Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This November, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Sagittarius man obsessed with YOU.

Get ready to discover:

🔥 How to capture his adventurous spirit and keep him intrigued.

🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for freedom with your desire for connection.

🔥 What he craves in a relationship (and what will send him ...

You don’t want flowers.

You want reassurance.

If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.”

This episode is for every woman who feels crazy for needing words - because guess what? You’re not clingy. You’re not insecure. You’re under-affirmed.

We’re unpacking why hearing “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” or “I’m here” hits like emotional oxygen… and why silence feels like abandonment.

If ...

The evil eye lives in your group chat.

Did I stutter? 

Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valley bar? Same.

One minute I’m being loved correctly, soft life era unlocked… Next minute? Like not even 24 hours later - I break my foot, bleed from my privates, and end up crawling around my house like a feral naked raccoon throwing up on my hardwood floors with my milk...

Struggling with your goals? then listen to this.

Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a sprinkle of sarcasm. We’re breaking down the game-changing insights from James Clear's Atomic Habits to help you build habits that actually stick. I'll walk you through the four simple steps to form habits that work for you, not against you. It’s educ...

What do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story?

I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the ER - who sent me home TWICE with a literal displaced fracture… but not before charging me for wasting my time. I can’t walk for two months, might need surgery, and now I’m side‑eyeing my friends because my scorpio senses are tingling that one of them definitely gave me the evi...

Start with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her.

Then we dive into vag myths, s@x lies & the patriarchy - we’re breaking down everything men still get wrong about women’s bodies.

• What’s the craziest thing a woman’s admitted about her taco?
• The biggest myth men still believe in 2025?
• And is it true a fishy taco is actually HIS fault?

The trip ended, the lessons didn’t.

In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game:

• how to keep him hooked without losing yourself
• Why even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimes
• How to self-regulate before you self-sabotage
• From overthinking to attachment theory
• Everything you need to know about dating an avoidant
• And how to actually win an avoidant over

It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman.

Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me.

Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas -