Messy In The Middle: Podcast for Realtors

Messy In The Middle: Podcast for Realtors

Welcome to the Messy In the Middle, The Podcast. We are two real estate agents from two different coasts, working to improve and grow. We believe you can have a thriving business and live a balanced life. Your journey from ideas to implementation begins now.

Episodes

April 1, 2024 32 mins

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed talk about generational wealth and its foundation within real estate. They discuss the challenges many face when navigating their financial future and the vital role structured budgeting plays in building wealth across generations. Jefi and Ed share various budgeting approaches - from detailed plans contrasting income and expenses to adaptable zero-based budgeting - showcasing ...

Mark as Played

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed discuss the push toward sustainable design elements, highlighting nature-inspired solutions, and mixed materials that blend modernism with a touch of the past. They explore forward-thinking features, such as wellness inclusions in both the kitchen and bathroom areas and the importance of strategic window designs to incorporate natural light. Listen as Jefi and Ed talk about the...

Mark as Played

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed discuss the impact of interest rates and the Federal Reserve on the real estate market in 2024. They explain how lower interest rates will lead to a surge in buyers, increasing competition and driving up prices. They advise buyers to act now before they get priced out of the market, and sellers to take advantage of the current low inventory and put their homes on the market. Th...

Mark as Played
February 19, 2024 14 mins

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed dissect the crucial process of finding the right mortgage lender. They delve into why choosing a compatible mortgage provider is as vital as finding the perfect realtor. They share the pillars of an effective lender-borrower relationship: clear communication, personalized guidance, competitive rates and fees, and efficient loan processing. Listen as Jefi and Ed give tips for na...

Mark as Played

Discover why sellers should love buyer's agents in this engaging episode. Hosts Jefi and Ed discuss the importance of having an advocate for both buyers and sellers, the role of a buyer's agent in facilitating smooth negotiations, and how they attract more potential buyers. They also delve into the value of professional representation, creating win-win scenarios, and the benefits of having an open market. Don't miss out on this ins...

Mark as Played
December 25, 2023 17 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle Podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss the reasons and considerations for refinancing loans. They highlight the benefits of lower interest rates, shorter loan terms, and the elimination of private mortgage insurance. However, they caution listeners to consider the potential downsides, such as negative equity, poor credit, and high prepayment penalties. They also discuss the use of refinancing for home ren...

Mark as Played
December 18, 2023 16 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle Podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss conventional loans, mortgages that are offered by private lenders and are not backed by a government agency. They highlight the importance of understanding the difference between conforming and non-conforming loans, as well as the higher interest rates and credit/income requirements associated with conventional loans. Jefi and Ed share how conventional loans can be u...

Mark as Played
December 11, 2023 13 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss FHA loans. They highlight the pros and cons of FHA loans, including lower down payments, lower credit score requirements, and higher income-to-debt ratios. They also mention the Mortgage Insurance Premium (MIP) and the loan limits that vary by county. Jefi and Ed emphasize the importance of understanding FHA loans as a buyer, seller, or agent, and recommend contactin...

Mark as Played
December 4, 2023 17 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Ed and Jefi talk about Veteran Affairs loans and why they are underutilized. They highlight that VA loans have a lower interest rate and no private mortgage insurance. However, they caution that VA loans can be difficult to assume and that sellers and agents should fully understand the loan's terms before marketing it as assumable. Jefi and Ed stress the importance of having an advocate...

Mark as Played

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed speak with John Schindel, a mortgage loan officer at Bay Equity. They discuss the importance of getting pre-approved before starting the home buying process and the common hurdles that buyers face. John shares why having a long-term financial plan and working with a financial planner to align homebuying goals with overall financial goals is valuable. He also explains the dif...

Mark as Played
November 20, 2023 9 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed discuss how to handle a referral gone wrong in the real estate industry. They emphasize the importance of following up on referrals and checking in with both the person who referred and the person who received the referral. They also stress the need to have a backup plan in case the initial referral doesn't work out. Remember, not every fit is perfect it's okay if a referral...

Mark as Played
November 13, 2023 12 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed share how to find a real estate agent to refer to someone who is looking to buy or sell in an area outside of your expertise. They emphasize the importance of reaching out to your trusted realtor, who will have a network of reliable agents across the country. By asking your trusted realtor for recommendations and providing them with specific details about the client's needs,...

Mark as Played
November 6, 2023 14 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed discuss the best way to give a referral. They emphasize the importance of personal endorsements and explain how to approach someone at a party or social gathering to recommend a realtor. They also address common objections and provide strategies for overcoming them. Jefi and Ed stress the value of early involvement and information gathering, as well as the benefits of interv...

Mark as Played
October 30, 2023 48 mins

This week on the Messy in the Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed speak with Royce Branning, co-founder of ClearSpace. Royce joins the hosts to discuss the impact of phone addiction and how his app helps users regain control of their digital lives. They explore the role of dopamine in driving addictive behaviors and the need for intentional use of technology. Royce shares his journey of starting the company and the importance of serving ot...

Mark as Played
October 16, 2023 12 mins

This week on the Messy in the Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed discuss the importance of seeking feedback and learning from others to improve and grow in your profession. They emphasize the need to have a beginner's mindset and be open to feedback from trusted individuals. By identifying your weaknesses and seeking guidance from those who excel in those areas, you can sharpen your skills and become a better professional.


QUOTES


Mark as Played
October 9, 2023 20 mins

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss the concept of digital wellness and how to eliminate distractions in order to improve productivity. They emphasize the importance of actively participating in the war for attention and provide strategies for taking control of digital tools. They also discuss the distractions we seek and how to identify and overcome them. The hosts share their personal experiences and...

Mark as Played

What you measure grows! This week, Jefi and Ed discuss the importance of accountability partners in their real estate businesses. They share their personal experiences with accountability partners and how it has helped them stay focused and achieve their goals. Jefi and Ed also provide tips on how to choose the right accountability partner and how to make the most out of the partnership. Additionally, they talk about the concept of...

Mark as Played
September 25, 2023 36 mins

Our jobs can be a catalyst for fulfilling our purpose and mission in life! Join Jefi and Ed as they continue their discussion on the power of purpose and how it can drive our goals and actions. They share personal stories and examples to illustrate the importance of finding what lights us up and aligning our goals with our purpose. Jefi and Ed also provide a step-by-step process for creating a mission and setting goals, emphasizing...

Mark as Played
September 18, 2023 37 mins

This week Jefi and Ed discuss the power of purpose and mission. They explore the concept of power versus force and how aligning with a greater purpose can give momentum to your actions. Ed and Jefi talk about the importance of connecting your passions and values to something greater than yourself. The hosts share their personal experiences and reflections on finding their purpose, how it has shaped their lives, and practical tips o...

Mark as Played
September 11, 2023 23 mins

This week Jefi and Ed discuss the importance of tapping into the power of play in your personal and professional life. They emphasize the need to know your passion, spend time in support of that passion, and make it fun. They provide examples of how to incorporate play into client interactions and share how you can embrace rest cycles and use them as an opportunity to recharge and explore your passions.

QUOTES

  • “You want to be pla...
Mark as Played

Popular Podcasts

    If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

    Dateline NBC

    Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

    On Purpose with Jay Shetty

    I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

    Health Stuff

    On Health Stuff, hosts Dr. Priyanka Wali and comedian Hari Kondabolu tackle all the health questions that keep you up at night with hilarity and humanity. Together they demystify the flashy trends, and keep you informed on the latest research. You can rely on Health Stuff to bring you real, uninhibited, and thoughtful health talk of the highest caliber, and a healthy dose of humor.

    The Breakfast Club

    The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, And Charlamagne Tha God!

Advertise With Us
Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.