You love them, but are you accidentally slowing their progress? This episode tackles the one mindset that silently holds families back after aphasia: the urge to protect instead of include.
Like Shirley’s family, every care partner struggles with the kind instinct to shield a loved one from frustration or embarrassment. But here’s the truth: this instinct to protect can actually build distance, giving you efficiency but losing connection. Inclusion doesn't happen by accident—it takes intention.
Host Genevieve walks you through the crucial mindset shift from "guarding" to "guiding," moving you from doing for them to doing with them. This evidence-backed approach is rooted in Supported Conversation for Adults with Aphasia (SCA™), which centers on three core principles: Acknowledge competence, Give time, and Verify understanding.
We break down the Protection Trap (finishing sentences, speaking about them instead of with them) and introduce the 3 evidence-based steps to achieve genuine participation and rebuild confidence:
- 1️⃣ Give time. Silence isn't failure—it's processing.
- 2️⃣ Use fixed choices. Replace open-ended questions with two clear options (“tea or coffee?”).
- 3️⃣ Write and verify. Write down key words to confirm mutual understanding.
Learn how these small shifts lead to massive, lifelong inclusion.
Key Takeaways (The 3 Steps to Participation)
- Step 1: Mindset: Recognize the "Protection Trap" and intentionally transition from a guard to a partner.
- Step 2: Communication Tool: Replace open-ended questions with fixed choices to reduce cognitive load and increase success.
- Step 3: Confidence Builder: Use the SCA™ principle of writing and verifying to ensure mutual understanding and improve participation.
Call to Action
If you want to make your life more inclusive—and these strategies work all year—you can get my book Aphasia Inclusive Celebrations here: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/aphasia-inclusive-celebrations
Keywords Aphasia care partner mindset, supported conversation, aphasia inclusion, SCA, communication partner training, family aphasia support, stop protecting
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