February 20, 2025 • 20 mins
What are the things that are the most challenging part of being a parent? Therapy Thursday, we open up and so do you, we all can laugh about it together, it's quite good therapy! PLUS Catch up with your Google Buster answer, Food for thought, The Tea and of course, Just for the hack of it! Subscribe for FREE and please, make us your #1 preset on the amazingly even greater iHeartRadio App!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the B and Jay Replay podcast this week
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You want it the best, You got the best, the
honest morning Shoe in the Wild Billy. That's Billy with
a y and with us.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yes it is, and it's Friday e finally it is.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
It's also a therapy Thursday. This is an interesting question
because we are both parents, your children all grown. I'm
kind of in the middle both I've got a grown
son and then younger sons at home that there are challenges,
Judy when it comes to our children.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Sorry, I'm coughing thinking about it because I'm in the
middle of one right now, and my kids are grown.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah, so don't feel guilty about this conversation I saying
that we don't love our children. We just go crazy
over certain things. So challenges with your children, we're gonna
share today, even if you want to do that anonymously
using the talkback button on the free iHeart radio app.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
You know, it's very therapeutic and maybe you have some
suggestions to help too, because we're not the best, but
we are free therapists.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
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Speaker 2 (02:05):
Food for thought this morning. One of my all time
favorite restaurants is making sort of a change that kind
of took me by surprise.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Ooh, this sounds yubby. I'm getting hungry already share that sat.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I would assume Judy has some tea to spill this
morning as well.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Who will be hosting the tonys?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I don't know, but we're gonna find out right after
we get you to the news of your nee. Hope.
Francis had breakfast on his seventh day in the hospital.
The Vatican said yesterday I'm the latest update on his health.
Pope Francis, by the way, suffering from double pneumonia, complicating
treatment for the eighty eight year old pontiff and indicating
a further deterioration in his fragile health. Organizers of the
historic Annie Malone May Day Parade are calling on people
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in Saint Louis for donations to help keep the event
alive and well for the future. That appeal came a
day after the annual parade, one of the largest African
American parades in the entire country and a local staple
here in Saint Louis since nineteen ten, was canceled this
year and Tmosa faced his team Canada in the U Rematch,
the championship game of the four Nations based off Tonight
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in Boston that Puck drops at seven. Let's go Team USA.
That is, there's your name that we spill the team
with Judd.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
It has been announced Cynthia Erivio, otherwise known as Alphaba
from the movie Wicked, will host the seventy eight Tony Awards,
taking over from Ariana DuBose. The show returns to Radio
City Music Hall on Airs live on CBS on June eighth.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Now here's the thing. I think it'll be the first.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Time the Tonys are really watched because of the movie
Wicked and because of Cynthia. Now, Cynthia is close to
Egott's status, having already won a Tony Grammy Emmy.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
She just needs that.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Oscar, I absolutely have no idea what you just said,
but that sounds very exciting and very enthralling.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
It is that.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
That is the tea with us wickedly in the morning.
Thanks for hanging out with us on this therapy Thursday.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, so on the show today. As parents, and I
know most of us are a lot of us are,
there are frustrations that come with your children, and sometimes
you can even feel guilty about being frustrated with your kids,
which is why we're talking about this on a therapy Thursday.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I just went through it again.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
And both of my kids are grown ups, right, they
have their lives, but the two of them have always thought,
you know, brother's sister. Yeah, And when they were little
it was almost easier because at one time they were
driving me crazy and I said, you.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Know what, go in the backyard.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
And I locked them outside and I said, when you
come back in, when you too settle it.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I was so frustrated.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Well, now they're arguing about when I'm going to go
see each one of them when one lives in Europe
one boss.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
And it's like, come on, you guys, just talk to me.
You don't argue with each other.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
You feel like you're kind of stuck in the middle
of the whole thing too.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yes, I'm just frustrating. It's a challenge.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
So I've got a lot of challenges because I at
fifty two years old, I do have a twenty five
year old son, and I also have a nine and
seven year old sons. So my twenty five year old,
I'm very frustrated with the fact that I just never
hear from lives in the same in town. I do
icy him birthdays, Christmas, that sort of stuff, Father's Day.
But otherwise I don't really hear from them. And then
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I have to remind myself I was the same way
when I was twenty five.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
I want trying to remember if we were that best
guy thing.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Yeah, so that's frustrating. And then with my younger sons,
I'm frustrated and it's not even fair because you know,
you live and you learn. They are the worst procrastinators
with everything, and it's really frustrating to me because I
know how important it is to just get things done,
to get it off your plate, and I can't get
that through their heads. And it's a challenge that I
just go crazy over. I have to remind myself again,
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I was the same when I was their age.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Okay, you're trying to get it through here. You can't
even get it through my head, and you want to
get it through your own kids head.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Sister, I feel like you're one of my kids. You know,
there are definitely challenges to being a parent. So what
is maybe one or two that you have with your kids.
You can even do this anonymously if you're feeling guilty, Yeah,
and you don't have to.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
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They go. You can do that or just hit the
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Speaker 3 (06:06):
It's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
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Speaker 2 (06:11):
Right.
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That's the first one. If you don't know her.
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I'm not going to say much more than that because
it's just too scandalous. But what I thought was interesting
with Tory Spelling admitting that she spent over four hundred
and fifty dollars on Denise Richards's only Fans page because
that's her friend.
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you hooked and you don't even get to what.
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to OnlyFans. I'm happily married. It seems to me like
a very creepy place where people go to expose themselves,
I guess physically and emotionally and psychologically and sharing things
that they would only share to their fans that you
have to pay them any subscription fee to find out about.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Yes, exactly, And Torri was trying to support her friend
Denise Richards who was on there and boom got charged
four or fifty bucks.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Yeah. On a side note, Judy and Diamond has an
only fans page. Yeah, that's a great zero. I'm the
team without Spilly g She's the only person in debt
on that side. Oh yeah, you know, Judy in the morning.
We say this all the time. We don't give good advice.
What do we do? Give free advice?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Absolutely, And sometimes when it's a therapy, sometimes just sharing
makes you feel better and maybe you'll share something that
someone can call who's listening to say, hey, I have
an advice for that.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
So this morning we're talking about challenges with children, challenges
as a parent we have faced with our kids. I
was saying that my twenty five year old son never visits,
never calls, nothing of that sort. That's very challenging and
frustrating for me. At the same time, I've got my
nine and seven year olds. They put everything off until
the very last minute. I'm so frustrated with them, and
they're procrastination, and.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I'm frustrated with two by son and daughter who seem
to not get along.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
And you just want your you want your kids.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
To get along. Yeh, can't we all just get along? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I'm tired of the fighting, Laurie.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
The challenge with your children.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
How sick they get all the time, and how jeremy
they are. It's like, just don't touch gross staff after.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
A little bit.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
We go through that with my nine and seven year
old sons because at school everybody is sick right now,
so we're trying to avoid everybody that we can because
we know eventually they're just going to break it into
the house.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
This is across the whole nation.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
There's schools being closed down with this flu sickness thing.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
True true, true. Now that's a good one. Lauri. By
the way, leaving that talkback message on the free iHeartRadio app, Now,
what is yours? The challenge you face with your kids?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yep Therapy Thursday. Let us know your Google Buster answer
is next.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
But first one minute of what you will be expecting
for the Skyvibe podcast this week.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
It's all about music.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
It's like GPS for your life, authentic, practical astrology, an
easy to understand terms. Time for another sky Vibe report
from the sky Vibe podcast with professional astrologer Thomas Miller.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
We're gonna do several episodes on music.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I love it. I think it's great.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
What makes a great artist a musician? And so let's
take Prince. I know, Billy's favorite, one of my all
time favorites. We play him a lot. Is there anything
that was in his natal chart that would say, yep,
this guy's going to be a genius musician.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Oh, there's a big one. And yes, he is wired
for success in the music business.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
His astrology birth chart showed it. You have to listen
to the full episode to find out why. And we're
going to also do episodes for you. Are you musically inclined?
Is your child musically inclined? This is really cool stuff.
So we're starting with Prince in this astrology and music series.
We'll have John Lennon, Madonna, kinds of People, plus the
natal chart of some of the most timeless and iconic
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songs ever.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
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and now your google Buster answer.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
People on a rebellion Judy Facebook page with the correct
guests to this morning's schoglebuster question. Clearly, Judy did not
sneak a peek on our faceboard page. No, I don't
like to cheat women. By the way, this is nothing
but bragging rights, no price for grabs. Keep doun of mind.
Women will use an average of four hundred and thirty
four of these in their lifetime. Men only one hundred
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and ninety two.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Okay, got it tissues because we cry more.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Oh. I think a lot of guys are in touch
with their very sensitive side these days, I hope. So. Yeah. No,
I will tell you that I used to on average
use two a year, and then I got married, and
all of a sudden that number is skyrocketed in my closet. Shoes,
(11:03):
That is absolutely correct, Samando. It is women on average
four hundred and thirty four pairs of shoes in their lifetime.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
In their lifetime. That's been a year for me.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Men one hundred and ninety two. I used to have
one pair of tennis shoes, one pair of dress shoes.
Then I got married and I got like shoes to
match out fits.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Because Melissa knows what she's doing.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
It is ridiculous. It's also the answer to your Googlebuster
with us Philly and Chuty in the morning.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
This is so fascinating me.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Okay, so remember the nineteen eighties ABC show TGIF right.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yes, they got its Friday right?
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Well, that kind of was the acronym everybody said, and
we all thought it meant they.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Got it's Friday.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Well, on a podcast, the truth came out that Bob Iger,
who came up with the whole show, said no, it
really was supposed to mean, thank goodness, it's funny.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Oh but it wasn't funny, and so they had to change. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
That crazy.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
So that is now, you know, kind of tea with
us billion gdy.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
We all have them, and so we thought, well, what
a better time than on a therapy Thursday to share them.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
Absolutely, maybe you have some suggestions for me. It still
comes down to even though my kids are out of
the house, they still fight and it drives me crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah. So I've got a nine year old and seven
year old sons who live in the house. My oldest
son is out of the house. I never hear from him.
That's a challenge. And then you're right, my nine and
seven year old's always going at it with each other.
That's really not even there's so many challenges with the night,
just one. Right. We did get this talk back message though,
for Bobby his challenge my kids friends' parents. I don't
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know where these people are from, and I don't know
why my.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Kids keeps on gravitating towards people.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
With weird parents. But yeah, which is awful, and that's
even interesting. Sometimes not even the kids like your kids
friends parents. Sometimes your kids friends are But my son
Leo had one, he's still friends with him.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
When he was in batsically met him and he annoyed
me so much that he would you know, is Sammy
coming over today? Oh thank god, you're going to his house?
Speaker 2 (13:11):
Okay. You know it's interesting about that too. As an adult,
if someone gets on your nerves, someone bothers you, you
just choose to not spend time with them, You stay
away from them, you avoid the situation. I even do that,
like on social media with people. But now my kids
will hang out with friends of theirs and they're constantly
going at it with each other, and I think, why
are you guys even friends?
Speaker 3 (13:31):
And they'll go we are friends.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Yeah, what I don't understand some really really good messages
in regards to today's therapy Thursdays. So again the question, Judy.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Is what are some of the challenges that you're facing
as a parent with kiddos.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Use that talkback button on the free iHeartRadio app or
just that call now button that's on the Billy and
Judy Facebook page. If you are new to the show
Billy and Judy on Facebook is Billy with a why and.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Judy with an eye. Look the original Google buster.
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Yeah, you need for years beaten down with the sound
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It's been over a year ago now since you started
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It's kind of fun.
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And so if you're unable to listen for the seven
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Speaker 3 (14:16):
So here it is.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Thirty seven percent of pet owners say they do this
for their pets. Every day of me, being a little
adopted pet mom, I will say I don't do this.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
What do you do you do this? Is it something
that physically do you do for your pet?
Speaker 1 (14:36):
I mean, yeah, you have to use your body to
do it.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
So you sleep with your pet. I don't know. No, No,
are you sleeping with that dog that you're watching?
Speaker 1 (14:49):
I was until she had one little accident and I
made her backer to the little sirt of mattress bed.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Oh jeez, that's hilarious. This is a tough one. Give
me the question again, okay.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Thirty seven percent of pet owners say they do this
for their pets every single day. What is it makes
you feel better? Whether you could get the bonus buster
or answer? And I know I have done this one before.
I just can't remember if you were on vacation when
I did it.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
So now is this it involves pets? Judy is a
dog sitting right now. She has been for a little
like a little over a month or so. Is this
specifically for dogs? Is this for dogs and cats and
birds and all the others?
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I think that any animal that you know, yeah, any
of them. Thirty percent of pet owners bird, dog, cat,
rabbit say they do this for their pets every single day.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Oh oh, I know. I think it's either turn on
the television or turn on the radio.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Exactly, Yes, you remembered. Can I just add something begin here?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Please? Yeah.
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The iHeartRadio app is free to download please make us
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Speaker 2 (15:53):
I do love that aspect of the free iHeartRadio app.
Side note, you know how I knew the answer to that?
How years ago I was on a television show called
Nashville Star. It was on the USA Network, and a
friend of mine from my high school days reached out
to me and said, oh, my gosh, I can't believe
you're on television, and I said, oh, that's awesome. You
watch me. They said, no, we leave the television on
(16:15):
for the dog and we go out. As we're walking
through the door, we heard a familiar voice.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
So the wait, can't you just tell your pet when
you leave? Hey, just make sure you leave it on
KLOU and then you have it on all the time
as your preset.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I love it, And that is your bonus buster question
with us? Philly and Judy, what's the matter.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
With therapy Thursday? We want to help you out. Yeah,
challenges with your children. This almost feels tabooish to talk
about because you don't want to talk poorly of your kids. However,
there aren't things they do that frustrates us.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
And it's more of helping you not feel so alone.
We're just getting real with it. Come on, I just
the whole thing with the sibling fighting. Now, I kind
to say something funny about this. I'm the youngest of
four and right now I'm in a little bit of
an argument with the two of my brothers.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
So which is funny? Here I am complaining, you're complaining
about your son and your daughter. They're constantly going at it,
which kind of gets you stuck in the middle.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yeah, exactly. And then I call my dad. I go, Dad,
the brothers are being.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Mean to me. Well, that's funny, I see. And I'm
just the opposite of With my twenty five year old,
I just never hear from him, so that's a big challenge.
And then my ninety seven year olds they put everything
off to the very last minute. I did the exact
same thing when I was their age, But now that
I've learned not to do that, you want to try
to teach them the same. They're not having anything to
do with it, and it drives me crazy.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Don't you use the whole adage of you gotta do
better than I did?
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Boys, No, they'll never do better than me. So talk
back messages. I joking. By the way, We got this
one from John who says this drives them crazy. The
older that they get.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
The harder question the rd to answer.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Or I got a kid asking me stuff about all
and I don't know. I hate that. I can't handle that.
I don't know exact what they're asking you questions about,
but it sounded bad, you know what.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
I remember the talks and boy that that is difficult.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Well, I can tell you. Even when it comes to
like their schoolwork, that's a big challenge for me because
they don't teach things the way they did when I
was growing up. So I can't even help my nine
year old out with math now.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
No, I always just said it's your schoolwork, not mine.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Nice challenges with your children, as always, because we love
to continue the conversation even when we're not in the studio,
we move this over to our Billy and Judy Facebook page.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
Yeah, we'd love you to follow us and like us.
We'd appreciate it so so much. And it is Billy
and Judy. That's Billy with a why.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
And Judy with an eye. Your grandma is a waste
of time. According to Judy Diamonds, who has a life
hack for us.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Yeah, this comes through the experts.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Apparently it doesn't work, but there's something that will. When
talking to an elderly person who's hard of hearing, your
and really anybody who's hard of hearing, resist the urge
to crank up the volume. Instead, lower your pitch, go
a little lower. Science apparently, time says as we age,
the tiny little hell hair selves in our inner ear
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that detect high frequency sounds are usually the first to interiate.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
So downting louder in your usual pitch does not help it.
Speak even a deeper low tone does.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
I may have to give that a shot. You know,
my mom is retired and she now for over a decade,
has lived in our dungeon, in our.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
House, in a beautiful basement.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
It has become a real challenge now she is I
think seventy felt I love that. I don't know for sure.
I think she's seventy eight years old. And I couldn't
tell you how many times in the last few years
I've had to repeat myself. But now with my mom,
I don't think it's the little tiny hairs in her
ears that don't work anymore, because she has said many
times where I've said, did you not hear what I said?
(19:47):
She said, well, I did, but I wasn't really paying attention.
That's what I'm dealing.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
With, you know, I have she should have been my mother. Yeah,
I think she's my mother because I do that all
the time. I call it selective.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
Hearing Judy on the show will repeats something I just
said because she wasn't listening to me speaking. Well.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Sometimes it's like your mom would say, you just go
annie ya yang.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Or perhaps I'll just have to say it in a
lower tone.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
Oh, I just heard everything you just said, and that's
your life.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
Back with us, Billy and Judy in the morning,
Welcome to the B and Jay Replay podcast this week
for two sixteen, twenty twenty five. If you missed any
of last week's Riddler Raintree teasers, they're all free on
the replay podcast app here. So if you just do
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could listen to the station and our show and find
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out your answers anytime anywhere anywhere in the world. My
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Speaker 2 (00:29):
Do that.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
It's how we continue to give you free entertainment and
music every single weekday morning. Thank you so much, and
let's get this show on the road.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
You want it the best, You got the best, the
honest morning Shoe in the Wild Billy. That's Billy with
a y and with us.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yes it is, and it's Friday e finally it is.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
It's also a therapy Thursday. This is an interesting question
because we are both parents, your children all grown. I'm
kind of in the middle both I've got a grown
son and then younger sons at home that there are challenges,
Judy when it comes to our children.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Sorry, I'm coughing thinking about it because I'm in the
middle of one right now, and my kids are grown.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah, so don't feel guilty about this conversation I saying
that we don't love our children. We just go crazy
over certain things. So challenges with your children, we're gonna
share today, even if you want to do that anonymously
using the talkback button on the free iHeart radio app.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
You know, it's very therapeutic and maybe you have some
suggestions to help too, because we're not the best, but
we are free therapists.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
That's true. So we have that on the show today.
We're also down to the last two days at winning
with your one thousand dollars payday, Judy. That's nine more
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Yeah, first keyword you'll need toad hurt. Our website Kaylou
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Speaker 2 (01:52):
That is the sound of the google Buster question. The
chance this week at winning nothing but bragging rights will
go down at about seven forty, and then you get
your revent.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Binge a bonus buster no prize again, but accolades at
eight forty and little.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Food for thought this morning. One of my all time
favorite restaurants is making sort of a change that kind
of took me by surprise.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Ooh, this sounds yubby. I'm getting hungry already share that sat.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I would assume Judy has some tea to spill this
morning as well.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Who will be hosting the tonys?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I don't know, but we're gonna find out right after
we get you to the news of your nee. Hope.
Francis had breakfast on his seventh day in the hospital.
The Vatican said yesterday I'm the latest update on his health.
Pope Francis, by the way, suffering from double pneumonia, complicating
treatment for the eighty eight year old pontiff and indicating
a further deterioration in his fragile health. Organizers of the
historic Annie Malone May Day Parade are calling on people
(02:42):
in Saint Louis for donations to help keep the event
alive and well for the future. That appeal came a
day after the annual parade, one of the largest African
American parades in the entire country and a local staple
here in Saint Louis since nineteen ten, was canceled this
year and Tmosa faced his team Canada in the U Rematch,
the championship game of the four Nations based off Tonight
(03:03):
in Boston that Puck drops at seven. Let's go Team USA.
That is, there's your name that we spill the team
with Judd.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
It has been announced Cynthia Erivio, otherwise known as Alphaba
from the movie Wicked, will host the seventy eight Tony Awards,
taking over from Ariana DuBose. The show returns to Radio
City Music Hall on Airs live on CBS on June eighth.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Now here's the thing. I think it'll be the first.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Time the Tonys are really watched because of the movie
Wicked and because of Cynthia. Now, Cynthia is close to
Egott's status, having already won a Tony Grammy Emmy.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
She just needs that.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Oscar, I absolutely have no idea what you just said,
but that sounds very exciting and very enthralling.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
It is that.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
That is the tea with us wickedly in the morning.
Thanks for hanging out with us on this therapy Thursday.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, so on the show today. As parents, and I
know most of us are a lot of us are,
there are frustrations that come with your children, and sometimes
you can even feel guilty about being frustrated with your kids,
which is why we're talking about this on a therapy Thursday.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
I just went through it again.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
And both of my kids are grown ups, right, they
have their lives, but the two of them have always thought,
you know, brother's sister. Yeah, And when they were little
it was almost easier because at one time they were
driving me crazy and I said, you.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Know what, go in the backyard.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
And I locked them outside and I said, when you
come back in, when you too settle it.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I was so frustrated.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Well, now they're arguing about when I'm going to go
see each one of them when one lives in Europe
one boss.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
And it's like, come on, you guys, just talk to me.
You don't argue with each other.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
You feel like you're kind of stuck in the middle
of the whole thing too.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yes, I'm just frustrating. It's a challenge.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
So I've got a lot of challenges because I at
fifty two years old, I do have a twenty five
year old son, and I also have a nine and
seven year old sons. So my twenty five year old,
I'm very frustrated with the fact that I just never
hear from lives in the same in town. I do
icy him birthdays, Christmas, that sort of stuff, Father's Day.
But otherwise I don't really hear from them. And then
(05:05):
I have to remind myself I was the same way
when I was twenty five.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
I want trying to remember if we were that best
guy thing.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Yeah, so that's frustrating. And then with my younger sons,
I'm frustrated and it's not even fair because you know,
you live and you learn. They are the worst procrastinators
with everything, and it's really frustrating to me because I
know how important it is to just get things done,
to get it off your plate, and I can't get
that through their heads. And it's a challenge that I
just go crazy over. I have to remind myself again,
(05:34):
I was the same when I was their age.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Okay, you're trying to get it through here. You can't
even get it through my head, and you want to
get it through your own kids head.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Sister, I feel like you're one of my kids. You know,
there are definitely challenges to being a parent. So what
is maybe one or two that you have with your kids.
You can even do this anonymously if you're feeling guilty, Yeah,
and you don't have to.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
This is all about therapy.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So the best way is to get that free iHeartRadio
app if you haven't already, make sure we're your number
one and leave a message on it.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
They go. You can do that or just hit the
call out button on the Billy and Judy Facebook page.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
It's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
So there's two stories that I love because they're both
only fans stories.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Right.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So the first one is OnlyFans is a page, right,
and Lily Phillips is famous on that page only she's
apparently announcing her first pregnancy.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
That's the first one. If you don't know her.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I'm not going to say much more than that because
it's just too scandalous. But what I thought was interesting
with Tory Spelling admitting that she spent over four hundred
and fifty dollars on Denise Richards's only Fans page because
that's her friend.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
She wanted to get in, and she said, they get
you hooked and you don't even get to what.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
You need to get to. So I obviously don't go
to OnlyFans. I'm happily married. It seems to me like
a very creepy place where people go to expose themselves,
I guess physically and emotionally and psychologically and sharing things
that they would only share to their fans that you
have to pay them any subscription fee to find out about.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Yes, exactly, And Torri was trying to support her friend
Denise Richards who was on there and boom got charged
four or fifty bucks.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Yeah. On a side note, Judy and Diamond has an
only fans page. Yeah, that's a great zero. I'm the
team without Spilly g She's the only person in debt
on that side. Oh yeah, you know, Judy in the morning.
We say this all the time. We don't give good advice.
What do we do? Give free advice?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Absolutely, And sometimes when it's a therapy, sometimes just sharing
makes you feel better and maybe you'll share something that
someone can call who's listening to say, hey, I have
an advice for that.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
So this morning we're talking about challenges with children, challenges
as a parent we have faced with our kids. I
was saying that my twenty five year old son never visits,
never calls, nothing of that sort. That's very challenging and
frustrating for me. At the same time, I've got my
nine and seven year olds. They put everything off until
the very last minute. I'm so frustrated with them, and
they're procrastination, and.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
I'm frustrated with two by son and daughter who seem
to not get along.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
And you just want your you want your kids.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
To get along. Yeh, can't we all just get along? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I'm tired of the fighting, Laurie.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
The challenge with your children.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
How sick they get all the time, and how jeremy
they are. It's like, just don't touch gross staff after.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
A little bit.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
We go through that with my nine and seven year
old sons because at school everybody is sick right now,
so we're trying to avoid everybody that we can because
we know eventually they're just going to break it into
the house.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
This is across the whole nation.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
There's schools being closed down with this flu sickness thing.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
True true, true. Now that's a good one. Lauri. By
the way, leaving that talkback message on the free iHeartRadio app, Now,
what is yours? The challenge you face with your kids?
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Yep Therapy Thursday. Let us know your Google Buster answer
is next.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
But first one minute of what you will be expecting
for the Skyvibe podcast this week.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
It's all about music.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
It's like GPS for your life, authentic, practical astrology, an
easy to understand terms. Time for another sky Vibe report
from the sky Vibe podcast with professional astrologer Thomas Miller.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
We're gonna do several episodes on music.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I love it. I think it's great.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
What makes a great artist a musician? And so let's
take Prince. I know, Billy's favorite, one of my all
time favorites. We play him a lot. Is there anything
that was in his natal chart that would say, yep,
this guy's going to be a genius musician.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Oh, there's a big one. And yes, he is wired
for success in the music business.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
His astrology birth chart showed it. You have to listen
to the full episode to find out why. And we're
going to also do episodes for you. Are you musically inclined?
Is your child musically inclined? This is really cool stuff.
So we're starting with Prince in this astrology and music series.
We'll have John Lennon, Madonna, kinds of People, plus the
natal chart of some of the most timeless and iconic
(09:52):
songs ever.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
So cool.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Subscribe for free to the sky Vibe podcast show. It's
free on the iHeartRadio, Apple wherever you get your podcasts
and now your google Buster answer.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
People on a rebellion Judy Facebook page with the correct
guests to this morning's schoglebuster question. Clearly, Judy did not
sneak a peek on our faceboard page. No, I don't
like to cheat women. By the way, this is nothing
but bragging rights, no price for grabs. Keep doun of mind.
Women will use an average of four hundred and thirty
four of these in their lifetime. Men only one hundred
(10:28):
and ninety two.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Okay, got it tissues because we cry more.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
Oh. I think a lot of guys are in touch
with their very sensitive side these days, I hope. So. Yeah. No,
I will tell you that I used to on average
use two a year, and then I got married, and
all of a sudden that number is skyrocketed in my closet. Shoes,
(11:03):
That is absolutely correct, Samando. It is women on average
four hundred and thirty four pairs of shoes in their lifetime.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
In their lifetime. That's been a year for me.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Men one hundred and ninety two. I used to have
one pair of tennis shoes, one pair of dress shoes.
Then I got married and I got like shoes to
match out fits.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Because Melissa knows what she's doing.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
It is ridiculous. It's also the answer to your Googlebuster
with us Philly and Chuty in the morning.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
This is so fascinating me.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Okay, so remember the nineteen eighties ABC show TGIF right.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yes, they got its Friday right?
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Well, that kind of was the acronym everybody said, and
we all thought it meant they.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Got it's Friday.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Well, on a podcast, the truth came out that Bob Iger,
who came up with the whole show, said no, it
really was supposed to mean, thank goodness, it's funny.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Oh but it wasn't funny, and so they had to change. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
That crazy.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
So that is now, you know, kind of tea with
us billion gdy.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
We all have them, and so we thought, well, what
a better time than on a therapy Thursday to share them.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
Absolutely, maybe you have some suggestions for me. It still
comes down to even though my kids are out of
the house, they still fight and it drives me crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah. So I've got a nine year old and seven
year old sons who live in the house. My oldest
son is out of the house. I never hear from him.
That's a challenge. And then you're right, my nine and
seven year old's always going at it with each other.
That's really not even there's so many challenges with the night,
just one. Right. We did get this talk back message though,
for Bobby his challenge my kids friends' parents. I don't
(12:43):
know where these people are from, and I don't know
why my.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Kids keeps on gravitating towards people.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
With weird parents. But yeah, which is awful, and that's
even interesting. Sometimes not even the kids like your kids
friends parents. Sometimes your kids friends are But my son
Leo had one, he's still friends with him.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
When he was in batsically met him and he annoyed
me so much that he would you know, is Sammy
coming over today? Oh thank god, you're going to his house?
Speaker 2 (13:11):
Okay. You know it's interesting about that too. As an adult,
if someone gets on your nerves, someone bothers you, you
just choose to not spend time with them, You stay
away from them, you avoid the situation. I even do that,
like on social media with people. But now my kids
will hang out with friends of theirs and they're constantly
going at it with each other, and I think, why
are you guys even friends?
Speaker 3 (13:31):
And they'll go we are friends.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Yeah, what I don't understand some really really good messages
in regards to today's therapy Thursdays. So again the question, Judy.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Is what are some of the challenges that you're facing
as a parent with kiddos.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Use that talkback button on the free iHeartRadio app or
just that call now button that's on the Billy and
Judy Facebook page. If you are new to the show
Billy and Judy on Facebook is Billy with a why and.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Judy with an eye. Look the original Google buster.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah, you need for years beaten down with the sound
of my busser. And so you finally made this pledge.
It's been over a year ago now since you started
doing your bonus buster question.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
It's kind of fun.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
And so if you're unable to listen for the seven
o'clock one at seven to forty one, you get this one.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
So here it is.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Thirty seven percent of pet owners say they do this
for their pets. Every day of me, being a little
adopted pet mom, I will say I don't do this.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
What do you do you do this? Is it something
that physically do you do for your pet?
Speaker 1 (14:36):
I mean, yeah, you have to use your body to
do it.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
So you sleep with your pet. I don't know. No, No,
are you sleeping with that dog that you're watching?
Speaker 1 (14:49):
I was until she had one little accident and I
made her backer to the little sirt of mattress bed.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Oh jeez, that's hilarious. This is a tough one. Give
me the question again, okay.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Thirty seven percent of pet owners say they do this
for their pets every single day. What is it makes
you feel better? Whether you could get the bonus buster
or answer? And I know I have done this one before.
I just can't remember if you were on vacation when
I did it.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
So now is this it involves pets? Judy is a
dog sitting right now. She has been for a little
like a little over a month or so. Is this
specifically for dogs? Is this for dogs and cats and
birds and all the others?
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I think that any animal that you know, yeah, any
of them. Thirty percent of pet owners bird, dog, cat,
rabbit say they do this for their pets every single day.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Oh oh, I know. I think it's either turn on
the television or turn on the radio.
Speaker 3 (15:39):
Exactly, Yes, you remembered. Can I just add something begin here?
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Please? Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
The iHeartRadio app is free to download please make us
your number one preset because you know it's great you
can always have us on anywhere in the world.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
I do love that aspect of the free iHeartRadio app.
Side note, you know how I knew the answer to that?
How years ago I was on a television show called
Nashville Star. It was on the USA Network, and a
friend of mine from my high school days reached out
to me and said, oh, my gosh, I can't believe
you're on television, and I said, oh, that's awesome. You
watch me. They said, no, we leave the television on
(16:15):
for the dog and we go out. As we're walking
through the door, we heard a familiar voice.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
So the wait, can't you just tell your pet when
you leave? Hey, just make sure you leave it on
KLOU and then you have it on all the time
as your preset.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I love it, And that is your bonus buster question
with us? Philly and Judy, what's the matter.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
With therapy Thursday? We want to help you out. Yeah,
challenges with your children. This almost feels tabooish to talk
about because you don't want to talk poorly of your kids. However,
there aren't things they do that frustrates us.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
And it's more of helping you not feel so alone.
We're just getting real with it. Come on, I just
the whole thing with the sibling fighting. Now, I kind
to say something funny about this. I'm the youngest of
four and right now I'm in a little bit of
an argument with the two of my brothers.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
So which is funny? Here I am complaining, you're complaining
about your son and your daughter. They're constantly going at it,
which kind of gets you stuck in the middle.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yeah, exactly. And then I call my dad. I go, Dad,
the brothers are being.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Mean to me. Well, that's funny, I see. And I'm
just the opposite of With my twenty five year old,
I just never hear from him, so that's a big challenge.
And then my ninety seven year olds they put everything
off to the very last minute. I did the exact
same thing when I was their age, But now that
I've learned not to do that, you want to try
to teach them the same. They're not having anything to
do with it, and it drives me crazy.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Don't you use the whole adage of you gotta do
better than I did?
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Boys, No, they'll never do better than me. So talk
back messages. I joking. By the way, We got this
one from John who says this drives them crazy. The
older that they get.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
The harder question the rd to answer.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Or I got a kid asking me stuff about all
and I don't know. I hate that. I can't handle that.
I don't know exact what they're asking you questions about,
but it sounded bad, you know what.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
I remember the talks and boy that that is difficult.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Well, I can tell you. Even when it comes to
like their schoolwork, that's a big challenge for me because
they don't teach things the way they did when I
was growing up. So I can't even help my nine
year old out with math now.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
No, I always just said it's your schoolwork, not mine.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Nice challenges with your children, as always, because we love
to continue the conversation even when we're not in the studio,
we move this over to our Billy and Judy Facebook page.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
Yeah, we'd love you to follow us and like us.
We'd appreciate it so so much. And it is Billy
and Judy. That's Billy with a why.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
And Judy with an eye. Your grandma is a waste
of time. According to Judy Diamonds, who has a life
hack for us.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Yeah, this comes through the experts.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Apparently it doesn't work, but there's something that will. When
talking to an elderly person who's hard of hearing, your
and really anybody who's hard of hearing, resist the urge
to crank up the volume. Instead, lower your pitch, go
a little lower. Science apparently, time says as we age,
the tiny little hell hair selves in our inner ear
(19:08):
that detect high frequency sounds are usually the first to interiate.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
So downting louder in your usual pitch does not help it.
Speak even a deeper low tone does.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
I may have to give that a shot. You know,
my mom is retired and she now for over a decade,
has lived in our dungeon, in our.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
House, in a beautiful basement.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
It has become a real challenge now she is I
think seventy felt I love that. I don't know for sure.
I think she's seventy eight years old. And I couldn't
tell you how many times in the last few years
I've had to repeat myself. But now with my mom,
I don't think it's the little tiny hairs in her
ears that don't work anymore, because she has said many
times where I've said, did you not hear what I said?
(19:47):
She said, well, I did, but I wasn't really paying attention.
That's what I'm dealing.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
With, you know, I have she should have been my mother. Yeah,
I think she's my mother because I do that all
the time. I call it selective.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
Hearing Judy on the show will repeats something I just
said because she wasn't listening to me speaking. Well.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
Sometimes it's like your mom would say, you just go
annie ya yang.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Or perhaps I'll just have to say it in a
lower tone.
Speaker 3 (20:12):
Oh, I just heard everything you just said, and that's
your life.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
Back with us, Billy and Judy in the morning,
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