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July 1, 2025 37 mins

In this episode we chat to Julie Smith about the nuances of confidence and practical strategies to boost yours. Julie shares insights from her coaching experience and her award-winning book, Coach Yourself Confident, offering tips on overcoming self-doubt, managing setbacks, and cultivating humble confidence.

 

Key Topics Covered:

  • Why confidence often hides behind other development themes
  • The concept of humble confidence — aligning your capabilities with your self-view
  • The importance of realistic, grounded self-assessment
  • Common misconceptions about confidence and success
  • The impact of societal norms and gender differences on confidence
  • Recognizing and managing internal saboteurs like comparisonitis and perfectionism
  • Practical exercises to strengthen your confidence muscle
  • Handling external setbacks and life's inevitable challenges
  • The power of awareness, language, and self-compassion in building confidence

Special Highlights:

  • The "full stop" technique to combat negative self-talk
  • Naming your inner critic (sorry Nigel!) for greater self-awareness
  • Embracing the idea that confidence fluctuates — it’s normal to feel confident sometimes and doubtful others
  • Insights from The Authority Gap on gender and confidence

Julie’s book Coach Yourself Confident is a finalist for a prestigious business book award, with a special Kindle offer for just 99p until mid-August 2025: https://mybook.to/CYC-eb

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