The Dates of Our Lives

In this episode, Christy and Tanesia discuss the moon tarot card and Audre Lorde's essay Uses of the Erotic as they relate to pleasure, desire, and sexuality.  Listen as the dynamic duo sort through what makes them feel most alive, the possibilities of the unknown, what it means to harness our own feral, unhinged selves, to bathe in the the wildness of creativity,  eroticism, in all its many shapes and forms.  What do you really de...

In this episode Christy and Tanesia wax dreamy while discussing the Star Card, reflecting on the ancient watery quiet emanating off of it, and the experiences they had on much needed dates with themselves.  Get cozy, light some incense, and listen to these lilting and wandering musings! 

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An 8 ft long, 1 foot wide episode about all things ding-a-ling.  In our longest episode yet (1 hour 56 minutes–not that we’re measuring it or anything), Christy and Tanesia discuss slang words, biological phenomena, pegging, strap-ons, actual penis festivals, and the messages of the tower card as they relate to creative energy, receptivity and the beauty of embodying both penetrative and slurpy receptive sexual energy.  Tanesia als...

Welcome baaack to the Dates of Our Lives.  Join Tanesia and Christy as they introduce the third season of the pod, and chat about the third line of the Tarot, the Devil Card, and how person power intersects relationships in magical ways. #deviltarotcard #datesofourlivespodcast #personalpower #tarot #magic #relationships

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In the final episode of the season, Tanesia and Christy talk to returning guest, Pete, about the etiquette of threesomes, the alchemy of the Temperance card, and the magic and possibility of the unknown.  Paying homage to endings and new beginnings, the three cast a sexy spell full of unknowns and alchemical possibilities! 

Special thanks to Dr Jaguar for our theme music and Pete Bourland for being up for an adventure!

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In this episode Christy and Tanesia drink beer again and discuss the etymology of La Petite Mort, types of orgasms, and how these things might connect to the death card in the tarot.  Join us while we cum to some pretty remarkable realizations and revelations!  

Thanks to Dr. Jaguar for composing our theme music and check out these other folks who we mention in this episode: This Paranormal Life Podcast @thisparanormallife, Speakin...

In this episode we talk about the Hanged One tarot archetype, and BDSM!  Content warning: we discuss themes around sex, restraint, porn, power dynamics, pain, vulnerability, humiliation play, breath play, shame, domination, and more. If you feel triggered by these topics, take care of yourself, and opt out of this episode.  Know we are basing our conversation in joy!

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Join Christy and Tanesia in a new Chariot year!  We talk about the messy middle—both in tarot terms (transitioning from the Lovers to the Chariot through the lens of Justice)  and in CRUSH ENERGY terms!  You know that vibe-y fun energy that makes you feel alive and vibrant?  Does it have to be dependent on someone else? Maybe not!?

#crushenergy #tarotmath #motorboat_thetruth 

Thank you Dr. Jaguar for our theme music!

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In this episode Christy and Tanesia think about dating whilst playing board games with their dates, Jordan and Pete.  First impressions!  Curiosity!  Play!  Patience!  Explore these themes with us as we play Heart Throb and Dream Crush at Empire Board Games in Albuqerque.

Thank you to guests Pete Bourland and Jordan Hines!  Thank you Empire Board Games for hosting us on the DL, and to Dr. Jaguar for our theme music.

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In this episode, Tanesia and Christy share ghost(ing) stories with special guest, Rudy Montoya.  Join them by the fire as they explore the surprisingly tender side of ghosting!

Thanks to Dr Jaguar for the theme music and to Rudy Montoya for making us cackle back so much!  

If you have an episode idea, a hilarious dating story or just want to shower us with sweetness you can send correspondence to: datesofourlivespodcast@gmail.com

In this episode, Christy and Tanesia are back and rowdier than ever!  They introduce the new season talking about flirting while flirting with each other.  Catch up on how they are conceiving of their dating projects and consider how the energy of flirting works for you!  

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Christy and Tanesia discuss the Chariot card, internalized capitalism and their approach to a hot, lazy summer!  The subject of dating takes a backseat in our chariot as we take a pod break for summer! We will return to regular podding in September.   In the meantime, catch up on old episodes!  Also, please send us your thoughts and reach out about dating, love, vehicles of self-determination—whatever!  Write to us at datesofourli...

In this episode Tanesia and Christy talk to folks about the lessons they've learned from the "higher authority" (or Hierophant) of Rom Coms!  We discuss grand gestures, conflict and self growth montages, frivolity and the iconic 'meet cute.'   Thank you to guests: Dani Belvin, Ian Colburn, Emily Schuyler, Brennan, and George and Lorraine Cook! Thank you Dr. Jaguar for our theme music! If you would like to reach out please write ...

In this episode Tanesia, Christy and Jordan discuss Patriarchy and dating through the lens of the Emperor card.  They dish about daddies, structures that are imposed, and dream into structures they want to create.  

For next week we are seeking your responses!  What have you learned from the "authority" of Rom Coms (or contemporary romance lit) about relationships or dating?...

In this episode Christy and Tanesia share updates about their dating projects--including highlights from their date with each other #willyoubemytatdaddy?  They discuss how themes, symbols and energies of the Empress card relate to romancing oneself.  

Thank to Chaney Howe @chanaya_twain and Shadow of Comfort Tattoo for facilitating our date with eachother.  

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