How late can you leave it to cancel your plans with someone? And also, how good is a sushi train!
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Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hi everybody, welcome to the Brian Clint After Party Podcasts.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
For a Friday or a Friday. For a Friday. We
had two beers at the pub today.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah it was Cordia's birthday.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Yeah it was celebrated. Oh Claudia had two as well.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Yeah, man, I should have just had one. Guys, I've
just remembered I have to go out after work tonight.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
I was like ready to go home and I.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Have two events to go to.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Well, I was going out after work and I was
quite excited about it, and the boers and I was
going out with was just pulled out on me.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Mother fluff.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
And what time were you meant to meet up?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
In?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Twenty minutes?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Oh that's hot, I would be. I'd be few men.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
That's fine. I think I think they got the message.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
I think they did because I was sitting here when
you gave it to them.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
I was looking this is That's fair enough?
Speaker 6 (01:02):
Though?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Can I say?
Speaker 7 (01:03):
And Men's Health Week on all weeks?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Issues with men's health is loneliness and not showing up
for your friends death.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
You know that is the second time that that person
has done that to you, Because I remember the last time,
don't go no, but I just remember the last time
it happened, and I thought.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
That's a bit stink buzz. It's fine, it's just how
late it is. I am someone.
Speaker 6 (01:28):
As I've gotten older, I take real, like a lot
of pride in the fact that if I say I
will be somewhere, or if I make a plan, like
I have to be on my death bed if I'm
not coming, like once I commit, once I commit, I
never want.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
To be that person that's known to.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
I agree. I just have a question.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Yes, I agree.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
We all stop talking what we thought someone came in
were broadcasting this thing.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Like someone's going to hear anyway saying anything bad about.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I just wanted to my friend.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Yeah, exactly, and that's why it's stinkd Yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I just don't make plans and then I don't have
to cancel.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I was this thing and I'm like, really, I want
to go home?
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Do you I want to ask you a question though,
breath like, so you make the plans, do you ever
feel like you don't want to do it?
Speaker 4 (02:20):
You get anxious, because.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
That's what I get a lot of anxiety, and then
I just have to cancel and then I feel like
a ship freeing because that is shitty.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
One hundred percent.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
So I never ever will commit to something unless I
am positive i'll be able to go.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
And there, I remind yourself that once you're there, you'll
have fun.
Speaker 6 (02:41):
And you know, the thing is is that as you
do it more like if you commit for me, like
if I'm like, Okay, I've told that person, I've promised
them that I'm going to show up or I'm going
to do that or whatever, so if it's enough time,
I mentally prepare myself for it.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
When I'm like, you're going, so there's.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
No choice, that's good. So you have time to prepare
yourself that you're going.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I'm taking that on board.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I just didn't know that hanging out with me was
such a chore.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Waiting for the day for you to invite your to
hang out with you? Do you want to see your hair?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Hang out with you as a chore was an easy joke.
And I don't mean it. I don't mean.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
People hurt people.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I'm projecting for you to be calm, picting. What are
you doing for your birthday tomorrow, Claudia.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Probably not a lot, to be honest, I'm not that
fussed about it. This year, I think I did my
big three oero. Last year got the party.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
You're so drunk, responsibly drunk at your party.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Favorite part about my party is I also got responsibly drunk.
But normally, when I'm in that situation and at someone
else's event, you kind of have to hang around and
do what they want to do.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
But because it was my thing, I was like, I
don't want to be in this club anymore.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
It's too loud and I'm too hot, and I was like, guys,
I want to leave, and everyone was like okay, and
we all left.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
You so much power. Whatever I say goes my birthday.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
You're all partied out.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Then yeah, why what you got planned?
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
No, nothing, You're going to invite.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Me to something.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
My partner.
Speaker 6 (04:20):
My partner messaged me before because she's at work as well,
and she goes, hey, do you want to do anything tonight?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
And I text back.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
As a joke, yeah, let's go. Let's go get drunk
and get on the pizzo. She goes, oh my god,
sounds good. We haven't been out in ages. Text these
people and I went, you can't be serious. I was joking,
And then she goes gotcha.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Oh thank god she did.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I was like, Oh no, you guys want to go
to sushi train tomorrow?
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Oh wait, where's sushi train downtown?
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I want to go to sushi train your birthday, not tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
We don't have to go tomorrow. Another time? Serious, book
it in this next week?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, chin, I love?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Can you get titled it?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Do you remember?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Do you remember when the world lost its mind during
COVID and there was that story about the kid who
was licking things on the sushi chain and then putting
them back and we were all terrified of germs, and
the story came out about the kid who was picking
up it's the sushi, licking them and putting them back.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
On the train. I know.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
I'm sure it doesn't ever now, I'm sure they've started
it out, but that's disgusting.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Freaks me out. Have you heard of Dikoku with.
Speaker 7 (05:34):
You?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
And I went to Dikoku on one of our secret
dinners that you that we had before anybody knew we
were starting on the down on the waterfront.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Yeah, what's it called?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
They cook on the hot plate? Dikoku?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
And they and they, Yeah, what's that calledk.
Speaker 6 (05:50):
That's just the place though, I was like, what that
is not what I've learned that that is cool?
Speaker 3 (06:00):
In the name of the I thought that was the
cuisine that's.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Called tip tip and yaki and where they cook it
on the hot plate.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I went to a secret dinner together there and they.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Us.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
It was the first time we met. I think, so
what was that like?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Or had we met before that? In Sydney.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
That I bought my wife so she knew I was normal.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
She came alone, came along.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Well, they didn't offer to fly over anyone else with
by myself.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
And it was so awkward because I had to lie
to my current job because I had to take.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
A day off.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
We were both lying to our current job.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Yeah, so awkward.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Secret I thought was spoilers.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
The only person, the only person that knew was my
co host.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I told him, awkward, I'm leaving, and then we awkwardly
bumped into was Ellie at the casino?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
No, it was someone who worked here at Zidim and
was like, what are you guys doing together?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Maybe it was Ellie.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
I think it might have been Eli. Yeah, why was
she at the casino?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Why were you guys at the casino?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Was staying at the casino. My car was parked at
the casino, and.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
So we went on a few chooky bits.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
I saw us.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
It's good anyway, Let's go. I gotta make I gotta
make new plens have a great weekend.
Speaker 7 (07:25):
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Speaker 1 (07:45):
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