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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The ZiT M Podcast Network.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Party for three. Welcome to the after party. Mama, Die,
no worries.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
I always thought three was too much, but I think
it's great.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
I've always thought the same.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Have you ever had a three.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Fed income?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
I actually don't want to know the answer. Why would
I ask that?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Why don't you?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Why don't you ask her? She might tell me, is
that what you're worried about?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah, she knows I would tell her the truth. I
don't like to my mum.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
That's the problem, have you.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I'm not answering in front of my mom.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
I don't think there's enough of me to go around.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
It's not it's not without trying for.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
I'm finding it hard enough to please one woman.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I like that answer. Seems like a lot of work.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
All rightcause it gains I'm the only one who's being
honest today then. But it's fine, Dies. I can resplendent
in her green suit today.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Thank you for joining us.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
You're part of our Definital Day broadcast today. And you've
been living at Breeze House for the last week. How
is she as a host?
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Oh? Look, they look bre and Saphara absolutely amazing. The
food is incredible.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
She doesn't have to cook it, and.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
We go to all these amazing places to eat.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You went to our favorite last night, didn't you? Me,
Kong Baby's favorite restaurant.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Yeah, and I mean there was a couple of new
things on the menu. But and I thought we'd ordered
too much food. But no, no, we hadn't.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
I've got the job done, I felt.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
So is that your favorite place too?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:46):
I love going there.
Speaker 5 (01:47):
Yeah, Clinton, I agree that it's one of the best
restaurants in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Okay, I think in general, I think the food is very,
very good.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
It's just everything.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
It's the atmosphere, it's the owners are so friendly and lovely.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
It's how quick the food comes out. It's everything.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
No, but it's the produce like no, yeah, it's fresh. Yeah,
it's yeah, generally excellent.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
When do you go back to Australia.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Well, that's under debate at the moment. Probably Monday.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I'm trying to get her to stay till Thursday so
she can come to the CTI premiere.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
That'd be fun.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
It's like a disease or something.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Celebrity Treasure Island.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Sorry, mum, just mum, just Binge watched the last season.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
In what three days.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Oh yeah, it was amazing. I mean that I reckon
Steve Price can do anything.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
All sit like she was obsessed with Steve Price.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
But James, I think he was a dark horse all
the way through it. I think he played the best
strategy game and just the best game in general.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Because he was a super fan of the show.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
It's crazy how much it is about strategy. Okay, I've
always thought that big, strong people would just have the advantage,
but actually it's the crafty buggers.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yep, because you're a massive target. As soon as you
walk in.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
If you're a big athletic person, you know, people are like, well,
I don't want to go up against them, vote them off.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Oh. I think he was generally really good with people,
you know, like working people outs.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, yeah, I think he would listen a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
But do you reckon the tides tune now? So now
instead of eliminating the athletes, they'll be like, we've got
to get rid of those gays.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
Yeah, they got to get rid of the gays early,
go get the gays out.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
He's the third white gay male to win the show. Really, Yeah,
there's a trend. Wait so there ay? Oh, I mean
Spanky Jackson is going to take out this season?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Well odds on, yeah, odds on.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah, but his charity was amazing though.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yeah, James did have an amazing charity.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
That's smaller, you know, yeah, charity, I think.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
The gender minorities.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, it's pre organized a father's Day prison for Steve
for you to take back to Australia.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Yet I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
No, I don't think so Brown. Did you remember it
was some yeah father's Day Okay, but.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
His Father's Day in Australia as well, isn't it.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, yeah it is. Yeah, but just remember I don't
have to worry about it. He's not my father.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
I told you, I told you, Yeah, I told Clint.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I'm just getting him.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Oh are you sending mom back?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
I love that line that some people run where they
go it's not my father or like partners and they go,
she's not my mother. But like, I wonder what age
you're allowed to start saying that, because pretty stink. If
the kids are like three and five and Mother's Day
rolls around and you haven't done anything.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
On their you wouldn't do that thing.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
No, But my question is when do you hand it
over to the kids When do you go, all right,
she's your mother when they.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Can, when they when they're over twenty one.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Over twenty one, twenty one, it's going to be before
that sixth day.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I don't think so. I think it's notice to celebrate
because you remember your own dad then too. That's what
I do anyway, because I was only saying to Browna
the Tones and Eye Concert, there's a song that she sings,
and it was just exactly the wording was my dad. Yeah, yeah,
Sorrento it's called And it was.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Such a nice song, yeah, fantastic.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Yeah, it was just and it just made me think
of Dad, who was just you know that working.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
How long has it been since you lost your dad? Mum?
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Well I lost him six twenty six years?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah, long, twenty six years.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
I was, oh, I've just give me.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
Years.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Can I say a swear word?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
I beat that for mama?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Die thirty six? So I'm out of.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Pocket really, But actually who had that age in the
sweet stakes?
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Steve before that, he was only you imagine he was
thirty six. I think Steve was.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
He'd thirty six.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
He was thirty six, yeah, dad six when he lost
his father.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
I remember something I do remember is that was the
first time I ever saw my dad cry was at
my normal's funeral, and I just remember thinking, Okay, yeah,
do that, yeah, like whoa.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Okay, dad cries? Yeah yeah, And he was.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
He was really He went into depression for what a
couple of years after.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
That he did. Actually, to be honest, he was very
angry for a long time, and he just worked and
worked and worked because he just threw everything into it
and would typical farmers wouldn't actually address the situation where
it is. With women and you have sisters, you tend
to thrash it to death and you cry, you laugh,
you do all that. With men tend to hold it
(06:49):
in like someone else. I know.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
No, he's actually getting better and better.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Yeah, it's it's it's a really tough situation. But I
think it's good to talk about it.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
I have no doubt that it helps, like when you
talk about it or like it. Like I've tried to
say to Clint, he was so Remember a few weeks
ago that was such an interesting chat we had on
this show, like how often we cry? Oh?
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, And I said, I cry? What every three weeks?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
I think you said more than that.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
I thought every fortnight I mean depends wintertime, every fortnight,
summer maybe every three Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
But do you know what with men? You say, how
often do you cry behind closed doors?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Because that's what they do. I don't reckon they do.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
I reckon they do.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I reckon that if I did, If I did, if
I did, I would still count it as one of
my bi annual cries.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
So how bi annually?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Really?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
I reckon? Yeah? Really one today?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Oh yeah, well didn't go full blubber though there's a
little bit of leakage.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Yeah it was, yeah, but it was justified.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Now, So you need a real good cry.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
No, no, I don't mind one.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
It's good.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
Like when you have one that's good, you don't want
to go too far and then you go past the
threshold where it makes your eyes real sore.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
You know, it's all downhill. Once you become a mother,
you cried everything.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
You're not a big cry. My mom's not a big
You're not a big cry.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Though I have my moment. You cry probably at least
once a week.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Mom, and I cried once a week. Do you cry
once a week?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Well, it depends if a song comes on or a
movie comes on, or.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
That's really frequent.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Mom, and I cried at the tones, and I concept
the other.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
When Sorrento comes on, all I can see is my dad.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Reggie anything to do with mum's family, like especially her
mum and dad or makes a real emotion.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Well it wouldn't a majority of people be.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Like that day? Yeah? I think so totally. Yeah, Yeah,
we get on this topic.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Father's Day, Father's So what are you doing for father?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
He's already sent his present off for his dad.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
No, what is I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Yet.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
Well, are we getting up to watch the All Blacks?
And the girls like to watch the rugby with me.
They think they like to watch it. They have the
attention span of three and five year olds, so they
will watch for about seven minutes. So I'm going to
get to get up early. I'll watch the first half
without them and then pause it and then we do
this thing if the rugby's on in the morning, where
we have what's called a rugby breakfast, which is just
(09:25):
like a fry up, which they love just because you
put some kind of occasion deligious.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
And so we're having a rugby breakfast. So I'm cooking
my own Father's Day breakfast. I'm going to watch the rugby.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
What is the meal you ask for?
Speaker 5 (09:39):
Like on your your day, Like it's your day, Father's Day,
Like what's your favorite?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Like what are you asking?
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Baby?
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Fish and chips, fish and chips.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
As you go to it makes it easy.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Look, I like anything that someone else is cooked.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Her mom's easy. She's like, if I don't cook it,
I'm happy. Yeah, or wash up the same.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I'm the same if I don't have to, like I mean,
I love do love cooking for people, but it got
it tastes good when you don't have to cook.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Do you cook much?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
And I offered to cook the other day because there
were under some time pressure. And I said to my wife,
I was like, oh, if you want, I know you've
got a lot on old. Swap up a spag bowl
for the girls.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
And she replied back with.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
Lol, no, thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I feel like there's been a disaster.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
She goes, I've got it under control. And then she
came home and she goes, whip up a spag bowl.
Do you even know how to make a speague? And
I said, I'll figure it's in the jar. That's what
I said. I'll get some.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
No, no, no, Clanton, I have to send you there
are spaghetti sauce and then you'll know how to make.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
It's not what I was offering to do. I was
offering to open the jar and.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Yes, whip it up is what he said. Let's get
out of here, Let's let's go to the week.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Wait a minute, I just thank you so much for
having me today. I mean, the cause was absolutely amazing.
You guys did a great job. And I have to
say the photos are.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Really oh yeah, we haven't even photos are lovely.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
I thought they came up quite good.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
The photos they did.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yep. I agree.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
It's your second round for longer.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
I owe you. You said it today, you beat me
to it. I owe you a visit from my girls.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Mom has been saying that no, no.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
And we need to we need to make it happen.
So leave it with me and.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
We are coming back in October.
Speaker 5 (11:26):
Yeah, they're coming back in Yeah. So if you can't
make it happen this time, they're coming back.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
And unless you want to come and see me on
Father's Day, give your Father's Day?
Speaker 3 (11:35):
What what did we get? Shop cake?
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Or next week?
Speaker 6 (11:42):
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