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November 25, 2025 52 mins

 

In this episode, explore the concept of unlearning silence with Elaine Lin Herring, a faculty member at Harvard Law and a bestselling author. Elaine discusses her book 'Unlearning Silence' and shares the toll of societal and personal expectations on our lives, particularly for women and immigrants. She delves into the importance of finding one's voice, understanding personal needs, and making intentional choices for a more aligned and fulfilling life.

Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, she offers practical advice for overcoming self-doubt, utilizing our unique talents, and creating a life that's truly yours.

 

Timestamps
  • 01:14 The Burden of Expectations & Breaking Free from the Past

  • 07:41 Rediscovering Your Voice, the Power of Self-Expression

  • 14:56 The Journey to Unlearn Silence

  • 27:37 Navigating Life's Uncertainties & Embracing Possibilities Amidst Challenges

  • 30:06 Reevaluating Career Paths & The Importance of Market Awareness

  • 31:55 Balancing Gratitude and Ambition, Exploring New Opportunities

  • 40:10 Strategic Silence and Intentional Choices

 

About Elaine Lin Hering

Elaine Lin Hering is a speaker, facilitator, and former Lecturer on Law at Harvard Law School. She works with organizations and individuals to build skills in communication, collaboration, and conflict management. She has worked on six continents and facilitated executive education at Harvard, Dartmouth, Tufts, UC Berkeley, and UCLA. She has served as the Advanced Training Director for the Harvard Mediation Program and a Managing Partner for a global leadership development firm.

She has worked with coal miners at BHP Billiton, micro-finance organizers in East Africa, mental health professionals in China, and senior leadership at the US Department of Commerce. Her clients include American Express, Chevron, Google, Nike, Novartis, PayPal, Pixar, and the Red Cross. She was named a Thinkers50 global management thinker to watch and is the author of the USA Today Bestselling book Unlearning Silence: How to Speak Your Mind, Unleash Talent, and Live More Fully (Penguin).

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