75 | From IVF to Baby #3: The Surprising Tool I’m Using Now

Trying to conceive can feel like a never-ending cycle of guessing, hoping, and waiting. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what I’m doing differently as my husband and I begin trying for baby #3.

I share my personal fertility journey—from battling infertility and IVF to welcoming two miracle girls—and why this season feels different. This time, I’m pairing faith with science by using Inito, the at-home fertility monitor that tracks four key hormones for a full picture of your cycle. No more squinting at test strips or relying on app predictions. Inito has given me clarity, peace of mind, and a six-day fertile window backed by real data.

But more than that, I’ll walk you through the biblical perspective that shapes how I use tools like this: stewarding my body wisely, trusting God fully, and remembering that faith and science are not enemies.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re missing something or wasting precious cycles, this episode is for you. You’ll walk away with practical TTC tools, spiritual encouragement, and a reminder that even in the waiting, God is good.

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If you’ve ever wondered “Why is God withholding this from me?” — this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, Courtney exposes the one lie nearly every woman facing infertility believes: that God is holding back something good. Through honest storytelling and powerful Scripture, she helps you recognize that lie for what it is — and replace it with unshakable truth.

You’ll learn how to: 💔 Identify the subtle ways this lie creeps into your heart 📖 Anchor your hope in God’s character instead of your circumstances 🌿 Speak truth over your waiting season using Scripture 🙏 Shift your focus from what’s missing to what God is forming

God isn’t withholding something good — He’s preparing something greater.

Whether you’re in the middle of treatments, grieving loss, or simply wrestling with God’s timing, this episode will help you trade doubt for peace and reclaim joy in the middle of the wait.

 

🕊 If this episode spoke to something deep in your heart — if you know you’ve been carrying the weight of infertility alone and you’re ready to finally find peace, healing, and purpose in the middle of your waiting — I want to personally invite you into the next round of The Waiting Well Framework™, starting November 4th.

This 8-week Christ-centered program is designed to help you rebuild your faith, heal emotionally, and learn how to truly wait well — not in striving, but in surrender. Through weekly teachings, live group sessions, devotionals, and a powerful community of women who get it, you’ll experience what it feels like to walk in peace again.

If you felt a tug while listening today — that’s your invitation. You can enroll now: https://stan.store/coduinker/p/the-wait-feels-endlessheres-the-way-through-copy 

You don’t have to keep wondering how to move forward — let’s walk this road together, hand-in-hand, and let God write something beautiful in the waiting. 💛 

 

✨ Brand-new mini course, Peace in the Wait — created just for women in the two week wait after ovulation, IUI, or IVF. If you’re longing for daily encouragement and structure to stay grounded in truth, this will bless you deeply.

📖 Scriptures mentioned: Isaiah 26:3, Psalm 131:2

👉 Links & Resources:

• Enroll in Peace in the Wait Mini Course: https://stan.store/coduinker/p/peace-in-the-wait

• Follow me on Instagram: @thewaitingwellpodcast

• Share this episode with a friend who is in her two week wait 💛

 

🤍 Faith-Filled Masterclasses:

✨ Finding Hope through Infertility – Learn how to live with peace and joy even while you wait ($17): 👉 Grab it here

 

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