The Conscious Love Show

Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.

You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or ...

In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally.  This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship.  What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you?  And what can you be flexible about?  The answers might surprise you!  

If you're listening to this episode and are interested in...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need.

We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own ...

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner.  Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person.

In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone.  In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an in...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a question that many people with anxiety face: How to stop my anxiety from ruining a relationship? If you’ve ever found your anxiety taking over in a relationship, causing overthinking, insecurity, or unnecessary conflict, this episode will help you gain control and find peace.

I’ll share strategies for managing anxiety in a relationship, how to communicate your feelings wit...

You’ve felt it—that slow fade, the sudden shift in energy, the uncertainty that creeps in when a connection that once felt promising starts to feel… off.

You start wondering if you’re asking for too much. You question whether to speak up or stay silent. And deep down, you just want to feel chosen without having to chase.

This is the moment when we unconsciously sabotage connection the most....

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the challenge of standing out in modern dating—especially in the world of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt lost in the sea of profiles or wondered how to make a meaningful connection in a swipe-happy world, this episode is for you.

I’ll share practical strategies on how to present your authentic self, write a profile that attracts the right kind of attention, and navigate the...

You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?  

In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that ...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity.

I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly mea...

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.

And then… it happens again.

You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming.

But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shri...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive into a thought-provoking question: Is my independence keeping me single? If you’ve ever wondered whether your strong sense of independence is making it harder to attract or maintain a relationship, this episode will help you explore that dynamic.

I’ll discuss the balance between maintaining your autonomy and being open to partnership, how to navigate the fear of losing your ind...

Why do some men pull away even when love is present?

In this episode, we break down one of the most confusing dynamics in modern dating: when emotional connection exists, but commitment never fully arrives. 

I’ll unpack the deeper fears, unspoken blocks, and hidden conflicts that cause men to hesitate—even when they genuinely care. You’ll learn how to recognize these patterns early, avoid getting trapped in limbo, and position your...

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In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a complex question: What if someone aligns with what I want but I'm not physically attracted to them? If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where a person seems perfect on paper but the physical attraction just isn’t there, this episode will offer guidance on how to navigate this challenge.

We’ll explor...

Grab your spot in my upcoming 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here.

 

You say you’re happy and single — and maybe you are. But what if that happiness is secretly a barrier? A quiet defense against the love you crave. In this episode, we explore the seven subtle beliefs that often hide beneath independence and self-sufficiency — the ones that sound like empowerment, but may actually be keeping you from the deep connection your heart...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a powerful question: How can I want love and still be happy without it? If you’ve ever felt torn between desiring a romantic relationship and learning how to find contentment in your own company, this episode is for you.

I’ll share insights on how to cultivate self-love, personal fulfillment, and inner happiness while still holding space for the desire for love. We’ll discus...

You want love—but are you turning your life into a self-imposed prison because you haven’t found it yet?

In this episode, we unpack the quiet ways people punish themselves for being single, stuck, or in love-limbo. From numbing your joy to turning dating into a full-time emotional job, we explore how romantic longing can morph into identity and self-worth issues.

You’ll learn how to stop chasing love like a cure and start showing u...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a vulnerable and important question: How do I share body insecurity with a partner? If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable opening up about your body insecurities, or worried about how your partner might respond, this episode will guide you through the process of sharing in a healthy, supportive way.

Join me, as we explore how to communicate your feelings with honesty and vulnera...

You’ve read the books. You’ve done the mindset work.

So why do you still feel uncomfortable in your skin?

In this episode, we’re unpacking the deeper layers of body shame—where it actually comes from, why it lingers even after years of healing, and what it really takes to feel confident, grounded, and beautiful in your body again.

This isn’t about changing how you look.

It’s about changing how you relate to the vessel that holds yo...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a common relationship question: Is being busy a valid reason for distance? If you’ve ever felt pushed away by a partner who claims to be too busy to connect, or found yourself justifying emotional distance with the busyness of life, this episode will provide insight into this dynamic.

We’ll explore how busyness can sometimes be a genuine reason for lack of connection, but als...