S3:E30. The One Who Balances Strategy With Strength

"What the research shows is that people who act as though they're self-disciplined actually have found a good strategy.  That's more important than any personal strength.  Psychologists have been able to teach children who didn't show self-discipline, who didn't show an ability to delay gratification have been able to teach them strategies that allowed them to do that and then they acquire that knowledge. Oh yeah, I can do that. Oh yeah, I found now the strategy. And it changes everything."  - Dr. John Tholen, Retired Clinical Psychologist and Author

Highlights: 

• "The greatest power we have is to change how we feel and what we do"

• "Helplessness and hopelessness doesn't help anyone"

• "Find a way to talk about the ways we're alike rather than the ways we are different"

Video podcast interview: youtu.be/fV_mS229zEM

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Article in Authority Magazine featuring John: medium.com/authority-magazine/rising-through-resilience-author-dr-john-tholen-on-the-five-things-you-can-do-to-become-more-63e9841f5c37

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