Have you ever poured time, money, and energy into self-help—only to end up more exhausted, more confused, and further from peace?
That’s exactly where I found myself… until God stopped me in my tracks. In this episode, I’m sharing the aha moment He gave me this morning that exposed how self-help has actually been stealing from me: my peace, my joy, and even my empathy for others.
If you’ve been feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or stuck in the cycle of striving—this conversation is for you. We’ll talk about:
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Why self-help often leaves us jaded and empty instead of whole
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The difference between striving to “fix” yourself vs. surrendering to God
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How I lost my “Pollyanna era” of peace and gratitude—and what I’m doing to get it back
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The false promise of control vs. the rest that comes from Jesus
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Practical Scripture reminders to anchor you when life feels chaotic
Friend, if you’ve been chasing formulas, quick fixes, or hustle culture and still wondering why you feel stuck—this episode is your invitation to let it go. Peace isn’t found in the next program or podcast—it’s found in Him.
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