June 4, 2025 • 3 mins
Producer Kristen and her husband ask each other before going out with friends. Is that a thing?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, six point seven light FM, What is happening? I'm cubby.
You're Nina del Rio there, you're in for Christine. We
have producer Kristen. She's back in the saddle and she
brought up something in studio and I got us chatting.
And it makes me wonder what other people do with
their partners as far as I don't want to use
the word permission, right, but do you kind of ask
(00:22):
your husband if you can go out with friends?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I do? We do that to each other. So one
of my girlfriends, you know, she texted in the group
and was like, let's have a girl's night. I said, okay, yet,
no problem. Let me just ask Ryan. They're like, well,
why do you have to ask Ryan? I said, well,
doesn't everybody do that? Doesn't everyone just ask their partner
or their spouse say, hey, you know, do you mind
if I go out for drinks with the girls?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Not my wife? She's by the way, tomorrow, I'm going
out to dinner with bah blah blah blah.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Good for her, all right.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
But we have we have kids, you know, obviously, and
it's just kind of like a thing. I just want
to make sure he does the same thing to me.
We would never say no unless there's set plans. You know, hey,
you can't because we have such and such going on.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
You know. It's good to keep that in your back pocket, though,
because sometimes people will ask you to do stuff and
you don't really want to go, and you could go, oh,
I'm just gonna ask, and then you get out of
it that way. Oh, it's like a permission slip that
doesn't exist.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
That's a good point.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I just thought this was a thing that everybody did,
But I guess not right.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Well, because in your mind, you're gonna go, right, he's
probably not gonna say no, right, But it's more of
like just just throwing it out there so he can
be prepared for.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
It, saying are you up for watching the kids?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
In a way, right.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I mean, that's how That's exactly how I approached it.
I went up to him and I said, do you
mind if I go get drinks with the girls?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeahriday night?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, And he's like, yeah, totally fine, GRoWES great. He
does the same thing to me though, when he wants
to go out.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
That's very polite.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah. My wife does it in a different way. She'll say, hey,
I'm going out to dinner tomorrow night. You got the kids, right, Ah,
so she's I guess maybe she's kind of like asking,
but not really and do it anyway. Yeah, she's doing
it anyway, and I got the kids. We're good. But
you will straight up see, I don't know a lot
of times what's happening until he's already booked it. You
don't even book it yet. You just make sure he's
(02:07):
got the kids, and then then you'll say to your friend,
we can go out.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yeah, that's just kind of how we operate. I grew
up that way though. I was always asking my parents' permission,
even when I didn't have to, even as an adult.
My mom's like, you're twenty five, why are you asking me?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
But I don't know what about you, Nina, I don't
you know what.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Mark doesn't like it always went because he gets home
from work like nine o'clock, right, So if I'm out,
he comes home late at night and it's like we
won't see each other at all. So he I will
tell him most of the time, but I'm trying to
be a little bit more like, you know, I'm going
out on Thursday? Is that I guess I'm doing it? Gosh, yeah,
but I've already took right, and I've already bought the ticket.
(02:45):
I've already booked the thing. Like, I'm not going to
turn it, you know, I'm not going to say no, right,
but I'm just sort of letting him know. He always
asked me though, But I think it's because we have
to do anything planned. But we never heard anything planned,
you know, right.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
No, here's the burning question then, text us at four
four three sixty three. Do you ask your part partner? Uh,
not really permission? I guess maybe you come permission.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
That's what are you asking?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Are you asking permission? Are you going to go out
with the girls or the guys? And do they say
yes or no? Hit us up at four four three
six three. And if they say no, then what do
you do? Right to A whole other conversation.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Tubby and Christine in the morning.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
More coming up one O six point seven light a
f them
Oh, six point seven light FM, What is happening? I'm cubby.
You're Nina del Rio there, you're in for Christine. We
have producer Kristen. She's back in the saddle and she
brought up something in studio and I got us chatting.
And it makes me wonder what other people do with
their partners as far as I don't want to use
the word permission, right, but do you kind of ask
(00:22):
your husband if you can go out with friends?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I do? We do that to each other. So one
of my girlfriends, you know, she texted in the group
and was like, let's have a girl's night. I said, okay, yet,
no problem. Let me just ask Ryan. They're like, well,
why do you have to ask Ryan? I said, well,
doesn't everybody do that? Doesn't everyone just ask their partner
or their spouse say, hey, you know, do you mind
if I go out for drinks with the girls?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Not my wife? She's by the way, tomorrow, I'm going
out to dinner with bah blah blah blah.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Good for her, all right.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
But we have we have kids, you know, obviously, and
it's just kind of like a thing. I just want
to make sure he does the same thing to me.
We would never say no unless there's set plans. You know, hey,
you can't because we have such and such going on.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
You know. It's good to keep that in your back pocket, though,
because sometimes people will ask you to do stuff and
you don't really want to go, and you could go, oh,
I'm just gonna ask, and then you get out of
it that way. Oh, it's like a permission slip that
doesn't exist.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
That's a good point.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I just thought this was a thing that everybody did,
But I guess not right.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Well, because in your mind, you're gonna go, right, he's
probably not gonna say no, right, But it's more of
like just just throwing it out there so he can
be prepared for.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
It, saying are you up for watching the kids?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
In a way, right.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I mean, that's how That's exactly how I approached it.
I went up to him and I said, do you
mind if I go get drinks with the girls?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeahriday night?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, And he's like, yeah, totally fine, GRoWES great. He
does the same thing to me though, when he wants
to go out.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
That's very polite.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Yeah. My wife does it in a different way. She'll say, hey,
I'm going out to dinner tomorrow night. You got the kids, right, Ah,
so she's I guess maybe she's kind of like asking,
but not really and do it anyway. Yeah, she's doing
it anyway, and I got the kids. We're good. But
you will straight up see, I don't know a lot
of times what's happening until he's already booked it. You
don't even book it yet. You just make sure he's
(02:07):
got the kids, and then then you'll say to your friend,
we can go out.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Yeah, that's just kind of how we operate. I grew
up that way though. I was always asking my parents' permission,
even when I didn't have to, even as an adult.
My mom's like, you're twenty five, why are you asking me?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
But I don't know what about you, Nina, I don't
you know what.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Mark doesn't like it always went because he gets home
from work like nine o'clock, right, So if I'm out,
he comes home late at night and it's like we
won't see each other at all. So he I will
tell him most of the time, but I'm trying to
be a little bit more like, you know, I'm going
out on Thursday? Is that I guess I'm doing it? Gosh, yeah,
but I've already took right, and I've already bought the ticket.
(02:45):
I've already booked the thing. Like, I'm not going to
turn it, you know, I'm not going to say no, right,
but I'm just sort of letting him know. He always
asked me though, But I think it's because we have
to do anything planned. But we never heard anything planned,
you know, right.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
No, here's the burning question then, text us at four
four three sixty three. Do you ask your part partner? Uh,
not really permission? I guess maybe you come permission.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
That's what are you asking?
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Are you asking permission? Are you going to go out
with the girls or the guys? And do they say
yes or no? Hit us up at four four three
six three. And if they say no, then what do
you do? Right to A whole other conversation.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Tubby and Christine in the morning.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
More coming up one O six point seven light a
f them
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