Finding You: with Dr. Brad Reedy

Finding You: with Dr. Brad Reedy

Introducing Inner Circle, our new premium Finding You podcast experience. Support the show and receive access to exclusive content, bonus AMA episodes, and more. Join at findingyou.supercast.comFinding You Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving individuals, parents, couples, and families. Email the host drbradreedy@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

Building Intimacy - Ep 739

September 16, 2026 • 61 mins

Why don't we do the things we know would bring us closer to the people we love?


We're not short on instructions. Speak your truth. Tell your story. Be vulnerable. But a script for intimacy doesn't create intimacy - because the barrier was never knowing what to say. It's what happens in your body when you try.


Last night's episode: Creating Intimacy. The shift from doing to being, why "just communicate better" doesn't move the...

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Couple's Work: Letting Go of the Old Fights

September 9, 2026 • 57 mins
Dr. Reedy talks about how in marriage we often project onto our partners things which are our responsibility. He explains that when we ask our partners to be responsible for our peace, we will use punishment to manipulate and control them. He explains that individual work must form the foundation of the work we do in couples.

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The Odyssey: The journey back to yourself - Ep 738

September 5, 2026 • 61 mins
Dr. Reedy, discusses mythology and the Odyssey. He explains that the story of Odysseus and his journey home is about the journey back to ourselves. He emphasizes the patience required to reverse this journey. He talks about the costs we pay along the way. And eventually, like Odysseus, the new version of ourselves may become unrecognizable and unacceptable to the people that expect us to be who we were.

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Emotional Warmth (& Child Development) - Ep 737

August 26, 2026 • 46 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses the impact on the development of the child when a warm, resonant part is present. He discusses the impact of affluence on a family's process around boundaries.

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Choosing to Go "No Contact" with Family - Ep 736

August 11, 2026 • 60 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses the trend of people going no contact with their family members. He explains how to respond when someone shares that they want to go no contact. He explains why people do and don't set such a boundary with family. members.

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Sharing Feelings with Intention (AMA) - Ep 735

August 7, 2026 • 56 mins
Dr. Reedy takes questions from the Inner Circle audience. He talks about the difference between sharing your feelings and asking others to be responsible for your feelings. He talks about the challenge when children don't forgive parents.

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The Heroic Task of Listening - Ep 734

August 5, 2026 • 63 mins
Dr. Reedy talks about what is required for us to be able to listen to the people that we love. He explains that unless we do our healing and account for our energy and capacity, listening to somebody share their painful feelings about us may feel like self betrayal. He explains that listening is one of loves other names. And the act of doing our healing work, may be the greatest act of love we can show to the people that are import...

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Parental Anxiety and Children - Ep 733

July 29, 2026 • 59 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses the impact of parental anxiety, especially anxiety that is un-owned by the parent, on the child. He explains that the child will interpret this distress in the parent as "something is wrong we me, the child." He also describes how a parent's nervous system becomes the blueprint for the child's developing nervous system and sense e of Self. He describes the coping strategies employed by the child when parental an...

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Guilt, Blame and Accountability - Ep 732

July 23, 2026 • 69 mins
Dr. Reedy discuss the negative influence of guilt on our lives and our relationships. He minimizes the often cited distinction between guilt and shame and talks about how both are obstacles on our journey towards mental health and intimacy.

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The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller - Ep 731

July 8, 2026 • 73 mins

Dr. Reedy reviews what he considers to be the most important book written on the subject of child development and mental health. Alice Miller writes in her book, “Experience has taught us that we have only one enduring weapon in our struggle against mental illness: the emotional discovery of the truth about the unique history of our childhood…we must try, in a long process, to discover our own personal touch, a tr...

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Narcissism and the Wound Beneath - Ep 730

July 1, 2026 • 65 mins
Dr. Reedy explains the diagnosis of NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and the wound that creates it. He explains the connection between this wound, defenses, and gaslighting. He talks about how narcissism isn't too much love or indulgence, but rather objectifying the child.

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The Price We Pay for Self-Care (A.M.A.) - Ep 729

June 25, 2026 • 61 mins
Dr. Reedy takes question from the audience on taking care of yourself and setting boundaries with your family to do so. He also talks about how our defense, our need to be good, will often result in gaslighting type behaviors. He takes question on how our children are our teachers and how symptoms can inform us about ourselves and others.

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Psychodynamic Therapy: How Freud & Jung Got it Right Pt 1 - Ep 728

June 17, 2026 • 68 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses psychodynamic informed therapy and how many of what we hear today is 100 years old. We just weren't ready to hear it when Freud and Jung were alive. He talks about the core of their work (and what people call "trauma-informed") is based on the idea that symptoms are messengers that we need to listen to rather than get rid of. He explains that the therapeutic relationship is the medicine where the client can re-e...

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Faith and Therapy - Ep 727

June 16, 2026 • 62 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses faith in the context of depth psychology. He discusses spiritual bypassing, shame based religions, and how faith is not a search for certainty but a way of holding paradox and the mystery of what it means to be a finite person in an infinite universe. He explains how some versions of faith and religion serve as a defense against the uncertainty of life - how god can get in the way of finding God.

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Why Boundaries Are Hard - Ep 726

June 5, 2026 • 56 mins
Dr. Reedy addresses the barriers we encounter when we set boundaries. He talks about needing to be right vs. being a self. He explains how we try to change other people so we don't have to face changing ourselves.

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Describing the Look and Feel of the Work (A.M.A.) - Ep 725

June 2, 2026 • 60 mins
Dr. Reedy takes live questions from the live audience. He addresses the practical look/steps/feel of the work we are engaged in on our therapeutic journey. He talks about loneliness on the journey. And he explains the best way to invite loved ones into the work with you.

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Logical Fallacies: Appeal to Authority vs. an Inner-Knowing - Ep 724

May 27, 2026 • 57 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses the parallels between logical fallacies and addictive thinking, defined in "Addictive Thinking" as an inability to reason with oneself. He defines several fallacies and their psychological and relationship dynamics. He emphasizes the development of an inner-compass, in contrast to other methods for vetting truth. He discusses Kant's idea of the categorical imperative which states that we treat others as an end a...

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Big T and Small t Trauma - Ep 723

May 20, 2026 • 55 mins
Dr. Reedy explains the difference between Big and Small T Trauma. He explains that in therapy, even when we are talking about the Big T story, we are still treating the Small t Trauma. He also discusses popular self-help ideas that he disagrees with.

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Learning to Fight Fair (A.M.A.) - Ep 722

May 15, 2026 • 47 mins
Dr. Reedy responds to questions from the Inner Circle Audience on matters of what is meant by "No" is a complete sentence, the pitfalls in empathizing with others at the cost of honoring our own feelings, and what is meant by the phrase "Do you work."

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Healthy Masculinity - Ep 721

May 13, 2026 • 60 mins
Dr. Reedy discusses healthy masculinity and the lives of men. He explains that when people are describing masculinity they are often describing feminine characteristics. He points out that we talk about toxic masculine and healthy feminine but don't often hear about the healthy masculine.

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