No One Is Ever Going to Love You: Dating Patterns, Cheating & Sex-Party Etiquette

Cherry Dana and Chloe Pillans go there: the breakup spiral, the three-month dating pattern, cheaters and liars, and the shame scripts that sound like, “No one is ever going to love you.” We unpack sex-party etiquette (voyeur vs. play), BDSM dynamics, consent culture, and why some guys say “stay-at-home dad” on the first date. We also talk psychedelics, vaginal odour myths, boundaries with OnlyFans, and how to spot red flags fast—before they cost your peace (and your rent). This show is educational and adult-only. We discuss sex, drugs, and kink with a consent-first lens. Nothing here is medical or legal advice. If you engage in BDSM or group play: agree on traffic-light safe words (Green/Yellow/Red), negotiate aftercare, and get explicit yeses—every time. If you’re experimenting with substances, follow harm-reduction practices and local laws. Topics: Breakup grief vs. loneliness; the “three-month pattern” Gaslighting lines we stop believing (“You’ll be alone forever,” “You smell/taste wrong”) Dating while NSFW: boundaries with fans/clients, why work ≠ personal access Sex-party etiquette 101: consent cues, voyeur spaces, dungeon vs. orgy rooms, supplies Red flags in bios/texts; liars, addictions, spiritual cosplay Money over manipulation: why financial safety is not “cold” Attachment patterns (anxious/avoidant) and naming our needs