December 1, 2023 • 38 mins
Men and women aren't made to fight alongside each other in combat; they're made for different roles. Why are Marines called jarhead? Double-dipping the salsa. The Hot Chick double standard. Is the Democratic Party about to split? Is Pink Floyd overrated? Just how much gear do you need to fight? WWII documentaries that gloss over critical parts. Does hard work pay off? Schmoozing all the golf course.
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
This is a Jesse Kelly Shows.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
The Jesse Kelly Show. Another hour the Jesse Kelly Show.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
On an asked Doctor Jesse Friday, We're gonna talk about
someone's to bring up that osprey crash and young men
courting danger and things like that, double dipping the dip?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Why are marines called jar heads? Are Democrats going to split?
Is their party going to split up? Eventually? All that,
so much more coming up tonight on the world famous
Jesse Kelly Show. I want to get to this one
first because this was in the news and it's obviously
something we always talk about on the show. We already
played taps and everything for them. So okay, at least
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one dad after a US military aircraft crashes, there was
an ospray crash. We talked about it in Japan. I'm
not going over the detail, and the guy says, Jesse.
My son is my eighteen year old son was an
air assault marine training in the osprey. He and three
marines he trained with before their first deployment told me
every time they got on the osprey, they assumed they
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were going to die. They were laughing at death. They
loved it. I will cut it short to let you
explain that, and then he says your thoughts on the ospray, Okay, well,
the osprey, anything that flies that is maintained by the military,
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it's going to be more susceptible to crashes for a
lot of different reason. It's not that the military is
not capable, but there are always things they miss. It
is government, after all. You are dealing with younger people
who work on these things. That's part of it. Part
of it is they just fly more, right, that they
have to fly more, and they have to fly more
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in dangerous conditions. You can't just fly when it's nice outside.
Do you have to fly when it's bad, because bad
is going to come visit you in combat? Right. I
remember I was doing a story on this a while
ago about people who die in training and someone I
believe they emailed the show. And I don't mean to
disrespect your father or uncle or whoever it was, so
I if I have that wrong, I'm sorry. I'm doing
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this off of memory. Someone emailed the show to thank
us for talking about the training accidents and talked about
their relative. I believe it was father or grandfather died
in the Pacific in World War Two in the Pacific.
How flying a plane got super foggy, flew it right
into the side of a mountain. That happens, the bad
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weather comes. All right, but let's deal with with this.
You know they loved it. Said they were going to
die every time they got in. They loved it. There
are Look, we are made to do certain things in life.
We are built certain ways. Why do men why do
all these tranny men who switch over and play in
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women's sports, why do they dominate female sports? Because men
are built stronger than women. They are stronger back, stronger shoulders,
stronger hips. Men have bigger lung capacity men, it's not
even close. They're built to be more physically capable than
women are. But why is that? As God and Heaven
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just said, man, I want men to be better. No,
men have to be the protectors in a society. They
have to provide virtually all of society's manual labor. Remember,
if you're a manual laborer listening to the sound of
my voice, you provide a valuable service to society. Maybe
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it doesn't feel that way sometimes when you're pound and nails,
laying asphalt, whatever it is you do. Builders are a
critical part of a society. You need strong men to
do that. Men also have to do the fighting. Historic
men do the fighting. I realize in this day and age,
we have to do that. Women can do anything men
can do, just put them in the infantry. But men
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are supposed to be doing the fighting. It's more than
just physical though. It can be difficult because men and
women are different. It can be difficult for women to
understand this, not because women are stupid, but because women
are different. It can be difficult for women to understand
why men embrace danger, why they do dangerous things, why
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they have fun with dangerous things. Look, if you hand
my son's a stick, if you hand my sons a
stick and put them out back, boys, go out back.
I don't want to see you again for a couple hours.
I promise you, cross my heart and hope to die.
At some point over the next couple hours, probably immediately,
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they will do something dangerous with that stick. Hey, throw
it in the air with it. Say that's what they do.
It's what they do. It's not because they're stupid, it's
because they are designed to protect society. And it takes
a certain kind of mentality to wake up and grab
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a shield and a spear and get in formation and
go march and try to stab someone else in the
face while he's trying to stab you in the face.
That takes a certain mentality, a mentality mostly rejected by
older men by women, but with young men you can
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get them to do such things. To this day and age,
it's not a spear and a shield. It's getting on
an osprey. Yeah, I want to do that. Let's try
to land on an aircraft carrier. We might die. Isn't
that awesome? Pass me a cigarette. Does it look stupid
to be people who haven't done it? Does it look
stupid to older men? To women oftentimes it looks stupid.
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It's not stupidity. Their minds are supposed to work that way.
Otherwise society crumbles. You know, we talk a lot about
cops and firemen too. Let's talk about that. How many
cops right now? Really? How many? You know what? How
many state troopers? There are a bunch of state troopers.
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Listen to this, You know, the state troopers, the ones
out on the highway. You have any idea how dangerous
it is to pull somebody over at night on the
highway you're by yourself. Yeah, there are cars. Maybe whizzing
by that in and of itself is dangerous. Somebody's texting drunk.
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The cops die doing that all the time. But you
don't have any idea what's waiting for you in that car.
You have no idea whether it's a felon high on drugs,
just murdered his wife. You don't have any idea whether
he's got a gun pointed at you, whether he's getting
ready to be whether he's got a bomb and he's
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gonna blow you both up. You don't have any idea.
You just pulled him over. You're by yourself in a
squad car, it's midnight, and you now have to walk
up to that car and make contact with that individual.
And I could point you towards scary videos that are
used to this day with training of cops who have
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died like that. There are many how many state troopers
listen to the sound of my voice right now? And
that's their reality every day. In fact, they're sitting in
their car and they're probably about to pull someone over,
and that's their reality. Look, that takes a different kind
of person to do that every day. This is why
I laugh. I mock you guys who who thank me
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for my service. I served in the Marines for four years,
and yeah, it was dangerous and whatnot. I don't do
that anymore. I don't serve like that. I don't risk
my life. I do a radio show. You are the hero.
I haven't done anything compared to you. But whether you
like that or not, that takes a different type of
person to wake up, kiss his wife, kiss her husband,
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because women do this job too, even scarier for them.
Kiss his wife, kiss her husband, kiss her kids goodbye,
then go into work, strap on a bulletproof vest and
a gun and wade out into the dark. It takes
a different mentality, and it's not a mentality you should
look down on. I'm not saying you have to look
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at all of them as if they're heroes either. I
personally admire it a great deal. But it does take
a different and necessary mentality, all right. So for the
women out there especially, I know we have a bunch
of single mothers who listen to the show and whatnot,
and you're trying to figure out, why does my fifteen
year old, why do him and his friends hurt themselves?
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Why did they have to build a ramp for the bicycles.
Why couldn't they just ride around the neighborhood on their
bicycles and have fun, going ding ding ding. I'm on
my bicycle instead. He had to find the steepest hill
and build a ramp. And now I'm sitting in the
er because he shattered his arm. You know why, because
he's exactly the way God made him. He's a boy.
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Boys have to embrace that. It's part of becoming a man.
It just is. I did it with my friends, came
home bleeding. One time. I came home carrying my bike
on my back with blood pouring down my leg. My mother,
God bless her, she's one of those people. She can't
stand the sight of blood. She'll pass out. She will,
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she would if she cuts herself, She'll have to pass out.
And my old man wasn't home, so I had to
walk into the bathroom. I was twelve thirteen, I would
guess I had to walk into the bathroom because I'd
wiped out on the gravel. I had to walk into
the bathroom and all she could do was hand me
a pair of tweezers, and I had to sit on
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the bathroom sink with my torn to Shred's knee over
the bathroom sink, picking the gravel out of my own wounds.
It was pretty sweet, Chris, and I still have the
scar to this day. But that's boys, man, that's the
way it is, all right, all right, our Democrats gonna split.
Let's talk about that. Let's talk about double dipping wire
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marines called jar heads. Let's talk about our dogs. Let's
talk about American dogs dying too early. American dogs die young,
and that's a horrible thing because dogs. Look, I've got
my own meathhead, Fred. He's part of the family. He's
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part of our family. We had to send him away
for one night. The other night. It's a long story.
I won't go into the details of it. It was embarrassing.
I'm embarrassed by myself. We're all sitting around saying, I
miss Fred, where's Fred? I wish the dog was here?
And then we love them like that, but we don't
give them real nutrition. We give them dog food. There's
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Slash Jesse. We'll be back, mists catch up, Jesse kellyshow
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We are live. You can email us Jesse at Jesse
Kellyshow dot com. Jesse at Jesse kellyshow dot com. Jesse.
Years ago, the parents of my then boyfriend took us
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to lunch at a Mexican restaurant. To my horror, his
mom double dipped into the salsa. I said nothing, but
I ate none of the salsa. After seeing that later
in the day, I mentioned it to my boyfriend, but
he saw nothing wrong with his mom double dipping. Being
that you are a rude person, would you have said
anything at the table upon seeing her double dip? Okay,
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so it's not your mom, it's your boyfriend's mom. Okay,
So I can only do this from a dude's perspective.
If I was there with my girlfriends, which I don't
have one of those, don't worry off. But if I
was there with my girlfriend's mom and she double dipped,
what I say something? It would probably depend on how
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hot she was. Not the girlfriend the mom, No, I'm kidding. No,
let me explain, Let me explain. I'm probably not totally
off on this. I'm anti double dipping for the most part.
If it's family, I guess I don't really care. If
it's my girlfriend's mom, I would definitely care, but full disclosure,
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if the salsa was good, I would probably still eat
it anyway. Plus, if my girlfriend was hot, that probably
means that are moms hot because hot moms produce hot girls.
That's how it works. So hot chicks they can double
dip in whatever. It's totally fine because hot women don't
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have germs like other women do. Right, They don't even
use the bathroom. I've been told, so I would probably
keep going. I would, I would just keep going. Would
I say something, It would depend on how serious we were.
I am famous for saying things like this in family gatherings,
and I'm famous for I know you're gonna find this shocking,
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just coming right out and saying it, as in, but
what are you doing? Double dipping? You can't die all
I will Chris, it's horrible. My wife will just get horrified.
I'll just come right out and say it. But again,
it'll all depend on how hot she is. All right, Look,
don't get mad at me. That's the way the world works.
Everyone understands there's such a thing for women as hot privilege.
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Men have various privileges too, right, I understand this. You
know what I understand here. There's a fact I have
tall privilege. What does that mean? Well, I'm a tall
dude when I was single. That automatically gets you more
looks from the opposite sex. You can be ugly as sin,
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which obviously is not a problem for me. You can
be dirt poor, you could whatever. You are gonna get
more looks from the opposite sex. When you're six ' eight,
people naturally just look at you when you walk in
the room. You happen to stand out. You're gonna that looked.
Is that fair that I do anything to become tall? No,
it's not some talent I acquired. It's not something I
feel some source of pride in like I did something
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to deserve it. Nevertheless, here I am. Hot women have
the exact same thing. Hot women don't pay for meals.
Hot women are more welcome in work environments. Guys are
quote nicer to them, and they understand why. Everyone understands
why what the deal is? Everyone was so nice? Yeah,
that's because you're a ten. Of course everyone's nice to you.
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Everyone's nice. That's just the way the world works. Life's unfair. Hey, Jesse,
quick question? Why are marines called jar heads? Why are
marines called jar heads? Well, have you ever seen you
ever seen a creepy movie or a documentary about serial killers?
Stay with me, you've ever seen one? You ever seen
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one that collected heads? They keep the heads in a jar,
in a big jar, and generally the jars are huge. Right.
Marines are called jar heads because they have bigger brains
than everyone else. What, Chris, Because they have bigger brains
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than everyone else, so big that the jars would have
to be huge if someone cut our head off. And
that's why they call marines jar heads. Do you foresee
a time? By the way, I'm not sure if that's why,
but that's how I always took it. Do you foresee
a time when maybe a fractions in the Democrat party
might be pushed too far and join our side for
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specific instances like the Germans did against the SS and
the batter of Eider Castle or Ittter Castle in World
War Two. That's actually a good history story. We should
do one of those one time. Okay, Are we going
to get Democrats to join our side? Yes? And no?
And there's a problem with this. Let me explain. Yes,
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you will, and you're already seeing this. On a casion,
you will see Democrats look around at the horror their
party has become, and they will come over. I played
it for you yesterday. I'm going to play it for
you again right now. Michael Schallenberger is a journalist, He's
a Democrat. He's voted Democrat his whole life. He voted
for Joe Biden already, this was him.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Nine months ago, I testified and provided evidence to the
subcommittee about the existence of a censorship industrial complex, a
network of government agencies, including the Department of Homeland Security,
government contractors, and big tech media platforms that conspired to
censor ordinary Americans and elected officials alike. For holding disfavored views.
(17:39):
I regret to inform the subcommittee today that the scope,
power and law breaking of the censorship industrial complex are
even worse than we had realized. Back in March, two
days ago, my colleagues and I published the first batch
of internal files from the Cyber Threat Intelligence League, which
show US and UK military contract actors working in twenty
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nineteen and twenty twenty to both censor and turn sophisticated
psychological operations and disinformation tactics developed abroad against the American people.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
He's a man who finally opened his eyes and saw
that he served communism, and so he switched. Are we
going to get some yes? Are we going to get
a lot? No? And I will explain why in just
the moment, and then we'll move on to other things.
Before we get to those other things, let's talk about
one of the most important things. That's the towels we use.
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I have too. I'm not pointing fingers, I'm certainly not
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we'll be back. It is the Jesse Kelli scholl on
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an ass doctor Jesse Friday. Is Pink Floyd overrated? Chris
I would argue pink Floyd is under rated. You don't
ever hear pink When someone that you asked somebody to
listen their top five bands, top ten bands, you don't
hear somebody answer pink Floyd. Very often they are a
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top ten, they're top ten. If they're not top five,
they're top ten. I would look. We've all heard you
play the weed music on the show Chris, the Mary
Jane songs and everything else. Don't act, don't act like
Chris said, it's weed, not acid. Yeah, I'll tell you
it's weird. When I listen to Pink Floyd. I love
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jamming out to Pink Floyd. I don't know whether this
is a stupid hanguff of mine or something. I kind
of feel like a pothead when I listen to Pink
Floyd in traffic. Here's like, if other people see me
listening to Pink Floyd, I feel like people are looking
at me saying, wow, he's probably high. I feel is
that weird? That's a a weird one. I'll turn it
down as if it has bad language or something like that. Oh,
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it's not Pink Floyd, it's it's something else. It's something less.
I'm not on drugs. I look at literally, I'll clear
my eyes. Are I'm not on drugs? Anyway? It's asked
doctor Jesse Friday. Let's continue. That's oh did you hear
the rear rear? Admiral? But gig is in the news
again today Here he was, why are you g oh
crap so wrong? One?
Speaker 5 (21:06):
Here it is, you know as well as I do,
the disconnect between the delivery of those winds and the
perception and understanding of those wins, And I wonder how
you believe you bridge that gap.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Well, part of that is why we're on the road
so much. Look, we shouldn't assume or expect that people
are automatically going to give credit where credit is due
if we don't remind folks how these things came about. Yeah,
we just have to get on the road to remind
people of how great they have. Things are good. What
the problem is We just haven't been on the road.
We haven't told people enough. Yeah, I just got to
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get on the road. Anyway. In the meantime, go to
the Dollar Store for christ If.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
You plan on getting gifts for the twelve days of
Christmas just now, your parkets may hurt. According to the
Christmas Price Index, prices are at record highs. They say
those twelve days of gifts can cost you more than
forty six thousand dollars. WHOA, that's expense now, So you
may want to go ahead and just go to Dollar
Tree instead.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Yeah, things are going great. All right, Let's get this
more email so there's tons of them. Hang on, hang on, Jesse,
what is the best Mantis X to buy my husband
for Christmas? There are a few to choose some I
would like your opinion. Uh, it depends on what he had. Okay,
well here it is. Here's here are my two favorites.
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I was going to tell you the black Beard, the
Mantis X Blackbeard what it is. It's for if he
has an AR. He may not have an AR, but
if he has an AR, the black Beard essentially replaces
the Uh kind of how do I put this so
people can understand it? It attaches to the AR. I
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just put it to you that way. I was gonna
go into details on it, Chris, and I thought, that's stupid.
It attaches to the AR, so I get to train
with my AR in the comfort of my home, not
just pistols. He may not have an If he has
an AR, get him the black Beard. If he doesn't
have an AR, get him the Mantis X ten Elite.
Mantis X ten Elite. Now, don't be me wrong. There's
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all kinds of awesome stuff, all kinds of awesome stuff.
The mantis X three is awesome if you're trying to
save some money. X two. I love these things. Mantis
X ten Elite probably my favorite, other than the Blackbeard.
I love the black Beard. But yes, it is the
ultimate Christmas gift for your dude or lady. I need
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to point out this is not men, only anyone in
your home who likes to shoot or is just starting
to shoot. Man. I owe mantis x a debt of
gratitude because my wife does not. You know, when I
was first getting her into shooting, the noise and everything,
and she would feel pressure at the range even though
you shouldn't. But mantis X there's no pressure. We're sitting
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at home. There you go, Christmas time, mantis x dot com.
J Steele, I'm a big WW two guy. I've seen
all the documentaries, at least the ones without the dumb
re enactmancy. I hate those two anyway. I've never understood
the role of gliders. The documentaries seem to gloss over
them as if we fully understand their utility. I see
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that they're tied to normal airplanes. Are they just cost effective?
Am I close? Okay? Uh here's the deal. One. I'm
so glad there are people like you out there, because
I'm this way. I've been doing a bunch of reading
lately on the Battle of Tsavo Island, and you know,
we talked a little bit about last night. We opened
up the show doing some history last night. In case
you missed it. It was a big naval battle in
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World War Two, and everyone talked about how great the
Japanese were at night fighting. Oh, they're just way better
at night fighting in any documentary you watched. Oh they're
just better at night fighting. And they moved right on. Okay, Well,
why what how? And that's why I gave you some
details on that last night. How they were testing guys
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who were better at seeing at night, how they developed
night optics, How they even had layers systems where they'd
fly planes over our ships and drop flares essentially on
top of our ships at night, illuminating them so their
people could see you. Because things like that, again, I
want to know the details. Why. How? Why gliders? Yes
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they are they are fairly inexpensive, obviously because you're not
dealing with engines and parts and things like that. But
why gliders? Gliders are quiet? A lot of people when
they talk about the gliders of World War Two? What
do they think about they think about this the units
on Normandy on D Day, the units that not the
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ones that landed on the beaches, the ones that landed
behind the enemy lines. The airborne guys who flew over
the enemy lines and landed behind enemy lines. Well, a
lot of those guys came in on planes. Obviously. If
you've seen Band of Brothers, it gives you a good
idea of what it was like. These big planes full
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of dudes getting ready to parachute in, and planes make
a lot of noise. Man, and you know the Japanese,
the Germans, wherever you are, they have guns too, and
brains too, and they know you're gonna try to fly in,
and so they have anti aircraft guns up there. It's
just the saddest thing in the world. All that training,
all that time, and then you get blown up in
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the sky before you even drop down and fire your weapon,
and anger. It's just over like that, right, gone, Very sad. One.
Gliders are very quiet, so it helps avoid that problem. Two.
With a glider, you can set them down more places.
They're going slower, So provided you know where you're going,
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provided you have a destination you would want to instead
of parachuting out, You can set it down. Now, why
would you want to set it down instead of parachuting out?
But here's something we don't think of a lot. And
unless you're, you know, thinking about combat and stuff a
unique amount, you wouldn't think about this a lot. You
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need things in combat, you know what is? This is
gonna sound stupid, and it is honestly kind of stupid.
You don't want to know. One of my biggest disappointments
in the Marines was in combat in the Marines. Was
I shouldn't say disappointment, That's not what I mean. But
you'll get what I'm saying. How much crap we had
to carry? Because I remember I grew up watching all
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the movies you watched and stuff like that. And what
do you see in the movies? What do you see?
What does he have? Ohy, of course he's got you know,
some web gear. He's got straps and stuff on his
bodies that have a couple of grenades on it and whatnot.
And then he's got his weapon. And other than that,
he's running around just like you and I are running around.
He's got his gun on. Yeah, even on light days.
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In combat, you're picking up thirty forty pounds of gear
between your flat jacket, your plates, your magazines. You're loading
yourself down with gear. You never feel in nimble. You're
always humping gear around. It's always heavy. It takes a
lot of stuff to stay alive for any extended amount
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of time in combat, especially if you're gonna glide behind
enemy lines. Just a just a belt with a couple
of magazines on it looks great for the movies. Brother,
what are you gonna eat? How are you gonna acquire water?
How are you gonna what are you gonna do for ammunition? Okay,
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so you've got how many magazines on you? Two? Three, six?
You have any idea how fast six magazines go? Like that?
When you get in combat, boom firefight. Now you're empty.
Now you have nothing in your dead. You would want
to land a glider, not just because it's quieter, because
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if you land some sort of a plane, you get
more gear on the plane, all right, And plus it's
difficult jumping out parachuting out of a plane with all
that gear. You talk to any of these airborne guys,
rangers and tight and those types, they'll tell you man
packing your gear. Figuring out how to jump out of
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a plane with that much gear is extremely difficult and
you can hurt yourself badly. One story of a green
brain Green Beray actually one of the sag guys I
remember from Vietnam. He blew half of his butt off.
Why he had to land with a bunch of land
mines and he had situated the wrong way he landed,
boom had to be metavacked out. War over gone. It's
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a dangerous bit of business. Anyway. Now that we talked
about blowing people's butts off, let's talk about does any
of this matter? Exposing all the evil and does hard
work still pay off? Someone doesn't think so, Hang on,
get the cure for rhinos eight days with the Jesse
Kelly Show. It is the Jesse Kelly Show on an
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ass doctor Jesse Friday. You can still email the show
Jesse at Jesse Kellyshow dot com. Jesse at Jesse Kellyshow
dot com. Let's get to this one. The subject is
hard work doesn't pay off? Jesse. I have finally come
to the conclusion that hard work doesn't pay off, not anymore,
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at least I have experienced this for the past few
years with observations and jobs and life in general. Most recently,
my son has sat on the bench most of the
basketball season. Kids that haven't in with the coach get
to play, not necessarily. The ones that showed up to
every optional practice, open gym work their tails off. It's
a matter of connections and relationships. I do believe the
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window has shifted in the real world away from hard
work paying off. We need to be honest with our
kids and prepare them for butt kissing, schmoozing and sales
types relationships. It really is the slacker on the golf
course that mails it in getting the promotions with the
brown on his nose, the ones putting in overtime, pulling
waiter on the chopping block. I don't like it. How
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do we guide our kids for that while maintaining integrity. Okay,
it's a great question. Great email and sounds like a
very frustrated mother. Came from a lady and I understand this.
That's that can be very frustrating. But let's just go
over this. You know what's bad for kids. And I've
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seen this over and over and over again. I saw
it and kids I went to school with, I see
it in younger people. Now, it's awful. You know what's
terrible for children? The kid who goes undefeated, wins the
state championship and drives off in a brand new Ford
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Mustang with his pretty girlfriend. That sounds wonderful. And man,
look I'm a parent. I'll tell you. Look my kid,
My oldest son runs cross country. He just got done
at a state, made it to state. I wanted him
to win state so bad as a freshman. I'm a father.
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I wanted my son. I told him before he raced,
I said, leave your guts out there and leave it
all out there. I wanted him to leave it all
out there and win state. I wanted him to be
a state champion, and I wanted it. I'm admitting this
to you. I wanted it for him. He wanted it.
He was disappointed, but he didn't make it. He did great,
but he didn't make He didn't win the state. That
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would have been awful for my son. I'm thankful to
God he didn't make it. He's a freshman. He needs
to learn. There's a lot of work to do. This
ain't easy. You want to be a state champion like
those kids running like the gazelle's at the top, there's
the road, there's your tennis shoes. Go put the work in.
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Put the work in, or don't go grind, go sweat
for it, experience pain. We want our kids to find
success at all times because we're parents. You're not a
bad mom for wanting that. I'm not a bad dad
for wanting that. We're parents. It's awful for children. The
best lessons I have learned in my forty two years
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on this earth were lessons where either I screwed up
or I was done wrong by somebody. Those are valuable lessons.
The quote bad teachers, bad coaches I had, and I
had plenty of each. They taught me as much as
the good teachers and good coaches. One of my sons
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a couple of years ago, had this horrible hag of
a teacher. She was known to treat every kid like crap,
treated them like crap. Was grossly unfair, just a very
unhappy person who shouldn't be in the teaching profession. And
when he'd come home and complain to me about it,
you know what I'd do. I didn't talk, son. I'm sorry,
come here, let me let me, let me goddle you,
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I'll send her an email. You know what I do.
One I laugh, and two I pulled them aside and
say congratulations, welcome to the real world. Do you think
your boss is always gonna be wonderful. You're gonna have
bosses who are weapons grade pieces of crap. You're gonna
have bosses who are jerks. Do you think every boss
is wonderful like me? Chris, shut up? Anyway, that's great
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preparation for life. He's got a coach who's doing them wrong.
That's great preparation for life. Now, as far as the
schmoozing goes, the lesson and all that, it's not that
hard work doesn't pay off, because it does in the end.
It does not in every instance and not in every job,
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not on every sports team. It doesn't. But we do,
all of us, you me, all of us. We have
to acknowledge. And this is something I struggle with the
personal side of things. My wife will work on me
with this, shoot Jewish Jewish producer, Chris will work on
me with this. On things. If I have to send
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an email to somebody or a text to somebody in
a professional format, the way I word things is very direct,
very direct. Some may call it rude. I don't think.
I don't look at it that way. Here's what's real,
here's what's not this this and this boom done here
it is. My wife will step in and say, hey,
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why don't you let me read that before you hit sam? Oh,
I wouldn't quite put it that way. And every time
I get my hackles up, Why that's how I feel.
That's the truth, I said, And she'll say, I know
that's how you feel, baby, it's just not that's probably
not gonna land that. Well. Let me let me adjust
a couple things to make that a little softer. Schmoozing
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on the golf course. It does matter, it does. Getting
to know people does matter. I have to We all
have to as parents in this day and age because
of the devices, right we all have laptop and things
like that. Because of the devices, we have to be
much more purposeful with our kids in teaching them how
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to talk. Like over Thanksgiving we went to Montana to
see my folks and they had friends come over and whatnot.
And my boys aren't allowed to really be on their
phones around other people anyway, We really limit that stuff.
But they were. I pulled them aside and I said,
not only are there no phones out, you will make
conversation that doesn't mean one word answers yes, no, how
school kids like to do. You will have an answer
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that's a full sentence or more, and you will respond
with questions about them. And I told my boys, I
don't care that you don't care about the answer to
the question. That's part of making a conversation. You will
answer in full sentence form, and you will ask them
questions back. Parents in the past have not had They've
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had plenty of their own challenges. I'm not putting down
parents of the past at all, but this is a
new set of challenges we have to teach our children.
Charm and charm does matter, man, it does. It is
It's important for life, it does. It matters. Look at
how charming I am, Chris major charming. Don't shake your
head either. All right, we still have an hour. Let's
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On an asked Doctor Jesse Friday, We're gonna talk about
someone's to bring up that osprey crash and young men
courting danger and things like that, double dipping the dip?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Why are marines called jar heads? Are Democrats going to split?
Is their party going to split up? Eventually? All that,
so much more coming up tonight on the world famous
Jesse Kelly Show. I want to get to this one
first because this was in the news and it's obviously
something we always talk about on the show. We already
played taps and everything for them. So okay, at least
(00:54):
one dad after a US military aircraft crashes, there was
an ospray crash. We talked about it in Japan. I'm
not going over the detail, and the guy says, Jesse.
My son is my eighteen year old son was an
air assault marine training in the osprey. He and three
marines he trained with before their first deployment told me
every time they got on the osprey, they assumed they
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were going to die. They were laughing at death. They
loved it. I will cut it short to let you
explain that, and then he says your thoughts on the ospray, Okay, well,
the osprey, anything that flies that is maintained by the military,
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it's going to be more susceptible to crashes for a
lot of different reason. It's not that the military is
not capable, but there are always things they miss. It
is government, after all. You are dealing with younger people
who work on these things. That's part of it. Part
of it is they just fly more, right, that they
have to fly more, and they have to fly more
(01:58):
in dangerous conditions. You can't just fly when it's nice outside.
Do you have to fly when it's bad, because bad
is going to come visit you in combat? Right. I
remember I was doing a story on this a while
ago about people who die in training and someone I
believe they emailed the show. And I don't mean to
disrespect your father or uncle or whoever it was, so
I if I have that wrong, I'm sorry. I'm doing
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this off of memory. Someone emailed the show to thank
us for talking about the training accidents and talked about
their relative. I believe it was father or grandfather died
in the Pacific in World War Two in the Pacific.
How flying a plane got super foggy, flew it right
into the side of a mountain. That happens, the bad
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weather comes. All right, but let's deal with with this.
You know they loved it. Said they were going to
die every time they got in. They loved it. There
are Look, we are made to do certain things in life.
We are built certain ways. Why do men why do
all these tranny men who switch over and play in
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women's sports, why do they dominate female sports? Because men
are built stronger than women. They are stronger back, stronger shoulders,
stronger hips. Men have bigger lung capacity men, it's not
even close. They're built to be more physically capable than
women are. But why is that? As God and Heaven
(03:25):
just said, man, I want men to be better. No,
men have to be the protectors in a society. They
have to provide virtually all of society's manual labor. Remember,
if you're a manual laborer listening to the sound of
my voice, you provide a valuable service to society. Maybe
(03:46):
it doesn't feel that way sometimes when you're pound and nails,
laying asphalt, whatever it is you do. Builders are a
critical part of a society. You need strong men to
do that. Men also have to do the fighting. Historic
men do the fighting. I realize in this day and age,
we have to do that. Women can do anything men
can do, just put them in the infantry. But men
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are supposed to be doing the fighting. It's more than
just physical though. It can be difficult because men and
women are different. It can be difficult for women to
understand this, not because women are stupid, but because women
are different. It can be difficult for women to understand
why men embrace danger, why they do dangerous things, why
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they have fun with dangerous things. Look, if you hand
my son's a stick, if you hand my sons a
stick and put them out back, boys, go out back.
I don't want to see you again for a couple hours.
I promise you, cross my heart and hope to die.
At some point over the next couple hours, probably immediately,
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they will do something dangerous with that stick. Hey, throw
it in the air with it. Say that's what they do.
It's what they do. It's not because they're stupid, it's
because they are designed to protect society. And it takes
a certain kind of mentality to wake up and grab
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a shield and a spear and get in formation and
go march and try to stab someone else in the
face while he's trying to stab you in the face.
That takes a certain mentality, a mentality mostly rejected by
older men by women, but with young men you can
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get them to do such things. To this day and age,
it's not a spear and a shield. It's getting on
an osprey. Yeah, I want to do that. Let's try
to land on an aircraft carrier. We might die. Isn't
that awesome? Pass me a cigarette. Does it look stupid
to be people who haven't done it? Does it look
stupid to older men? To women oftentimes it looks stupid.
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It's not stupidity. Their minds are supposed to work that way.
Otherwise society crumbles. You know, we talk a lot about
cops and firemen too. Let's talk about that. How many
cops right now? Really? How many? You know what? How
many state troopers? There are a bunch of state troopers.
(06:27):
Listen to this, You know, the state troopers, the ones
out on the highway. You have any idea how dangerous
it is to pull somebody over at night on the
highway you're by yourself. Yeah, there are cars. Maybe whizzing
by that in and of itself is dangerous. Somebody's texting drunk.
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The cops die doing that all the time. But you
don't have any idea what's waiting for you in that car.
You have no idea whether it's a felon high on drugs,
just murdered his wife. You don't have any idea whether
he's got a gun pointed at you, whether he's getting
ready to be whether he's got a bomb and he's
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gonna blow you both up. You don't have any idea.
You just pulled him over. You're by yourself in a
squad car, it's midnight, and you now have to walk
up to that car and make contact with that individual.
And I could point you towards scary videos that are
used to this day with training of cops who have
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died like that. There are many how many state troopers
listen to the sound of my voice right now? And
that's their reality every day. In fact, they're sitting in
their car and they're probably about to pull someone over,
and that's their reality. Look, that takes a different kind
of person to do that every day. This is why
I laugh. I mock you guys who who thank me
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for my service. I served in the Marines for four years,
and yeah, it was dangerous and whatnot. I don't do
that anymore. I don't serve like that. I don't risk
my life. I do a radio show. You are the hero.
I haven't done anything compared to you. But whether you
like that or not, that takes a different type of
person to wake up, kiss his wife, kiss her husband,
(08:12):
because women do this job too, even scarier for them.
Kiss his wife, kiss her husband, kiss her kids goodbye,
then go into work, strap on a bulletproof vest and
a gun and wade out into the dark. It takes
a different mentality, and it's not a mentality you should
look down on. I'm not saying you have to look
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at all of them as if they're heroes either. I
personally admire it a great deal. But it does take
a different and necessary mentality, all right. So for the
women out there especially, I know we have a bunch
of single mothers who listen to the show and whatnot,
and you're trying to figure out, why does my fifteen
year old, why do him and his friends hurt themselves?
(08:58):
Why did they have to build a ramp for the bicycles.
Why couldn't they just ride around the neighborhood on their
bicycles and have fun, going ding ding ding. I'm on
my bicycle instead. He had to find the steepest hill
and build a ramp. And now I'm sitting in the
er because he shattered his arm. You know why, because
he's exactly the way God made him. He's a boy.
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Boys have to embrace that. It's part of becoming a man.
It just is. I did it with my friends, came
home bleeding. One time. I came home carrying my bike
on my back with blood pouring down my leg. My mother,
God bless her, she's one of those people. She can't
stand the sight of blood. She'll pass out. She will,
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she would if she cuts herself, She'll have to pass out.
And my old man wasn't home, so I had to
walk into the bathroom. I was twelve thirteen, I would
guess I had to walk into the bathroom because I'd
wiped out on the gravel. I had to walk into
the bathroom and all she could do was hand me
a pair of tweezers, and I had to sit on
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the bathroom sink with my torn to Shred's knee over
the bathroom sink, picking the gravel out of my own wounds.
It was pretty sweet, Chris, and I still have the
scar to this day. But that's boys, man, that's the
way it is, all right, all right, our Democrats gonna split.
Let's talk about that. Let's talk about double dipping wire
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marines called jar heads. Let's talk about our dogs. Let's
talk about American dogs dying too early. American dogs die young,
and that's a horrible thing because dogs. Look, I've got
my own meathhead, Fred. He's part of the family. He's
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part of our family. We had to send him away
for one night. The other night. It's a long story.
I won't go into the details of it. It was embarrassing.
I'm embarrassed by myself. We're all sitting around saying, I
miss Fred, where's Fred? I wish the dog was here?
And then we love them like that, but we don't
give them real nutrition. We give them dog food. There's
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Kellyshow dot com. Jesse at Jesse kellyshow dot com. Jesse.
Years ago, the parents of my then boyfriend took us
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to lunch at a Mexican restaurant. To my horror, his
mom double dipped into the salsa. I said nothing, but
I ate none of the salsa. After seeing that later
in the day, I mentioned it to my boyfriend, but
he saw nothing wrong with his mom double dipping. Being
that you are a rude person, would you have said
anything at the table upon seeing her double dip? Okay,
(12:37):
so it's not your mom, it's your boyfriend's mom. Okay,
So I can only do this from a dude's perspective.
If I was there with my girlfriends, which I don't
have one of those, don't worry off. But if I
was there with my girlfriend's mom and she double dipped,
what I say something? It would probably depend on how
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hot she was. Not the girlfriend the mom, No, I'm kidding. No,
let me explain, Let me explain. I'm probably not totally
off on this. I'm anti double dipping for the most part.
If it's family, I guess I don't really care. If
it's my girlfriend's mom, I would definitely care, but full disclosure,
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if the salsa was good, I would probably still eat
it anyway. Plus, if my girlfriend was hot, that probably
means that are moms hot because hot moms produce hot girls.
That's how it works. So hot chicks they can double
dip in whatever. It's totally fine because hot women don't
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have germs like other women do. Right, They don't even
use the bathroom. I've been told, so I would probably
keep going. I would, I would just keep going. Would
I say something, It would depend on how serious we were.
I am famous for saying things like this in family gatherings,
and I'm famous for I know you're gonna find this shocking,
(14:04):
just coming right out and saying it, as in, but
what are you doing? Double dipping? You can't die all
I will Chris, it's horrible. My wife will just get horrified.
I'll just come right out and say it. But again,
it'll all depend on how hot she is. All right, Look,
don't get mad at me. That's the way the world works.
Everyone understands there's such a thing for women as hot privilege.
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Men have various privileges too, right, I understand this. You
know what I understand here. There's a fact I have
tall privilege. What does that mean? Well, I'm a tall
dude when I was single. That automatically gets you more
looks from the opposite sex. You can be ugly as sin,
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which obviously is not a problem for me. You can
be dirt poor, you could whatever. You are gonna get
more looks from the opposite sex. When you're six ' eight,
people naturally just look at you when you walk in
the room. You happen to stand out. You're gonna that looked.
Is that fair that I do anything to become tall? No,
it's not some talent I acquired. It's not something I
feel some source of pride in like I did something
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to deserve it. Nevertheless, here I am. Hot women have
the exact same thing. Hot women don't pay for meals.
Hot women are more welcome in work environments. Guys are
quote nicer to them, and they understand why. Everyone understands
why what the deal is? Everyone was so nice? Yeah,
that's because you're a ten. Of course everyone's nice to you.
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Everyone's nice. That's just the way the world works. Life's unfair. Hey, Jesse,
quick question? Why are marines called jar heads? Why are
marines called jar heads? Well, have you ever seen you
ever seen a creepy movie or a documentary about serial killers?
Stay with me, you've ever seen one? You ever seen
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one that collected heads? They keep the heads in a jar,
in a big jar, and generally the jars are huge. Right.
Marines are called jar heads because they have bigger brains
than everyone else. What, Chris, Because they have bigger brains
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than everyone else, so big that the jars would have
to be huge if someone cut our head off. And
that's why they call marines jar heads. Do you foresee
a time? By the way, I'm not sure if that's why,
but that's how I always took it. Do you foresee
a time when maybe a fractions in the Democrat party
might be pushed too far and join our side for
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specific instances like the Germans did against the SS and
the batter of Eider Castle or Ittter Castle in World
War Two. That's actually a good history story. We should
do one of those one time. Okay, Are we going
to get Democrats to join our side? Yes? And no?
And there's a problem with this. Let me explain. Yes,
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you will, and you're already seeing this. On a casion,
you will see Democrats look around at the horror their
party has become, and they will come over. I played
it for you yesterday. I'm going to play it for
you again right now. Michael Schallenberger is a journalist, He's
a Democrat. He's voted Democrat his whole life. He voted
for Joe Biden already, this was him.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Nine months ago, I testified and provided evidence to the
subcommittee about the existence of a censorship industrial complex, a
network of government agencies, including the Department of Homeland Security,
government contractors, and big tech media platforms that conspired to
censor ordinary Americans and elected officials alike. For holding disfavored views.
(17:39):
I regret to inform the subcommittee today that the scope,
power and law breaking of the censorship industrial complex are
even worse than we had realized. Back in March, two
days ago, my colleagues and I published the first batch
of internal files from the Cyber Threat Intelligence League, which
show US and UK military contract actors working in twenty
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nineteen and twenty twenty to both censor and turn sophisticated
psychological operations and disinformation tactics developed abroad against the American people.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
He's a man who finally opened his eyes and saw
that he served communism, and so he switched. Are we
going to get some yes? Are we going to get
a lot? No? And I will explain why in just
the moment, and then we'll move on to other things.
Before we get to those other things, let's talk about
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You see, you've been using inferior towels your whole life.
I have too. I'm not pointing fingers, I'm certainly not
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we'll be back. It is the Jesse Kelli scholl on
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an ass doctor Jesse Friday. Is Pink Floyd overrated? Chris
I would argue pink Floyd is under rated. You don't
ever hear pink When someone that you asked somebody to
listen their top five bands, top ten bands, you don't
hear somebody answer pink Floyd. Very often they are a
(20:04):
top ten, they're top ten. If they're not top five,
they're top ten. I would look. We've all heard you
play the weed music on the show Chris, the Mary
Jane songs and everything else. Don't act, don't act like
Chris said, it's weed, not acid. Yeah, I'll tell you
it's weird. When I listen to Pink Floyd. I love
(20:24):
jamming out to Pink Floyd. I don't know whether this
is a stupid hanguff of mine or something. I kind
of feel like a pothead when I listen to Pink
Floyd in traffic. Here's like, if other people see me
listening to Pink Floyd, I feel like people are looking
at me saying, wow, he's probably high. I feel is
that weird? That's a a weird one. I'll turn it
down as if it has bad language or something like that. Oh,
(20:47):
it's not Pink Floyd, it's it's something else. It's something less.
I'm not on drugs. I look at literally, I'll clear
my eyes. Are I'm not on drugs? Anyway? It's asked
doctor Jesse Friday. Let's continue. That's oh did you hear
the rear rear? Admiral? But gig is in the news
again today Here he was, why are you g oh
crap so wrong? One?
Speaker 5 (21:06):
Here it is, you know as well as I do,
the disconnect between the delivery of those winds and the
perception and understanding of those wins, And I wonder how
you believe you bridge that gap.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Well, part of that is why we're on the road
so much. Look, we shouldn't assume or expect that people
are automatically going to give credit where credit is due
if we don't remind folks how these things came about. Yeah,
we just have to get on the road to remind
people of how great they have. Things are good. What
the problem is We just haven't been on the road.
We haven't told people enough. Yeah, I just got to
(21:41):
get on the road. Anyway. In the meantime, go to
the Dollar Store for christ If.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
You plan on getting gifts for the twelve days of
Christmas just now, your parkets may hurt. According to the
Christmas Price Index, prices are at record highs. They say
those twelve days of gifts can cost you more than
forty six thousand dollars. WHOA, that's expense now, So you
may want to go ahead and just go to Dollar
Tree instead.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Yeah, things are going great. All right, Let's get this
more email so there's tons of them. Hang on, hang on, Jesse,
what is the best Mantis X to buy my husband
for Christmas? There are a few to choose some I
would like your opinion. Uh, it depends on what he had. Okay,
well here it is. Here's here are my two favorites.
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I was going to tell you the black Beard, the
Mantis X Blackbeard what it is. It's for if he
has an AR. He may not have an AR, but
if he has an AR, the black Beard essentially replaces
the Uh kind of how do I put this so
people can understand it? It attaches to the AR. I
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just put it to you that way. I was gonna
go into details on it, Chris, and I thought, that's stupid.
It attaches to the AR, so I get to train
with my AR in the comfort of my home, not
just pistols. He may not have an If he has
an AR, get him the black Beard. If he doesn't
have an AR, get him the Mantis X ten Elite.
Mantis X ten Elite. Now, don't be me wrong. There's
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all kinds of awesome stuff, all kinds of awesome stuff.
The mantis X three is awesome if you're trying to
save some money. X two. I love these things. Mantis
X ten Elite probably my favorite, other than the Blackbeard.
I love the black Beard. But yes, it is the
ultimate Christmas gift for your dude or lady. I need
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to point out this is not men, only anyone in
your home who likes to shoot or is just starting
to shoot. Man. I owe mantis x a debt of
gratitude because my wife does not. You know, when I
was first getting her into shooting, the noise and everything,
and she would feel pressure at the range even though
you shouldn't. But mantis X there's no pressure. We're sitting
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at home. There you go, Christmas time, mantis x dot com.
J Steele, I'm a big WW two guy. I've seen
all the documentaries, at least the ones without the dumb
re enactmancy. I hate those two anyway. I've never understood
the role of gliders. The documentaries seem to gloss over
them as if we fully understand their utility. I see
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that they're tied to normal airplanes. Are they just cost effective?
Am I close? Okay? Uh here's the deal. One. I'm
so glad there are people like you out there, because
I'm this way. I've been doing a bunch of reading
lately on the Battle of Tsavo Island, and you know,
we talked a little bit about last night. We opened
up the show doing some history last night. In case
you missed it. It was a big naval battle in
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World War Two, and everyone talked about how great the
Japanese were at night fighting. Oh, they're just way better
at night fighting in any documentary you watched. Oh they're
just better at night fighting. And they moved right on. Okay, Well,
why what how? And that's why I gave you some
details on that last night. How they were testing guys
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who were better at seeing at night, how they developed
night optics, How they even had layers systems where they'd
fly planes over our ships and drop flares essentially on
top of our ships at night, illuminating them so their
people could see you. Because things like that, again, I
want to know the details. Why. How? Why gliders? Yes
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they are they are fairly inexpensive, obviously because you're not
dealing with engines and parts and things like that. But
why gliders? Gliders are quiet? A lot of people when
they talk about the gliders of World War Two? What
do they think about they think about this the units
on Normandy on D Day, the units that not the
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ones that landed on the beaches, the ones that landed
behind the enemy lines. The airborne guys who flew over
the enemy lines and landed behind enemy lines. Well, a
lot of those guys came in on planes. Obviously. If
you've seen Band of Brothers, it gives you a good
idea of what it was like. These big planes full
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of dudes getting ready to parachute in, and planes make
a lot of noise. Man, and you know the Japanese,
the Germans, wherever you are, they have guns too, and
brains too, and they know you're gonna try to fly in,
and so they have anti aircraft guns up there. It's
just the saddest thing in the world. All that training,
all that time, and then you get blown up in
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the sky before you even drop down and fire your weapon,
and anger. It's just over like that, right, gone, Very sad. One.
Gliders are very quiet, so it helps avoid that problem. Two.
With a glider, you can set them down more places.
They're going slower, So provided you know where you're going,
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provided you have a destination you would want to instead
of parachuting out, You can set it down. Now, why
would you want to set it down instead of parachuting out?
But here's something we don't think of a lot. And
unless you're, you know, thinking about combat and stuff a
unique amount, you wouldn't think about this a lot. You
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need things in combat, you know what is? This is
gonna sound stupid, and it is honestly kind of stupid.
You don't want to know. One of my biggest disappointments
in the Marines was in combat in the Marines. Was
I shouldn't say disappointment, That's not what I mean. But
you'll get what I'm saying. How much crap we had
to carry? Because I remember I grew up watching all
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the movies you watched and stuff like that. And what
do you see in the movies? What do you see?
What does he have? Ohy, of course he's got you know,
some web gear. He's got straps and stuff on his
bodies that have a couple of grenades on it and whatnot.
And then he's got his weapon. And other than that,
he's running around just like you and I are running around.
He's got his gun on. Yeah, even on light days.
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In combat, you're picking up thirty forty pounds of gear
between your flat jacket, your plates, your magazines. You're loading
yourself down with gear. You never feel in nimble. You're
always humping gear around. It's always heavy. It takes a
lot of stuff to stay alive for any extended amount
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of time in combat, especially if you're gonna glide behind
enemy lines. Just a just a belt with a couple
of magazines on it looks great for the movies. Brother,
what are you gonna eat? How are you gonna acquire water?
How are you gonna what are you gonna do for ammunition? Okay,
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so you've got how many magazines on you? Two? Three, six?
You have any idea how fast six magazines go? Like that?
When you get in combat, boom firefight. Now you're empty.
Now you have nothing in your dead. You would want
to land a glider, not just because it's quieter, because
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if you land some sort of a plane, you get
more gear on the plane, all right, And plus it's
difficult jumping out parachuting out of a plane with all
that gear. You talk to any of these airborne guys,
rangers and tight and those types, they'll tell you man
packing your gear. Figuring out how to jump out of
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a plane with that much gear is extremely difficult and
you can hurt yourself badly. One story of a green
brain Green Beray actually one of the sag guys I
remember from Vietnam. He blew half of his butt off.
Why he had to land with a bunch of land
mines and he had situated the wrong way he landed,
boom had to be metavacked out. War over gone. It's
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a dangerous bit of business. Anyway. Now that we talked
about blowing people's butts off, let's talk about does any
of this matter? Exposing all the evil and does hard
work still pay off? Someone doesn't think so, Hang on,
get the cure for rhinos eight days with the Jesse
Kelly Show. It is the Jesse Kelly Show on an
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ass doctor Jesse Friday. You can still email the show
Jesse at Jesse Kellyshow dot com. Jesse at Jesse Kellyshow
dot com. Let's get to this one. The subject is
hard work doesn't pay off? Jesse. I have finally come
to the conclusion that hard work doesn't pay off, not anymore,
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at least I have experienced this for the past few
years with observations and jobs and life in general. Most recently,
my son has sat on the bench most of the
basketball season. Kids that haven't in with the coach get
to play, not necessarily. The ones that showed up to
every optional practice, open gym work their tails off. It's
a matter of connections and relationships. I do believe the
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window has shifted in the real world away from hard
work paying off. We need to be honest with our
kids and prepare them for butt kissing, schmoozing and sales
types relationships. It really is the slacker on the golf
course that mails it in getting the promotions with the
brown on his nose, the ones putting in overtime, pulling
waiter on the chopping block. I don't like it. How
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do we guide our kids for that while maintaining integrity. Okay,
it's a great question. Great email and sounds like a
very frustrated mother. Came from a lady and I understand this.
That's that can be very frustrating. But let's just go
over this. You know what's bad for kids. And I've
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seen this over and over and over again. I saw
it and kids I went to school with, I see
it in younger people. Now, it's awful. You know what's
terrible for children? The kid who goes undefeated, wins the
state championship and drives off in a brand new Ford
(31:47):
Mustang with his pretty girlfriend. That sounds wonderful. And man,
look I'm a parent. I'll tell you. Look my kid,
My oldest son runs cross country. He just got done
at a state, made it to state. I wanted him
to win state so bad as a freshman. I'm a father.
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I wanted my son. I told him before he raced,
I said, leave your guts out there and leave it
all out there. I wanted him to leave it all
out there and win state. I wanted him to be
a state champion, and I wanted it. I'm admitting this
to you. I wanted it for him. He wanted it.
He was disappointed, but he didn't make it. He did great,
but he didn't make He didn't win the state. That
(32:31):
would have been awful for my son. I'm thankful to
God he didn't make it. He's a freshman. He needs
to learn. There's a lot of work to do. This
ain't easy. You want to be a state champion like
those kids running like the gazelle's at the top, there's
the road, there's your tennis shoes. Go put the work in.
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Put the work in, or don't go grind, go sweat
for it, experience pain. We want our kids to find
success at all times because we're parents. You're not a
bad mom for wanting that. I'm not a bad dad
for wanting that. We're parents. It's awful for children. The
best lessons I have learned in my forty two years
(33:15):
on this earth were lessons where either I screwed up
or I was done wrong by somebody. Those are valuable lessons.
The quote bad teachers, bad coaches I had, and I
had plenty of each. They taught me as much as
the good teachers and good coaches. One of my sons
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a couple of years ago, had this horrible hag of
a teacher. She was known to treat every kid like crap,
treated them like crap. Was grossly unfair, just a very
unhappy person who shouldn't be in the teaching profession. And
when he'd come home and complain to me about it,
you know what I'd do. I didn't talk, son. I'm sorry,
come here, let me let me, let me goddle you,
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I'll send her an email. You know what I do.
One I laugh, and two I pulled them aside and
say congratulations, welcome to the real world. Do you think
your boss is always gonna be wonderful. You're gonna have
bosses who are weapons grade pieces of crap. You're gonna
have bosses who are jerks. Do you think every boss
is wonderful like me? Chris, shut up? Anyway, that's great
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preparation for life. He's got a coach who's doing them wrong.
That's great preparation for life. Now, as far as the
schmoozing goes, the lesson and all that, it's not that
hard work doesn't pay off, because it does in the end.
It does not in every instance and not in every job,
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not on every sports team. It doesn't. But we do,
all of us, you me, all of us. We have
to acknowledge. And this is something I struggle with the
personal side of things. My wife will work on me
with this, shoot Jewish Jewish producer, Chris will work on
me with this. On things. If I have to send
(35:00):
an email to somebody or a text to somebody in
a professional format, the way I word things is very direct,
very direct. Some may call it rude. I don't think.
I don't look at it that way. Here's what's real,
here's what's not this this and this boom done here
it is. My wife will step in and say, hey,
(35:23):
why don't you let me read that before you hit sam? Oh,
I wouldn't quite put it that way. And every time
I get my hackles up, Why that's how I feel.
That's the truth, I said, And she'll say, I know
that's how you feel, baby, it's just not that's probably
not gonna land that. Well. Let me let me adjust
a couple things to make that a little softer. Schmoozing
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on the golf course. It does matter, it does. Getting
to know people does matter. I have to We all
have to as parents in this day and age because
of the devices, right we all have laptop and things
like that. Because of the devices, we have to be
much more purposeful with our kids in teaching them how
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to talk. Like over Thanksgiving we went to Montana to
see my folks and they had friends come over and whatnot.
And my boys aren't allowed to really be on their
phones around other people anyway, We really limit that stuff.
But they were. I pulled them aside and I said,
not only are there no phones out, you will make
conversation that doesn't mean one word answers yes, no, how
school kids like to do. You will have an answer
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that's a full sentence or more, and you will respond
with questions about them. And I told my boys, I
don't care that you don't care about the answer to
the question. That's part of making a conversation. You will
answer in full sentence form, and you will ask them
questions back. Parents in the past have not had They've
(36:53):
had plenty of their own challenges. I'm not putting down
parents of the past at all, but this is a
new set of challenges we have to teach our children.
Charm and charm does matter, man, it does. It is
It's important for life, it does. It matters. Look at
how charming I am, Chris major charming. Don't shake your
head either. All right, we still have an hour. Let's
(37:14):
deal with a heavy one right off the bat. Does
any of this stuff matter? We just did a COVID
reckoning show. We've talked about this. Do these things matter
the way these things matter? Let's talk about that. Before
we talk about that, Let's make sure we're taking advantage
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