S1 E4: Chantell's Tale

This episode focuses on the tale of Chantelle

As she finds herself entangled in a web of infidelity and manipulation. Despite her fierce self-sufficiency, Chantelle's journey reveals that anyone can become a victim of an abusive relationship.

The podcast episode includes psychological concepts and societal issues such as gambling, emotional manipulation, infidelity and the intricate web of human psychology, neurobiology and the choices we make. It underscores the importance of understanding the deeper layers beneath our actions and the actions of those around us.   

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Resources for this episode are as follows:

• For domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service support reach out to 1800RESPECT via phone on 1800 737 732 and online at www.1800respect.org.au  
• If you are someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or in need of psychological support reach out to LifeLine on 13 11 44 or visit www.lifeline.org.au  

Source material used in this episode includes:

• Dopamine Nation, Dr Anne Lembke, 2021, Headline Publishing Group 
• Banks, J. and Waters, J. (2023) An examination of the interrelationship between disordered gambling and intimate partner violence. International Review of Victimology 
  • This study stated “note that poor impulse control may underpin both the development of gambling disorders and Intimate Partner Violence” 
• Manoochehr Taghi Pour, et al. (2019). Infidelity in Marital Relationships. Psychology & Psychological Research International Journal 
  • This study stated, “Low conscientiousness and low agreeableness share the common component of impulsivity and inability to delay gratification and are robust predictors of infidelities.” 
  • Quote” Researchers have found that marital Infidelity has negative effects on couples’ and parents’ relationships and may be the most feared and destroying experience of couple relationships, which may cause divorce which effects on couple, parents and their children. The process of healing deep emotional wounds of mistrust, betrayal, sadness, loss of confidence is arduous but worth the effort” 
  • This study refers to five categories of motives for infidelity [which are sexuality, emotional satisfaction, social context, attitudes-norms, and revenge-hostility. Sexuality motives consist of the desire for diversity and dissatisfaction with the primary sexual relationship. Emotional satisfaction might imply relationship dissatisfaction, ego bolstering, and/or emotional attachment to the other person. Social contextual factors refer to opportunity and absence of the primary partner. Attitudes-norms include sexually permissive attitudes and norms. Revenge-hostility applies to infidelity that occurs in retaliation for some perceived wrong