The Conscious Love Show

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If you've ever felt that Attachment Theory doesn't quite explain everything, then you're intuitively tuning into something that most people are ignoring.

We as individuals are so much more complex than the label of "anxious" or "avoidant."

Underneath every anxious woman is someone who secretly avoids love through pushing, pursuing , and proving. And underneath ...

Why are so many women drawn to the very kind of men who leave her feeling unseen, unsettled, and unsatisfied?

She knows he’s pulling away.

She knows it’s costing her peace.

And yet—something inside her keeps reaching for him.

 

In this episode, we go into the hidden magnet behind that attraction. Not in the way you’ve heard a hundred times before, b...

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We all know the ache of attachment—the deep longing for connection, the fear of losing it, the emptiness that follows when it slips away.

But what if there’s more to it than just childhood wounds or relationship patterns?

What if attachment itself is pointing to something far deeper?

 

In this episode, I ...

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I'm back with my second diary entry.

In this episode I share about my journey of living with a repressed shadow and how I learned to integrate it in a healthy way. From the extreme religious repression of my mother to the unchecked ego of my father, I share how I internalized the idea that I was unworthy of God's love from a young age.

I was broken open by my experiences t...

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It’s one of the deepest cries of the human heart: “How could you leave me?”

We’ve all felt it—the shock, the grief, the ache of not being chosen.

 

But here’s the truth most people never consider: real love would never ask that question.

 

In this episode, I’m pul...

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It’s almost universal.

The wound of needing to be chosen runs deep in the hearts of women everywhere—showing up in ways most don’t even realize.

 

In this episode, we break it down.

Why this wound exists.

Where it begins.

How it silently shapes the way you love, trust, and show...

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You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind.

But what if that’s not the whole truth?

 

In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so...

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I'm officially a father to a beautiful little girl and as I step into this new chapter of my life, I wanted to add something new to the podcast.

Once monthly, I'm going to do a Shane's Diary episode where I take a pause from the regular content and share personal reflections, stories and insights from my journey to let you get to know the man behind...

Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.

You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or ...

In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally.  This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship.  What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you?  And what can you be flexible about?  The answers might surprise you!  

If you're listening to this episode and are interested in...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need.

We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own ...

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner.  Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person.

In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone.  In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an in...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a question that many people with anxiety face: How to stop my anxiety from ruining a relationship? If you’ve ever found your anxiety taking over in a relationship, causing overthinking, insecurity, or unnecessary conflict, this episode will help you gain control and find peace.

I’ll share strategies for managing anxiety in a relationship, how to communicate your feelings wit...

You’ve felt it—that slow fade, the sudden shift in energy, the uncertainty that creeps in when a connection that once felt promising starts to feel… off.

You start wondering if you’re asking for too much. You question whether to speak up or stay silent. And deep down, you just want to feel chosen without having to chase.

This is the moment when we unconsciously sabotage connection the most....

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the challenge of standing out in modern dating—especially in the world of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt lost in the sea of profiles or wondered how to make a meaningful connection in a swipe-happy world, this episode is for you.

I’ll share practical strategies on how to present your authentic self, write a profile that attracts the right kind of attention, and navigate the...

You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?  

In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that ...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity.

I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly mea...

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again.

And then… it happens again.

You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming.

But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shri...

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive into a thought-provoking question: Is my independence keeping me single? If you’ve ever wondered whether your strong sense of independence is making it harder to attract or maintain a relationship, this episode will help you explore that dynamic.

I’ll discuss the balance between maintaining your autonomy and being open to partnership, how to navigate the fear of losing your ind...