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May 1, 2025 43 mins

Together, Nicky and Sarah explore the often-unspoken side of the spiritual and healing world such as the seductive nature of quick fixes, the glorification of transcendence at the expense of the human experience, and the shadow side of placing mentors on pedestals. They shine a light on the ways spiritual bypassing can subtly undermine genuine growth and emphasize the importance of staying anchored in authenticity, humility, and discernment.

 

The conversation dives into red flags to be aware of in spiritual teachers and healing practitioners, including over-promising results, lack of transparency, and disconnection from their own humanity. They unpack the marketing of transformation at retreats, encouraging listeners to trust their inner knowing, honor their intuition, and approach healing not as something to be outsourced, but as a sacred collaboration between self and guide.

 

Through this rich dialogue, Nicky and Sarah advocate for a return to self-honoring, embodied truth, and the slow, often messy, but deeply rewarding path of healing. Whether you’re just beginning your personal growth journey or navigating the complexities of finding the right support, this episode invites you into a space of reflection, empowerment, and deeper connection to your own wisdom.

 

 

Takeaways:

  • Spiritual bypassing can be a form of spiritual narcissism.
  • The desire for quick fixes can lead to avoidance of deeper work.
  • The journey of healing is more important than the destination.
  • Humility is a crucial stage in the process of enlightenment.
  • It's essential to run potential mentors through your own heart filter.
  • Over-promising in mentorship is a significant red flag.
  • Look for alignment between a teacher's words and actions.
  • Avoid placing mentors on pedestals to prevent disillusionment.
  • Effective teachers empower others to recognize their own light.
  • The marketing of spiritual experiences can often be misleading.
  • The intention behind seeking help is crucial for effective healing.
  • Collaboration in healing is essential; it's not just outsourcing.
  • Trusting your instincts is vital in any healing journey.
  • Red flags include guarantees of healing or fixed outcomes.
  • Empowerment comes from recognizing one's own healing capabilities.
  • Healing is a layered process that varies for each individual.
  • Self-honoring is key; it's okay to step back if needed.
  • There are many paths to healing; no one way is the only way.
  • Relatability and authenticity in practitioners are important.

 

Connect with me:

https://nickyYyoga.com

https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity

support@nickyYyoga.com

 

Connect with Sarah:

https://www.sparkflc.com/

https://www.facebook.com/SarahSparkFLC/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfymRND2sFqBEuWET4RPETg

 

 

Keywords: spiritual bypassing, mentorship, red flags, plant medicine, healing, spiritual growth, self-awareness, ego, transformation, community, healing, practitioners, collaboration, empowerment, trust, self-honoring, intentions

 

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