"The Kitchen Table" Presented by The Pacific Institute Canada
The Kitchen Table purpose is to share with you an engaging dialogue that we hope will reveal the dynamic world of cognitive science and it’s role it plays in performance. For over four decade your co-host Ron Medved and Gregg Cochlan have work with hundreds of organizations to apply cognitive psychology, science and practices to ignite human and organizational performance.
Episodes
In this episode,Gregg, Ron, and Dave start to pull together the year-long conversation about “what is wisdom?”. Partly a summary of our previous podcasts on wisdom, this episode also includes some new conclusions. Thoughts about maturity. Just what is an elder. And how wisdom can be seen as both a noun and a verb. Finally, an endearing story showing wisdom in action, featuring the late Dr. Glenn Terrell, former Washington State Uni...
Wisdom Practice - Understanding Elon Musk, Understanding Ourselves
In this eposide, Gregg, Dave, and Ron use an interview of Elon Musk to see what Elon’s story triggers in them. Why do I react the way that I do? Do I like him? Do I judge him? Am I impressed, why or why not? We unpack our reactions, and become more self-aware. It can be a worthwhile trip, to dive beneath our first impressions.
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In this episode, Dave, Ron, and Gregg examine the motivation behind our speaking. Is it ego? Is it fear? Is it our generosity of spirit? What is the wise thinking that proceeds wise speaking? We have some ideas.
Note: In this podcast we refer to spiral dynamics & developmental theory here's a link in a summary.
Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck
Summary of Developme...
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron explore how to aid wisdom to surface in our everyday lives. Dinner parties. Discussions over beer. Meeting an old friend. When discussing serious issues can we be kind and generous? Or is it just about looking smart, being right? We want to grow in wisdom, even if it costs us our certainty.
In this episode we refer to Donning- Kruger effect here is the link to understand
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In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron describe what it’s like to stay vigilant in self-analysis. Beliefs, opinions, and positions must be open to periodic assessment. What’s behind our beliefs? How did we get here? Being simply for or against something is simple, but life requires more of us. Join us in looking at what healthy adulthood means.
Wisdom Practice Model
Story- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom
Your Story(s)...
In this podcast, Gregg, Ron, and Dave examined the impact of our personal experience with theology. Or not. Pausing for self-analysis bears fruit. Even profound impact. What am I for? Or against? Has that evolved over time? Do my beliefs lead to me being conservative or liberal? What is my story?
Wisdom Practice Model
Story- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom
Your Story(s) screened through “the -Ology , explor...
In this episode, Dave leads us off sharing his love and experience with the great outdoors. Plus his climate change concerns. Gregg and Ron join in. Beliefs. Concerns. Biases. Activism [or not]. So what? By running their stories and thoughts through the wisdom practice model, each gain something. Is the planet in a better place? We’re sure it is…we’re paying attention.
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron examine their study of wisdom as a “personal learning model”. Stories, beliefs, and meaningful reflections on life. Their impact on self and others. Creating space between what happens in our life and our response to it. At the end of this discussion is a sweet, simple story from Dave about a six-year-old and a Pumpkin
In this episode, Ron, Gregg, and Dave begin to practice what they preach. Understanding self begins with an understanding of our own stories, our own beliefs. Religion, love, politics, and more. What stories/beliefs have lasted a lifetime? Do we understand them intellectually, emotionally, and relationally? If we do, we grow, into a wisdom that makes life truly worth living.
Wisdom Practice Model
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In this episode, Gregg, Ron, and Dave analyze their respective reactions to the war. What’s my story, my perspective, my ability to understand the conflict [or not]? Yes, the conflict is complex. Realities can quickly become emotional. Even if I find myself at a safe distance, there is the risk of escalation. And the media brings the war right into our homes, again.
Wisdom Practice Model: Story- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- ...
In this episode, Gregg and Ron reintroduce concepts and models concerning the quest for wisdom. Our discussions over several months have surfaced practical steps leading to what we are calling our “wisdom process model”. Our stories lead to beliefs. Our beliefs form the basis for our wisdom. Are you ready for new perspectives? Join the journey…
Wisdom Practice Model: Story- Ology’s – Explore Beliefs- Wisdom
Step One:Tell Y...
In this episode, Ron tells a story of love and growth, during a profound life changing realization. Gregg and Dave help Ron find the wisdom in his story. How did he arrive at certainty? What were the theological and psychological factors at play? How do we find a solid confidence in our inner voice? Important questions, especially in the afternoon of life.
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron accept the challenge to remember the people and stories that helped shape their lives. From family members to research leaders and influential people from business. Our virtues and values surface out of stories. Our lives hold promise because we’ve been blessed by others.
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The Science of Everyday Ethics McCombs School Of Business, University of Texas- Austin
In this episode, Gregg provides a philosophical framework, call it the elements of “character". Ron and Dave react and add their impressions including references from their life journeys. Learning and growing is a do-it-yourself project, dictated by our unique life experiences. But we can learn from the masters, the wisdom of the ages. Part 2
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Cardinal Virtues
In this episode, Gregg lays down the premise that Philosophy is the logical next exploration in search of Wisdom. Ron and Dave react, and add. How can we make our study personal, but also of benefit to others? We have a growing platter of subjects and studies. Will we keep it simple? Not easy, and this conversation is our Part 1
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron brainstorm "where do we want to take the podcast next?” Philosophy, spirituality, maybe the cardinal virtues? Stoicism? Can we make the complex simple? Can we avoid creating an orthodoxy? Bottom line, “know thyself”. Better yet, “be thy self”.
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Fulton Breen- Novarete
We've mentioned Fulton in this podcast here is his link to his company Novarete.
The Fallout From Negative News Media Starts With Winning Your Attention
In this episode, Ron, Dave and Gregg comment on the many faceted “Emissions” article by NYU Professor Scott Galloway. Electronic media. Artificial Intelligence. Polarized cable news. Click-bait. Rage. We’re all in over our heads. Is there anyway to fight this battle? Start by paying attention to what catches your attention.
Link to Article - Emissions
In this episode, Ron, Gregg, and Dave explore the variety of ways to sharpen our thinking and soften our empathy. Becoming a better citizen goes beyond knowing our position on issues. We must have a perspective, but add to that better skills of caring about others, listening to others, and managing our emotional life. Can we hope to discover common goals? Not “either/or”. How about teaching ourselves how to achieve “both/and”.
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In this episode, Dave, Gregg, and Ron discuss our capability to effectively participate in a functioning democracy. We have good habits and bad habits. We have respectful dialogue and we have noise. One possible tool is the practice of polarity thinking. But it takes a certain maturity. Can we get there?
Spiral Dynamics- Clare Graves & Don Beck
Integral Life : Introduction to Stages of Maturity – ...
In this episode, Gregg, Dave, and Ron lay out the levels and stages of Spiral Dynamics, the adult development “ladder” of Clair Graves/Don Beck. The trio then connects these levels of maturity to current political life, specifically to our sense of citizenship and civility.
Summary of Developmental Theory- Spiral Dynamics - Eight Stages
1. Beige: This is the most basic level of consciousness, characterized by a focus...
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