Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith

Does the thought of your kids pumping gas or checking the oil sound like a distant dream? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now shares how everyday tasks, like car maintenance, can be powerful training grounds for teaching children responsibility, independence, and a "take care of things" mindset. Discover how to empower your kids from a young age, ensuring they're well-equipped for adulthood, just like Zig Ziglar's philosophy o...

Do you ever break your own rules? Dr. Roger Smith opens this episode of Parenting Matters Now with a relatable moment of almost setting muddy boots on the dinner table, highlighting how easily we can slip up. This leads to a crucial discussion: how do we react when our children break rules? Dr. Smith encourages parents to look beyond the behavior itself. Sometimes, rule-breaking isn't rebellion, but a result of carelessness, distra...

Is your child constantly saying "I'm tired"? If they're between 10 and 14, Dr. Roger Smith explains why it's likely more than just a complaint! In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, discover the neurodevelopmental shifts happening during pre-pubescence and puberty that genuinely increase a child's need for sleep. Learn how their developing emotional brain influences their expression of fatigue, and why compassion and providing ...

This episode of Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith tackles a crucial question: How do we help our children embrace challenges and grow through them? While the value of doing hard things is undeniable—it's where true growth happens—Dr. Smith focuses on the "how." He emphasizes the profound impact of mindset, referencing the timeless wisdom: "He who wins is he who thinks he can." Discover why instilling hope and confidence in...

Do you find yourself battling your child over grammar? Dr. Roger Smith dives into a surprising question: how much does grammar truly matter in the grand scheme of parenting? Using a humorous anecdote, he illustrates when perfect grammar is essential and when it might be secondary to bigger goals. Discover why preserving your relationship with your child should always take precedence over a grammar tussle.

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Death is an uncomfortable but unavoidable part of life. In this episode Dr. Roger Smith tackles the difficult topic of discussing death and grief with your children. Learn how to address questions, foster healthy grieving, and support your kids through loss, whether it's a beloved pet, a family member, or even the "death of a dream." Discover how open conversations can help children cope and move forward.

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Do your children truly feel blessed by your words? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith goes beyond simple praise to explore the profound impact of intentional blessings. Discover how specific, heartfelt words can be a springboard for your child's life, inspiring them with a sense of adoration and purpose. Learn practical ways to craft meaningful affirmations, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Visit me ...

Habits often get a bad rap, but what if they're the key to smoother parenting? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith reveals how to proactively shape your children's positive habits, from tidiness to kindness. Learn effective, repetitive strategies that build "muscle memory" for good behavior, saving you from constant nagging and fostering independent, responsible kids. Tune in for practical, few-minute parentin...

Ever wonder what happens when your or your child's mistakes create a mess for others? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares a real-life observation that highlights the ripple effect of our actions. Learn practical ways to help your kids own their missteps, understand the impact of their choices, and take responsibility for making things right – all without anger or condemnation. Tune in for quick, actiona...

What's the unique value of gathering around a fire with your children? On this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the almost magical quality of fire to foster connection and storytelling within families. Discover how a simple fireplace, fire pit, or campfire can become a powerful tool for parents to open up communication, encourage listening, and share family or historical narratives. Dr. Roger Smith discuss...

Ever wondered why teaching your kids to swim is so important? On this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Rogers Smith dives into why swimming is more than just a safety precaution. Discover how learning to swim can open up a world of opportunities for your children, contribute to their life experiences, and even their sense of purpose. Dr. Miller shares practical advice on how to start, even if your little ones are just beginnin...

Spanking: a parenting hot topic. Join Dr. Roger Smith for a nuanced discussion that goes beyond the typical pro vs. con debate. Regardless of your stance, Dr. Roger Smith asks you to consider the underlying principle: that pain can be a form of communication. Explore the intention behind corporal punishment as a language to establish boundaries, emphasizing that it should be rooted in love and training, never retaliation or anger. ...

Have your child's misbehavior or harsh words ever left you wondering what's really going on? Join Dr. Roger Smith for a thought-provoking look at the surprising role fear can play in our children's actions. Discover how insecurity and the fear of rejection can drive kids to "do or say things that offend" or that they later regret. Learn to look beyond the surface behavior and identify the underlying fear, enabling you to respond wi...

Is your teen still relying on you for laundry? Join Dr. Roger Smith  for a quick dose of essential parenting advice. Discover why teaching your children to do laundry, from matching socks as toddlers to independently washing and ironing as teens, is a crucial life skill you're not doing them any favors by skipping. Learn how to involve kids at every age, turning everyday chores into valuable training for adulthood. Tune in to empow...

Can Winnie the Pooh teach us about raising grateful kids? Join Dr. Roger Smith for quick, insightful parenting advice. Discover how A.A. Milne's Piglet, with his small heart and vast gratitude, offers a powerful lesson for parents. Learn practical exercises to model and cultivate an "attitude of gratefulness" in your children, helping them see beyond themselves and appreciate the good around them. Tune in for actionable tips to nur...

Do children truly follow in their parents' footsteps? Join Dr. Rogers as he explores the popular sayings "like father, like son," "chip off the old block," and "apples don't fall far from the tree." While acknowledging that children can forge their own paths, Dr. Roger Smith emphasizes the powerful influence parents have on their kids' character – both the good and the bad. He encourages parents to honestly evaluate their own trait...

Ever strike up a conversation with a stranger and find unexpected inspiration? Join Dr. Roger Smith as he shares a chance encounter at an airport gate with a young woman on her way to Midland, Texas. Discover how a simple conversation about life, dreams of becoming a nurse, and a powerful Teddy Roosevelt quote led to a moment of connection and a reminder that meaningful moments can happen anywhere. Tune in for this quick dose of pa...

What's the real value of a friend? Dr. Roger Smith introduces a friend, a shrimping expert, and shares how unexpected friendships can enrich your life and broaden your understanding of the world. Discover the surprising things you can learn from those around you and why exposing your children to diverse individuals is a crucial part of their growth. Tune in for insights on the power of connection and the wisdom found in everyday en...