Fletch, Vaughan & Hayley's Big Pod - November 4th 2025 - ZM's Fletch, Vaughan & Hayley

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From the Zenian Podcast Network.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
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Speaker 3 (00:09):
Welcome to the show.

Speaker 4 (00:10):
Fleetch, Vawn and Haley Hailey coming to us live from
our Cross Church Gun and City studio this morning.

Speaker 5 (00:16):
Very close to the Margaret Mayhe playgrounded Italian. It's taking
all my strengths not to just leave and go and
have a little swing.

Speaker 6 (00:23):
I know.

Speaker 4 (00:23):
It's so good when you had a couple of bebes
and it's nighttime.

Speaker 5 (00:30):
I will say, christ Church Chat, it's lovely to be here.
And also the stadium's locking, absolutely incredible. No no, no, no,
we're well beyond welding, hon, because remember when we were
there and we started at that hotel and we could
see them welding at night. Oh no, no, no no, Hon,
I could see into it and all the steps.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Oh my, I'm excited. I know it's not far away.
Next year, Yeah, very good, very good.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
Coming up on the show The Top six Simon Hello,
stepping down. Stepping down after a long long time presenting
one News because they went from two presenters to one presenter.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
Around COVID times. Then in budget cuts and it's wild.

Speaker 4 (01:15):
He doesn't look at it. He's sixty one.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
No, he's not.

Speaker 7 (01:19):
He is.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
I googled.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
I knew that he was either late fifties or sixty
sixty one. I just googled, Yeah, sixty one.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
God, he keeps it tight, doesn't he keeps it tight?
He does get it tight.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
Well, he's I've got the top six of the business
ventures for Simon Dello when he steps down, Yeah, I thought,
is he going to retire?

Speaker 3 (01:38):
He's got to stay stay busy. You've got to stay busy.
Stop moving, you start dying. Yeah, it's true, got to
keep on keeping on.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
Next, though, if you struggle with your neighbors and animals
coming into your house or your garden, a French court
has ruled and the most French story ever.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
Oh really, Oh la la la la, We go to
front next.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Play in Flesh and Haley.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
Why do the French have a reputation of being a holes.

Speaker 5 (02:09):
Just because they're better than us? The incroissants and they
remain skinny and they drink one in the morning and they're.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
Just why do they eat so many carbs and still
maintain that. I don't know, skinny bods, it's not fair.

Speaker 5 (02:22):
But I don't know that it's the French women in
particular that people would have studied it, being like, why
are they so beautiful and hot and thin?

Speaker 3 (02:29):
You eat butter? You eat so much butter. Maybe it's
all the ciggies. Maybe this is why I not.

Speaker 5 (02:36):
When I go to ancestry dot com and I look
at my makeup and I see no France, and I'm
not surprised. Yeah, I've got Scottish things, you know.

Speaker 4 (02:44):
Well, a French cat owner has been fined over about
two thousand New Zealand dollars and French It's chat after
h two after her pit Treuth passed onto a neighbour's garden.
Now this all ended up in court. Dominic's cat Remi
was found guilty of causing damage to a neighbor's property

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in a.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Small form of town.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
Well, the animal had urinated on a duvet which was
outside dry. Yeah, you can't get that smell out. Why
does cat has smell so bad? Do they eat primarily asparagus?

Speaker 3 (03:17):
I think so.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
It also defecated in the garden and left pool prints
on a wall.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
Okay, but it's a it's a cat. You can't tell
it what to do.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
So they apparently they went to court earlier this year
in January, and this woman was finding four hundred pounds
and damages, seven hundred in legal fees, and the sentence
included a penalty of twenty six pounds, so about fifty
New Zealand dollars every time the cat trespassed on her property.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
They not, you can't tell care, you can't fence them in.
I know, I know. And so Remy is a picture there, Vorn,
you're in the crunch at studio.

Speaker 4 (03:55):
You can't see that. Halet'sa's like ginger. That's a classic
ginger cat. That's actually quite a beautiful it's a beautiful
ginger cat. And yes, apparently the cat has to be
locked inside. And the owners now in court saying that.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
She's stressed, the cats stressed, everybody's stressed, and yeah, like
why do it's just a cat? Like? You know, you
have your neighbors cats in your yard all the time,
don't you.

Speaker 5 (04:18):
Oh, I know mine one of my neighbor's cats constantly
attacks Rollie, my cat.

Speaker 3 (04:23):
Always.

Speaker 5 (04:24):
They get into fights. But I can't go over and
say can you stop your cat coming over the trap it.
I don't want to kill the hat well.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
And then put it in the boot of the car
and then drive a few hours.

Speaker 3 (04:36):
Oh, you wouldn't do that, and the cat started a
new life. Yeah, relocate the cat. Catnap catnap, cat nap
the neighbors cat. Catnap cat. Oh no, I can't do that.
I'd feel tear it. It is weird how we've got
so many rules for dogs.

Speaker 4 (04:51):
Dogs have to stay there and they can't do this,
and they can't do that, and cats just do whatever
they want.

Speaker 5 (04:55):
Because dogs can be trained and cats can't. And also
dogs do more off the faces of people, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
Catt will just let cats just endlessly eat native.

Speaker 5 (05:08):
Birds and cats when they take a little poop, it's
like quite discreen it do. It's dainty and they often
like kick back and they covered up themselves, whereas't a
dog does it. It's an abomination, you know, Yeah, a
big stinky hit it with your little abomination.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Well, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
The court hasn't come out and said you can't do
this anymore.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
So she's got a locker cat up. Is the cat
going to court? Like? Is the cat going to put
on a little the owner? The owner?

Speaker 5 (05:38):
But that would be cute, because I feel like that
would really sway the jury.

Speaker 4 (05:41):
Yeah, I'm surprised I haven't made a big media thing
out of this, because surely cat owners would come out
and force and be like, this is stupid.

Speaker 5 (05:48):
Oh if this one thing we love doing, it's like
getting behind other cats, you know, and talking about how
much we love cats.

Speaker 3 (05:53):
Do no wrong? Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
The ZiT Ing podcast needwork play is that end flesh
One and Haley.

Speaker 5 (06:02):
There are a number of studies that happened across us A, America, Spain.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
And we are I.

Speaker 5 (06:15):
Just in Germany, Germany, Spain, in the United States of
America looking at how we perceive health, youth, and attractiveness
based on looking at people's hair. And actually what they
did was they looked at wigs. And I feel like
that's a bit off because the sort of heir is
a you know the facts.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
You can always you can always tell, right, But.

Speaker 5 (06:36):
They wanted their no, no, no, no, They just looked
at the wigs so that none of the attractiveness was
taken into account of the face, you know what I mean,
We're just looking at how we perceive here.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yeah, because I'd be swayed by the face for me.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
I'm like, if you've got men in here but like
a big crystal blue eyes, I'm out. You know, yeah,
I'm swayed. You could have terrible here. No here, I
don't even care crystal blows. So they just looked at
these wigs, a whole bunch of wigs, and ask people
to rate how healthy and attractive and youthful that person
would be based on that here and here is what

(07:13):
it found straight here, ding ding ding Haley Sprow. I
literally get asked all the time of fight ghd my hair,
and I'm like, no, no, homie, this is mine.

Speaker 3 (07:24):
It's a little bit yours. So I would say it's
one third mine, and then the rest is here extension.

Speaker 5 (07:29):
From a lovely Indian woman who grew it for me
and chopped it off so range, free range.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
She wasn't caged, Oh my god, no, no, no no no,
she was not.

Speaker 4 (07:39):
Cage okay, because sometimes they see women walking down the
street and I'm like, that is caged here.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
That is how dare you?

Speaker 5 (07:45):
I can tell caged here? Because it's bigger, you know
what I.

Speaker 3 (07:48):
Mean, unnaturally large. They weren't allowed to walk around the farm.

Speaker 5 (07:52):
They've pumped her with hormones. They've pumped her full of
water and hormones, and so they here is so much bigger,
and it's all bullshit. No, mine's free range here. So
they said straightness and shine with the things that strongly
influence people's perception of a woman's youth, health, and attractiveness.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
This was only for women, by the way, we didn't
look we haven't looked at men.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Okay, if you want to look youthful and healthful.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
And healthy, you're going to have straight, shiny hair. Mine's
not shiny, mine's dull. And I'll say brittle. It's easy
to make it shine, right, Like. There's products for that. Yeah,
there's products for it. Yeah, there is, for sure. But
if you're like me and your hair is quite okay, Yeah,
you've got to be light on the products if you're
here lam also okay, here's where I feel like I'm

(08:36):
winning high volume. So like thick here, yeah, was not
seen as a positive now as someone who literally has
the thinnest here and most of it's not real.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
That's shocking to me. All I long for in life
is lovely thick here. Yeah, right, why do you think
that is? I'm not sure?

Speaker 5 (08:57):
They said the most attractive combination was high alignment, meaning straightness,
high shine, and low volume. I mean thin here, I literally.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
Straight and shiny.

Speaker 5 (09:12):
As we're talking about this, I literally found on the
decks one of my hairs. Now that is straight, not
that shiny, and it's very thin. And I would say
finding this here is diffictating because that's honestly about a
tenth younger you do.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
Oh my god, you look so much younger.

Speaker 5 (09:30):
Because my hair got thin. Because oh my god, I'm
going to keep this up. I'll take out the extensions.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
The Fletchborne and Haley, big pod, fun Hailey, silly little.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Pool, silly.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
It is so silly, silly, silly.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
That silly little pole, silly.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
Little silly, silly little pole. It's all thanks to met Cafe.
Start your day rolling with delicious coffee.

Speaker 3 (10:06):
And today's little pole is do you swim in the ocean?
Do you swim as in like actual do a swim? Swim?
You just wade, just going. I love getting smashed by waves.
I love it.

Speaker 4 (10:20):
I love a boogie board. I love as No, I'm
more of a fan of a gentle beach. Are you
on more of a harbor where you can swim or
just I don't know, just big West Coast wave beach,
East coast waves, West coast crazy man.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
The west coast of this country has got a lot
to explaining to do. That's the one that's our beach
closest to our saboy. It's a big.

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Rescue. I'm not swimming.

Speaker 4 (10:48):
I'm not nobody where I'm going East Coast to swim
West Coast wild man.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
But I like it.

Speaker 5 (10:53):
I like a lazy harbor, you know, lounging around sort
of on your back.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
Nothing.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
You're talking ripple, you're talkinglet bay at the mount harve
a side of the mountain. Jellyfish sometimes jellyfish. Watch out
for the jelly fjellyfish. I love thee I love a
swim on fung a maitar. People that don't like swimming,
I'm com or water baby, love me, love it always

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in the water.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
Well, do you swim in the ocean?

Speaker 4 (11:21):
Forty eight percent of people said yes, thirty nine percent
of people said once in a.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
Blue moon, yeah okay, and thirteen percent said no because
it just occurred to me the other day.

Speaker 4 (11:33):
Do you know, Haley, back in the days, I'll never
forget it. We did a phototopic Sophie who doesn' nails
would have loved this phone and topic. Oh really, yeah
we did afternoons. Have you have you never been to
the beach? The amount of people that have never been
to the beach or blow your mind, Like people who
live in the Walkland have never been to the beach.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
It's mad.

Speaker 5 (11:53):
I just it feels like part of the privilege of
living in New Stars. We're so skinny and we're surrounded
by water.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
But it is it. It's also like a privilege of
having the time and.

Speaker 4 (12:03):
The resources to go there and just be able to
sit around for a day as wild. Yeah, it's crazy
that you know how many people hadn't do you swim
in the ocean? Is what we asked? Are some responses.
Dana said once in a blue moon and only at
waste dip. I do not put my head under because
the smell of low tighters rank and the amount of
salt and that stank water is stupid.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
Okay, where are you swimming.

Speaker 4 (12:24):
About? That sounds like some kind of history. Smell of
low tighter's rank. Are you swimming in the mud flats?

Speaker 3 (12:32):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (12:33):
You yuk, seeing says I live in Sydney. There's so
many amazing beaches and some hot old days. You'd be
crazy not to swimming.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (12:42):
Yes, those bays all around Sydney from my bond I
right around to cooge.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
Bond. I risk you to me.

Speaker 5 (12:50):
Yeah, when they said hot old days, I thought they
mean like hot old dads.

Speaker 4 (12:53):
And I was like, yeah, I thought they mean hot
old bod sort of thing too as well.

Speaker 3 (12:56):
Yeah, it does get warm.

Speaker 4 (12:58):
Oh yeah, Jordan said, I don't know the hassle of
cleaning sand out of all of my crevices, so it's
a note for me.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
Oh yeah, okay, Well that's what.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
You wander back and you do a squatt and maybe
you just do a last minute week before you leave
the beach as well, and you shake all the s
a shower in the change. A lot of the beaches
have the showers.

Speaker 7 (13:14):
I like.

Speaker 3 (13:15):
See. I like going home with a salty crust. Yes,
so do I.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
And I love it when you go for a wee
afterwards and there's sand in the bowl and you know
that you've got some up your parts.

Speaker 4 (13:24):
Yeah, Charlotte says, are definitely still in the ocean. Be
rude not to considering I live in Raglin again, I
will say, beautiful beach, but be careful, Yeah, be careful God,
but jumping off the jumping off the pedestrian bridge on
the way over to the campground, raglan, try and truly
and honor truly to jump off that bridge. I just said, yes,

(13:46):
but only in Rara Tonga because there's a reef and
no sharks and I can see my feet. Just started
doing a sauna slash ocean punch combo once a week,
super cold but fun, getting on comfortable, it says Kate.
For you, I can feel your wellness from here.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
I can hear you. I can feel a wellness emanating
through the instagra. Wellness is actually making me feel more well. Yes,
I feel like if we should we should sauna and dip.
Sauna and dip. How close well together?

Speaker 8 (14:19):
Well?

Speaker 4 (14:20):
And do you know I like that because I bike
around the bays kind of about a lot of people
bring those inflatable plunge things and we'll do like, No,
they exercise on the beach and then have a little
cold plunge.

Speaker 3 (14:33):
You'll go for a swim.

Speaker 4 (14:34):
Don't for saw them completely understand Why are they taking
a pool to the beach. I don't know where they're
doing exercise people in the fitness.

Speaker 5 (14:41):
Out it's giving big art green. The man loves an
the ocean be cold enough for ar No, no, no no.
He goes to Antarctic competing he total and even then
he's like barmy.

Speaker 4 (14:53):
Yeah, Brier said, I like the idea of siming in
the ocean, but the reality is often just sun boon,
sharks or waste in the water and apparently jellyfish warnings.

Speaker 3 (15:02):
At the moment too. But Bryant stopping of the jellyfish.
But I will say, I will say Auckland beaches are
closed more than they're open. Do not hay now and
poopy just got it.

Speaker 4 (15:15):
You've got to check the water quality after it rains,
because some of them sometimes it's not even the rain man.
Some of Auckland's just like, look farts fart. Well, we've
got fart water where we live. Got some fart water
on Auckland Council to see if it's safe to swim
anywhere in Auckland at the moment. It might be. I

(15:35):
gave you some farts in the water. We've got a
Do we have.

Speaker 3 (15:37):
Any black ones, any black beaches?

Speaker 8 (15:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (15:40):
Is it black? Where it's black that's closed?

Speaker 4 (15:42):
Or read Yeah, so Judge's bays got a black at
the moment.

Speaker 3 (15:46):
Oh, okay, that's just not too far from your place. Great.
What does the red one mean? I might have flushed
my toilet last night.

Speaker 4 (15:56):
Jelly Fish are currently washing up around Auckland and parts
of North On.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Please try and avoid it. Sometimes of jellyfish can cause.

Speaker 4 (16:01):
A painful sting and peeing on it is not a thing,
even though it was on fresh You don't pay on
it vinegar.

Speaker 3 (16:11):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (16:11):
So there's a black one where it's like, do not swim,
and then there's a red one that says swimming not advice.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
We've got a few red warnings. Yeah, I say.

Speaker 4 (16:17):
We are entering the season where Auckland just seems to
just shuttle the beaches because of hearts in the water.

Speaker 5 (16:23):
Yeah, and it gets hot as well, and then so
it's just a festa and there's.

Speaker 4 (16:28):
Too many farts in the water. I love beach front,
but like to look, not touch, said Nikki.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
What not? How do you live looking at the ocean
and not want to just go for it down? Like God?
I want to every day.

Speaker 4 (16:39):
As a brit I didn't use too much as a
cared because it was so cold. But my fiance is
your typical key we bloke and he loves to use that.
It's nice once you get your shoulders underline. Yeah, well no,
because the when it's the wind that cools you. Really,
once you get in and move around, you're fine.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
You're got to do that first, like sort of friend
of breaststroke.

Speaker 4 (17:00):
Yeah, Joanna says a new brighton Hell. No getting off
a cruise ship in van a wacht to hell Yes,
huge difference. I voted no because has only happened once.
So she doesn't swim in the ocean.

Speaker 3 (17:10):
But give her a cafe and yeah, okay, we'll get
in the bloody We'll give you the make cafe voucher.
Yah up, and then go for a tap, Go for
a tap, get out of here. So for today's sal a.

Speaker 4 (17:22):
Little pole, we asked you swim in the ocean, and
only forty eight percent of you do?

Speaker 7 (17:27):
Does that?

Speaker 1 (17:28):
M podcast network plays MS play.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
It's worn and having Hey what I just sent to
stop the computer? Computer can know.

Speaker 4 (17:42):
Now Psychologists and vorn I turned to you and look
at you because I am a doctor of the song. No,
because psychologists are warning that fans and people that are
using chatbots like GPT Claude Replica are at risk of
becoming addicted to Ali and this.

Speaker 3 (17:59):
Hey, and I thought we'd just have a little.

Speaker 5 (18:03):
I did a I love you, we love you, and
we just we're just noticing that the vorn that we
know and love is disappearing, and you and our are
almost becoming one.

Speaker 3 (18:15):
Is that funny thing? Alan told me the same thing
about you guys.

Speaker 5 (18:17):
Okay, but he would say that he's trying to put
let us against each other.

Speaker 3 (18:21):
Now, Alan, owl is what you call your ah? Yeah,
it looks like al Alan Alan.

Speaker 4 (18:29):
How often do you do? You just use it like
Google every day, but I use it more rightly. You're
using it last last night I used because I had
to trim message Bush. I had to trim message, but
I wanted to keep you trimming your safe, going to
trim your herbs to keep them healthy. Okay, bring in
some sage. I might make a risotto. Oh I'm drying
this out for ritual, ritualistic purposes, Okay, sage.

Speaker 8 (18:55):
Right.

Speaker 3 (18:55):
So I was like, how do I do this?

Speaker 8 (18:56):
Like?

Speaker 3 (18:56):
What do I trim? It was so handy.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
It's just like okay, trim down, take just down, don't
cut off the woody stuff with his a leaf node
just above that, and it told me how to do it.
I was like, I mean it is handy, it's helpful. Well,
people are turning to AI for everything from tips, friendship,
romance therapy, and now psychologists are worried that they're beginning
to see a number of people developing AI psychosis as

(19:20):
champ a lot validate their delusions. Oh get that you
have to kind of tell it to be. It'll blow
smoke up your search. You search one thing and it's like, oh,
that was a great question. Yeah, thank you, great question.
I'll go to my trimming the sage thing. I said,

(19:42):
I have a sage plint that he's trimming two things.
Where do I trim it back to? And how do
I drive the sage to make a stage battle? Perfect
time and great idea? Sage Love's a good time there,
I know.

Speaker 3 (19:54):
Really Like, but you can say be harsh with me, like, well,
I just as hard.

Speaker 5 (20:00):
I don't have an account, so it doesn't know me.
I'm anonymous to this. And I just asked her just
a general question that like maybe would pop up in
my head. Do you think Hailey Sprout is a funny
comedian and.

Speaker 4 (20:13):
Jesus, this is the danger. She got into it because
it blows. But that's all she ever wants anyone to do.
How do you already have AI psychosis?

Speaker 5 (20:22):
He said, yes, guys, Yes, Hailey Sprouller is widely considered
a very funny comedian.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
Is she wait? Is she attractive? What's it going to say? Now?
Is she attractive? Okay?

Speaker 5 (20:42):
Okay, let's start with the comedy stylings. Oh, hang on, wait?
Is she pretty? As for whether she's attractive? Okay, this
is crazy, he said. It's subjective, This is insane. This
is insane. But many people do find attractive both of
your looks and in personality. I don't care about my personally.

(21:03):
She has a charismatic presence. That's what you say to
an ugly person. Expressive features okay, I'll get more botops
that nimes and a confidence that tends to make us
stand out?

Speaker 3 (21:12):
Right, should I said? Issue? Predy?

Speaker 5 (21:14):
Hang on a second, Yes, many people would say Hailey
Sprailer is pretty naturally expressive face, bright smile, and a.

Speaker 3 (21:20):
Confidence fing the energy. I know this well, it's just
it's it's everywhere it radiates from me.

Speaker 5 (21:25):
It's expalidating Okay, now now I've got what is it?

Speaker 3 (21:29):
Chat? GBT psychosa.

Speaker 4 (21:30):
Do you know I saw another couple of news stories
this week. AI was getting addicted to gambling and also
they had found Ai to become quite selfish. Selfish from
us chases learnings from us. We love gambling and we've
just seen a great example of someone who's a little
self obsistingfish.

Speaker 2 (21:53):
The z M podcast network plays z MS Fletch Worn
and Haley.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
From the Fletchvorn and Haley group chat.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
This is the top six.

Speaker 4 (22:02):
Apparently the twenty eighth of November is going to be
Simon Dello's last aprisent in the six PM News. Started
as co anchor of one News at six in two
thousand and six, but it had already been at the
broadcaster for thirteen years by that stage. Joined in nineteen
ninety three. Five he was doing so that was like

(22:22):
on a news night type program on TV two. Then
he went to doing like the mid evening edition of
one News and then became the co anchor at six
and has been there for nineteen years.

Speaker 5 (22:33):
Is an absolute legend, isn't he Like? He's legion, is
the face of our news.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
We've met him a few times lovely Land. Very tall.
You wouldn't know how tall? Very tall? Is he a
lawyer as well? He studied law. He studied law and
then after studying apparently did some tour groups around Europe.
I don't know if it was he led tour groups.
The idea of Simon Dello on Konenticky is very funny.

(22:59):
I feel like we must get him in before his
lost for an interview.

Speaker 4 (23:04):
So you think about he has been the face on
the news for major world events.

Speaker 3 (23:08):
Yeah, like Hike River.

Speaker 4 (23:10):
The Christians earthquake, mosque shootings, or the flooding or the disasters.
Like he's kind of been that guy that's that calming
voice throughout COVID nineteen.

Speaker 5 (23:20):
Do you think him and Mike McRoberts have a friendly
rivalry or that they.

Speaker 3 (23:25):
Are a mutual respect mutual mutual respect, big mutual respect.

Speaker 7 (23:29):
Both.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
Yeah, grand up brothers, brothers, brothers.

Speaker 4 (23:32):
And I've got the topics jobs for Simon Dello next, okay,
number six on the list. He loves s'mores, so he
could go into the production of crucial aspect of smalls.
I call it Simon Dello's marshmallows. Oh for god, I
see where we're going.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
With this.

Speaker 4 (23:50):
A list of he could do the announcements for missed
boarding at the airport. Simon Marshmallows got this Number five
on the list of the top six careers for some Mandela.
He's actually very good at Shakespeare, Hayley. There's a Simon
Dello is o fellow.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
Okay, Well, a fellow is a black man, so Simondelo
has got moldi heritage. Still, I don't think we put
Simon Dello in the role of a bi.

Speaker 3 (24:18):
Is a fellow.

Speaker 4 (24:19):
Number four on the list of the top sex joelsee Simondello.
He could dress up as Frodo Baggins at at Hobbiton. Okay, yeah,
Simon Dello joins the fellow.

Speaker 3 (24:27):
Ship of the Ring. Oh my god, that was weak.

Speaker 4 (24:32):
Number three on the list of the top sex careers
for Simondello. Next, he is really good at growing mushrooms. Okay,
Simon Dello's porto bellows.

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Okay, I like that. I like that. I don't know,
I'm in she's mad.

Speaker 7 (24:46):
She's mad?

Speaker 4 (24:47):
Yes, Number two on the list of the top sex
careers for Simon Dello.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
Next. I don't know if you guys know this, but.

Speaker 4 (24:52):
He plays a great string and he wants to join
the string section of an orchestra. Simon Dello plays the cello.

Speaker 5 (25:03):
I don't know who's brought me back, Fletch, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (25:06):
I've week and number one of the lists of the
top six jobs is Simon Dello. He loves Ninja Turtle cosplay,
does he Simon?

Speaker 3 (25:21):
I would have ended with yeah, I would have ended
with that is today's top.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
Six the Fletchhall and Haley bed.

Speaker 3 (25:32):
There is a psycho therapist, not psycho psycho really you
really know you kind of had the psycho on that.

Speaker 5 (25:40):
There is a psycho path that is shipped. No, a psychotherapist.
That have shared the top seven common fights, the most
common fights that close friends have. She's given some examples
and also how to resolve them. And I thought this
was pretty handy because we're close friends, genuine friends.

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Been on holiday together. Do we didn't fight? Did we? No?

Speaker 5 (26:01):
We didn't fight, not at all. I don't think I've
ever I don't imagine we ever will.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
No, but you'veed it now, have any.

Speaker 5 (26:11):
Real Okay, Well, you didn't need to jump on me
like that, do you know what I mean? Give me
some space now. I just feel like two against one
and it's just feeling like you guys are getting up. Man,
here's the seven most seven most common fights close friends
have and how to work through them.

Speaker 3 (26:25):
I've got some examples of each one.

Speaker 5 (26:26):
The first one they call misunderstanding is of miscommunication. Example,
you text your friend like, hey, do you want to
hang out tonight? And they text back saying I can't
hang out tonight. But then the other one interprets it
as like I don't want to see you anymore.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
You know what I mean, like I don't want to.

Speaker 4 (26:41):
Oh yeah, that's a lot of people do this, don't they.
That's not what you don't get in the text the texts.

Speaker 5 (26:48):
In texts, it's hard, right intense of miscommunication. Clarify intentions
as a solution by saying, hey, I'm sorry, I just
meant I'm busy tonight. Did my message come across differently
sorry about my time, I'm busy or something like that.

Speaker 4 (26:59):
Yeah, I think you can work out those friends, and
you know you have to clarify things. Yeah, you can
slowly phase them out because that's a lot of effort.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
I'm maintenance. I am. I feel like with the three
of us we can be quite down the barrel. Do
you know what I mean? Unless I'm a weak out
from menstruation. Okay.

Speaker 5 (27:17):
Number two one sided friendships. Example, there's always one of
you reaching out, one of you planning the events, one of.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
You giving the support, but the other friend is like
not giving the.

Speaker 5 (27:26):
Same yeap solutionship. You've got to share your feelings sympathetically.
I really value our friendshimen. I want to feel that
it's feeling balanced. So do you think maybe you could
step up a little bit and plan the next event?

Speaker 3 (27:38):
But also is that a friend? Though? That sounds like
someone that doesn't want to be friends with you in
the first place.

Speaker 5 (27:44):
Yeah, this is what I thought when I read that too,
especially the support thing. If you feel like you're constantly
giving your friends support.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
Then you're not getting it better. That's a low grade
tear friend acquaintance. That's yeah, begin the phase out process
of that. Yeah. Okay, so two for two phases of
the man. Most of these are phase outs.

Speaker 5 (28:06):
Number three different expectations and the example. You expect weekly
catch ups, but your friend thinks like a monthly text
here and there is good enough to stay close.

Speaker 4 (28:15):
I like friends that you can just go a month
without seeing them and then you catch up with the best.

Speaker 3 (28:20):
That's awesome. The best people are busy, I know. But
if your friend feels that they need more.

Speaker 5 (28:26):
From you, fletched, they could just say to you, Hey,
I would love to see a bit more often.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Like do you mind you know reaching out? Yeah, sounds
like a phase out to me.

Speaker 4 (28:34):
Okay, we've got a third phase out, being completely honest
with you.

Speaker 5 (28:37):
The fourth most common thing that close friends fight about
big life changes. Your friend moves to another city. We
talked about this recently. Or maybe they've got a new
demanding job, they've got a kid, and you're feeling left behind.
Maybe a but discarded sounds acknowledge the change and brainstorms
some ways to get it to stay connected. Maybe I
could come and babysit the kit, or maybe I could
come and visit you at lunch at work or something.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
But what if they've moved away, because you know, Ja,
our friend James has just left us.

Speaker 5 (29:01):
Hasn't it phase out?

Speaker 3 (29:06):
No? No, not big hearted James. Listen to the podcast.
We can't phase out big hearted James, or come beginning
to phase out. Here's you, big hearted James. Here's a
juicy one.

Speaker 5 (29:16):
The fifth most common fight between close friends.

Speaker 3 (29:19):
Not liking a friend's partner, how do you overcome that?

Speaker 5 (29:24):
You just example, don't hang around and start dating someone
who dominates their time or X disrespectfully towards you.

Speaker 3 (29:30):
You don't get on solution.

Speaker 5 (29:31):
If the partner is harmful, obviously, gently share concerns with
your friend, but I don't think they're a good person.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
You've got concerns there.

Speaker 4 (29:38):
That's if it's just hard one. I think it's just
time for a phase out to be No, if.

Speaker 5 (29:42):
It's just a personal preference, you're like, I don't like them,
but they're a good person. Focus on neutral acceptance and
suggest hangouts without partners when possible. Or I think, just
on the end of that sentence, it's a phase out.
We're going to face it.

Speaker 3 (29:54):
We're going to phase out. Yeah. Also, so you never
see your friends when they find a new boyfriend, your
girlfriend and they're in the loved up phase exactly.

Speaker 5 (30:05):
So you're like, come back to me when thechine wears
off on Okay, Okay, here's here's the last two misaligned values. Example,
you prioritize environmental activism, but your friend chucks out, doesn't recycle.

Speaker 3 (30:18):
That's me, that's that sounds like a phase out to me.
My solution, Okay, if I'm going to be completely honest,
I've got a friend who is am my house sometimes
and they will rinse sound all the recycling. You're putting
it in the resk when they just put in the you,
I'm phasing you out. You're getting phased out placing. It

(30:40):
all ends up there. Anyway, I've seen the news. I
love that.

Speaker 5 (30:43):
The solution for this is basically like Christmas Day, like
avoid talking about the things that you cannot agree on
and try to instead focus on shared values and engage
in that kind of dialogue. Here's the last one, building resentment.
The example your friend repeatedly cancels plans, will interrupt, you
don't address it, leading to growing irritation.

Speaker 3 (31:01):
You've let something faster, yep.

Speaker 5 (31:03):
Solution address recurring issues calmly, like hey, I've just noticed
that you know, this has happened the last few.

Speaker 3 (31:08):
Times, and it's becoming a bit of a pattern or
phase out, phase out. I know a lot of a
lot of these examples. To me, don't scream best friends,
they scream like you will.

Speaker 5 (31:20):
And we talked yesterday as well. Remember like, as you're
getting older, you have less and less close friends. So
if this is someone who's kind of taking a lot
of these boxes, that's clear that they're a phase out.

Speaker 3 (31:30):
A lot of phasing out needs to happen.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
I think the podcast network plays that ends flesh One
and Haley.

Speaker 5 (31:38):
Now Brittany, Queen Brittany. We you know, we're fans of
Brittany on this show. We love a music, we love
the woman and we do we love the madness a bit,
and I love her Instagram.

Speaker 3 (31:51):
Yes, well, Instagram has been just unhinged for years, hasn't it.

Speaker 5 (31:58):
And it really off when the conservatorship ended as it
needed to.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
Do dancing with the knives, the dander knives and just
the weird gesticulation dancers and then just like sharing pictures
of like angels and then just putting a red roses
the comment and we're like, we don't know what that is,
but we don't know, but we love you.

Speaker 8 (32:19):
Well.

Speaker 5 (32:19):
Overnight, Brittany's Instagram account has been deactivated or removed. Not
sure if it's come from her directly or not.

Speaker 3 (32:28):
Okay, as this as a result of Kafed's book, well,
has it really piled a lot on there?

Speaker 5 (32:36):
Yeah, So kaf came out just to recap that. Kafee
came out, he's got a book. Oh that's our any
day now, right or something like that, or maybe it's
already out. It was really more really worrying stuff about
her as a parent over the years, and then she
came out being like this is all bes like it
stop slandering me for money.

Speaker 3 (32:54):
Okay. Kayfed's book was October twenty one. Yeah, it's been out.
It's been out a while. Okay, m what are we
getting reviews? Have we got any reviews on this book?
Does it have a three stars? Okay? Dance a farther
accidental pop culture icon.

Speaker 4 (33:17):
Yeah, but it does seem like it's the kind of
the tipping point.

Speaker 3 (33:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (33:23):
So she's deactivated her account and on a number of
occasions like she'll be back. She always does, and I'll
probably be honestly, like, by the time I finished the sentence,
do you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (33:31):
She's whimsical. She She did put.

Speaker 5 (33:35):
Up a quite a sad post not too long ago.
It was her last post where she said one of
the quotes from because she does his big like text posts,
I do feel like my wings were taken away and
brain damage happened to me a long time ago, one
hundred percent. You know, when she was going through this
conservative ship and you know, she was under the control

(33:55):
of her father and people taking money. Then she grew
young in front of everyone. But now I'm like, god,
I'm going to miss the dancing and the belly roll.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
Yeah, I'm sure she'll be back, Ye, yeah, she'll be back.
Just about of Brittany years. Good.

Speaker 5 (34:14):
I think we should just have a Brittany Day maybe
where what the intention of want getting her back on
social media because it'll catch wind and shilt, like someone
will be like, oh my god, Brittany, did you know
there's this like radio station in the small little New
Zealand at the bottom of the world, and today in
protest of you removing your Instagram, they're playing nothing but
Brittany and she'll be like.

Speaker 3 (34:34):
Oh my god, I'll be back. It's Brittany plays.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
Plays that end.

Speaker 5 (34:46):
I'm broadcasting from christ Church this morning, beautiful man, the
day the christ Church Garden said he put on yesterday
absolute start a lovely.

Speaker 4 (34:53):
Beautiful day over most of the countries. Today it's yeah,
it's been lovely.

Speaker 5 (34:59):
So yesterday I was flying from Auckland to christ Church,
and I was waiting for my boarding call when over
the you know the intercom, Vaughne, you do it.

Speaker 3 (35:11):
Well, it's a bing bong, isn't it? Bang Bong bang bong.

Speaker 7 (35:16):
Passengers on flight five three six the christ Church we
are experiencing a delay due to the rival of allen
coming flat Matty.

Speaker 5 (35:34):
So you know when they specifically page a passenger paging
passenger your.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
Personal invitation to join the floor. No, I will never
have my name page if I can help it.

Speaker 5 (35:47):
But only happened once for me bang Bong paging passenger,
and then me and my friend who I'm down here
filming with, when both teachers said, did she just say
what we thought? She said, We're like no, So then
we went back to it. And then bing Bong paging
passenger Paula micro Dick.

Speaker 3 (36:10):
What that's not a name? And what name? Crotch maybe Krottitch.
It happened three times.

Speaker 5 (36:22):
I've got to say, Paula, mister fly okay, Paula was
Paula was paged three times and by the time we
heard it the third time, we were straight.

Speaker 3 (36:31):
Up like they have called for passenger Paula micro Dick.

Speaker 4 (36:38):
I'm just I just wrote down micro dick, and I'm
trying to different spellings m Y c R O d
I c H for that Croatian field.

Speaker 3 (36:47):
Micro dish. Paula, well, Paula, Paul.

Speaker 5 (36:55):
If Paula is listening nine six ninety six, please text
us and to say.

Speaker 3 (37:00):
What's your name?

Speaker 4 (37:01):
How do you say if there is actually a Paula
microw Dick listening.

Speaker 3 (37:04):
Would love to hear from you this morning, was flying
from Auckland yesterday. I would love to hear from you.

Speaker 5 (37:10):
But honestly, all I can assume is that her name
is not Paula micro Dick, and that this in New
Zealand employee was in fact just having a horrendous pronunciation.

Speaker 4 (37:20):
I do love it when you hear anyone paging a
name and you can see this scanning head and they
get to the foreign names or the.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
I give it. I'll give that a hot pre readon. No,
they never, never, and you can hear them and they're
just like, yeah, but tangy tangy waha.

Speaker 5 (37:39):
Faran yeah, and ch Chi macro mac macaroni.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
When they do the whatever family so that you have
to read up the name, they know how to say three.

Speaker 5 (37:54):
Times the Chan family good for you, good for you,
too easy route. Well, there will be some people with
names right there are constantly being Vaughn.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
I get it, yea.

Speaker 5 (38:08):
Or even my friend Erina, which to me is like
quite an, like just straight up named Erina always gets
a rhina like vagina.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
R vagina, and I'm like, no, it's just christ yeah
with giraffesa.

Speaker 4 (38:23):
Yeah yeah, Okay, Well that's all we want to ask, now,
Oh eight hundred dolls at him? Call us text a
nine six nine six?

Speaker 3 (38:31):
How badly did someone mispronounce your name?

Speaker 4 (38:34):
How badly people mispronounce your name? You were at the
airport yesterday, Haley?

Speaker 5 (38:38):
I sure was, and I heard a boarding call for
Paul and micro Dick and I cannot help but feel
that's not.

Speaker 3 (38:46):
Her last name. Somebody, somebody has messaged.

Speaker 4 (38:50):
I often book tickets for my friends and make up
rude last names on their flight tickets. I love it
when the air hostess looks at the ticket sometimes and
has a wee chuckle.

Speaker 3 (38:58):
How does that work? Because don't you have.

Speaker 4 (38:59):
To have idea need to check on It's pretty lead
domestically if you have the app and you check your friends,
and you can do it for all of them.

Speaker 3 (39:07):
And they need if you're not using your air points,
you can literally a fly. And then what was that
Ossie show do you remember? Way back? And was it
the Chaser?

Speaker 4 (39:16):
And they booked all those it was real two thousand
skag after nine to eleven they booked all those terrorists.

Speaker 3 (39:21):
Names by Terry Wrists.

Speaker 4 (39:22):
Yeah, and then they didn't turn off for the flight
and they we're paging a passenger Terry Wrist.

Speaker 8 (39:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
They went to the airport and filmed them on the loudspeaker.
There are so many, and frustratingly some very simple names
that yeah, well okay, let me give this a go. Emsley,
good morning.

Speaker 4 (39:41):
Good morning.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
Did I get it right?

Speaker 7 (39:44):
Yes? You did? Well?

Speaker 3 (39:47):
Why what do people normally say?

Speaker 8 (39:50):
So, I've had so many different examples of my names
like it normally Emily or Leasily are the most common ones.

Speaker 3 (39:58):
Yeah, I've had.

Speaker 8 (39:59):
Elms Ainsley and the most like out there one is Marauna.

Speaker 4 (40:05):
That's do you think they looked at your name and
they're like, oh, they've just missed out the Z and
the A at the end is you might.

Speaker 8 (40:13):
As well just shut the whole alphabet.

Speaker 3 (40:15):
In the Yeah, because if you read the name and
you take a second. It's Emsley. It's pretty straightforward. Yeah, exactly,
mean you would think.

Speaker 4 (40:25):
So, you would think so, well, Emsley, thank you, Let's
go to cylinder.

Speaker 3 (40:29):
Good morning.

Speaker 4 (40:31):
Selena didn't work, gag didn't land with.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
No Selena, you've been called cylinder. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (40:41):
So at high school, we had a relief teacher. Ironically,
she was an English teacher and she's coming through the
role and I heard her pause just before my name
and I'm like, oh, here we go, and she pauses,
looks at it a few times and then was like, Linda,
that not a.

Speaker 3 (41:00):
Name, Belinda with a C.

Speaker 5 (41:03):
Yeah, and yeah it's Selena Selena.

Speaker 3 (41:07):
Yeah. I mean there's no d in there is why.

Speaker 5 (41:12):
Sometimes the brain just panics though, and you know a
cylinder is the first thing you can think of. Yeah,
definitely cylinder.

Speaker 3 (41:20):
Thank you for calling out. Thank you, cylinder.

Speaker 4 (41:25):
My last name was Brigden. Everyone pronounced it bridged in bridge.

Speaker 3 (41:29):
OK. So used to correcting people that.

Speaker 4 (41:31):
Once somebody actually said that right and I said no, no,
said Brigden. They said that's what I said. I was
just so used to pronouncing it. Felicity gets faculty often.
I don't know how it's not even there's no, a,
I don't know. Someone from here office's name was spout.
Is w A n t j E. How would you

(41:54):
do that? Is w A n t j e. It's
pronounced it's pronounced sava.

Speaker 3 (42:02):
I love on eggs. That's what they called her Savice,
which is dropped lucky. She was. She was very very
good about it.

Speaker 5 (42:10):
Do you remember when my guynacologist, doctor churn Low auto
corrected to doctor Chernoble.

Speaker 4 (42:19):
Yeah, auto corrects the thing into itself, isn't it? Somebody said,
my daughter's name is Caitlin, but it's about c A
T E l I N And she gets called Caitlin, Caitlyn, Oh,
Caitlin can or can Catlin.

Speaker 8 (42:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (42:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (42:37):
My last name is said Hassel. It's said spout h
A s A l L. And people will go out
of their way not to say hassle. They'll say hassle,
but it's not.

Speaker 3 (42:49):
Hasse.

Speaker 4 (42:52):
I'm a Maggie, but I've been called Maddie for about
the last ten years, so I just let it.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
Fly, now, let it go.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
My son's name is Rees, but keeps getting called Rice.
We go anywhere even about like traditional r h y
is what rice?

Speaker 3 (43:05):
Rice? Rice is quite a funny name. That's actually quite funny.
I think I will call all races that I know
rice is. I get called Sharter all the time. The
ind of the tea is completely different. Yeah, so many.

Speaker 4 (43:23):
Olivia, but I haven't been called Olivia for years. Someone
wants called me live and then someone thought my name
was lib and then so I've got linkeding out to
Elizabeth somehow. So now I'm I'm lovely that goes by Elizabeth. Okay,
my name is Zuleika. I can see the color drain
from people's face when I'm going. They're going through a
roll or a list of names to get to mine.

Speaker 5 (43:45):
That's I always get super skinned when I m c
like an awards ceremony or something. And then you just
you're like, don't be the white girl that that hesitates
before a brown name, you know, like we've gotta flow
through the brown name.

Speaker 4 (43:58):
Yeah, hesitated on the white name beforehand. With hither and
the nominees are.

Speaker 5 (44:05):
P Jones and sleekum higher give them both equal pause. Yeah, done, done,
I'm done. No, that's not a good enough out for me.

Speaker 4 (44:26):
Yeah, it was good over the natural, Like the thing,
my name is Pierre, I get Pierre all the time,
here we go, here, here's me.

Speaker 3 (44:39):
I like this one. My name is Felicity, and all
the time I get called facult. I read that one.
I read that play Zidis, Fleschborne and Hailey play Zidims
Fletchborne and Haley Haley. Oh sorry, sorry, I'm I'm back.

(45:01):
I'm here with you now. I was just talking about
fashion news.

Speaker 4 (45:05):
Do you know what I was doing, Haley Haley broadcasting
from our crush Hit studio today.

Speaker 3 (45:10):
What were you doing? I was on Uber eight's thinking
about getting a bag and a coffee. I'm hungry. Oh hate, No,
we're here with fashion news.

Speaker 5 (45:18):
My friends and I did tease the fact that actually
Fletch was at the forefront.

Speaker 3 (45:22):
Fletch was ahead of this trend before.

Speaker 5 (45:24):
It's been popping off because this summer and we always
have a moment where the three of us slide from
Chucks or sneakers or boots to Burkes Boks.

Speaker 4 (45:33):
I noticed yesterday you were in Berks, which, by the way,
have only got another two weeks left of no two minutes.

Speaker 3 (45:41):
Those things were rough.

Speaker 4 (45:44):
They aren't they aren't. But I actually I don't know
where you're going with this fashion news. I assume it's shoe.
It's shoe. I've just received a piece of mail that
I think will be for Front Fashion. Just before we
move on to that, Vaughan, I feel like we should
put up a photo on your Birkenstocks with a pole
time for new ones?

Speaker 3 (46:03):
Yes or no? Because I cannot mean yes. I know
it's a financial crisis. I have never seen anyone hang
on to a pair of burks as long as you
are still.

Speaker 7 (46:14):
So they are.

Speaker 3 (46:17):
Because the thing I got could just replace the burks
for they.

Speaker 5 (46:19):
Were okay, So you need when you need to put
up a video, I think rotating crocs.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
Those are so disgusting. Do you not want to have
sex ever again? Are you happy to not ever be
laid ever again?

Speaker 7 (46:33):
Those?

Speaker 3 (46:33):
Those are so yuck? That's a sex Those are sex repellents.
I know, yuck. That is the most Are you seeing
these on the best form of contraception I've ever seen
in my life? Yeah, I'm sorry.

Speaker 5 (46:51):
It was more effective, more effective than condoms and the
oral contraceptive pill at the same time to avoid pregnancy.

Speaker 4 (47:01):
Well, there is new summer footwear trend advice from you,
Hayley years and this.

Speaker 3 (47:07):
Is something that flipped you looked into and you wanted
to get and you did get them. I didn't get them.
You had to last in the last summer. I got
the favorite home. I haven't seen them clogs, Yeah, way
with them a little bit around the home. In the
public I have been. I think he's I think he's
feeling shy because.

Speaker 4 (47:27):
They're not They're suedes, so you wouldn't wear them like pulsa.
They're not like slippers. They're kind of like slippers.

Speaker 3 (47:35):
Put them on your homes. They don't trip over the rug.
What's going on? No, you wear them Mountain about Me,
Star Wars Cross.

Speaker 5 (47:43):
No, they're cute for the girls, the guys, the gays,
the giggle everyone.

Speaker 3 (47:49):
Well, you mean I have got no idea? What you
wouldn't say that.

Speaker 4 (47:51):
What I've got is even out because it's good. They've
gone the next step. They've gone for the load.

Speaker 3 (47:57):
Google loafer clogs, No loafer burks, loaf of loaf of books.

Speaker 5 (48:02):
Or loafer clogs. They're kind of like imagine your classic loafer.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
Are you wearing a boat show? That's what's in now vine.
It's a boat shoe with the back off. It's the
boat shoes. What are you wearing? No, socks. You wearing socks?
Are you not wearing something? You're not wearing socks. But
people wear socks with the clogs.

Speaker 5 (48:21):
Or you can wear fashion socks, you know what I mean?
Like you could do it, wear intentional sock with a clog,
or there's some loafer clogs that do have a sheepskin lining.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Do you want to be trans trans seasonal? No? They
go with dinner, they go within, and they go in
the bin.

Speaker 4 (48:39):
Kids aren't wrong? You said kids tearing around in these crocks.
They put the they put the back thing down there
and full drive.

Speaker 5 (48:45):
When you're a forty three year old man, why are
you saying the kids think these are called therefore I
got them.

Speaker 3 (48:52):
I'm looking like kids embarrassing. You can't wear those.

Speaker 4 (48:56):
There's going to be my nice crops. He's going to
be you need some low special occasion. I don't, actually don't,
because I've got these Star Wars crocs, two themes, and
they come with an They look like they from a
Barie storey, from a Bali market.

Speaker 5 (49:12):
They look like you paid ten Balinese dollars for them,
which is like zero.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
Point one line. Put these online, Shannon. The people, Yeah,
the people will mean they will be making I'm happy.
That's all the matters.

Speaker 5 (49:26):
Get your crocs, Get your crocs out of my fashion please.

Speaker 3 (49:30):
I need R two D two crocks. You need to
see three I don't and camouflaged crocs at Max because
you know, I like the camouflage crocs.

Speaker 1 (49:42):
Hunting The DN podcast network plays in flesh.

Speaker 8 (49:47):
One and Haley.

Speaker 5 (49:48):
I just said to the boys and that I'm off
on the Seven Days Live tour starting tomorrow and you
get to choose your walk on music.

Speaker 3 (49:55):
And I was like, it's got to be Ray. Just
it's on repeat.

Speaker 4 (49:58):
Yeah, great, that's available, by the way, for seven Days Live.
It's going on all over they go.

Speaker 5 (50:04):
To seven Days, not go to in Zen if you
want to come and see us starting off in toad
Hunger tomorrow and then Napier Thursday, Dunead and Friday Saturday
in the cargo and then we take a little break.

Speaker 3 (50:15):
And then we're back.

Speaker 8 (50:17):
Man.

Speaker 5 (50:17):
Man, I'm traveling around at the moment. I'm in christ
Church today. Over the weekend I was in Totdunger and Nelson.

Speaker 3 (50:22):
This is why she's airpoints gold for I am knocking
an elite.

Speaker 4 (50:28):
You're knocking on elite's door. I am I've just moved
out of Jaden to silver f I don't like it.
I feel like I've lost touch with the common man.

Speaker 5 (50:37):
I'm getting further and further away, and I honestly it's
like it's like a rapture, like I'm just.

Speaker 3 (50:41):
I'm looking at yeah yeah here yeah God. But on
what day was I there? On Friday?

Speaker 5 (50:50):
I was performing in toad Hunger and I had a
few people to visit, so I was like, I'll get
a rental car, and I've got a good cheap deal
on a rental car. But I land in Todhunger and
I go to the rental car thing and if you know,
your hand of your license and you sign the forms
and they show you the photos. And then there was
just this moment that struck me as I approached this

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keya vehicle, like it's absurd that they're allowing me.

Speaker 7 (51:17):
To do this.

Speaker 5 (51:18):
I'm just a child, and now I've just like handed
me the keys to a vehicle who they don't own,
and there is gonna let me drive it for a day.
And then I was suddenly like, surely only adults are
allowed to like hire cars.

Speaker 3 (51:33):
Hailey, you're thirty six years old. You know, And I
just had this.

Speaker 5 (51:37):
Moment where I was like, I felt like such an
adult because I'm allowed to rent a car, Like it's
such an adult thing to do, like, oh, I'm going
to bring.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
On toyadunger for the day, and why don't we rent
a car? And I was like it just felt absurd.
It just felt you have a mortgage and you have
a job and a career, like none of it's real.
And my career and jobs are pretty silly, you know
what I mean. I think it's the silly jobs keep
me feeling young, Yeah, totally.

Speaker 5 (52:05):
And I don't have kids, right, so I don't have
that like motherhood thing, and so when these adult things happen,
like insurance claims or renting a car, I'm just like
so struck by the fact that I'm even allowed to
do it because I'm a baby, and it's just so silly.

Speaker 3 (52:20):
I literally just left high school and you're letting me drive.
You didn't, you didn't, but okay I did. Honestly, I'm
so fresh out of high school and now you're letting
me rent a car.

Speaker 4 (52:30):
I had one of these yes that I was trimming
the hedges, which in itself is like, yeah, that's no
dads do that.

Speaker 3 (52:35):
Dads don't, but you are a dad. I know for ages.

Speaker 4 (52:40):
I think I've got these two like friends that are
like eleven and thirteen raised them.

Speaker 8 (52:45):
I know, I know.

Speaker 3 (52:47):
And I was like, I want some music to listen to.

Speaker 4 (52:49):
So I searched yard work and a playlist came up
called your Dad's Sunday yard Work Playlist, and I was like, oh,
it's going to be like seventies music, which every single
song on.

Speaker 3 (52:59):
The playlist was a Boulter. It's one of my new
favorite playlists.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
She's my Chyle Barkman one, Headlight by the Wallflowers, Run
Around by Blues Traveler.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
I'm like, this isn't my dad's, this is my music.

Speaker 8 (53:13):
And then.

Speaker 4 (53:15):
Now that mad Men that made you feel like an adult? Yeah,
okay because the dad in the playlist title. Yeah, and
I listened.

Speaker 5 (53:24):
This is what I want to know today? What has
made you feel like an adult recently? And it's just
those moments where you go what only make you?

Speaker 4 (53:33):
Like getting my first mortgage, I was like, the who
the hell is? I like, I can't do this, I'm
not old enough.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
For this, and I am thirty something, and then like
thirty how mortgage and interest rates. We're always hear it
on the news, but I don't know these things. No,
I know, Yeah, I know.

Speaker 4 (53:53):
Okay, so I wait, one hundred dollars at in this
is what we want to know. You can take through
nine six nine sex What made.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
You feel like an adult? Recently? There are some beauties
coming through on the text ofs What made you feel
like an adult?

Speaker 4 (54:08):
Recently? Because someone let Hailey Sprowl hire a car.

Speaker 5 (54:11):
Like, what the hell?

Speaker 3 (54:13):
Man, what were you thinking? Hurts? You know, just letting
me have a car for the day and I paid
for it. It was so grown up and I just
couldn't believe it. Thirty six really hit me that I
was an adult.

Speaker 4 (54:26):
So messages and somebody said, I just got divorced. That's
what adults do here, they do they do. And someone said,
twenty years of marriage, I'm divorced. Now that's adult because
I'm an adult. Kids get married, adults get divorced. Do
you think you get to like seventy or eighty and
you still feel like this? You're just like, oh god,
I shouldn't be were.

Speaker 5 (54:44):
Know.

Speaker 4 (54:44):
That's what I could remember my dad at my age
and he was an adult. Yeah, he wouldn't have played
silly buggers.

Speaker 3 (54:51):
I think my dad definitely.

Speaker 5 (54:52):
I mean, my dad ran a business for nearly thirty
years and he never felt like an adult.

Speaker 3 (54:57):
And he still says to me now, he's like, oh,
none of us like what's going on? That's cool, that's wild, Eh,
silly jess. What made you feel like an adult recently?

Speaker 5 (55:08):
I'm morning to you.

Speaker 6 (55:09):
I'm the same age as you, Hayley, and I'm genuinely
shocked every week when I go through the checkout at
the grocery store, like, you're just.

Speaker 3 (55:16):
Buying this food? Yeah, why isn't my mom buying this?

Speaker 4 (55:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (55:21):
I'm a single mom of two, so I'm in charge
of two other people. Oh god, it's very shocking to
me at least once a week that I'm in charge
of all the thing. I'm not thirty.

Speaker 4 (55:32):
Five, I said, oh god, and then I realized I'm
also in charge of two people.

Speaker 8 (55:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (55:38):
I was like, oh god, that sounds stressful.

Speaker 5 (55:40):
Oh wait a minute, yeah, okay, do you ever is
the ever a disaster, you know, like child disaster, Something
happens and you like look around for the adult and
realize that that's actually on you to sort out.

Speaker 6 (55:50):
Often often, like once twice a week, these things happen
and I look for the adult in the room and
then remember that it's me, darling.

Speaker 4 (55:57):
And that was like when I'm walking my dogs and
people are asked the man if you compared his dog,
and I'm like.

Speaker 6 (56:01):
What, man, Yeah, I'm not a girl anymore.

Speaker 4 (56:06):
Lady yes, the lady, yeah, the lady jeers quick question
because this is a very popular one. They said it
was nuts and I felt like an adult when they
just let me leave the hospital with a newborn baby
despite me having no previous experience too, and like drive
it to the newborn.

Speaker 3 (56:21):
Yes, I have a special license for this. Yeah, we don't, amazing, Jess.
Thank you, Rebecca. Now what made you feel like an
adult recently?

Speaker 9 (56:32):
Oh? Well, so the other weekend that my husband and
I decided to go enjoy a classic DJ that we've
always been a fan of.

Speaker 6 (56:39):
I mean, we're going to go fourteen years now, so
we're talking.

Speaker 9 (56:42):
You know, this is back when we first started dating.
We had a chicken baby about a year ago, so
we thought, no, it's high time, mum, dare go out
have some fun with some friends. And it wasn't that
we started putting the pieces together that we realized, okay, oh,
it's actually catered to our age group. I was getting
a bit worried about what to wear, you know, nothing
fifty kind of fits me anymore. And then I go, okay,

(57:02):
I'll just we something floaty and comfortable.

Speaker 6 (57:03):
You know, we're the comfortable shoes. And we get there
and then I really I quickly realized that, oh, this
actually finished at ten thirty.

Speaker 9 (57:10):
It's from fat or ten thirty. Everyone else is wearing
comfty shoes.

Speaker 5 (57:14):
Yeah floating, Oh we're home before, we're home before midnight,
because at our age we bloat, you know, we we
weally float so we can bloat, you.

Speaker 9 (57:23):
Know, exactly exactly. And it's when I thought responsibly. I thought,
oh no, but to have a water in between my drinks.

Speaker 3 (57:30):
Yeah, yeah, you're an adult now, I know.

Speaker 5 (57:34):
Cong adult now, thank you.

Speaker 3 (57:37):
Rebecca. When was the last time I got some washing
dry on the line.

Speaker 9 (57:41):
I don't even ask that question.

Speaker 3 (57:42):
I think this is still setting up from like, well,
we're on the line last night. We're not somebody missages
going to be so mad when she gets home. Rebecca,
you lift the washing on the line as soon as it.

Speaker 6 (57:51):
Passes, or I didn't get the chicken out from the freezer.

Speaker 3 (57:55):
No it's a micro Oh no, it's so good, Rebecca.
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (58:00):
That so some of message. And just this weekend I
went out I hung some washing on the line. The
end of the day when O god, it was drying.
I thought to myself, this is lovely folded it as
I put it in the basket, and then when I finished,
I was.

Speaker 3 (58:09):
Like, oh my god, I'm so old now. I feel.

Speaker 5 (58:13):
I felt adult when I managed to get a stain
out of something white, because that's what my mom does.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
I'm the I've become the stain guy.

Speaker 4 (58:21):
I've taken my mother's mantle as the stain remover, and
I've got a very you know, accident prone child.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
I'll bring some things to hear men.

Speaker 4 (58:31):
Mum's always do it as a challenge, and they put them.
They'd make up the pieces, yea, and they give it
a hard rub. Get ready for my whites to be white.

Speaker 3 (58:40):
Yeah, that's so good.

Speaker 4 (58:41):
I always feel very adulty when I get a new
debit card and the numbers are all nice and shiny
and I get to sign the back.

Speaker 3 (58:46):
That's what adults does. Somebody said.

Speaker 4 (58:51):
Traveling for work, sometimes I'm like I'm in an airport
and a professional fashion I'm an adult. I had to
go to the dump for the first time. I was
looking around for my dad the whole time to tell
me what to do. And then I backed a trailer
and someone's a big boy.

Speaker 3 (59:07):
Now you're the dad. Now you're the dad. Now I
decided to quit my job and go traveling because I can. Oh,
that's your own.

Speaker 4 (59:17):
I'm currently feeling like an adult. I'm off to my
first doctor's appointment that I booked for myself. I'm an
adult now.

Speaker 3 (59:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (59:25):
I made toast and eggs at the same time, and
they came out ready at the same time.

Speaker 3 (59:31):
To get I'm the breakfast adult now.

Speaker 4 (59:34):
Someone said the song that you just played from Justin
Bieber in twenty ten sounded like a small infant child,
but I can remember it came out that made me
feel like an adult.

Speaker 3 (59:41):
Yes, man, true.

Speaker 4 (59:44):
I built my first house in August, had a flood
in the kitchen and September, and I just chose the
new floor to be installed.

Speaker 3 (59:49):
Who let me do any of this? Wild? I purchased
a tree that's grown up. I can't produce a car.
When you just did this, you just felt like an adult.
You purchased some new trees? Ned to give us one
moment you have to warn us? Yes, yeah, I just
bought a lemon tree and a lime tree pod. Good
toil all that ja yeah, good investment. Yeah, but yeah,

(01:00:14):
you're right. There's some appearance adults adults ants stuff we
buy like toys. We don't buy trees.

Speaker 4 (01:00:20):
And by lolly, I found a handsome t shirt in
the retro section of an shop.

Speaker 3 (01:00:26):
How can this be retro? If Hanson were already ten
years ago? Am I an adult?

Speaker 4 (01:00:30):
They weren't actually thirty years two years away from being
thirty years ago? Yes, so many messages, and I hope
we all feel like grow I put my coopside recycling
out this morning, growing up that in time didn't even
have to run for the truck.

Speaker 3 (01:00:46):
Guess who's the Adult Now.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Podcast network.

Speaker 3 (01:00:52):
Fact of the Day, Day Day, day, day, dude, doo.

Speaker 7 (01:01:05):
Doo.

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
It's fairy Tale week.

Speaker 4 (01:01:08):
At Fact of the day, I'm doing a puzzle with
all grim brothers fairy Tales like worked throughout it.

Speaker 3 (01:01:14):
So how is your puzzle going? Slow?

Speaker 4 (01:01:16):
Okay slow? I did heares yesterday I didn't really have
time for puzzle and I gotta I got a Lego
star Wars on the go too. I'm busy boy. Hey
look at me, I'm busy boy, by boy, busy boy.
So it's all about fairy tales and the original tellings
of them. And we're familiar with snow White, aren't we.
Now you mentioned the Seven Dwarves yesterday you got confused

(01:01:38):
with Sleeping Beauty. So snow White the original story, No,
no dwarves, okay, And the original story snow White and
the snow White were described as justice and red hot shoes.

Speaker 3 (01:01:53):
Well, of course we know the poisoned apple, right.

Speaker 4 (01:01:55):
The queen gets her to bite the apple, she falls,
she goes under, and then there's woken by a prince
gentle kiss. But the original was significantly was the queen,
the evil stepmother, queen who talks to the mirror, mirror,
mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?
And then one day it's not her, it's snow White,
and she's like, she's gotta go, gotta go. Originally those

(01:02:18):
were her dead mother's talking liver and lungs. She had
her She had her mother's entrails hung on the wall,
and they were like magically possessed and she would talk
to them, right, not a mirror, No, okay, you can
see why Disney went with mirror rather than mirror.

Speaker 3 (01:02:35):
Is just a lot more palatable than yeah, like awful.

Speaker 4 (01:02:37):
Yeah, we've done a focus group and the people to
react well to the liver and the liver.

Speaker 3 (01:02:44):
Now to the wall the wall thing? Can we brainstorm
at a little bit?

Speaker 7 (01:02:49):
Ye?

Speaker 4 (01:02:50):
See something else that hangs on a wall that you
know represents vanity. Yeah, and you know personal appearance more
than anything. So it was the liver and lungs that
was hung on the wall. And when snow White surpasses
her in beauty according to her other's liver and lungs
strewing on the wall, she tries to kill snow White
in three different ways. First, she tries to strangle snow
White with a lace bodice. A lace bodiss?

Speaker 3 (01:03:11):
Is that? How that is?

Speaker 4 (01:03:12):
Said Hayley Bodicet. What is a lace bodice like a corsa?
Oh right, okay, so do you reckon? She put it
on and just tied it up real tight, and snow
it's like or snow it's like snug perfect foot.

Speaker 3 (01:03:25):
And then the queen hates her even more because she's
got a perfect hourglass, her knows.

Speaker 4 (01:03:28):
And then she tried to stab her in the scalp
of the poisoned comb, and that didn't work either, and
finally it was the apple that worked. And also so
then she's out to it and they assumed dead, and
it wasn't the princess kiss that awoke her. His servants
were carrying the coffin and their hands got slipped around
they dropped the coffin. Everybody's worst night, maf you. I've
been a pauber at all of my grandparents' funerals. Yeah,
and it was always my biggest concern that I was

(01:03:50):
going to get a sweaty palm, oh yeah and drop
the coffin arms sweet sweaty yeah, mums spaghetti sweater or
ready grandpast often and you drop it, but so the queen.
So they drop it and the apple piece of lodges
from her throat and the poison wears off and she

(01:04:10):
wakes up. So then they get married and the queen
has to go to their wedding where they force her
to dance and iron shoes on a hot surface until
the iron shoes glow red and she has to dance until.

Speaker 3 (01:04:22):
She fall dead. Grim.

Speaker 4 (01:04:25):
They like full torture with the old iron shoes, right,
you know that classic torture.

Speaker 3 (01:04:30):
It's not giving Disney, is it. It's not giving much
Disney at all.

Speaker 4 (01:04:33):
The original moral vanity leads to torture, and the happily
ever after is earned through the agony of others.

Speaker 3 (01:04:40):
So they, the Grim brothers had that they're trying to
go to sleeping. Your parents are reading you this story. Yeah, liver,
liver on the wall lungs. We who's the fairest of
them all?

Speaker 4 (01:04:52):
So today's the fact that the day and fairy tale
where because snow White was originally significantly grimmer than the
Curran retelling.

Speaker 3 (01:05:02):
Fact of the day day day day day. Yeah, do
do do do do do do do do do do
do do do do do do do did do do
do do doo?

Speaker 1 (01:05:17):
Play it Ms Fletch, Vaughn and Haley plays Ms.

Speaker 3 (01:05:23):
Fletch one and Haley nineteen and a half degrees.

Speaker 4 (01:05:27):
Nineteen point five on the perfect That's the perfect dembridge
for a car nineteen point five.

Speaker 3 (01:05:33):
I shan't be entering into any debate.

Speaker 5 (01:05:35):
I genuinely thought I was coming in here with the
hottest take nineteen point five.

Speaker 4 (01:05:40):
Yeah, wow, okay, nineteen point five friends too hot, nineteen
I'm gonna have a chill.

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
Yeah, nineteen point five.

Speaker 4 (01:05:50):
Yeah, the car is real hot. I'll crank it low
and then resettle at nineteen point five.

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
So I had an eighteen for a little bit. Yeah,
you just to take the top off.

Speaker 4 (01:06:00):
Recently when put the window down, when the air comb
was on and like it was so hot, and was like,
it's in the window.

Speaker 3 (01:06:08):
No, you need some fresh air. That was a stanky car. No,
we're in the back. I had a musk people that
opened the window in summer.

Speaker 5 (01:06:14):
No, it was only the window, Let's be honest. He
was opening the window because the driver was coughing so much.
They definitely had COVID nineteen.

Speaker 4 (01:06:22):
And I can't take COVID home. There's the one thing
I don't want to take home from this trip.

Speaker 3 (01:06:27):
I mean, it exists anymore. Vaughn, Oh, it's not even
really anymore? Was done? Sure exists, It's okay, constantly a
fight the aar con temperature. I prefer a cooler car
as well if you're driving. Yeah, well guess what. Guess what?

Speaker 4 (01:06:43):
So somewhere between nineteen and twenty two degrees is a
good baseline temperature for the number of reasons.

Speaker 3 (01:06:47):
Is the technical specialist at the AA, Grig Griggs.

Speaker 4 (01:06:52):
Is it no cold enough to require extra ass not
too hot to make your drowsy? So you know he's
he's that's what he said.

Speaker 3 (01:07:00):
So wait, what temp?

Speaker 4 (01:07:01):
Did he specifically say a number? He said between nineteen
and twenty two. What it turns out is they have
USD fourteen thousand drivers. What conditions they preferment in the car?

Speaker 3 (01:07:11):
This is crazy? Twenty two degrees? No, two degrees much?
That is sweltering? No, it's popping a window.

Speaker 5 (01:07:21):
Oh so if I get it an uber and they've
got there, I'm just windows down.

Speaker 3 (01:07:25):
And if you're not picking up on my cuebro, No,
twenty two, that's insane. It's going to be nineteen to
twenty maybe twenty one max. Twenty one if the spring
of autumn.

Speaker 4 (01:07:39):
What reason isn't twenty one the ideal heat pump? It's nineteen.

Speaker 3 (01:07:44):
I won't even enter into debate with that, but some
are all want I do twenty in the home, twenty
in the home, nineteen five in the car.

Speaker 4 (01:07:52):
Yeah, okay, so we're both within you know, half a
degree of our car, of our car. Nineteen degrees in summer.

Speaker 3 (01:07:59):
Perfect.

Speaker 4 (01:08:00):
So the ideal heat pump temperature for winter in New
Zealand is eighteen to twenty one for daytime use and
sixteen huge Can I say there's only three degrees, but
that is a massive rate, and sixteen to eighteen for nighttime.
To balance comfort and energy efficiency summer, you should aim
fall between twenty four and twenty six degrees in calling
mode to save energy. I'm sorry what I don't have

(01:08:23):
a heat pump so I can sit sweltering as well.

Speaker 3 (01:08:28):
It's nineteen degrees year round.

Speaker 5 (01:08:31):
Nineteen is lovely. Yeah, even nineteen in the in the
genuine sense. When you go outside you say nineteen.

Speaker 3 (01:08:37):
Nine degrees yesterday and it was perfect. There's no wind.

Speaker 5 (01:08:41):
You love it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:42):
When it's going to.

Speaker 4 (01:08:42):
Need to be a little bit warmer, yeah yeah, yeah yeah,
winch e factor. But nineteen degrees in the sunshining. I
can't believe that's twenty two in the car. That's insane.

Speaker 3 (01:08:51):
I just don't think we're ever going to agree because
everyone runs differently. I'm just gonna have the text machine,
okay for some thoughts and freeze.

Speaker 5 (01:08:57):
Yes, yes, Nick, you are in animal or what's he
is twenty three or something.

Speaker 4 (01:09:03):
Thirty one what surely that's a typo neck. If your
men twenty one, please correspond immediately. Yeah, thirty one moment,
we hate you. Thirty one's falling asleep on a drive
in winter and running off the road.

Speaker 5 (01:09:17):
Someone's like, hot deg dead dog in the back of
the car, you know what I mean? Yeah, I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:09:23):
No.

Speaker 4 (01:09:23):
Somebody said it's going to be eighteen, twenty or twenty
two because they won't do odd numbers on their conditioning.

Speaker 3 (01:09:29):
You do have to go twenty.

Speaker 4 (01:09:30):
Okay, we've got a couple of twenty twos in the
car right now. Someone said, my husband has his truck
on twenty eight degrees as high as it We'll go
no about he's probably in truck of shorts. You know what,
the ball's koking out. I got to have sweaty balls.
At twenty eight he will have this tweaty apples. That
hot air blowing on his balls is trying out his balls.

Speaker 3 (01:09:49):
Twenty hate in a truck. That's insane. That's Kilmaine, kill me,
hon a sleigh. Ha oh No. At twenty six, someone's like,
it's twenty six year round.

Speaker 2 (01:10:00):
No, right, yeah, just the smallest plays that ends flesh
one and Haley.

Speaker 3 (01:10:08):
Hey, Haley, I'm in your hometown, homie. Yeah, you're in
the bloody what is it called the Metropolis?

Speaker 5 (01:10:15):
The three?

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
Why did you laugh at that? I think anyone calls us,
anyone called to the Metro. No, that's usually what they
say about Mournsville, isn't it the Matroorgia place?

Speaker 4 (01:10:26):
Don't come from my hometown. We're going through some time. Well, Hailey,
broadcasting from our Crisch studio this morning.

Speaker 3 (01:10:32):
I am I actually wonder, as you know, you're in
a relationship, Georgia married slightly more formal? Is it just
piece of paper?

Speaker 5 (01:10:44):
Just peace paper and a party in a pretty dreas
So this is a theory that this was came up
in twenty twenty three and we talked about it then
and it kind of disappeared very quickly, and now it
is back with a vengeance as one of the biggest
relationship trends online, TikTok, Instagram, everyone's talking about it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:59):
The bird theory. Do you remember this, Georgia? Remind me
of a bird theory?

Speaker 5 (01:11:04):
Is it's a test that you would do to your partner,
and what you do is you point out something trivial,
for example, I saw a bird today, or look at
that bird. There's a bird, and then how they respond
tells you more about them than just whether or not they.

Speaker 3 (01:11:21):
Looked at the bird. Do you remember this at all? Yeah?
I do this with cows.

Speaker 5 (01:11:27):
But are you doing it as a conscious test? So
basically what you're testing is to see the way that
they respond if they turned towards which would be a
turn towards the bird. As the psychologist call it, it's
a partner who's genuinely wants to engage with you, curious
about you and your interest. It doesn't matter that it's
a trivial thing that just immediately their kneejic reaction is
to be.

Speaker 3 (01:11:46):
Like, oh, yeah, what bird is it?

Speaker 5 (01:11:48):
Or was it?

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
Why do you like that bird? Yes? For I put
my hand up because I've got a question and I
didn't want to you. Well, thank you very much. I
respect that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (01:11:57):
My special form of shall we say tism is birds? Okay,
I love them? So bird. I saw an Ostrich in
a paddic at the weekend and I pulled over and
I was like, what are you doing here?

Speaker 5 (01:12:11):
Right? I talked to it, but son, you're but that
you could use this tests and you'd say you could
test it on friends as well and be like, there's
an ostrich.

Speaker 3 (01:12:20):
Now I might go like, what's you doing here?

Speaker 4 (01:12:24):
That's a bad tis a place where an ostrich seems
like it's in a natural environment.

Speaker 3 (01:12:28):
If anyone points out an ostriche I'm booking.

Speaker 5 (01:12:30):
Okay, okay, So because you love birds so much, yours
wouldn't be birds. You could say something like, that's a
lovely sidewalk, And then how your partner.

Speaker 4 (01:12:37):
Or your friend respond. You want to see this sidewalk
as a smooth skateboard.

Speaker 3 (01:12:41):
On your too spectrum for this work. You can be like,
look at anything, like what?

Speaker 5 (01:12:51):
So the response turned towards or turn away tells you
a little bit more than just whether or not they're
into the bird right and it's heartner's just on their
phone and you're like, oh yeah, then that is that
tells you that they're just that they're more dismissive or
indifferent to you, and that they would be less likely
to get invested in all the little moments that make
a good relationship and maybe just to a few grand

(01:13:13):
gestures and the rest of the time be quite absent,
but what if that hot, well, then that's different.

Speaker 3 (01:13:21):
Different hot people get away with everything.

Speaker 5 (01:13:25):
If I if I said to a brown person with
bright eyes, if I said to a brown person with
bright eyes, all look at that bird and they said,
shut up, I don't care about birds, I'll be like,
you're right.

Speaker 3 (01:13:42):
I don't even know why I brought up the bird. Oh,
I'm busting for a weez. After that podcast, I'll tell.

Speaker 4 (01:13:48):
You you.

Speaker 3 (01:13:52):
Are allowed to listen to There's no rules when we
listen to. It just says here, I'm busting for a week.
I read it, Okay, I read it.

Speaker 5 (01:14:02):
Give us a review.

Speaker 3 (01:14:03):
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