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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Hello everybody, and welcome to the after Party with Brian Clint.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Anyone got anything they want to add.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
At the start of the podcast, I thought you had
something and that's why you were ready to go.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Oh no, what did you scream at me today? You
leave it for the fucking podcast, you bitch?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
And then you you.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Did No, there was no punch.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Sorry I did kill her a bitch though, Yeah you did.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
And what was that about?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
It was about you and you winging on about your
gray hearing.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I like my white tears, they're not created white.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
All I said. All I said was embrace your grace.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And I said, easy for you to say just what.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
You reply to everything that I say.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
So that's because it's always stuff that you wouldn't understand.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Literally, here's the thing, though, I'm not interested in understanding.
So we know that.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
We know we should care to understand.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Hear me out. Okay, you're concerned about your gray hairs.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I'm not like super worried about it.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
But you're not willing to embrace them yet.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
No, I don't want to embrace them yet. I'm not
saying I never will, but I'm just I'm not ready yet.
And I think that's okay everything.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Whatever you want to do is okay. Yeah, you want
to fill your face with botox, that's okay. You want
to die your gray hairs, that'll lend.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Me money, it's expensive.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
You want to pierce your labia, that's okay. Whatever you
want to do. But wouldn't life be easier if you
just accepted it? And we know yet that's the stage
of life. I'm me at now, this is how my hair.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Looks, it would be like that.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
But unfortunately, as a young woman seeing older women, sorry,
seeing society tree, older women the sick. Can they get
gray hair? They discarded and they're old.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Yeah. And when women get out the door, when women
get gray hair, it is talked about and looked at
as yak ye, whereas men it's oh salt and pepper,
oh silver fox.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I feel like both of those comments come from women.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
No, I have to disagree.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
I think it comes from men coming on women's here. Ever, No,
but you don't.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
See them hang around ever.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Even as I disagree with you, I think it comes
from everyone. I don't think it just comes from men,
and I don't think it just comes from women. I
think it comes from society.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
I know in my friend groups of men. Not once
have we ever talked about a woman's hair.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
It's not really.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
What do you talk about.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
The aspects of their appearance and physical presence? Absolutely like
the usual stuff like how kind they are and how
intelligent they are, but never they're here. I genuinely cannot
remember a single conversation where we've talked about a girl's here.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Let's pick us.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
It's covered up, like majority of thirty plus you're a
woman die there here.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, I'm not looking to die, by the way, but
that's a great point, but I do.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
It's because probably most of your friends and most of
the women that run in your circles or people that
you're talking about, all dye their hair. I guarantee you.
I guarantee you. Let's say a woman that ran in
your circles, and let's say she's thirty eight, if she
(03:28):
stopped and just let her hair go gray, I guarantee
you you and your friends would talk about it. Yes
or no?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Well, hard to say because it would have to happen.
But I'd like to think we don't care.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
But what if you bummed into a friend that you
haven't seen for like ten years and.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
She'd gone gray? Well, It would be the same if
I bumped into a guy mate I hadn't seen for
ten years and he'd gone grab that. Oh whoa, you're
really gray.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Now yeah, I'm not even saying this to you more Clinton,
it's just a general yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, exactly, And we're just it's a society thing and
how women when they start to go gray, how it's
portrayed in society and how it's looked at versus when
men go gray. It's very different.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Yeah, yeah, sure, yeah, totally, Okay, Yeah, I'll accept that.
Will you accept that? A lot of that pressure not
saying all of the pressure, but a lot of that
pressure comes from other women though no, it's from everyone
putting on each other because you're putting it on yourself.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
No, even because like I'm not what were you going
to say?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
It's just this is a different change, and we don't
have to get too deep. But it's even the perception
when a woman goes from women to mother, it's a
different perception and a different change. And like Clint, your father,
I don't think it like there's too much of a
perception change at work. Whatever, but even just like women
(04:52):
aging and whatever way that looks like there's this thing
that happens and everyone like is conscious of conscious of
them aging.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
And I I think what it comes down to is
if you if you took all like looking at comments
on social media, especially like as someone that's in the
public eye over the years, and to be honest, I'm
very lucky people like you know, I just block people
straight away and it doesn't like, but over the years,
if I can think about any comments that I've had
(05:21):
directed towards my appearance, whatever that might be, it's never
been from a woman. Okay, wow for me personally, I'm
not saying that that is across the board. But any
nasty comment that I've ever had about my appearance, I'm
not saying, and like other stuff, but about my appearance
has I would say ninety nine percent of the time
(05:43):
been from a man.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Right, So then you do get conscious of it, you know,
just happens because it's like people are commenting on it.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Oh yeah, not saying you, but like odds you. Yeah,
I'm just saying. I'm just saying I'm not I'm just
adding that to this conversation as my personal.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Experience, totally. Yeah, And I can't I can't relate to
that no one ever comments on my appearance. Yeah, as
much as I try to get them.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
To, right, I think it's just I think it's just.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Isn't an interesting though? I take your point and I
back down. It's an interesting the gray hair thing. It's
where it's acceptable for men to go gray. Interestingly, it's
not acceptable for men to die their here. So if
a man starts dying his grace, then you talk about
him and you go, you go, oh my god, such
and such as dying their hair.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I think it's when yeah, they die too, yeah yeah,
yeah yeah, like even like so it was quite interesting me,
interesting to me. Over the last Christmas, when I spent
time with my parents and my dad, I was talking
to my dad because his mustache has gone gray, right,
like fully gray. He's still like he's gray on the sides,
but still has you know, a bit of black hair
(06:55):
up the top. But he said to me, he's like, oh,
I really miss my darker mustache. Yeah, by darker mustache,
not his hair as much, but he's dark mustache. And
I said, I'll die for you, and he said, oh no,
your mother tried to do that and you died way
too dark and look crazy. And I had to shave
my mustache anyway. I said to him, no, no, no,
(07:17):
we'll do it properly and yeah, and anyway I did
it so I didn't fully block it out and just
did like pieces. But it look really natural. And the
confidence I saw in my dad from just having his
mustache died like he was walking. He was a foot taller. Yeah,
(07:38):
you know, and it was really nice. And I think
it's hard for men because I think some yeah, you're right.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
There is you see it. And the guys that get
their hair transplants and stuff too, not as much anymore.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
The transplants are good now.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
No, No, I mean you see them get their confidence back. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
And I say, like, I'm not judging anyone that wants
to do so it makes.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
You feel good, I'm not judging you that. I watched
this video of this guy and he was young. He
would have been like thirty two on Instagram last night.
I didn't know the guy. It just came up with
my reels and he was showing the process of taking
off and regluing his two pay. I was like, whoa,
I follow the.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Two pay queen. Have you seen her?
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
And all she does is she puts it there called
hair systems.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah right, yeah, and so just to shave the hair,
he showed peeling it off, scraping the old glue off
his head, shaving it down, cleaning the glue off the
two pay, regluing his head. He did the fryert tuck
shave because he still had lots of hair around the outside,
and then glued his rugged down and then said, yeah,
it's cool.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
I really like those videos. Yeah, I'm obsessed with them.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Yeah, I watched it and I think about how hot
my head gets in a beanie.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I actually wanted to breathe.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I actually don't think it would glue the glue though,
but surely they'd be it would breathe.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
I don't know glue when you get on your hand
on the show, do you wear a two pa? Are
you running a rug? And have you got a sweaty dome?
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Man? Interesting chats? Time to go so mature when we
do that?
Speaker 3 (09:18):
What adult chat?
Speaker 2 (09:20):
It's good when everyone can have this say no one
gets angry.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
And a single word sorry.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
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