Mental State: Straight talk about all things mental health and more

Mental State: Straight talk about all things mental health and more

Welcome to a podcast all about real conversations on mental health. Each episode dives into the messy, meaningful, and often misunderstood world of emotional well-being—with expert insights, personal stories, and practical tools for everyday life. Hosted by [Your Name], this show features guest interviews with therapists, healers, advocates, and everyday people navigating topics like anxiety, trauma, relationships, identity, burnout, and more. Whether you’re a mental health professional, someone in the thick of healing, or just curious about what makes us tick—you’re in the right place. Honest talk. No stigma. Just real healing, one episode at a time. https://www.marybtherapy.com Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. This podcast is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or registered professionals.

Episodes

November 22, 2024 27 mins

Hosts Adam and Mary, both therapists, provide advice on setting realistic expectations, managing reactions, and creating exit strategies during family gatherings, especially when facing challenging relatives. They also suggest embracing solitude with self-care practices and forming new traditions, such as Friendsgiving, if one is unable to be with family. Additionally, tips for those working through the holidays or feeling lonely a...

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Mary Barbour and Adam Boardman discuss George Mumford's book 'The Mindful Athlete,' which connects mindfulness techniques with peak sports performance and personal growth. Mumford, a mindfulness coach for elite athletes like Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant, shares how mindfulness can manage stress, improve focus, and unlock full potential in sports and life. Adam, specializing in athlete mental health, finds the book a valuable, acc...

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In this episode of the Mental State podcast, hosts Mary and Adam discuss the book 'Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents' by Lindsay Gibson. They delve into the book's insights on how emotionally immature parents affect their children's adulthood, leading to feelings of anger, loneliness, and confusion. The conversation covers the book's structure, including the different types of emotionally immature parents and the impor...

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In this podcast episode, hosts Mary Barbour and Adam Boardman discuss the movie Inside Out 2, the sequel to Inside Out which focuses on the emotions inside a teenager's brain. Riley, the protagonist from the first movie, now faces puberty and the introduction of new emotions like anxiety. The hosts appreciate how the movie visualizes complex emotional development and cognitive beliefs, emphasizing the transition from a binary self-...

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June 27, 2024 33 mins

In this podcast episode of 'Mental State,' hosts Mary Barbour and Adam Boardman discuss the mental health challenges athletes face when retiring or dealing with career-ending injuries. Adam, a former college track and field athlete, shares his personal experiences and insights into the difficulties of transitioning from a life centered around sports. They explore the identity loss, grief, and depression that athletes commonly exper...

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June 12, 2024 27 mins

Today we are discussing athlete mental health in anticipation of the Olympics coming up. 

 

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April 23, 2024 36 mins

Today Adam and I are discussing how to find a therapist that works for you. We talk about our own experiences of looking for a therapist and share our recommendations and tips on your own journey in searching for the right therapeutic fit.

 

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April 13, 2024 49 mins

Today I've invited Adam Boardman, LMFT to come on the show to talk about dating, communication, and how honesty accelerates relationships. 

 

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Today my guest is Sadie Smith whose practice, Crescendo Counselling, focuses on the needs of queer, kinky, and polyamorous  communities.  Listen to our discussion about the concept of deconstructing monogamy. You can find out more about Sadie and her work at Crescendo Counseling.

 

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Today on my show I am talking with Dr Nicole O’Barto-Trainer who focuses on integrative mental health at her practice Native Clinics, Nicole has advanced skills in mindfulness interventions, HeartMath biofeedback, and functional approaches to depression and anxiety, encompassing nutrition, micronutrient therapy, and amino acid therapy.

To learn more about Nicole you can go to her website nativeclinics.co...

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March 2, 2024 45 mins

Mary talks to Tanya Cole-Lesnick, the creator of the Activate Coaching Program, about the power of healing in groups. Learn about Tanya's unique style of coaching and how she helps her clients clear their energetic clutter and move through life in a more healthy and balanced way. Learn more about Tanya here - https://www.tanyacole-lesnick.com/

 

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January 30, 2024 26 mins

Valentine's day is here. Jin Mary on this solocast as she explores the history of Valentine's Day and how attachment styles handles this Hallmark holiday.

 

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Mary Barbour is an experienced licensed therapist who offers a compassionate, direct, and personal...

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Mary interviews relationship expert Dr. Joli Hamilton who discusses her personal experiences with polyamory. Joli has over 20 years of working with couples outside of the cis-het-normative world who want to explore alternative relationship experiences. Joli shares how to navigate jealousy and communication, leaving you with a deeper understanding of yourself within the confines of any relationship.

 

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January 9, 2024 35 mins

Mary talks about dating in 2024. She talks about getting clear on your own values, communication and building trust in the relationship, red flags and what to look for in a longterm relationship. Learn how to create an interdependent relationship.

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December 22, 2023 10 mins

Mary gives the rundown on the five types of narcissism, each with distinct characteristics, and how to potentially spot them - grandiose, vulnerable, communal, malignant and covert. Take a listen to this mini episode to learn more about narcissism and what to look for. 

 

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December 13, 2023 97 mins

I talk with Che Johnson, astro coach and psychotherapist. Che has over 30 years in the field of astrology and he breaks down what is coming down the planetary pipeline in 2024. Learn what Mercury in retrograde really means and what you might expect in romance and relationships for the new year. For a deeper dive into your personal chart contact Che Johnson at chejohnson.net

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November 28, 2023 51 mins

Ever wonder what a matchmaker does? I talk to matchmaker Sarah Powell from MacLynn International.  She walks us through the mysterious process of matchmaking.

 

Mary Barbour is an experienced licensed therapist who offers a compassionate, direct, and personalized approach to individual and couples counseling. With the belief ...

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November 21, 2023 30 mins

Holidays often bring up attachment issues as they emphasize the importance of connection and relationships. For individuals with anxious attachment styles, the fear of abandonment can intensify during these times, leading to heightened anxiety and a strong desire for reassurance from loved ones. On the other hand, those with avoidant attachment styles may feel overwhelmed by the increased social demands and may retreat further, pot...

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November 14, 2023 53 mins

Mary and her friend Jaqueline talk with body language expert Linda Clemons who spills the tea about body language and dating. Linda shares some juicy tips on how you can become more aware of your own body language and how it can affect the way you attract a mate.

Want to learn more? Take Linda's Body Language for Dating and Attraction course and follow her on Instagram. You can also check out her ebooks to learn more about body lan...

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November 7, 2023 56 mins

We interview therapist Theodora Blanchfield who shares her adoption story and how it relates to her attachment style. Theodora shares her highs and lows of how being adopted has influenced her relationship choices and how developing a more secure relationship with herself is helping her make better choices.

Learn more about Theodora on her website or through her socials.

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