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April 22, 2025 83 mins

A teen commits murder—and gets house arrest, a new car, and $400K in donations. What message does that send?

In this powerful episode of Stay in the Gray, Ryan sits down with former police officer and current school security director Drew for a blunt, uncomfortable conversation on youth violence, race, and the dangerous blur between support and enabling.

🎙 Topics include:
– The Karmelo Anthony case and public reaction
– The Dallas school shooting and repeatable patterns
– Cultural, racial, and parental dynamics in violent youth crime
– What real prevention and accountability look like

⚠️ This one’s not easy. It’s not supposed to be.
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Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction: The Culture of Violence

01:02 - Welcome to Stay in the Gray Podcast

01:40 - Guest Introduction and Show Setup

02:26 - Diving into Controversial Topics

02:41 - Focusing on Local Stories

03:15 - The Case of Teen Violence

04:28 - Cultural Responses to Crime

13:23 - Guest's Professional Background

17:04 - Police Perspective on Racial Issues

34:42 - Community Response to Violence

39:37 - Local School Shooting Incident

41:15 - Details of the Incident

44:11 - Discussion on Cultural and Social Factors

44:55 - Role of Parenting and Male Role Models

47:51 - Influence of Media and Music

59:18 - Law Enforcement and Community Response

01:17:56 - Final Thoughts and Call for Accountability


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