No Spaghetti Straps - Sleepover Edition

Season: 2 Episode: 3 Topics Isis and Kiera are not allowed to start talking about past 10pm #486: Intricacies of the differing parental philosophy’s that personally governed us as adolescents while we perform a sodacide at night.

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.0000000001Welcome to Crisis with Kira and isis. 2 00:00:07,310.0000000001 --> 00:00:08,810.0000000001 This is Crisis at Night. 3 00:00:08,880.0000000001 --> 00:00:12,235 we're doing a little late night session.
Just some chit chat.
Fireside chats.
Fireside.
This is soda side.
Really? I'm gonna commit a soda side.

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I'm gonna murder this soda.
Oh God.
Oh my God. 12 00:00:29,667.780435091 --> 00:00:30,387.780435091 I'm cutting out. 13 00:00:30,537.780435091 --> 00:00:30,897.780435091 There we go. 14 00:00:31,527.780435091 --> 00:00:32,609.780435091 Um, you wanna, that was. 15 00:00:32,817.780435091 --> 00:00:33,337.780435091 It's funny. 16 00:00:34,647.780435091 --> 00:00:35,167.780435091 I like that. 17 00:00:35,167.780435091 --> 00:00:37,177.780435091 What time is it? Are they going to kick it? I just saw a guy. 18 00:00:37,217.780435091 --> 00:00:38,637.780435091 Oh, it's only, it's 941. 19 00:00:38,677.780435091 --> 00:00:41,867.780435091 We're chillin We're chillin We're supposed to be out of here at 45. 20 00:00:41,867.880435091 --> 00:00:47,767.780435091 Yeah, it's President's Day tomorrow, which we just realized, so we got excited. 21 00:00:47,947.780435091 --> 00:00:49,527.780435091 Yeah, we were going to record tomorrow. 22 00:00:49,527.880435091 --> 00:00:50,505.546546202 We need to sleep in. 23 00:00:50,505.546546202 --> 00:00:50,701.079768424 But. 24 00:00:50,701.079768424 --> 00:00:52,327.780435091 But it's going to be closed. 25 00:00:52,327.880435091 --> 00:00:52,517.680435091 It's closed. 26 00:00:52,517.780435091 --> 00:00:54,987.780435091 So we're like, okay, this is our only ample opportunity. 27 00:00:55,587.780435091 --> 00:00:57,17.780435091 And you don't have work. 28 00:00:57,77.780435091 --> 00:00:57,967.780435091 I don't have school. 29 00:00:58,827.780435091 --> 00:00:59,557.780435091 So we're going to edit. 30 00:00:59,567.780435091 --> 00:01:01,517.779435091 Good times and noodle salad. 31 00:01:02,544.999 --> 00:01:09,4.999 I feel like everything your parents did that like you hated as a kid, you like look back and you're like, Thank God. 32 00:01:09,50.099 --> 00:01:11,389.999 Oh my gosh. 33 00:01:11,819.999 --> 00:01:17,319.999 Obviously, I didn't have, I didn't have, I didn't have strict parents. 34 00:01:17,839.999 --> 00:01:26,389.999 Um, and I think people who had extremely strict parents, like, there's, you know, it's a balance. 35 00:01:26,389.999 --> 00:01:30,209.998 Like, you can go too far and then traumatize your kid both ways. 36 00:01:30,389.998 --> 00:01:30,659.998 Right. 37 00:01:30,659.998 --> 00:01:33,9.999 You know, but I would say for the most part. 38 00:01:33,554.999 --> 00:01:43,204.999 Most of the things that you didn't like, that your parents didn't let you do, or like, restricted you on, you look back and you're like, That was, that, I like, I'm so appreciative. 39 00:01:43,314.999 --> 00:01:44,164.999 Good choice, good choice. 40 00:01:44,434.999 --> 00:01:58,804.9985 Yeah, I mean, I had strict parents, um, but like, And there's some things that I'm like, wow, that was stupid, but I think it was because, like, it, it was just on brand with all the other shit that wasn't stupid. 41 00:01:58,894.9985 --> 00:02:04,74.9985 I'm, I'm guessing from what I've gathered is like, what they were strict on, they were very strict on. 42 00:02:04,84.9985 --> 00:02:04,694.9985 Yes. 43 00:02:04,814.9985 --> 00:02:08,244.9985 But I don't feel like they were strict on Everything. 44 00:02:08,294.9985 --> 00:02:08,754.9985 Yeah. 45 00:02:09,204.9975 --> 00:02:13,468.33083333 No, like, not, I was, uh, They're not a lot of dumb I was free to think. 46 00:02:14,888.33183333 --> 00:02:19,688.33183333 But, like, for example, like, I wasn't allowed to wear makeup and dye my hair and get piercings. 47 00:02:19,868.33183333 --> 00:02:34,778.33183333 But that also, like, the, the dumb part about that was like, I wasn't allowed to shave till I was like Too old like where I was like, this stupid, but you know, but that was on brand with all the other shit I guess so it was like what am I it's fine. 48 00:02:34,798.33083333 --> 00:02:39,428.33183333 You know, like I it wasn't like Unrelated to anything else. 49 00:02:39,438.33183333 --> 00:02:40,768.33083333 It was on brand with all the other shit. 50 00:02:40,768.33183333 --> 00:02:45,158.33183333 They were strict about so at least they were Consistent. 51 00:02:45,158.33183333 --> 00:02:45,588.33183333 Yeah. 52 00:02:45,768.33083333 --> 00:02:50,468.33183333 Um, I can't believe you weren't allowed to shave That's so traumatizing. 53 00:02:50,478.33183333 --> 00:02:54,943.33183333 I didn't wear makeup till I was like a senior And high school. 54 00:02:55,163.33183333 --> 00:02:55,673.33183333 Yeah. 55 00:02:56,673.33183333 --> 00:03:00,863.33183333 Also, my, I would say like in particular, my mom wasn't that consistent. 56 00:03:01,73.33183333 --> 00:03:13,43.33183333 So it was hard to know, like, the things that she would get mad about, you'd be like, this is on brand, but like, easily six months prior, it could have not bothered her. 57 00:03:13,163.33183333 --> 00:03:14,893.33083333 So it's like, if it had happened. 58 00:03:14,893.43083333 --> 00:03:18,613.33183333 So like one time she she took me, back to school clothes shopping. 59 00:03:18,803.33083333 --> 00:03:19,663.33183333 And we bought like. 60 00:03:19,853.33183333 --> 00:03:38,453.33083333 five or six dresses and then I wore one of the dresses to school like, you know, three weeks later and she's like, what the fuck are you wearing? And it was like at the time when she was letting me pick out the clothes, it didn't bother her, but for some reason her seeing me Like, I don't know what clicked in that moment to where she was like, absolutely not. 61 00:03:38,968.33083333 --> 00:03:43,988.33083333 And I thought that that was like the most backwards ass shit ever because she bought it for back to school shopping. 62 00:03:44,918.33083333 --> 00:03:49,868.33033333 But now I'm like, it's still kind of on brand with all the other not being promiscuous looking. 63 00:03:49,868.33033333 --> 00:03:53,318.32983333 So it all kind of fit in the big picture. 64 00:03:54,138.32983333 --> 00:03:56,278.32983333 Like shaving shouldn't have been that big of a deal. 65 00:03:56,288.32983333 --> 00:03:58,378.33083333 But I think she It still fell under that category. 66 00:03:58,408.33083333 --> 00:04:02,828.32983333 That category of like not being too mature, I guess. 67 00:04:04,723.33083333 --> 00:04:05,293.33083333 Yeah. 68 00:04:05,653.33083333 --> 00:04:06,713.33083333 Bullshit, but whatever. 69 00:04:07,33.33083333 --> 00:04:15,73.33083333 I never had restrictions on clothing, really. 70 00:04:16,13.33083333 --> 00:04:26,93.33083333 but also I was so I don't know I don't know if it It's like is it was me that was easy to be like that or was it? That philosophy that worked. 71 00:04:26,103.32983333 --> 00:04:29,63.33083333 I don't know cuz I never I don't think I was ever pushing it. 72 00:04:29,123.33083333 --> 00:04:29,603.33083333 Actually. 73 00:04:29,603.33083333 --> 00:04:37,13.33083333 I have such a specific memory of like wearing As guys call them, the forbidden leggings. 74 00:04:37,13.43083333 --> 00:04:38,805.27083333 Ha ha ha ha. 75 00:04:38,805.27083333 --> 00:04:40,873.33083333 Ah, like the like, boho ones. 76 00:04:41,713.33083333 --> 00:04:47,243.33083333 And like, just like a t I don't know, what is it? No, it was a tight top, I think. 77 00:04:47,333.32983333 --> 00:04:47,743.33083333 I don't know. 78 00:04:47,793.33083333 --> 00:04:52,653.33083333 I was wearing those and like, a tight top, and my mom was like, Well, you're leaving nothing to the imagination. 79 00:04:53,743.33083333 --> 00:04:54,543.33083333 And like, that. 80 00:04:55,363.33083333 --> 00:05:01,923.33083333 So there's been a few of those, which honestly, I mean, I still remember those moments to this day, so obviously they hit somewhere. 81 00:05:02,133.33083333 --> 00:05:08,563.32983333 But it's not like I didn't wear it, or it's not like, but, I don't know, those weirdly did make me kind of conscious about it, but, I don't know. 82 00:05:08,623.33083333 --> 00:05:20,826.48915853 Aware or conscious? I don't know, it's hard to look back now because I feel like I've gotten overly conscious now, so I don't know, at the time, maybe just to wear. 83 00:05:20,836.48915853 --> 00:05:25,436.48915853 Well, it's like another thing, like, for example, me wearing leggings never really looked provocative. 84 00:05:25,666.48815853 --> 00:05:26,546.48915853 It still doesn't. 85 00:05:27,16.48915853 --> 00:05:37,106.48815853 but I, like, specifically remember, like, my parents saying, like, how they understood why leggings shouldn't be allowed in school, but it was never something I wasn't allowed to wear. 86 00:05:37,296.48915853 --> 00:05:43,566.48915853 But again, like, I didn't have a booty to, like, pull my Lululemons up and, like, have, like, some cake thumpin around. 87 00:05:43,856.48915853 --> 00:05:53,86.48915853 So, like, my parents, you know, like, if I feel like, I feel like my parents would have told me not to wear it, if, but I just was, it was my, my body just wasn't giving ass, so. 88 00:05:53,186.48915853 --> 00:05:53,886.48915853 Right. 89 00:05:54,296.48915853 --> 00:06:17,936.48915853 Yeah, I'm trying to think, cause I mean, also like, I feel like my parents didn't really, like, put eyes on me going out the door that often, you know what I mean? Like, either I took the bus, or I'm like walking, or like, I don't know, they were easily working a lot, But, when I started dressing the most provocative was probably like my senior year of high school. 90 00:06:18,676.48915853 --> 00:06:24,596.48915853 Cause I was just really experimenting with clothing, you know, for the first time it felt like. 91 00:06:24,986.48815853 --> 00:06:25,766.48815853 Um. 92 00:06:28,241.48915853 --> 00:06:37,231.48915853 But, like, I was driving myself to and from school, so it's like, I, it's hard for me to, I, like, I don't know if my mom actually, like, if she did see me, would have, like, said something. 93 00:06:37,231.48915853 --> 00:06:37,631.48815853 I don't know. 94 00:06:37,671.48915853 --> 00:06:42,131.48915853 But I just feel like that's when I got the most Exposed. 95 00:06:42,141.48915853 --> 00:06:42,701.48915853 Yeah. 96 00:06:42,741.48815853 --> 00:06:56,151.48815853 Cause I remember, it, cause people at, like, school making, like, comments about it more than, you know what I mean? Like, just being like, what is happening? But also, that's, like, 17 year old age, and so it's, like I don't know. 97 00:06:56,191.48815853 --> 00:07:01,611.48815853 I, I think from a parent's perspective, I think that is probably the hardest time because you're like, you're still a child. 98 00:07:01,791.48815853 --> 00:07:09,651.48815853 But it also is the time that I think you have to let them kinda figure it out for themselves a little bit. 99 00:07:09,731.48815853 --> 00:07:13,111.48815853 So, I think it, I think it worked out well. 100 00:07:13,121.48815853 --> 00:07:18,831.48815853 Growing into like the next, well then it's like, it's hard too because it's like, uh, Yeah. 101 00:07:19,261.48815853 --> 00:07:22,561.48815853 And like, I look back When did you get boobs? Middle school. 102 00:07:23,261.48815853 --> 00:07:24,781.48815853 Maybe, maybe like sixth grade. 103 00:07:24,821.48815853 --> 00:07:31,641.48815853 But did they come in like heavy? Or like, I don't know if I had them before that or not. 104 00:07:31,641.48815853 --> 00:07:33,71.48815853 And I think I for sure did. 105 00:07:33,191.48815853 --> 00:07:34,261.48815853 But I was always fat too. 106 00:07:34,261.48815853 --> 00:07:38,31.48815853 So you gotta like, did I have tits or was I just fat? You know, I don't know. 107 00:07:38,341.48815853 --> 00:07:39,521.48815853 But like titties. 108 00:07:40,66.48815853 --> 00:07:45,546.48815853 Yeah, I just remember being objectified for the first time in like seventh grade. 109 00:07:45,946.48815853 --> 00:07:49,276.48815853 By like an adult? No, okay, by like a peer. 110 00:07:49,286.48815853 --> 00:08:04,426.48865853 Yeah, I just remember the little seventh grade boys are like, Damn, or something in the sense where I acknowledge your It's so cringe to even think about myself as a 7th grader with like this. 111 00:08:04,696.48865853 --> 00:08:07,956.48865853 It just makes me feel, yeah, it's cringe. 112 00:08:08,396.48865853 --> 00:08:11,86.48765853 Well, cause that's what like, this is where I have like more sympathy for parents. 113 00:08:11,86.48765853 --> 00:08:17,426.38865853 Cause it's like, it's just uh, yeah, it's This is terrible. 114 00:08:17,706.38865853 --> 00:08:23,26.38865853 But anyways, so I remember seventh grade is when it really hit me. 115 00:08:23,236.38865853 --> 00:08:24,946.38865853 Sixth grade, I don't remember anything. 116 00:08:24,956.38865853 --> 00:08:26,526.38865853 Seventh grade was like, okay. 117 00:08:26,726.38865853 --> 00:08:29,486.38865853 the thing is, is looking back, they weren't that big. 118 00:08:30,466.38865853 --> 00:08:35,66.38865853 But, I'm also being compared to other twelve and thirteen year olds. 119 00:08:35,206.38865853 --> 00:08:43,41.38765853 Yeah, Um, and then I don't But then like, I go into like high school and I'm like, yeah, definitely, definitely had tits. 120 00:08:44,531.38765853 --> 00:08:48,541.38765853 so what was the point of this conversation? I really don't know. 121 00:08:48,591.38765853 --> 00:08:51,501.38765853 Oh, we were talking about strict parents and just I how I was saying that I right. 122 00:08:51,501.38765853 --> 00:09:00,281.38815853 Okay Yeah, so, I mean, I know you never had a choice about cleavage sometimes, because it was just against your will, cleavage. 123 00:09:00,521.38815853 --> 00:09:06,461.38815853 Um, but gosh, I was so uncomfortable having cleavage. 124 00:09:07,331.38815853 --> 00:09:09,671.38815853 Like, just, so uncomfortable. 125 00:09:10,141.38815853 --> 00:09:13,471.38815853 You know, I actually didn't I was uncomfortable having cleavage until like a year ago. 126 00:09:13,691.38815853 --> 00:09:18,191.38715853 Well, I really uncomfortable until probably like my sophomore or junior year of college. 127 00:09:18,201.38815853 --> 00:09:18,381.38815853 Oof. 128 00:09:19,1.38815853 --> 00:09:19,581.38815853 Yeah. 129 00:09:19,621.38815853 --> 00:09:23,511.38815853 Like, rea like, okay, first of all, I never left the house without a bra. 130 00:09:24,6.38815853 --> 00:09:25,476.38815853 Until, like, my senior year of college. 131 00:09:25,476.48815853 --> 00:09:27,16.38815853 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 132 00:09:27,36.38815853 --> 00:09:30,636.38815853 So, like, the thought of not having a bra on almost murdered me. 133 00:09:31,576.38815853 --> 00:09:44,736.28915853 And then, so, like, and so, I, I don't know if that was societal, cultural, also But thank God, because not wearing a bra in high school, or just the thought of high schoolers without bras just That's all. 134 00:09:44,756.28915853 --> 00:09:45,946.28915853 So like, it's just traumatizing. 135 00:09:45,946.38915853 --> 00:09:47,576.28915853 Yeah, it just seems terrible. 136 00:09:48,116.28915853 --> 00:09:50,396.28915853 I mean, it's like, it goes back to the leggings thing. 137 00:09:50,406.28915853 --> 00:09:58,96.28915853 Like, everyone shouldn't, like, everyone's not an issue, but then the ones that are an issue, kinda, you're just killing it for everybody. 138 00:09:58,106.28815853 --> 00:09:58,446.28815853 Yeah. 139 00:09:58,446.28815853 --> 00:10:01,796.29015853 And like, that's where the tits are hard, because like, you don't have a choice. 140 00:10:03,346.28915853 --> 00:10:13,966.28915853 Like, you said, like I said with the cleavage, I don't, if I'm wearing anything that doesn't go up to my I have my, my chest show. 141 00:10:13,966.28915853 --> 00:10:25,476.28915853 So it's like, but then, you know, but then like, I think back to leggings and there was like the intentionality to have it like all the way up the ass crack. 142 00:10:25,476.28915853 --> 00:10:26,46.28915853 Yeah. 143 00:10:26,226.28915853 --> 00:10:27,36.28815853 And like. 144 00:10:27,806.28915853 --> 00:10:28,886.28915853 Ah, just doing too much. 145 00:10:28,946.28915853 --> 00:10:30,106.28915853 But then you ruin it for everybody. 146 00:10:30,106.28915853 --> 00:10:34,276.28915853 So I'm like, do you over police it? Do you under police it? But then you got shit going crazy. 147 00:10:34,766.28915853 --> 00:10:37,86.28915853 Um, and then everyone's like confident in different ways. 148 00:10:37,86.28915853 --> 00:10:39,76.28815853 Oh my god, or having your nipples out. 149 00:10:39,76.38815853 --> 00:10:42,466.28915853 Oh my god, Tom, I'm on a nightmare. 150 00:10:42,506.28915853 --> 00:10:43,226.28815853 Oh my gosh. 151 00:10:43,736.28915853 --> 00:10:47,676.28915853 I mean, I remember But it's just so funny, cause then like, you get to college, and it's like, wow. 152 00:10:49,716.28915853 --> 00:10:52,6.28915853 Well, that is so unimportant at that point. 153 00:10:52,226.28915853 --> 00:10:55,436.28915853 And it's something Well, no, it is! Like in the best way. 154 00:10:55,486.28915853 --> 00:10:59,326.28915853 Well, but I was gonna say, like, it's like, now I, someone could come to class. 155 00:10:59,326.38915853 --> 00:11:01,876.28915853 But like, same, I don't, I mean, I don't know how it is. 156 00:11:01,906.28915853 --> 00:11:10,496.28915853 I feel like some people have that revolution in high school, but I'm very thankful that I, I, like, I think it is a better progression. 157 00:11:11,396.28915853 --> 00:11:30,716.28915853 It, I don't know, at least societally and like culturally makes me believe that, but, but you do just get more comfortable like in your, you know, like around like 20, You like actually, Yeah, with your frontal lobe developing, I think there's a huge increase in, Well also you begin to have like true confidence. 158 00:11:30,756.28915853 --> 00:11:31,116.28915853 Right. 159 00:11:31,166.28915853 --> 00:11:32,376.28915853 Not just like. 160 00:11:33,256.28915853 --> 00:11:34,176.28915853 Externally supported confidence. 161 00:11:34,196.28915853 --> 00:11:39,336.28915853 Yeah, or, or like just, um, like performative confidence, I guess. 162 00:11:40,376.28915853 --> 00:11:55,231.28915853 Well, I was gonna say, the other thing is like, you like, you, as you get older, I can actually tell, like, my confidence, like, just, like, my, in my own body, like, my mind and body connection has, like, solidified as I got older. 163 00:11:56,21.28915853 --> 00:12:06,311.28915853 So even if I was confident at any other point, Genuinely settle into it, like, your mind and soul and body. 164 00:12:06,891.28915853 --> 00:12:15,946.28915853 Like, after, you know, because, you know, 20 years is obviously, like, Somewhat of a long time, but it's really not that long to like get to know. 165 00:12:16,496.28915853 --> 00:12:25,316.28865853 Well, also because like the like it changed it so much in the first like 15 to 18 your little soul container, right? Yeah, like it just was constantly changing. 166 00:12:25,316.28865853 --> 00:12:25,696.18815853 Right, right. 167 00:12:25,696.28815853 --> 00:12:29,436.29015853 So it finally stops and it takes a couple years and you're like, okay. 168 00:12:29,506.28815853 --> 00:12:29,816.28815853 Okay. 169 00:12:29,816.28915853 --> 00:12:30,366.28815853 This is what's happening. 170 00:12:30,616.28815853 --> 00:12:32,686.28915853 I feel like it's like the same thing with like hormones. 171 00:12:32,686.28915853 --> 00:12:37,781.28915853 I think like Pretty much like, like five to ten years after your hormone's completely stuck. 172 00:12:37,961.28915853 --> 00:12:38,911.28915853 It's the same thing with menopause. 173 00:12:38,911.28915853 --> 00:12:45,141.2558252 As soon as you start, like you need like a decade until you're like back into your, like your range. 174 00:12:45,141.2558252 --> 00:12:47,191.28915853 You can't establish a routine. 175 00:12:47,231.28915853 --> 00:12:47,771.28915853 Right. 176 00:12:47,841.28915853 --> 00:12:48,981.28915853 In mayhem. 177 00:12:48,991.28815853 --> 00:12:49,501.28815853 Right, yeah. 178 00:12:49,731.28915853 --> 00:12:51,551.28815853 Um, so I, so yeah. 179 00:12:51,681.28815853 --> 00:12:52,471.28915853 I feel like. 180 00:12:53,291.28915853 --> 00:13:01,801.28915853 I understand where family and parents are coming from, I think it's annoying, but I also think there's other ways to, like, express yourself, I guess. 181 00:13:02,101.28915853 --> 00:13:08,511.28815853 I also was gonna say, like, you danced, so your parents are also used to seeing you in, like, leotards and stockings. 182 00:13:08,521.28815853 --> 00:13:08,861.28915853 Yeah, that's true. 183 00:13:09,946.28915853 --> 00:13:10,556.28915853 That kind of. 184 00:13:10,556.28915853 --> 00:13:13,96.18915853 But that's so contextual. 185 00:13:13,276.28915853 --> 00:13:13,586.28915853 Right. 186 00:13:13,616.28915853 --> 00:13:18,976.28915853 I mean, I'm sure it does affect then the every day, but it is very in context. 187 00:13:20,306.28915853 --> 00:13:30,446.28815853 Dude, talking about the most uncomfortable experience is like your mom taking you to the grocery store after dance and like you're in a leotard. 188 00:13:31,456.28915853 --> 00:13:32,392.92249186 I have never experienced that, it's bad. 189 00:13:32,392.92249186 --> 00:13:35,16.28915853 Oh my gosh, it's horrible. 190 00:13:35,346.28915853 --> 00:13:39,416.28815853 Really? At all ages or like only until you're like 12? always, always, always. 191 00:13:39,426.28915853 --> 00:13:41,816.28915853 Even at like 8? Yeah. 192 00:13:42,206.28915853 --> 00:13:42,696.28915853 Huh. 193 00:13:43,456.28915853 --> 00:13:47,296.28915853 I think so, I don't know, maybe not, but just, I, just, I, just, trauma. 194 00:13:47,316.28915853 --> 00:13:50,206.28915853 Cause I'm imagining 12 and being so uncomfortable. 195 00:13:50,506.28915853 --> 00:13:51,216.28915853 Horrible. 196 00:13:51,636.28915853 --> 00:13:52,756.28915853 Yeah, it sounds terrible. 197 00:13:52,896.28915853 --> 00:13:58,806.29015853 it's like if we walked into the, if we walked to the, to like Safeway in a bikini right now, it would be insane. 198 00:13:58,806.29015853 --> 00:14:02,706.29015853 But if we did it in Tahoe in the summer, it'd be like, whatever. 199 00:14:03,116.29015853 --> 00:14:03,536.29015853 Oh my God. 200 00:14:03,536.29015853 --> 00:14:04,476.29015853 Could you imagine? It's so weird. 201 00:14:04,496.29015853 --> 00:14:07,96.28915853 It's so weird how much context matters. 202 00:14:07,561.29015853 --> 00:14:13,491.29015853 Yeah, and it's weird because it's like this, it's both the public, like it's both open to the public population. 203 00:14:13,531.29015853 --> 00:14:21,581.28915853 Well, I think the other thing about why college makes it so different is because contextually, like, everyone's an adult. 204 00:14:23,41.29015853 --> 00:14:31,421.28915853 And so I think like, like, nobody is off limits, regardless of age, regardless of gap. 205 00:14:31,591.29015853 --> 00:14:42,546.29015853 Like, if your professor checks you out, it's It is what it is, you know what I'm saying? But in high school, that's just like Yeah, it's pervy because they're like, you're superior, like, professionally. 206 00:14:43,46.29015853 --> 00:14:54,446.29015853 Well, then it's like pervy because, like, even a woman teacher being like, your tits are everywhere is like, well, why are you even, like, looking at me? I'm 16. 207 00:14:54,476.29015853 --> 00:14:56,586.29015853 so it's like, it doesn't even matter who it's coming from. 208 00:14:56,606.29015853 --> 00:15:03,101.29015853 Any adult acknowledging Any part of you is super cringe and out of line. 209 00:15:03,101.29015853 --> 00:15:03,981.29015853 When you're in high school. 210 00:15:04,31.29015853 --> 00:15:04,511.29015853 Right, Yeah. 211 00:15:07,151.28915853 --> 00:15:07,671.28915853 But yeah. 212 00:15:08,561.29015853 --> 00:15:15,931.29015853 Should we get one more topic in? What color are notebooks? No, we can't have this discussion right now. 213 00:15:16,841.29015853 --> 00:15:26,421.29015853 Is this what we want to post though? What, are we gonna post two minutes about notebook colors? Like, Like, we're done. 214 00:15:26,491.29015853 --> 00:15:28,441.29015853 Alright, that was our little tidbit. 215 00:15:28,471.29015853 --> 00:15:30,491.29015853 Um That's just what came out. 216 00:15:30,561.29015853 --> 00:15:31,691.29015853 I don't know what to tell ya. 217 00:15:32,831.29015853 --> 00:15:35,246.19015853 That's what was on the front of our minds. 218 00:15:36,296.29015853 --> 00:15:38,566.29015853 Dude, I don't know. 219 00:15:38,576.29015853 --> 00:15:39,316.29015853 No gushers. 220 00:15:39,316.29015853 --> 00:15:39,596.29015853 I don't know. 221 00:15:40,386.29015853 --> 00:15:43,316.29015853 No, and just in relation to clothing, I don't know. 222 00:15:43,316.29015853 --> 00:15:50,796.29015853 I turned out so well, and my mom was so like, I really liked the way she did it, but I just feel like it would not work for every child. 223 00:15:51,96.29015853 --> 00:15:51,573.86515853 Probably not. 224 00:15:51,573.86515853 --> 00:15:53,166.19015853 And also, she only had one girl. 225 00:15:54,686.29015853 --> 00:15:55,536.29015853 And you're ugly. 226 00:15:55,536.39015853 --> 00:15:57,166.29015853 Man, I was ugly. 227 00:15:57,226.29015853 --> 00:15:57,606.29015853 Yeah, exactly. 228 00:15:57,976.29015853 --> 00:15:58,846.29015853 No, exactly. 229 00:15:58,846.29015853 --> 00:16:13,506.28915853 Like, I'm not, I'm not bringing home, like, any, oh my gosh, thinking about my first boyfriend, I'm like, they were probably so happy that that was my, just cause he's just a tiny, scrawny, white guy, that just, so unthreatening. 230 00:16:13,506.29015853 --> 00:16:15,806.29015853 You didn't bring, like, the quarterback home? Yeah. 231 00:16:16,126.29015853 --> 00:16:18,66.29015853 Like, when I get tattoos, and like. 232 00:16:19,431.29015853 --> 00:16:23,521.29015853 Yeah, like facial hair and they're hu I don't know. 233 00:16:23,641.29015853 --> 00:16:26,461.29015853 That would've been so funny if you just brought a huge ass. 234 00:16:26,581.29015853 --> 00:16:29,281.29015853 Even now if you brought a huge guy home. 235 00:16:29,281.29015853 --> 00:16:29,431.29015853 No, I know. 236 00:16:29,581.29015853 --> 00:16:31,231.29015853 It would be hilarious. 237 00:16:31,231.29015853 --> 00:16:33,421.29015853 I know like just like some Samoan guy too. 238 00:16:34,621.29015853 --> 00:16:35,401.29015853 but like big hair. 239 00:16:36,861.29015853 --> 00:16:46,16.2901585 Yeah, I just feel like, you know, like they, like, just, just to put them on their toes a little bit, cuz they're always just like Kira, like Like, you know what I mean? Like, they're not just, blah, whatever. 240 00:16:46,16.3901585 --> 00:16:52,816.2896585 Or, and they've never like felt, I feel like they've never had to be like protective, you know what I mean? But I just really want to kerfuffle them. 241 00:16:52,816.2896585 --> 00:16:55,856.2901585 Like, I've never gotten kerfuffled with a man. 242 00:16:56,76.2901585 --> 00:16:57,186.2891585 And that's just like what I want. 243 00:16:58,316.2901585 --> 00:17:01,146.2901585 We should, we should, we should, we should, we should plot. 244 00:17:01,316.2901585 --> 00:17:02,556.2901585 Yeah, like the mound. 245 00:17:02,616.2901585 --> 00:17:06,982.2301585 What is he? The mountain? The mountain from Game of Thrones? Yeah. 246 00:17:06,982.2301585 --> 00:17:07,526.1901585 Hahaha. 247 00:17:07,526.2901585 --> 00:17:08,196.2901585 The rock. 248 00:17:08,586.2901585 --> 00:17:09,216.2901585 Um. 249 00:17:09,596.2891585 --> 00:17:10,566.2901585 Okay, we gotta go. 250 00:17:10,626.2901585 --> 00:17:12,836.1901585 Anyways, that's been Crysis with Edna. 251 00:17:13,716.2901585 --> 00:17:14,896.2901585 With Kira. 252 00:17:14,946.2891585 --> 00:17:15,646.2891585 And Isis. 253 00:17:15,666.2901585 --> 00:17:16,566.2911585 Have a good night, you guys. 254 00:17:16,786.2891585 --> 00:17:17,256.2891585 Bye.