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Are you sick of always feeling rushed? Are you frequently frustrated and snapping at your kids' spouse or all of the above? Are you ready for peace and joy to flow through you in your home? wherever you are starting from, if you're ready to find peace.
Joy and your sanity once again, or for the first time ever, along with getting back to the root of who God created you to be.
This podcast is for you.
Find a new joy infused marriage, and laughter and fun to replace the stress and frustration with your kiddos as you join me for real, talk through the pain, struggle, and joy, and freedom on the other side.
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Hey Mama.
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It's been a minute.
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Oh my gosh, I can't believe it has been a year since I've been behind the mic.
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I can't believe it.
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It has come on way too fast and I've missed it.
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If you've been here since the beginning, thank you so much for sticking around and if you're new, of course, welcome.
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I'm so glad you're joining us.
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I'm Jen, and I'm really glad you're here.
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So the past, well, oh goodness, it's been over a year now.
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And honestly, it has been one of the most refining and beautiful seasons that I have ever walked through.
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I am going to dive into what I learned about during this break.
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Well not really break a break from podcasting, but I really think it's going to be a huge help to you too.
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So today I just want to share where I've been.
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What God's been doing in my heart and where Restored mom is headed next.
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It's kind of my comeback episode to let you know where we've been and where we're going.
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first I'm gonna give you some really exciting news.
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If you've got the 2024 planner.
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And you gave me your feedback.
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Thank you so much.
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I put that feedback to use.
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I've taken all of your feedback, and I have created something truly beautiful.
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Mama's Peace Planner.
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It's available for pre-order right now, and if you pre-order it right now, you're gonna get $10 off.
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Plus some really cool freebies and some discounts on some new things that I have.
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So head on over to restored mama.com,
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click the shop tab, and you can take a look at all that the planner has to offer.
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When you click the pre-order now tab, it's going to give you all sorts of information on it, and it should answer any questions that you have.
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All right, so logistics out of the way.
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I am just happy to be back.
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It feels so good.
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Like many of you, I had hit a point where I was just doing too much for the season that I was in, and as I've talked about in the past, each season, it's really important to reevaluate your priorities, reevaluate where you're at, and it was all good.
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Everything that I was doing was good, but it was a lot, especially considering that I was about to add two new humans into my family.
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So.
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That kinda leads me into the next thing why I actually paused.
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I didn't stop.
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I just paused, but I went into the hospital a month before the twins were born actually, and they were born early too.
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So I was in the hospital for a month.
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I had preeclampsia and cholestasis that preeclampsia is kind of a commonly known thing with pregnancy, but cholestasis was.
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Well, that was new to me, so it might be new to you too.
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Basically, my, my, um, liver and my gallbladder, all the things, they couldn't process the bile, so all of the bile in my body was going into my bloodstream.
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It was not good.
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My body just was kind of done, unfortunately.
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I had something.
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Absolutely wonderful take place in my life during that season, and I grew closer to God and I learned so much more about him.
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I gained two new, beautiful little boys into my family.
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And they're healthy and for being born so early, they were the healthiest that they could have been.
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So, they were born at 32 weeks.
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I was in the hospital for a month and then the boys were in the NICU for five and a half weeks.
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So it was like three months worth of living in the hospital basically.
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My other kids were really struggling, not seeing me all the time, you know, 'cause they were used to me being there.
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All day, every day, and they didn't get that.
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So it was just a really hard season on our whole family.
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My husband had to do two jobs, basically, like he had to support our family and then take care of the things that I was taking care of at home.
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My mom pitched in and then seeing 'em out.
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The kids actually stayed with her for quite a while and it was fun for them, but it was still really tough.
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So.
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Anyways.
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Long story short, twins were born at 32 weeks, super healthy.
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Needed a little bit of breathing help.
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One of them needed a chest tube because he had a hole in his left lung, and it healed totally fine.
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It healed all on its own, but I just needed a little help to drain all the fluid while it healed five and a half weeks later, they were feeding perfectly.
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They were healthy, keeping their weight up, keeping their bodies warm.
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We got to go home and we started on our new normal.
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Well.
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That led into a very extremely busy season, but also a season where I just needed to focus on my family.
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And I said that and it made me think of Dr.
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James Dobson.
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I don't know if any of you are familiar with that.
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We listen to Adventures and Odyssey all the time.
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Side note.
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But, um, I really had to focus on my family during this season.
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They lost so much time with me and it really affected them.
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So I just focused on where we were at and really devoting my time to them, my husband, my kids, and getting our new normal with the twins.
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So that has been the past year.
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And now fast forward, here we are.
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I have updated everything on the back end.
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So Restored Mama is the same restored mama, but it's still new.
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It has.
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All of the aspects that God told me restored mama needed to have, but it's fresh and alive with new purpose and even a new vision God gave me during the season because even though I wasn't physically here on the computer, in front of the mic recording, I was praying over it and really thinking about it, and I thought about it every single day.
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And I prayed through it every time I was in prayer.
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Okay, God, where are you leading me next? What's happening with Restored Mama? I know you told me to do this.
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I know I'm not supposed to stop, so what's next? And he really showed me so many things.
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And so here we are.
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We're here.
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It's happening.
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Oh, I'm so excited.
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Okay, so.
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That kinda catches you all up.
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And as more episodes come out, I'll give you more details through things, but I don't wanna take a whole episode talking about it all.
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so here I am and I'll update you as things.
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Come up and as time goes, you'll hear more and more about the past year.
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But that's the basics of it.
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That's the gist of it.
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But God made it clear that I needed to slow down and refocus over this past year.
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My family needed me.
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It wasn't an easy decision, but he really used that time to remind me that restoration starts in the quiet.
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And even though I now have, you know, seven kids, two, the older girls are in college, they're not here at the house, but I homeschool.
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I've got almost a teenager.
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She'll be a teenager and one more week, my goodness.
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And I have.
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Four boys four years and under.
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So it's not that my house is quiet, and we'll talk a lot more about this as we dive into rest and peace in the coming episodes.
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But my family's not quiet.
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My home is not quiet.
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I have lots of boys.
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They are loud and rambunctious and so fun.
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But I still.
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Found quiet, and that is where restoration really starts.
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And God did a whole lot of restoring in my soul over the past year.
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I spent a lot of time in prayer and I focused on my home.
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I let God rebuild some things in me that I had been too busy to focus on, and I didn't notice that they were breaking in me.
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They were breaking in my family and in my kids, and