The Conscious Love Show

We’ve entered an era where men have stopped approaching women—and not because they’ve lost interest. They’ve been taught to stay quiet, to avoid being “creepy,” to hide their attraction in the name of respect.

The result? A generation of people starving for real connection while pretending they don’t care.

In this episode, we breaks down why modern dating feels so disconnected—and how you c...

Many women believe that if a man doesn’t know how to love her, he isn’t the one.

But what if that’s exactly why so many women end up with men who stop showing up—who pull away, disconnect, or go emotionally flat after the spark fades?

This episode isn’t about control. It’s about awakening the part of a man that wants to rise for you… and the part of you that knows how to call it forward.

Modern culture tells men to be softer, safer, and more sensitive—until we lose respect for the very men who listen.

In this episode of Shane’s Diary, I share my personal journey of reclaiming my masculinity after years of suppressing it to be “good.”

From growing up under the shadow of a hyper-religious mother who called every masculine impulse sinful, to living with a father who embodied i...

Every woman wants to know if the man she’s falling for is ready for something real.

But what if the signs you’ve been taught to look for are wrong?

In this episode, we deep dive on what readiness for commitment actually looks like in a man—why he can love you deeply and still not choose you, and what shifts everything when he finally does.

This one might challenge what you thi...

Everyone talks about feminine energy — but few truly understand what draws a powerful man toward a powerful woman.

You’ve heard that men want softness, that women should “stay in their feminine,” that polarity is the key to love.

But what if that’s not the whole truth?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the deeper dynamics between masculine and feminine energy — the ...

From the moment a man meets you, he is reading your energy. Often within minutes, he knows whether you’re partner energy or pleasure energy… and what he senses has nothing to do with your looks or achievements.

In this episode, we explore the real reason men stop seeing a woman as “high value” — even when she is. You’ll learn how a man’s subconscious conditioning shapes the way he engages, why he’ll ente...

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In this episode I share my personal story coming from a broken home, no model for healthy relationships, and devastating heartbreak, to a long healing journey that led to creating the loving, conscious relationship I have with my wife today.

Each month I'm dropping another entry of Shane's Diary where I share personal insights into the man behind t...

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If you've ever felt that Attachment Theory doesn't quite explain everything, then you're intuitively tuning into something that most people are ignoring.

We as individuals are so much more complex than the label of "anxious" or "avoidant."

Underneath every anxious woman is someone who secretly avoids love through pushing, pursuing , and proving. And underneath ...

Why are so many women drawn to the very kind of men who leave her feeling unseen, unsettled, and unsatisfied?

She knows he’s pulling away.

She knows it’s costing her peace.

And yet—something inside her keeps reaching for him.

In this episode, we go into the hidden magnet behind that attraction. Not in the way you’ve heard a hundred times before, b...

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We all know the ache of attachment—the deep longing for connection, the fear of losing it, the emptiness that follows when it slips away.

But what if there’s more to it than just childhood wounds or relationship patterns?

What if attachment itself is pointing to something far deeper?

In this episode, I ...

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I'm back with my second diary entry.

In this episode I share about my journey of living with a repressed shadow and how I learned to integrate it in a healthy way. From the extreme religious repression of my mother to the unchecked ego of my father, I share how I internalized the idea that I was unworthy of God's love from a young age.

I was broken open by my experiences t...

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It’s one of the deepest cries of the human heart: “How could you leave me?”

We’ve all felt it—the shock, the grief, the ache of not being chosen.

But here’s the truth most people never consider: real love would never ask that question.

In this episode, I’m pul...

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It’s almost universal.

The wound of needing to be chosen runs deep in the hearts of women everywhere—showing up in ways most don’t even realize.

In this episode, we break it down.

Why this wound exists.

Where it begins.

How it silently shapes the way you love, trust, and show...

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You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind.

But what if that’s not the whole truth?

In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so...

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I'm officially a father to a beautiful little girl and as I step into this new chapter of my life, I wanted to add something new to the podcast.

Once monthly, I'm going to do a Shane's Diary episode where I take a pause from the regular content and share personal reflections, stories and insights from my journey to let you get to know the man behind...

Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.

You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or ...

In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally.  This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship.  What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you?  And what can you be flexible about?  The answers might surprise you!  

If you're listening to this episode and are interested in...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need.

We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own ...

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner.  Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person.

In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone.  In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an in...