Fake Comfort, Real Struggles: Why You Feel Stuck & What to Do About It

Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling, online shopping, binge-watching TV, or chasing success—and still feeling stuck, anxious, and unfulfilled?

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Christian Life Coaches Melissa Batt and Joy from The Journey to Becoming get real about the hidden habits keeping you from peace. They unpack the power of dopamine, what “deep fakes” look like in your everyday life, and how escaping your reality may be the very thing keeping you from healing.

From emotional avoidance to over-functioning, they break down the unseen struggles that aren’t just normal—they’re holding you back. You’ll learn how to trade fake comfort for real restoration through practical tools, faith-based mindset shifts, and one baby step at a time.

If you’re tired of numbing out and want to reset your life with intention, this episode is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.

 

Key Takeaways:

• [00:00] - Meet Joy: A Christian Life Coach with a Bold Message Melissa introduces Joy and why this conversation is different from anything you've heard before.

• [03:53] - When Discipline Isn’t Enough Why your motivation fades and how unseen emotional patterns are sabotaging your growth.

• [09:41] - Deep Fakes, Dopamine, and Escaping Reality From social media to overworking, Joy explains the “fake dopamine” you’ve been unknowingly addicted to—and how to replace it.

• [20:15] - When Your Body Breaks Down from Avoidance Melissa shares how emotional escape showed up physically in her life—and what it took to recognize the warning signs.

• [30:34] - Creating a Healthy Dopamine Menu Discover how to retrain your brain with God-honoring habits that bring real joy and freedom.

• [37:57] - Seeds, Journaling, and Seeing God’s Hand at Work Why small, unseen steps matter—and how God is faithful to multiply what you sow.

• [44:04] - You Don’t Need to Settle Anymore Joy closes with biblical truth and encouragement for anyone who feels like it’s “too late” to change.

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Connect with Melissa:

• Website: melissabatt.com

• Instagram: @melissabattofficial

• Book a Free Call: https://bit.ly/3RbfwJf

Connect with Joy:

• Podcast: The Journey to Becoming

• Instagram: joyfulfit_life