In Episode 146 of Medium Lady Talks, Erin unpacks what real rest actually feels like—and what your nervous system, your motivation, and yes, even your twitching eye are trying to tell you.
Based on community polls and Q&A from Instagram, Erin explores why mental and emotional burnout are so dominant, and why physical rest isn’t really the problem for most of us. She also calls out the sneaky pride many of us still hold in our own fatigue—and why we might be more attached to being tired than we want to admit.
💬 In this episode:
88% of Medium Lady listeners say they’re mentally and emotionally depleted
What real rest looks like according to you: joy, patience, creativity, and the end of irritability
Why we cancel social plans in the name of rest—but fill that time with numbing instead
What to do whether you’re brand new to this idea or deeply aware (and still stuck)
You’ll leave with a gentle nudge, a few clear next steps, and maybe… a little less need to prove your tiredness.
📌 Want to go deeper? Take the Rest Quiz by Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith at restquiz.com
This episode is part of our “Summer of Real Rest” series—time to call ourselves in to a true commitment to the soft work of feeling better one step at a time.
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The series starts here! Episode 142: The Summer of REAL Rest
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Other Related Episodes (for your enjoyment):
Episode 70: My Life-Changing Perspective on Having the Best Summer EVER
Episode 103: Four Questions to Free Yourself from Summer Stress Part One
Episode 104: Four Questions to Free Yourself from Summer Stress Part Two
Episode 106: Six Things Saving My Summer
Medium Lady Reads Episode 43 - Our Best Recommendations for Your Summer Reading Pile
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