Lola’s Lessons - 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 Lola Blakely & Carmen Ely πŸ”ž

Lola’s Lessons - 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 Lola Blakely & Carmen Ely πŸ”ž

Lola’s Lessons is a groundbreaking sex positivity podcast focused on education. Hosted by intimacy & sexual health practitioner, Lola Blakely & toy store owner, Carmen Ely Lola’s Lessons airs live, every Friday @ 21:00 CAT (Sex-education & relationship guide, focused on enhancing intimacy) Broadcasted live on llustfm.podbean.com and repeats are available on www.llustFM.live The intimacy & sexual health practitioner / associate counselor, Lola Blakely & her co-host Carmen Ely, dive deep into the world of relationships, pleasure, and personal growth to bring listeners a wide range of topics, from sexual education and empowerment to navigating consent and communication in three different, divers and fun talk shows. The dynamic duo invite experts, thought leaders, and individuals with diverse perspectives to share their knowledge and experiences. The shows embraces inclusivity, amplifying voices from all walks of life, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, or relationship style.. Tune in to Lola’s Lessons weekly & join us by embracing a sex-positive mindset, one episode at a time! www.llustFM.live llustfm.podbean.com @LadyLola_Za @PlayWithMeZA

Episodes

February 27, 2025 β€’ 67 mins

Odette Newman from Afrodite Essence joins Lola and Carmen to discuss pheromones.

They dive into the fascinating world of pheromones β€” those invisible chemical signals that can spark attraction, influence behavior, and shape human connection in ways we don’t even realize. They explore the science, myths, and mysteries of this β€˜Pheromone Phenomenon'

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Love, libido and language? What do they have in common?

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Lola and Carmen discuss these topics on this segment of Lola’s Lessons.Β 

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February 19, 2025 β€’ 83 mins

The team is back and Carmen & Lola kick off season 6 live from Play With Me Fourways at the Love Bite valentines day party.

They chat sex, relationship and intimacy trends for 2025, and chat to a couple of attendees at the party.

How are we spicing up our intimate moments this year? We find out in this episodeΒ 

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December 14, 2024 β€’ 40 mins

On the season 5 finale of Lola’s Lessons Bella, winner of the S5 listener lesson, joins Lola and Carmen to discuss her kink.

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What is a Cuckquean & cuckcake got to do with a hot husband?Β 

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Carmen & Lola discuss the season, and Lola gives Carmen a pop quiz.Β 

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November 30, 2024 β€’ 63 mins

Azure_Inferno joins Lola on air the night of The Sex Expo Johannesburg after Carmen & Lola interviewed a bunch of exhibitors & a few members of the public.

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November 30, 2024 β€’ 109 mins

Lola & Carmen chat to the the organizers of The Sex Expo leading up to the 2024 Johannesburg exhibition

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November 15, 2024 β€’ 115 mins

Lola and Carmen return with the second half of Season 5!

They interview Jax and Ru-Ann from Body Art Initiative on genital piercings and how they affect sexual sensations.

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November 12, 2024 β€’ 80 mins

Carmen & Lola speak to Michelle, a unicorn in the swingers lifestyle about her experience and her perspectives on the elusive single swinger female.Β 

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September 28, 2024 β€’ 94 mins

Dr Marina Basson (Ph.D) aka Dr M, founder of Inspired Intimacies coaching & training, join Lola & Carmen to discuss how the swinging culture has evolved.

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They touch on current trends & shifts in the community and discuss differences within the global swingers community based on current research.

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September 27, 2024 β€’ 101 mins

Carmen & Lola chat to Morgana about her life as a lesbian & how she came out.

What is comphet? What is a late in life lesbian? How do you know you're a lesbian?

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Want your relationship to reach end-game? Feeling like your relationship has lost the spark over the years? Feeling disconnected in from your partner?Β 

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Lola & Carmen discuss tips to maintain passion and intimacy over the years.Β 

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September 13, 2024 β€’ 86 mins

Carmen and Lola discuss the impact of body positivity on sexual health and relationships, with tips on how to boost self-confidence in the bedroom.

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August 30, 2024 β€’ 105 mins

You're an everyday couple or a general single, but you have a fantasy?

Should you turn your fantasies into reality, and how do you go about achieving this? When should you avoid pursuing the materialization of these desires?

Listen to this episode of Lola & Carmen's Lessons to find out how to explore it!

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August 15, 2024 β€’ 84 mins

Lola & KB talk about Poly in general. What are some of the myths & misconceptions surrounding this ENM relationship dynamic?Β Β 

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August 9, 2024 β€’ 94 mins

As the second half of Lifestyle Lectures returns, Lola and KB take a look at solo Poly with Azure_Inferno - What is solo poly? What does autonomy have to do with it?

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Find out on this segment of Lola’s Lifestyle LecturesΒ 

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July 13, 2024 β€’ 49 mins

The dragons & the extended ploycule join Lola & KB (part of the dragons) on the first segment of Lifestyle Lectures - Poly Perfect.

Lola chats to the dragons, KB and Mr BlueVikingZA to find out what the driving force is behind their ploycule.

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July 8, 2024 β€’ 87 mins

Carmen & Lola discuss sex positions & re-cap on this season on the season finale of Lola’s Lessons Season 4Β 

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July 8, 2024 β€’ 96 mins

We're having a 3some with 2some!

Lola, Debbie and James get together for the Season Finale of Lifestyle Lectures to discuss red flags in the swingers community

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Lola and Medusa are joined by a special surprise guest on this segment of Kinky Klasses - Dangers in the Dungeon.

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They discuss raising awareness for new explorers, both individuals and couples, about important factors to consider when practicing kink and BDSM. These factors could potentially lead to dangerous situations or have serious repercussions.Β 

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June 29, 2024 β€’ 106 mins

”Pleasure is your birthright.” -Dineo RankaΒ 

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Issues reaching an orgasmic state can adversely affect self-esteem, relationships, and emotional well-being.

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Carmen & Lola chat to Josh, a Tantric practitioner, about ways to achieve orgasms, trauma in individuals who experience anorgasmia and effects of orgasms in intimacy.

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