From Fear to Turn-On: Consent Chats, Safe words & NLP for Bedroom Confidence

This week on The Adults Corner, Cherry Dana and Chloe Pillans go deep on consent that actually feels sexy—from how to ask (and when), to COF etiquette, to Chloe’s NLP “like-to-dislike” technique that helped Cherry reframe a long-held anxiety around semen. We unpack bedroom communication, traffic-light safe words, the difference between discomfort vs pain, and how clear check-ins create trust, vulnerability, and ridiculously better sex. We also touch on: Regret after rushed encounters, what we’d do differently now COF etiquette & aftercare (face/skin safety, language, towels, timing) Threesomes & boundary setting before, during, after Foot worship 101 (ask first, limits, hygiene) Unsolicited nudes & why consent still applies online Why “asking again” mid-heat isn’t a buzzkill—it's the turn-on   This episode reflects personal experience and education, not medical or legal advice. If past trauma is activated, consider pausing and seeking support.