great night and I'll catch
you real soon.