Sharing My Truth

Are you divorced and considering dating again? In this episode, Mel and Suzie dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes terrifying world of dating after divorce. From awkward first dates to figuring out if you’re emotionally ready, we’re breaking down what it really takes to get back out there without losing your mind, your confidence, your standards, or your dignity.

Plus, 2 listeners sent us stories that involve post-divorce ...

In this powerful episode, we talk about a write-in from a husband who bravely opened up to us about one of the most painful experiences of his life—discovering that his wife was having an affair with a coworker. He tells us about the red flags he ignored, the shocking moment he uncovered the truth, and how it felt to have the foundation of his marriage ripped out from under him.

But this story isn’t just about betrayal—it’s about w...

Why do men and women consistently fall short in romantic relationships? Is it communication? Emotional baggage? Could it be that we are simply wired in entirely different ways? In this episode, we sit down with psychotherapist and couples therapist Shaun Mazzocca to dig into the chaos of modern relationships. From emotional avoidance to the infamous “he just shut down” moment, we’re unpacking the real issues behind today’s dating d...

Are women really the gatekeepers of sex, or have we all just bought into a narrative that puts the power—and the blame—squarely on their shoulders? In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into the cultural scripts that frame women as the ultimate deciders of when, how, and if sex happens. From hookup culture to long-term relationships, we explore whether this dynamic is about empowerment, control, or just centuries of social conditionin...

Think she's perfect? Maybe. But before you fall headfirst, you might want to check the signs. In this episode, we’re breaking down the Red Flag Playbook, the top dating red flags every man should know before things get serious.

From love bombing and shady texting habits to the subtle signs she’s not emotionally available, we’re calling it out. Whether you're new to dating, returning to the game, or simply tired of making the same m...

In Part 2 of our fascinating conversation with Jeff James (@bythesaintjames), we’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truths about modern masculinity, cheating in relationships, and the disturbing rise of incel culture. Why are so many men angry, disconnected, and spiralling in today’s dating world? What’s really behind the cheating epidemic, and how does online toxicity fuel it all?

We explore how loneliness, rejection, and unrea...

Why are so many men abandoning dating altogether? In this episode, we sit down with licensed therapist Jeff James (from the state of PA, USA) to unpack what’s going on inside the modern male mind. From dating apps that feel more like job interviews to the pressure of being “emotionally evolved but still manly,” we get into why men are tapping out, tuning out, and staying single.

Jeff gives us the male perspective with honesty, his ...

You say you want to meet someone, but are you actually giving off “come talk to me” energy? In this episode, Mel and Suzie get into the mixed signals so many of us send without even realizing it. From crossed arms and dead-eye stares to hiding behind your phone, wearing headphones, and a constant scowl, we break down the little habits that might be making you look closed off, even if you're totally open to connection. It's not abou...

When this mom offered to help her daughter pack up her college apartment, she didn’t expect to stumble across... a dildo. Cue the gasp, the judgment, and the very awkward silence. In this episode, Mel and Suzie talk about why finding a sex toy shouldn’t be treated like discovering a crime scene—and why some parents still freak out over their children becoming adults.

Mel’s take? It’s not a big deal. So why do some moms act like the...

In this episode, Mel and Suzie ask the question no dating app will: does height really matter, or are we just conditioned to think it does? From the rise of the “short king” to the timeless appeal of “hot and tall,” we’re unpacking how height shows up in modern dating and how much of it is personal preference vs. social pressure. 

We share real stories, some hard truths, and a few unpopular opinions. Is it fair that short guys have...

This week, we're diving headfirst into the messiest kind of drama: family. What happens when your sister’s relationship is technically open… but you end up hooking up with her husband? Is it betrayal, bad judgment, or just really confusing boundaries? Mel and Suzie break down this jaw-dropping confession, talk through the ethics of open relationships, and ask the big question: when is honesty the right move and when is it just self...

He thought he knew everything about his wife—until one drunken night changed everything. In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into a jaw-dropping listener story: a husband finds out his seemingly vanilla wife used to be a full-blown dom in college. We’re talking leather, power, total control. And she casually dropped that bomb years into their marriage—over drinks, no less.

We unpack what this kind of revelation does to trust, intima...

This week is another episode from our Truth Bomb series. After giving birth to twins, she was struggling with her body image—despite her husband constantly reassuring her that she was beautiful. But self-doubt can run deeper than compliments, and she just couldn’t shake the feeling. Wanting to help her feel confident again, her husband secretly worked overtime, saved up, and surprised her with what he thought was the ultimate gestu...

Vanilla sex: the missionary-positioned elephant in the room. It’s been unfairly dragged through the mud like it’s the tofu of sex, bland, basic, and totally forgettable. But what if we told you vanilla sex is actually the comfort food of the bedroom? Yeah, we said it.

This week, Mel and Suzie are peeling back the (silk) sheets and getting real about why vanilla sex doesn’t deserve the bad PR. There is a line between vanilla and the...

Have you ever felt like you're in a relationship… but without the label, the clarity, or the commitment? Welcome to the wonderfully confusing world of the situationship. In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the murky waters between casual hookups and committed love. Mel and Suzie pull apart the emotional spaghetti of modern dating where exclusivity is elusive, titles are taboo, and everyone’s pretending they’re totally cool...

What’s a total dealbreaker, and what’s a sign you’ve found a keeper? In this Sharing My Truth episode, Mel & Suzie are laying it all out—unfiltered, hilarious, and painfully honest. We're talking about the biggest dating red flags that should have you sprinting for the door… and the green flags that might just signal you’ve found your forever person (or at least someone worth a second date). Whether you’re deep in the dating tr...

In this episode, we’re tackling one of the toughest topics in relationships—what to do when you find something unattractive in your partner. Whether it’s a physical change or a habit that’s driving you crazy, how do you bring it up without causing a meltdown? We’re spilling the secrets on how to drop that truth bomb gently and still keep the love alive.

We’ll discuss the fine art of timing, why honesty is key, and how to approach s...

Are men checking out of real relationships altogether? This week, Mel and Suzie dive into the wild new world of modern intimacy—where some men are swapping deep connections for digital fantasies and no-strings-attached encounters. Are women being replaced, or is this just another phase in the ever-evolving world of dating and sex? Is the traditional dynamic between men and women shifting forever? Elon Musk has been pretty vocal abo...

In today’s episode, we’re tackling the issue of gender extremism—where toxic misogyny and narcissistic feminism seem to be at odds but might actually be feeding off each other. Is the rise of extreme viewpoints on both sides tearing our world apart, or are we just witnessing the clash of outdated and new power dynamics? Mel and Suzie dive into how these polarizing ideologies are affecting men, women, relationships, dating, and soci...