The Morning Dump 09-16-25

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:15):
I'm so excited for what I have for the podcast
today because I've had it for a while and I
can't talk about it on the air just because I
know we're going to stray way off into some other topics.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
And that is.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Some sex workers were asked their most emotionally challenging job
quote unquote they've.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Ever had to do emotionally challenging?

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yeah, so this one.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
They shared that this person had home care nurses and
they would schedule this woman to come visit as a companion.
He was in his late thirties and he had significant
physical issues.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
He'd even been born with it. He was a quadriplegic
with a trake.

Speaker 3 (00:55):
Oh wow.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
He could communicate verbally a bit, but had a little
normal intellect. I saw him a few times, but then
I moved away. I remember he emailed me saying how
thankful he was that I would touch him like a
human being and not just a lump of flesh. Everyone
treated him like a child because of his needs for
total care. He can't do anything for himself. He's basically

(01:18):
a prisoner in his broken body. If not for the
nurses and the sex workers that see him, he'd never
be able to have any sexual outlet.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Or whatever it takes.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
How crazy is that?

Speaker 1 (01:34):
Do you think about sex workers and if you want
to have an argument for why they are valid and
why there is a necessary job, you think about the
johns that are you know, at this shady hotel. There's
a whole subculture of people that need that sexual it
scratched if you will.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
Yeah, and I guess if they're getting paid for it,
they don't give a shit. I mean, we talked earlier
about people judging, you know, and you'd think, be sex worker,
You're like, all right, cool, I meant it, you know,
one hundred bucks an hour or whatever.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
And then you get there and you're dealing.

Speaker 4 (02:02):
With this guy you can't fucking move and he has
a trake, you know, And I'm sure a lot of
them are.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Like, oh, I'm not touching that, you know, so good
for her for doing it. But if she, why didn't
she take him away?

Speaker 4 (02:16):
And you know, I'll marry the man make him feel
you know, why the fuck not?

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Well, some some people, some people treat marriage a very
certain way, and they treat it pretty sacred.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 4 (02:31):
I mean, I'm sure it would have made him happy
and apparently she had an emotional connection with the guy.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yes, but shouldn't she pay him to do that? Then
if she's paying him to touch her for her to
touch him.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
Right, But you know after you get married, you don't
have to pay for it as much anymore.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
Oh yeah, it's just.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
How much government money for like people that are on
disability whatever, use it on sex workers like that kind
of thing.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
That's a good question.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
And are we okay with it?

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Oh, listen at your money, do whatever the fuck you want.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
You know, Well, people don't feel that way about food stamps.
I'm just saying, right, so that's technically not money though.

Speaker 4 (03:12):
I mean it goes on a card. It's going on
a card, but it's made put for food. But like
what you do with.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Your tan f I don't. I don't give a ship.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
But people tell them like, oh, they should be able
to buy soda or red bull right, or candy.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Right, or steaks or lobster and blah blah.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
But if you're on you should be having you know, mush.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
Well, that's because we grew up on Govment cheese and
everybody else on government cheese. I've had the government commodities.
They are not fucking good. The butter is the fucking
worst man so and the peanut butter even worse.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Here's another one. This feels pretty common. This person said
that they had a frequent client who was just an
older gentleman.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
He didn't want sex.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
He just was alone after his wife had passed away,
and he would just lay in her lap and talk
about his I bet people always be surprised the number
of sex workers that it's just a companionship than they actually.
They may occasionally, but they don't That's not the primary
part of their relationship, right.

Speaker 4 (04:11):
They just want somebody to talk to. I've heard that
quite a bit.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Yeah, this person this came up a lot clients that
were in loveless marriages and they didn't even want sex.
Some just wanted just physical affection like kissing or cuddling
or someone to listen to them. Whoa uh, there was
another one I wanted to read.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
I went to a hotel to meet a client. He
told me he was staying there because it was close
to the hospital he had just had surgery. Yet this
man was morbidly obese, at least six hundred pounds. When
I got there, I learned the surgery was leg amputation
at the knee. He claimed it was from some type
of work accident. I did not believe him. I believe

(04:57):
it was from diabetes. This man had a two leaders
of soda all over the room, bags of candy, everwhere
clearly very sick. The worst part of the whole experience
was that he was so insanely massive. Even me at
six' to two could barely mountain and ride this. Man
my legs were so uncomfortably widely mounted on. Him i'm

(05:18):
so thankful he finished, quickly because physically it was difficult
to be in that position at. All that was probably
the saddest THING i ever. Saw escorting.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
Six to. Two, huh that's a big. Bitch that's so.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
CRAZY i see this And i'm, like, dude don't they
like HOW i guess they don't? Ask wait AND i
when you call in for too you know some, Roses.

Speaker 4 (05:43):
No, no because you're getting. It you know you're getting paid.
Regardless we can imagine the.

Speaker 5 (05:48):
SMELL i was just gonna, say like.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Mold under his. Folds for.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
One maybe he just came out of the, hospital so
there's a good chance he's. Not but the smell THING
i know plenty of people that aren't at that.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Stink that is.

Speaker 4 (06:01):
True but, again when it comes to the morbidly, obese
the six hundred, pounders you, know the thousand pounds sisters
or what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (06:09):
Ever not? Anymore you, know all, right they they. Do
it's it's.

Speaker 4 (06:14):
FACT i, mean you get so big you can't clean
under every fold unless you're having somebody like a nurse
coming over and you can keep that fucking. JOB i
am not doing. That i'm not going to scrub the
mold out from underneath your fucking fat.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
Rolls.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
LISTEN i would Be there's two REASONS i will never
be a. NURSE i would be a. Nurse helping people
is a rewarding. Thing but there are two REASONS i
will never be a. NURSE i don't want to touch
another man's dick right, right because you have to comfortably
like catheter, whatever. Huh AND i don't want to clean someone's.
Asshole that ship has sailed for. Me, No i'm not

(06:53):
cleaning assholes. Anymore so there was a time.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
You would clean a stranger's.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
Asshole, well, no just.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
Anybody, yeah at your, kids it's, different or even your parents,
whatever even that's a LITTLE i have.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
No plans to clean my mother's. Asshole, LUCKILY i just
don't know about.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
That if she needs that type of, ATTENTION i will
go in debt paying somebody.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
To do, it find a. Professional, Yeah i'll gladly be.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
There so it's Not Ben stiller And, gilmore but, Right, yeah.

Speaker 4 (07:20):
Yeah, yeah having to see your mom naked with your
ass cheeks spread is not something everybody should have to deal.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
With.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
YEAH i remember my mom had hip surgery and SHE
i had to help her get on the toilet and get.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
Off even that is, like.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Please happy, place let me bidet for.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
You she still needed help Get it wasn't the wipey,
part it was getting on and off the toilet.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
Part.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Yeah this one says THAT i was in a tough
situation and needed. Money WHEN i was, twenty my family
had rejected me AND i just needed to. SURVIVE i
only ever went on dates With Sugar daddy's BUT i
branched out a few, times only, three and he was my.
Last he had something terminal he wasn't getting treatment. For

(08:05):
but he looked completely, normal, handsome pretty, nice cute, hair.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
Glasses he just looked like.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
A normal guy on what you would imagine when you
hear the word. Terminal he was twenty, one just a
year older than, me and over the app he asked
me for a normal date night that ended with sex
done gentle and lovingly and like a normal couple. Would
he had never, dated he was always focused on school.
Sports he Thought i'd pay, off it'd pay off to,

(08:32):
wait but it. DIDN'T i ate celibacy, Right, OKAY i.
ACCEPTED i came over him. Pajamas we, cuddled watched one
of the Resident evil movies while we ate. Takeout he
told me a. Lot that's HOW i know all. THIS
i told him some things. Too we kissed and did the,
deed AND i just slept next to him that. NIGHT

(08:53):
i KNOW i shouldn't have stayed, over but it felt.
Right it was more personal than the first two or
any DATES i ever went, on but he treated me
better than any MAN i had met up to that.
POINT i kind of fell in love with him that,
night and WHEN i kissed him goodbye the next.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
MORNING i just sat in my car and.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
Cried wouldn't have changed him if he wouldn't have changed
even if he didn't. INSIST i definitely value my own
life more now because of being intimate with someone whose
life is actively. FLEETING i debated trying to find him
on social media to see if maybe he decided to
get treatment and live or drive by that apartment and
by some chance see if he still lives. There but

(09:30):
it's been, years AND i Think i'd be crush to
find out the.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
TRUTH i wonder.

Speaker 4 (09:36):
If that happens more so than what we, think and
not so much like the guy right who did. This
so it's the horror in this situation that's like just
been used as a human mattress for most of her
life or, whatever and then gets with you, know a
guy like this who's just, LIKE i gotta do, something
and then finds, that you, know well this this actually feels,

(09:57):
good not being just used for a good.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
Pounding and then down the, ROAD.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
I, go how does she know that he's telling her the?
Truth that's?

Speaker 3 (10:06):
Fair? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (10:07):
Fair you know you don't ask for medical, records, right?
Right are you implying men lie to have? SEX i
don't like your, implication, member, dude.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
That it is a.

Speaker 3 (10:18):
Jump yeah. Right it's one thing to tell him you love, them.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
Right, Hey i'm a. Stockbroker Hey i'm. Dying but if
it's going to guarantee you to get laid. WHATEVER i don't, know,
Man i've only got one night to.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
Live i'm going to die. Tomorrow fuck me please?

Speaker 2 (10:38):
Yeah uh it says. UH i recently started a new.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Relationship early, on we were meeting at a hotel THAT
i just happened to be next to a taco. Bell
the first TIME i suggested she hang in her underwear
and would go get our. Tacos eating taco bell in
your underwear in a hotel was a good precursor to
pj's and coffee and in the, morning or cuddles on
the couch after.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
Work she always says, happy was happy with you and with.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
Sorry she always said she was happy with me showing
up in a with a tar paper.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
SACK i don't know what all that. Means, uh she
was just.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
FLOORIDA i never made her get, dressed or go get
the tacos or come with amazes me how crappy some
partners have treated. People week before she started ugly crying
BECAUSE i told her she was smart and beautiful and
an amazing. LOVER i mean to start having that type
of intimate relationship with an escort is?

Speaker 4 (11:33):
Wild is that from the customer's perspective or the whard
that's so that's from the. CUSTOMER i wonder if That's
Captain saba Host. Inndrome oh guys, LOVE i, mean that's the.
Whole that's why guys go to strip.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
Clubs they want to see but they when you get
engaged to like you, Know i'm going through nursing, school, Right,
yeah guys want to say they think it's their. Job
that's that BULLSHIT i call out, of like it's a
men's job to. Provide like that's you think you're saving, somebody.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
Right, Right this woman's, attractive you, know and she needs. Helps,
RIGHT i can.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
Save her because she'll have sex with me IF i save.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
Her uh. Huh they're really just using you.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Anyway, so, uh this Says i'm a male erotic massage.

Speaker 3 (12:19):
Therapist you could do a lot of hand.

Speaker 1 (12:22):
Jobs the majority of my clients are married. Women most
of them are in sexless, relationships so that's nothing. New
but ONCE i had a woman late, thirties by no means,
whatsoever unattractive your average late thirties. Woman so USUALLY i
give the woman a full body oil massage that transitions
into erotic, play usually culminating with me having oral sex with.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Them ew the taste of baby.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Oil though it is, allowed women don't have to do
anything to the, therapist and most. Don't SO i do
my thing with this, woman have oral sex with, her few,
orgasms and then come up to cuddle with. Her she
still kind of in the, afterglow reaches down and starts
playing with. Me she asks if it's okay for oral.
SEX i say.

Speaker 2 (13:08):
Sure she goes on and on does oral.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
Sex she stops for a, minute and she, Says, WOW
i can still get a man.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
Hard.

Speaker 1 (13:22):
Wow it's difficult to describe the unspoken context that came
with that. STATEMENT i could feel years of, rejection years
of feeling like she was no longer sexy or, Desirable
countless attempts to get her husband in the, mood only
to be met with flaccid. Apathy oh what a, sentence flacid.

Speaker 4 (13:39):
APATHY i never thought that women would go to shady massage.

Speaker 3 (13:45):
Parlors, no he's coming to.

Speaker 4 (13:47):
Her you hear guys you know do. It But i've
never heard of women going and and be, like, hey
give me a happy.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
ENDING i just think they're not as. COMMON i think
they do.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Exist you've seen some of those videos on tiktoks where
guys are like massaging women really, bizarrely like WASHING i
don't know what the fuck they're, doing and like washing
them off and really crazy. Massages you're like, that my
girl better not be geting massaged like. That, Right so
maybe they do, exist they're just a little more. Incognito, okay,
Maybe SO i don't know if my wife's going to

(14:19):
get massages and they end up being like. That i'm
good with just not, knowing, right BECAUSE i don't know,
now AND i could go fucking crazy, going what do
you Mean you're going to get assage with a?

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Man that's not?

Speaker 4 (14:32):
Okay and even, then it doesn't matter if it's a
man giving you massage or a woman giving. You see
What i'm, Saying the same acts can be done, regardless
is just a little more acceptable and sexy if it's
a gal doing.

Speaker 2 (14:45):
It, YEAH i do.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
NOT i do not desire to get a massage normal
right by a. MAN i want a woman to do it,
Right and so why SHOULD i shit on her because
she wants a man to do that to, her, right
that's fucking.

Speaker 2 (14:59):
Crazy, no you can't have a man do. It that's fucking. Stupid,
Uh people coming in on the male. Sex. UH i
was doing cam.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
Work but when you're a cam, girl people can take
you into private mode and get a custom negotiated scene
with just. You one TIME i was camming and suddenly
my screen went into private. MODE i started to take
off some of my, clothes just out of the assumption
that this person would want to see me. Naked he told,
me you don't need to do. THAT i just want

(15:35):
you to listen to. Me he proceeded to tell me
about how he had been going through a divorce and was.
Struggling he just wanted to read a short story he.
Wrote not only was he actually a fairly normal, guy
he was an amazing author if what he was reading
to me was actually. His SO i sat there and
just listened to him and enjoyed being read his.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
Words that's fucking.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
Crazy, yeah, yeah as a, guide that's. Crazy as even
like to pay someone to listen to you like that is.

Speaker 4 (16:05):
Crazy, yeah you should HAVE i don't know friends that
would at least listen to. YOU a, PASTOR a, PASTOR
a fucking random stranger on a park bench.

Speaker 1 (16:15):
Joined the fucking writers group On. Facebook, Right i'm just saying,
right but, hey it do you feel easier?

Speaker 3 (16:22):
Though can?

Speaker 4 (16:22):
You can you take the converse out of your vagina
and just listen to me for a second.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
True? Story that is a true.

Speaker 2 (16:30):
Story we know someone who did.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
That.

Speaker 2 (16:31):
WOW i could never decide if it was hot or.
Gross G i don't know a.

Speaker 4 (16:40):
Converse we were not one hundred. Percent i'm sure didn't
have dog shit on.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
It maybe it.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
Did maybe she.

Speaker 2 (16:46):
Took it right off a new. One would that make it?

Speaker 4 (16:48):
Better it's the fact little there's a sneaker and you're twat.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
Whatever you do for?

Speaker 5 (16:58):
Money how big was the? Shoe?

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Okay, like like what are we talking like a kid's?
Size that feel? Better i'm just saying like you're the
one that said the size mattered.

Speaker 3 (17:12):
Those little infant shoes that they have.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
A svell crow.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Work maybe it was the fucking light up ones and
every time she jumped up and down and fucking lit
up in her.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Pussy then it wouldn't be a, converse it would be a. Sketcher.

Speaker 3 (17:29):
Yep.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
Uh this says for.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
Me it's whenever a client admits two really dark things
from their past and don't see how dark it. IS
i met so many men who tell me stories of
being harmed or abused and they just see it as
a good. Thing it really breaks my.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
Heart, oh like the dudes were sexually abused or whatever
by a touchy uncle or. SOMETHING i set up thinking,
that like, maybe LIKE i once murdered a woman at
a bachelorette party or a bachelor.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Party, Right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:00):
Well and a couple of other ones are talking about
how a lot of the business is just being a
therapist and a, listener AND i agree one hundred. PERCENT
a lot of guys go to strip clubs just for,
yes to see, nudity but just for the companionship they.
Enjoy it is easier for them to create relationships with
females they are, paying right then with females out in.

Speaker 2 (18:20):
Public, yeah, right the Wild we.

Speaker 3 (18:21):
Talked about it. Earlier it's that, fear that fear of.

Speaker 4 (18:24):
Rejection those fucking strippers and these horrors aren't going to
reject you because you're paying. Them but if you go
up to a random galla start talking to or you get,
rejected that fucking ruins. Everything SO i find it kind of,
sad but at the same, TIME i do what you gotta.

Speaker 5 (18:39):
Do.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
Man this one, says client was pretty, normal just one
of me and sexy. Lingerie with, hindsight the signs were.
There he bent over backwards to point out he didn't
usually do this was a bit heavy on the compliments
with their repeated you shouldn't have to do. This at
the end of the, session he asked for a hug
BEFORE i, left and he was hugging me started down

(19:00):
THE i WISH i could take you.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
Away from all this.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
ROUTE i had to basically knuckle him in the chest
to get what get him to let me go BEFORE
i started to get really pissed. Off for those are
on knucklings where you use the top part of your
knuckles and you rub them on the sternum and it
will make somebody, jilt awake or stop their. Behavior, yeah
they use it to try and bring people out of

(19:22):
verges of overdose or. SLEEPING i had about fifteen missed
calls by the Time i'd driven the thirty minutes or so,
home and prior to blocking his, number there were massive
long text messages effectively fantasizing me what our life would
be like If i'd let him take me away from sex.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
Work ANYTIME i blocked.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Him it took him less than a day to start
harassing me with a new, number and he started messaging
other sex workers THAT i worked with to pass on.
Messages all in it took about three months for him
to give. Up there would be spells of relentless, messages
then silence than an apology message before the cycle started
again with a more mature head. On NOW i should
have gone to the, police but a twenty two year
old had no interest in revealing what she.

Speaker 4 (20:05):
DID i wonder how many strippers have to deal with, that.

Speaker 3 (20:10):
WELL i.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
WOULD i think a lot of people think Because i'm paying,
YOU i can also assault.

Speaker 5 (20:14):
You.

Speaker 4 (20:15):
YEP i was just thinking more of the sheer obsession
of these. People oh, yeah you fall in love with,
him you want to save, them whatever the case, is
and then you become.

Speaker 3 (20:29):
Obsessed you're stalking. Him.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
Uh started WHEN i was nineteen years old and the
client told, me how told me that he only chose
me because he RESEMBLED i resembled their underage.

Speaker 4 (20:44):
Daughter oh, WHOA.

Speaker 2 (20:51):
I know that laugh from. Gimpie that is a what
the fuck?

Speaker 3 (20:54):
Laughing, Yeah i'm a little. Weird Why, yeah you're, like
what the fuck is the fuck you?

Speaker 2 (20:58):
Go never mind wrong. House i'm actually The dominoes, PERSON.

Speaker 3 (21:04):
I left your pizza in the. Nster bye.

Speaker 2 (21:06):
Right, yeah that's fucked, up. Man news.

Speaker 4 (21:14):
Flash the world's fucked up and everybody in. IT a
lot of these do not surprise me at all.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
WHATSOEVER i agree the world is fucked, up and they
don't surprise. Me but hearing them an actual account makes
them real and, therefore you, know it's kind OF i
don't want to bring up To Charlie kirk, thing but
it's kind of like The Charlie kirk. Thing when you
see the, video you, go, shit that's, real, right you

(21:43):
hear your your mind goes to things like anybody who's
been shot with a long, rifle that's what. Happens, yeah
so you know people get. Shot, yeah but when you see,
it you, go, oh fuck, Right AND i think that's
the same thing with this as you hear, it as
it actually happened to, somebody and.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
You go fuck.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
Yeah, yeah, well welcome to.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
LIFE i had a former customer With parkinson's DISEASE i
met at the. Club he Got parkinson's at only twenty.
Nine once His parkinson's got worse over the, years his
wife started sleeping with his best friend at the, Time
eventually she ended up leaving him for the best. Friend
when his condition, progressed he paid me a few times
to come over and clean his house and WATCH tv

(22:24):
with him and talk to him because he was so.
Lonely to be, HONEST i didn't understand the majority of
what he was saying because his speech was so mean
that BUT i know it not at along and pretended
to so he would feel like someone was. Listening he
wanted me to move in and marry him and take
care of, him but it was more THAN i could.

Speaker 3 (22:42):
Handle.

Speaker 1 (22:43):
MORE i have my own health issues and can barely
take care of. Myself he eventually moved a couple hours
away to be closer.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
To his parents for help because he had no.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
Kids but they are in their nineties and not sure
how much longer they can help him before they. PASS
i recommended he hire a legitimate, nurse but he kept
trying to get me and other strippers to move in with,
them marry, him be his. CARETAKER i feel like maybe
because of the, disease he was thinking the most.

Speaker 4 (23:09):
Logically which is cheaper an actual nurse or some you
know sex. Worker you're, OH i bet it's. Close you
think it's about the. SAME i bet it's close and
at least you're guaranteed sex from a sex, worker as
the nurse may not put out unless she's my, axe
and she.

Speaker 1 (23:28):
Probably, would but, Whatever, Right SO i just put in
how much is a home healthcare nurse a?

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Month uh? Huh anywhere between four to seven thousand.

Speaker 3 (23:37):
A month, okay and they will.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
Do twenty to twenty five hours a. Week.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
Okay that's part time.

Speaker 2 (23:44):
Work it's part time.

Speaker 5 (23:46):
Work and that's, like that's the. Same that's about the
same price as assisted.

Speaker 3 (23:51):
Living, RIGHT i bet you the horrors or.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
Cheaper oh, no, no assisted livings probably more than.

Speaker 2 (23:58):
THAT i mean probably probably in the hundreds of.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
Thousands the only one that's got experience with.

Speaker 5 (24:04):
It, yeah a month for assisted.

Speaker 2 (24:06):
Living In indiana right where your grandparents.

Speaker 5 (24:11):
Are or they, were it was, well just on my
mother in law, alone hers was around six a.

Speaker 3 (24:22):
Month six a, month, okay.

Speaker 5 (24:24):
Okay my grandmother's, was, well they paid around twelve thousand
dollars a month for both of.

Speaker 4 (24:31):
Them, Okay so we'll just say six thousand dollars a
month for one, person because that's that's what that. Person
i'm betting you the horse cheaper you could probably you
could probably get away with one thousand dollars a, month
maybe maybe two two thousand dollars a month just to
live here and take care of. Me but there's a
lot of mental that goes with. That that that, nurses

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that's what they.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
Do, yeah, well and a prostitute or a sex, worker
it can not deal with bed sores or any other
medical condition he could be dealing.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
With this is a little bit of.

Speaker 6 (25:06):
Training and the next, thing you, KNOW i mean, YouTube
you fucking you have changed this horror sex worker and
she is now a registered nurse out helping.

Speaker 3 (25:18):
People.

Speaker 4 (25:18):
See that's a fucking there's a light at the end
of the tunnel rut there there you.

Speaker 3 (25:21):
Go.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
YEP i you KNOW i used to be a sex,
worker but now HERE i am doing home. Healthcare, well
how'd you get into?

Speaker 3 (25:29):
That? Will you? Know guy paid me.

Speaker 4 (25:31):
To live with him AND i had to clean his
bed sores and wipe his. ASS i, figure, fuck might as.
Well you're only paying me two thousand dollars a month
AND i can go make six a.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
Minute.

Speaker 1 (25:42):
UH a friend of, mine a friend and neighbor of,
mine was a sex worker and she said the toughest
client was a guy in. Hospice he didn't want, sex
just asked her to paint his nails and talk because
it reminded him of his.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
Daughter, oh she.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
Said she held it together while she was, there but
bawled the whole drive. Home, Yeah i'm sure crazy shit
like that. Happens where's the daughter in this?

Speaker 4 (26:04):
Situation if your dad's on fucking, hospice why are you
not there spending time with?

Speaker 3 (26:11):
Them?

Speaker 4 (26:11):
GOD i fucking hope my kids at least come spend
time with me for a little bit While i'm on.
Hospice you, HOPE i.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Hope But kat's in the cradle, Man.

Speaker 4 (26:20):
True we all got our own laves to live. Dead,
sorry yours is ending so?

Speaker 1 (26:25):
Fast, YEAH i mean that's you AND. I we've talked
about this on. Air that's all we're trying to, do
is that someone's there to hold our hand in the.

Speaker 3 (26:32):
End pretty. Much.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
Uh last one been a sex worker for eleven. YEARS
a couple started seeing sex workers together to explore their
sexuality and grow. TOGETHER i begin all of my couple
sessions with a chat about goals and boundaries for obvious.

Speaker 2 (26:48):
Reasons this prompted.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
The wife to disclose some really heavy experiences which led
her to hate her husband and their, child resulting in
multiple long term stints in psychiatric. Hospitals this feels like
a lot for a sex worker to.

Speaker 3 (27:01):
TAKE a.

Speaker 1 (27:06):
Trauma dump was, immense AND i remember being alarmed and
a little baffled to see the husband nodding, along appearing
completely neutral while the wife shared all the ways she hated.
Him they shared that physical intimacy really suffered because of, this,
unsurprisingly so we're making a conscious effort to explore sex
as part of their healing process as a.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
COUPLE i felt like this was a bit. Intense you
fucking they.

Speaker 5 (27:33):
He was just listening because he didn't give a shit
about what the wife was. Saying he just wanted to
get it on with the sex.

Speaker 1 (27:38):
Worker or he wanted to watch his wife with sex, worker,
right because that's What i'm.

Speaker 4 (27:41):
DOING i thought it was the wife that was going
after the sex, worker and this just cock of a
man just lets it fucking, happen like she wants to fuck.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
Somebody, else SO i GUESS i have to let it. Happen.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
Yeah after almost an hour with, this the wife started
laying some really intense boundaries about HOW i was allowed
to interact with, them especially the husband in. BED i
was already concerned about how this was booking was going
to impact their. Relationship but her limits were so RESTRICTIVE
i started to worry that she didn't genuinely want to be.
There it felt a little bit like she was humoring the, husband,

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who for all his patients and nodding, earlier seemed to
only be.

Speaker 2 (28:17):
Doing this for.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Himself Like lindsay, said my suspicions were validated when the
husband tried to challenge one of his wife's, limits using
phrases like come on for. Me to her, credit she
put her foot down every.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
Time, okay well that changed. Dramatically all.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Right when you think about the idea of, like what's
your craziest situation in a as a sex? Worker you
don't think it is somebody in that that's the, story
right that you show up like ding, Dong hey It's
mercedes Or mercedes and, hey all, right so, listen my

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wife died this, morning.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
And i'm gonna try and fuck you through the.

Speaker 5 (29:01):
Grief, RIGHT i want you to do this thing that
she used to, do.

Speaker 1 (29:07):
Not every LIKE i guess you treat sex work like
when you order some pasta and it comes covered in green.
Peppers you just push that ship to the side and
just fucking go to.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
Work you plug your nose and eat.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
It exactly what you. DO i don't.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
KNOW i feel like that part of my life is,
sailed but apparently, not BECAUSE i fucking.

Speaker 2 (29:27):
Just did it with, pasta with pasta.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Crazy that was a fun. Journey all, right you, guys
have a fantastic. Week you want to mention the tiger thing? Again,
Yeah i'm.

Speaker 4 (29:39):
Gonna be out at a quick trip forty First memorial This,
friday filling up the first twenty five motorcycle gas. Tangs
don't be bringing your quantifier on. That, well you, know
people be, like well you gonna thought you give me
up free? Gas, yeah take your FUCKING rb and get
the fuck out of.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
You.

Speaker 2 (29:58):
Guys have a fantastic. Week bye, bye