Sharing My Truth

Is men’s self-care weak, or is it essential to attracting women? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie break down how grooming, mental health, fitness, and confidence play into dating success. Is skipping self-care actually keeping you single? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie get into the debate, does looking after yourself make you more attractive, or do men risk being seen as “not masculine” for doi...

A young man, a married woman in her 50s, and a suburban street where temptation lived just over the fence. In this episode, we unpack the jaw-dropping story of a young guy who finds himself in a steamy affair with his brother’s hot, married neighbour. It’s got all the ingredients of a guilty pleasure drama—age gaps, family betrayal, and the kind of secret rendezvous that can only end in chaos.

Mel and Suzie break down what really d...

Is dating secretly a competition? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie ask if men actually date better when there’s rivalry in the mix. Do guys bring more effort when they know other men are in the picture—or is it just toxic game-playing disguised as romance? We dig into psychology, ego, attraction, and whether competition makes men step up… or just act out.

If you’ve ever wondered why men suddenly plan dates, dress ...

Every guy’s had the thought: what if my girlfriend grabs my phone and starts snooping? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie go all in on digital boundaries. Should you give your GF your password as a sign of trust—or is that just an invitation for drama? We talk about where men and women should draw the line, what password sharing really says about your relationship, and how much privacy you’re actually entitled to wh...

Is seeing more than one person at the same time the ultimate dating freedom… or a ticking time bomb for heartbreak? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie spill the tea on the realities of multi-dating, when it’s exciting, when it’s smart, and when it’s just plain messy.

We unpack the pros and cons, how to keep things honest (and drama-free), and the signs your “just having fun” phase might actually be a relationship re...

Ever wondered what actually happens at an orgy, beyond the wild rumours and whispered conversations? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie strip away the myths and talk openly about the world of group sex. We cover what an orgy really is, the rules and etiquette everyone should know, how consent is handled, and what it’s like to be in the room when things get heated.

Suzie even recounts her own experience, from the mom...

When was the last time you actually dated your wife? Not Netflix on the couch. Not a quick dinner between hockey practices. We mean wooed her — like you did before she shared your last name, your mortgage, and the mental load of your entire life.

In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into why so many women emotionally check out of their marriages — and spoiler alert, it’s not because they’re "too sensitive" or "just tired." It’s becau...

Are you divorced and considering dating again? In this episode, Mel and Suzie dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes terrifying world of dating after divorce. From awkward first dates to figuring out if you’re emotionally ready, we’re breaking down what it really takes to get back out there without losing your mind, your confidence, your standards, or your dignity.

Plus, 2 listeners sent us stories that involve post-divorce ...

In this powerful episode, we talk about a write-in from a husband who bravely opened up to us about one of the most painful experiences of his life—discovering that his wife was having an affair with a coworker. He tells us about the red flags he ignored, the shocking moment he uncovered the truth, and how it felt to have the foundation of his marriage ripped out from under him.

But this story isn’t just about betrayal—it’s about w...

Why do men and women consistently fall short in romantic relationships? Is it communication? Emotional baggage? Could it be that we are simply wired in entirely different ways? In this episode, we sit down with psychotherapist and couples therapist Shaun Mazzocca to dig into the chaos of modern relationships. From emotional avoidance to the infamous “he just shut down” moment, we’re unpacking the real issues behind today’s dating d...

Are women really the gatekeepers of sex, or have we all just bought into a narrative that puts the power—and the blame—squarely on their shoulders? In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into the cultural scripts that frame women as the ultimate deciders of when, how, and if sex happens. From hookup culture to long-term relationships, we explore whether this dynamic is about empowerment, control, or just centuries of social conditionin...

Think she's perfect? Maybe. But before you fall headfirst, you might want to check the signs. In this episode, we’re breaking down the Red Flag Playbook, the top dating red flags every man should know before things get serious.

From love bombing and shady texting habits to the subtle signs she’s not emotionally available, we’re calling it out. Whether you're new to dating, returning to the game, or simply tired of making the same m...

In Part 2 of our fascinating conversation with Jeff James (@bythesaintjames), we’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truths about modern masculinity, cheating in relationships, and the disturbing rise of incel culture. Why are so many men angry, disconnected, and spiralling in today’s dating world? What’s really behind the cheating epidemic, and how does online toxicity fuel it all?

We explore how loneliness, rejection, and unrea...

Why are so many men abandoning dating altogether? In this episode, we sit down with licensed therapist Jeff James (from the state of PA, USA) to unpack what’s going on inside the modern male mind. From dating apps that feel more like job interviews to the pressure of being “emotionally evolved but still manly,” we get into why men are tapping out, tuning out, and staying single.

Jeff gives us the male perspective with honesty, his ...

You say you want to meet someone, but are you actually giving off “come talk to me” energy? In this episode, Mel and Suzie get into the mixed signals so many of us send without even realizing it. From crossed arms and dead-eye stares to hiding behind your phone, wearing headphones, and a constant scowl, we break down the little habits that might be making you look closed off, even if you're totally open to connection. It's not abou...

When this mom offered to help her daughter pack up her college apartment, she didn’t expect to stumble across... a dildo. Cue the gasp, the judgment, and the very awkward silence. In this episode, Mel and Suzie talk about why finding a sex toy shouldn’t be treated like discovering a crime scene—and why some parents still freak out over their children becoming adults.

Mel’s take? It’s not a big deal. So why do some moms act like the...

In this episode, Mel and Suzie ask the question no dating app will: does height really matter, or are we just conditioned to think it does? From the rise of the “short king” to the timeless appeal of “hot and tall,” we’re unpacking how height shows up in modern dating and how much of it is personal preference vs. social pressure. 

We share real stories, some hard truths, and a few unpopular opinions. Is it fair that short guys have...

This week, we're diving headfirst into the messiest kind of drama: family. What happens when your sister’s relationship is technically open… but you end up hooking up with her husband? Is it betrayal, bad judgment, or just really confusing boundaries? Mel and Suzie break down this jaw-dropping confession, talk through the ethics of open relationships, and ask the big question: when is honesty the right move and when is it just self...

He thought he knew everything about his wife—until one drunken night changed everything. In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into a jaw-dropping listener story: a husband finds out his seemingly vanilla wife used to be a full-blown dom in college. We’re talking leather, power, total control. And she casually dropped that bomb years into their marriage—over drinks, no less.

We unpack what this kind of revelation does to trust, intima...