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In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts discuss the issue of changing one's words, behaviors, or values to please others. They explore various reasons for this tendency, such as childhood messages, trauma, societal pressures, and people-pleasing habits. The conversation includes a personal story about their daughter's experience with criticism while worshiping, emphasizing the importance of staying true to oneself and finding identity in Christ. The episode concludes with practical steps to embrace authenticity, including knowing oneself, identifying triggers, practicing honesty, affirming identity, setting boundaries, and surrounding oneself with supportive people. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:38 Why We Change Ourselves 01:46 A Personal Story: Teaching Our Daughter 07:28 The Dangers of Changing Yourself 11:50 Embracing Your True Self 18:08 Practical Steps to Authenticity 19:56 Conclusion and Encouragement

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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

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