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May 5, 2025 56 mins

Are You Falling for These Marriage Myths Without Even Realizing It?

This week on Look for the Good, host Carrie Rowan dives deep into the hidden stories sabotaging long-term relationships with special guest and Intimacy Coach, Monica Tanner, author of the bold new book Bad Marriage Advice: 15 Myths That Are Making You Miserable.

Whether you’re in a marriage or thinking about committing, you can’t afford to miss this eye-opening conversation. Monica unpacks the outdated advice many of us were raised on—ideas that quietly erode intimacy, kill connection, and keep couples stuck in autopilot.

You’ll discover:

  • Why “lazy communication” might be the silent killer in your relationship
  • How sneaky myths are shaping your expectations and leading to disconnection
  • The powerful shift that happens when you become curious again—about your partner and yourself

Get ready to challenge what you think you know about love, intimacy, and commitment. This isn’t just relationship advice—it’s a whole new way of seeing your partner through a lens of truth, trust, and possibility.

Tune in and bust the myths that are messing with your happily ever after.

BIO: Hello, I’m Monica, I’m obsessed with marriage and intimacy.

I’m married to a super hunky man and have 4 incredibly awesome kids. My oldest is an adult and out of the house and my youngest is in middle school.

My ultimate desire and purpose is to lower the divorce rate, one couple at a time through my podcast, intimacy resources and couple’s coaching. I’m certified in Relational Life Therapy as well as had some Gottman Training. I believe that couples can enjoy real and lasting change by learning better relational skills AND dealing with the parts of themselves that don’t want to use those skills at times.

If you are ready to transform your relationship into a wildly satisfying intimate friendship and passionate partnership, book a complimentary 30-minute relationship breakthrough call with me and let’s see if we are a good fit to work together.

Find out more at www.MonicaTanner.com

Listen to her incredible podcast Secrets of Happily Ever After: https://monicatanner.com/secrets-of-happily-ever-after-podcast/

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Learn More about Carrie here: https://carrierowan.com/

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